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1943

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2020

Michael Wesenberg Obituary

Wesenberg, Michael 7/29/1943 - 6/29/2020 Ann Arbor Michael Carl Wesenberg passed away peacefully at home on June 29th, 2020 at his home in Ann Arbor, due to complications from Parkinson's Disease. His parents Carl and Stephanie (Monk) Wesenberg preceded him in death. He is survived by his sister Barbara (Wesenberg) Petrie of Oakland CA, his wife of 38 years Ina Wesenberg, his stepchildren Benjamin (Iuliana) Keyes & Francine (Jason) Pellerin and four grandchildren: Lena, Izzy, Nora & Vlad. Michael was known to many as a passionate collector and promoter of art, particularly art made by those on the margins. He loved Tramp Art, hand drawn maps, books, quilts, sculpture and all types of hand carved items. The provenance of each item was always recorded in his hand. Over the years, he and Ina visited many states and museums and attended many antique shows. He collected many unique items and formed friendships with talented people during these trips. He rarely sold his items; only trading up for a more desirable piece. He provided Francine and Ben with art to display in their dorm rooms, apartments, that now hangs in their family homes. Michael was especially proud of his Folk Art collection, cyanotypes, pottery, paintings, and items from his father's art collection. Michael's father worked as a furniture conservator at the Henry Ford Museum for 35 years and was a woodcarver. Michael was born on July 29th, 1943 in Ann Arbor and moved to Saline, MI that year. His family spent the WWII years as members of the Saline Valley Cooperative Farm. This assembly of families was highlighted in a recent book and documentary. Michael attended the release of the film and the publication of the book. He had memories of his time at the farm and was proud of his parents' decision to spend wartime in that endeavor. The Wesenberg family moved back to Ann Arbor in 1948. Michael and his sister grew up on S. Ashley Street downtown, down the block from The Fleetwood Diner and right across from "The Klein's Lot". He attended Bach School, Slauson Junior High, and graduated Ann Arbor High School in 1962. He earned a bachelor's degree in art from EMU, majoring in sculpture, with a certification in Art Education. He received his Masters Degree in Guidance and Counseling in 1968, also from EMU. Michael taught art for ten years at East Middle School in Ypsilanti, MI. Teaching overwhelmed Michael; he worked hard and had wonderful coworkers and administrators, but the constant changes in funding, class size and curriculum wore him out. He left teaching but kept in touch with many of his former students and still receives cards and letters from them. He worked for Adrian Cleypool and Ascott Corp screen printing shirts as well as in their sales department. For three years Michael worked at the Ypsilanti State Hospital. He also enjoyed working for a time writing abstracts for newspaper articles for University Microfilms. He loved bookstores. That interest led him to a career as a retail bookseller, first at The West Side Book Shop and in the early '80s at the then-newly opened Afterwords Books on Main Street. Working at Afterwords for more than 20 years until its closing in 2006, Michael made many lifelong friends and was a collector of stories from patrons and coworkers alike. In retirement Michael volunteered at U of M Hospital's Cancer Center. He also volunteered in the Graphics Division at the University of Michigan Clements Library for many years. Michael also participated as a tutor to several foreign grad students in an adult ESL program. Michael and Ina's summers were filled with road trips, often with the kids. They went antiquing in Maine, to the Stratford, Ontario Shakespeare Festival, and visited Martha's Vineyard, along with many other family trips. They attended many minor league baseball games, where Michael would always figure out where the scouts were sitting. He would chat them up about the prospects on the field. He had stacks of statistics and followed the Tigers triple-A minor league team, the Toledo Mud Hens. Michael always worked during the Art Fair. He enjoyed biking around Ann Arbor and relaxing at home with his two cats. Michael had many hobbies and interests, both quirky and mundane, and loved to learn new things. He enjoyed a variety of non-fiction reading and art house films; he never missed the Ann Arbor Film Festival. He loved genealogy, opera, U of M and Red Wings Hockey and especially baseball. Michael loved to cook and loved to eat. He was always up for trying a new restaurant, and he particularly loved Pacific Rim. He and Ina enjoyed cooking for each other and for friends. Many Octobers, they created homemade Worcestershire sauce from a historic cookbook, the recipe of course unearthed by Michael. He loved cooking and made, among other things, a great vindaloo fruit curry, fried chicken and countless smoothies which were mystery concoctions but a daily routine for many years. In the last few years, Michael continued the process of cataloging his collection. He was very grateful for the help of his dear friend Kathryn Luchs, taking professional photographs of his items. These were organized to be displayed on a web site and eventually in a book. The family can share the details with anyone interested. Michael was a man, as someone once said, "of a wild heart" who had a devilish sense of humor and a quiet smile. He will be dearly missed and fondly remembered. Donations in his name can be made to the Ann Arbor Parkinson's Support Group, 3470 Brentwood Ct, Ann Arbor MI 48108 A private family service will be held at the Botsford Cemetery. A Memorial celebration of life will take place at a future date.

