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Ambrose Wilbanks Jr
April 8, 2023
In about 1975, Mr. Wesenberg was my art teacher at East Middle School. He was a great teacher with a dry sense of humor and the tremendous patience needed to deal with teenagers. Somehow he was able to teach me to draw and I couldn´t believe that the things coming out of my pencil actually looked like what they were meant to be. He had the long hair and thick mustache of the classic rock star and we loved him, his free spirit and the space he gave us - something no other teacher allowed us. He and two other teachers once took about 6 of us down to a Tiger game one night at the old stadium. We all felt like we´d become part of the staff, members of the club, and savored his kind words and acceptance. I ran into him years later at Afterwords and realized what I sensed but couldn´t articulate as a middle school student: Mr. Wesenberg was a gentle, wise and witty soul, someone who looked at the world, saw more than most people could and wanted to see more. Reading this beautiful piece written on his passing makes me wish I could have known him better and delighted our paths crossed.
Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess
June 29, 2022
I was just thinking about Michael yesterday. I am sure you think of him daily and miss him all the time.
Monica Mahan Martin
December 28, 2020
Ina, may you find comfort in the many wonderful memories you shared with Michael.
I was an art student in his classes from 1966-1969 at East Jr. High. His humor and encouragement led me to continue in the art world and to stay in touch with him over the years after I moved away to Florida.
Rest in peace Michael.

Gerry West
October 10, 2020
I was very sorry to hear that Michael has died. Life must have been very difficult for him in the last few years because of his disease, and of course, for Ina, too who took such loving care of him. I always enjoyed talking to him about our *unusual* taste in movies that no one else in their right mind would consider seeing. I also enjoyed exploring his amazing Art collection and recently got the full tour by Ina. I took a few photos and one video of the dancing lady thingy that will never cease to amaze me. Michael was a very clever, loving, caring person and I always enjoyed seeing him and Ina during my visits to Ann Arbor. I’ve been a long-distance friend of the family for decades and would like to tell you all that I loved Michael and send you all my sincerest sympathy.
Richard Schalhamer
July 29, 2020
So sorry to hear about Mike... We had some pretty wild times together. Drinking wine and eating fine cheese. And got into some trouble from time to time. Like the time we decided to 'streak' the neighbor hood after a lot of wine. We ran and ran until we realized that we had to get back...Out of breath and dead, we made it back for some more wine... Hope you are looking down and smiling old friend :)
Carrie Armistead
July 29, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Michael's passing and will keep all of you in my thoughts. I worked with Michael at Afterwords in the 90s when I was a student at U of M. My father died during that time and he was always supportive, concerned, funny, and so kind to me. I will always remember him fondly.
Jim MacDonald
July 19, 2020
I am so sorry to hear that Michael has passed. I always looked forwards to Michael's visits to both my shop and booth at the Ann Arbor Antiques Market. The conversations and the show & tell were the highlight of those visits. His presence will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts go out to Ina and the family.
Marti Harris (Cooley)
July 16, 2020
I remember Michael when I was a little girl. He was my father's cousin. He taught me so much about everything, life, arts,and anything else we thought was important to talk about. Through the years we kept in touch occassionally. I wish we kept in touch until the end . Michael, you were a big influence in my life. I miss you...
Jody Cooley
July 16, 2020
Ina, we are so sorry to hear of Michaels passing, please know you and your family are in our prayers.
Lelia Raley
July 13, 2020
I had many interesting discussions about vintage barkcloth "cretonnes" (his preferred term) and other collectibles, books and whatnot, during the period when he worked at Afterwords and I was there a LOT. Michael had an enormous range of knowledge and expertise (typical bookstore denizen), was mildly cantankerous, such an interesting and original person to talk to. I am so sorry for your loss, Ina. The world is less for his absence.
Callie Dean
July 12, 2020
I knew Michael best when I had a shop/studio on Ashley st. He was always fun and very interesting.
Kitty B. Kahn
July 11, 2020
I am so sorry, Ina. I remember seeing Michael at Afterwards and for years I would drop off his Townie Party invitation there addressed to "Michael the Fogey". We used to tease each other because we were close in age. After the book store closed, I would mail his invitations to your home, also addressed to Michael the Fogey. He had such a good sense of humor and, although I didn't see him often after the book store closed, I was always happy when I did. I am so very sorry for your loss. -Peace, Kitty
catherine van valkenburgh
July 10, 2020
40 some years later and I still remember what a great teacher he was. He was totally cool.
Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess
July 8, 2020
Dear Ina, Franny and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Michael and I had similar taste in art and I remember connecting with him at the Artful Exchange.....not to mention Afterwords and just around town. Stay strong and cherish your memories.
Hugs,
Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess (Kilwins)
Sally Chanowski
July 7, 2020
Ina, I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I am sorry I never got to know him, as he sounds like he was a very interesting person. You and your family are in my thoughts. I hope you find peace.
Mike Carpentet
July 7, 2020
A great art instructor...I was in his class from 1967 thru 1969. We understood each other very well. Over the years I have thought about him often...RIP my friend.
Jackie (Jessee) Poindexter
July 7, 2020
As a 12/13 year old in 1973 at East Middle School, I loved Mr. Wesenberg's art class. He took notice if a student seemed to have some talent and provided encouragement to enjoy art if one became frustrated. He led his class with a calm demeanor and I just loved it and him. Prayers for those he left behind - know that he left a positive impression on many young students and will not be forgotten. God bless!
Dorothy Lindsey
July 6, 2020
Ina, I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.
Karen (Wenk) McFall
July 6, 2020
So sorry to hear about Michael's passing. Peace to his family and friends.
Michelle
July 6, 2020
Ina, Barbara and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss of your hubby and brother. Peace and comfort be with you all. Sincerely, M
Angela Genzler
July 5, 2020
I meet my dear friend Franny while a student at UW. I dont recall meeting Michael in person, but remember thinking, from stories she shared, Franny had the coolest, most interesting mom and stepdad. Franny spoke so very highly of Michael, through stories of her years growing up and in speaking of his influence on who she was becoming as a young woman. Franny continues to be a source of great influence on me, with her steadfast commitment to family and her open minded and passionate view of the world. . . And I imagine much of that trickled down from her mother and Michael.
Angie Ashford
July 5, 2020
I met Michael when he married my wonderful friend Ina. He was such a nice person, and so easy to talk to. Ina I am so sorry for your loss. May God keep u and your family strong. So that u all can get through this. You all worked as a team so that Michael was comfortable in his final days Job well done. God bless you. Love Angie Ashford❤
Judy Wygonik
July 5, 2020
Ina, I am so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kari Cadeau
July 5, 2020
So sorry to hear the news. Remember some fun Christmas parties with the two of you at Bobs.❤
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