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Wilfred Kincaid Obituary

Wilfred Macdonald Kincaid, born Friday, September 13, 1918, died Saturday, December 12, 2015. He succumbed after a brief illness at age 97 in the University of Michigan Hospital, Ann Arbor, Michigan. Born in Cornhill, Scotland, the only child of William Abraham Kincaid and Mary Christina Macdonald Kincaid who married after both served in France during WWI. His father was one of the Harvard volunteers who went overseas before America entered the war. He drove an ambulance. In 1917, he became an intelligence officer in the U.S. Army. His mother served as a British nurse while stationed in France. She was the daughter of the Reverend George Grant Macdonald of Cornhill, Scotland, Church of Scotland (Presbyterian, US). After the war, his father gave up the practice of law and became a professor of Spanish at the University of California. After his infancy in Scotland, his parents settled in Berkeley, California, where Wilfred was educated in public schools. Upon his high school graduation, he remained in Berkeley while attending University of California, class of 1940, as a mathematics major. He pursued graduate studies at Brown University, Providence, Rhode Island, where he completed his Ph. D. in applied mathematics. Wilfred's employment career began in Hampton, Virginia, at a government agency which grew into NASA National Aeronautics Space Administration. He achieved veteran status there as WWII proceeded. After WWII service as a commissioned 2nd Lieutenant, US Army, he relocated to Ann Arbor, 1946, for an instructor's position at the University of Michigan Mathematics Department. Wilfred continued his University of Michigan employment as a professor of Mathematics until his retirement in 1984. In the fall of 1950, Wilfred made the momentous decision to join the graduate outing club at the U of M. He met a schoolteacher working on a doctorate in education named Fay Allen and he did not let her get away. Wilfred M. Kincaid and M. Fay Allen of Kansas City, Missouri, were married November 27, 1952, at the First United Methodist Church, Ann Arbor. The couple joined First United Methodist Church in 1955 and were members for the rest of their lives. That union gifted him with three sons, William Allen Kincaid, of Ann Arbor; Walter James Kincaid, of San Jose, California, (predeceased), and David Andrew Kincaid, of Ypsilanti. Fay Allen, his wife, preceded him in death in 2004. Other survivors include Deborah Gibson, formerly of Cedar Rapids, Iowa, affianced to William Allen Kincaid. Wilfred pursued many interests in his long post-academic career. Within his church he was a devoted founder and participant in their Memorial Garden. He was also a loyal and lively contributor to their weekly Current Events discussions until his recent illness.He kept his AADL card busy by checking out very up-to-date books until a few weeks ago. In recent years he was an active member of the local chapter of the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute (OLLI) attending (and even teaching) lecture series and classes. Other interests included the study of anomalies as an ardent advocate of the Society for Scientific Exploration. He also maintained membership in the American Academy of Mathematics. His family and many others will miss him. Memorial service will be Saturday, January 16, 2016, 1:00 PM at First United Methodist Church. There will be a reception following the service in their social hall. Memorial gifts should be sent to the church or to the University of Michigan Mathematics Department.

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Published by Ann Arbor News from Dec. 31, 2015 to Jan. 3, 2016.

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Robert MacGregor

September 28, 2016

Mr. and Mrs. Kincaid were a wonderful, warm-hearted couple who were always very kind to my brother John and myself. Growing up, Bill Kincaid was my best friend, and I spent a lot of time at their house playing everything from cowboys to football, with Bill and his brothers, including some sleep- overs. The small forest next to their house was a great place to explore. Mrs. Kincaid was always ready to serve us lunch or dinner, looking back I must have imposed a lot on Bill's parents, but they never showed me anything but kindness. Their house was full of love---some noise, yes, with kids running around and yelling, but, overall, love. I have many wonderful memories of the Kincaid family.God bless Mr. Kincaid, and help Bill and David in their time of grief.
Bob MacGregor, Prague

Lonni Vitale

January 3, 2016

Unfortunately I am out of state for Wilfred's memorial, but I wanted the family to know how much he will be missed at our OLLI book sessions. I have enjoyed his thoughtful comments these last years and was happy to spend some extra time with him as I drove him home on occasion.
A bright, interesting gentleman always.

Kris Westrum

January 2, 2016

I enjoyed Wilfred's company on many occasions at my brother Ron Westrum's home in Ann Arbor. Wilfred was always intelligent, kind, and thoughtful. He was, in many ways, a member of our extended family. He will be missed. With love and sympathy to his family.

Jerry Parker

December 31, 2015

Loyal to the church, Wilfred was my favorite person to talk to at the weekly coffee hour, always having something fun or interesting to discuss. We will all miss him.

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