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Published by Ann Arbor News from Jul. 5 to Jul. 12, 2020.

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Ambrose Wilbanks Jr

April 8, 2023

In about 1975, Mr. Wesenberg was my art teacher at East Middle School. He was a great teacher with a dry sense of humor and the tremendous patience needed to deal with teenagers. Somehow he was able to teach me to draw and I couldn´t believe that the things coming out of my pencil actually looked like what they were meant to be. He had the long hair and thick mustache of the classic rock star and we loved him, his free spirit and the space he gave us - something no other teacher allowed us. He and two other teachers once took about 6 of us down to a Tiger game one night at the old stadium. We all felt like we´d become part of the staff, members of the club, and savored his kind words and acceptance. I ran into him years later at Afterwords and realized what I sensed but couldn´t articulate as a middle school student: Mr. Wesenberg was a gentle, wise and witty soul, someone who looked at the world, saw more than most people could and wanted to see more. Reading this beautiful piece written on his passing makes me wish I could have known him better and delighted our paths crossed.

Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess

June 29, 2022

I was just thinking about Michael yesterday. I am sure you think of him daily and miss him all the time.

Monica Mahan Martin

December 28, 2020

Ina, may you find comfort in the many wonderful memories you shared with Michael.
I was an art student in his classes from 1966-1969 at East Jr. High. His humor and encouragement led me to continue in the art world and to stay in touch with him over the years after I moved away to Florida.
Rest in peace Michael.

Gerry West

October 10, 2020

I was very sorry to hear that Michael has died. Life must have been very difficult for him in the last few years because of his disease, and of course, for Ina, too who took such loving care of him. I always enjoyed talking to him about our *unusual* taste in movies that no one else in their right mind would consider seeing. I also enjoyed exploring his amazing Art collection and recently got the full tour by Ina. I took a few photos and one video of the dancing lady thingy that will never cease to amaze me. Michael was a very clever, loving, caring person and I always enjoyed seeing him and Ina during my visits to Ann Arbor. I’ve been a long-distance friend of the family for decades and would like to tell you all that I loved Michael and send you all my sincerest sympathy.

Richard Schalhamer

July 29, 2020

So sorry to hear about Mike... We had some pretty wild times together. Drinking wine and eating fine cheese. And got into some trouble from time to time. Like the time we decided to 'streak' the neighbor hood after a lot of wine. We ran and ran until we realized that we had to get back...Out of breath and dead, we made it back for some more wine... Hope you are looking down and smiling old friend :)

Carrie Armistead

July 29, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear of Michael's passing and will keep all of you in my thoughts. I worked with Michael at Afterwords in the 90s when I was a student at U of M. My father died during that time and he was always supportive, concerned, funny, and so kind to me. I will always remember him fondly.

Jim MacDonald

July 19, 2020

I am so sorry to hear that Michael has passed. I always looked forwards to Michael's visits to both my shop and booth at the Ann Arbor Antiques Market. The conversations and the show & tell were the highlight of those visits. His presence will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts go out to Ina and the family.

Marti Harris (Cooley)

July 16, 2020

I remember Michael when I was a little girl. He was my father's cousin. He taught me so much about everything, life, arts,and anything else we thought was important to talk about. Through the years we kept in touch occassionally. I wish we kept in touch until the end . Michael, you were a big influence in my life. I miss you...

Jody Cooley

July 16, 2020

Ina, we are so sorry to hear of Michaels passing, please know you and your family are in our prayers.

Lelia Raley

July 13, 2020

I had many interesting discussions about vintage barkcloth "cretonnes" (his preferred term) and other collectibles, books and whatnot, during the period when he worked at Afterwords and I was there a LOT. Michael had an enormous range of knowledge and expertise (typical bookstore denizen), was mildly cantankerous, such an interesting and original person to talk to. I am so sorry for your loss, Ina. The world is less for his absence.

Callie Dean

July 12, 2020

I knew Michael best when I had a shop/studio on Ashley st. He was always fun and very interesting.

Kitty B. Kahn

July 11, 2020

I am so sorry, Ina. I remember seeing Michael at Afterwards and for years I would drop off his Townie Party invitation there addressed to "Michael the Fogey". We used to tease each other because we were close in age. After the book store closed, I would mail his invitations to your home, also addressed to Michael the Fogey. He had such a good sense of humor and, although I didn't see him often after the book store closed, I was always happy when I did. I am so very sorry for your loss. -Peace, Kitty

catherine van valkenburgh

July 10, 2020

40 some years later and I still remember what a great teacher he was. He was totally cool.

Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess

July 8, 2020

Dear Ina, Franny and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Michael and I had similar taste in art and I remember connecting with him at the Artful Exchange.....not to mention Afterwords and just around town. Stay strong and cherish your memories.

Hugs,
Karen Piehutkoski-Burgess (Kilwins)

Sally Chanowski

July 7, 2020

Ina, I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I am sorry I never got to know him, as he sounds like he was a very interesting person. You and your family are in my thoughts. I hope you find peace.

Mike Carpentet

July 7, 2020

A great art instructor...I was in his class from 1967 thru 1969. We understood each other very well. Over the years I have thought about him often...RIP my friend.

Jackie (Jessee) Poindexter

July 7, 2020

As a 12/13 year old in 1973 at East Middle School, I loved Mr. Wesenberg's art class. He took notice if a student seemed to have some talent and provided encouragement to enjoy art if one became frustrated. He led his class with a calm demeanor and I just loved it and him. Prayers for those he left behind - know that he left a positive impression on many young students and will not be forgotten. God bless!

Dorothy Lindsey

July 6, 2020

Ina, I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.

Karen (Wenk) McFall

July 6, 2020

So sorry to hear about Michael's passing. Peace to his family and friends.

Michelle

July 6, 2020

Ina, Barbara and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss of your hubby and brother. Peace and comfort be with you all. Sincerely, M

Angela Genzler

July 5, 2020

I meet my dear friend Franny while a student at UW. I dont recall meeting Michael in person, but remember thinking, from stories she shared, Franny had the coolest, most interesting mom and stepdad. Franny spoke so very highly of Michael, through stories of her years growing up and in speaking of his influence on who she was becoming as a young woman. Franny continues to be a source of great influence on me, with her steadfast commitment to family and her open minded and passionate view of the world. . . And I imagine much of that trickled down from her mother and Michael.

Angie Ashford

July 5, 2020

I met Michael when he married my wonderful friend Ina. He was such a nice person, and so easy to talk to. Ina I am so sorry for your loss. May God keep u and your family strong. So that u all can get through this. You all worked as a team so that Michael was comfortable in his final days Job well done. God bless you. Love Angie Ashford❤

Judy Wygonik

July 5, 2020

Ina, I am so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kari Cadeau

July 5, 2020

So sorry to hear the news. Remember some fun Christmas parties with the two of you at Bobs.❤

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