Search by Name

Add a Memory

Send Flowers

Make a Donation

Share Obituary

FUNERAL HOME

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Road

Saint Louis, Missouri

Bret Cassity Obituary

Bret Cassity

Detective Bret D. Cassity, St. Louis Police Department, 46, of St. Louis, Mo., passed away Saturday, April 23, 2016.

Bret served on the police force for over 21 years and did so because he believed "Some people have to help and watch over everyone". His gift of courage from the Good Lord made that his calling. Bret had a passion for music, the lake life, his family and his friends. His greatest passion was for his wife, Jennifer.

He was the beloved husband of Jennifer L., nee Benson, Cassity; dearest son of Darrel Cassity and Diane (Paul Lewellyn) Chadwick; dear brother of Matthew Cassity and the late Justin (survived by Catie) Cassity; dear son-in-law of Tim (Robin) Benson and GayAnn (Gary) Range; dear brother-in-law of Trisha (Mike) Smith; dear uncle of Ean Cassity and Chelsea Smith; dear godfather of Mary and Allie Kate Wilson; dear nephew, cousin and friend.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Backstoppers, 10411 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, Mo. 63131 or contributions to assist with Bret's medical expenses (deposits can be made at Eagle Bank & Trust).

Visitation: Friends may visit from 4 to 8 p.m. Friday, April 29, 2016, at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois, St. Louis, Mo.

Funeral: Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday, April 30, 2016, at the funeral home. Interment will be at Sunset Hill Memorial Estates, Edwardsville, Ill.

KUTIS FUNERAL HOME, St. Louis, Mo.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Apr. 28, 2016.

Memories and Condolences
for Bret Cassity

27 Entries

Patricia March

April 18, 2017

To dear Bret's beloved wife Jennifer, his parents and family, please know that you are in my prayers on this first anniversary. I was not aware of his passing until September when my boyfriend committed suicide. He had removed a Facebook message from my account before I saw it. Bret taught me so much many years ago when I was a rookie officer. He taught me how to deal with the public and people on calls so eloquently, not by telling me what to do, but through his example. Bret truly had a knack for teaching others in such a subtle, yet lasting way. After I was shot, he sent me a short email, yet I'll never forget it. The last line said, "Remember Leanna that you do not walk alone." I'm unable to express how much that meant to me. The world sincerely lost a true gem. Jennifer, Bret loved and adored you so much and just gushed on about you like a teenager in love for the first time! And although he was not a teenager, I know that you truly were his first TRUE love and that he only grew to love and adore you more through the years, sweetheart. That was just Bret...if he loved someone he did so fiercely. To Bret's parents, no words can provide you any solace. I simply want to convey that he spoke of you both often and ALWAYS, without fail, fondly and with a palpable love, appreciation of and admiration for you both. I'm sending love and prayers!

May 2, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy.
Ken & Judy, Bud & Sue

Jenni Boesker

May 1, 2016

Jen, we are so so very sorry to hear of the unthinkable loss you have endured. Our love and prayers are with you. Just cannot imagine how you feel. You are such a wonderful person we will always remember and be grateful for, and I am confident that the man you chose to love would have been just as great of a person. Thinking of you always. Love, Jenni, Steve and Brooklynn (Little Diva) Boesker

April 30, 2016

Prayers to the Cassity family. You raised a good son, he was a good man, friend, husband and brother in blue. He will be truly missed by so many. The world does not have enough men like him. Deepest Sympathies, Shelly Lagermann

April 29, 2016

Diane,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Barbara Benson is a dear friend of mine. I so remember our young days at Granite City Steel. I will be praying for you and the family.
Lana Randolph

Sharon Deutsch

April 29, 2016

Darrel, Please accept my deepest sympathy. I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling. I hope through your faith you are able to find some small amount of comfort in the Lord.

R Lee

April 29, 2016

My condolences to the Cassity family. Please take comfort in knowing that your loved one is resting in God's memory and will not be forgotten. God longs to restore your loved one to life.
Matthew 22:31,32

Kirk Moser

April 29, 2016

RIP Bret Cassity. From all your teammates on the Lewis & Clark Community College Soccer Team from 87-89. Kirk Moser

Bill Baker

April 29, 2016

You were true blue through and through. Bret was one of the finest Detectives that I ever had the privilege and honor to work with on the Major Case Squad. Godspeed Bret and keep watching over us. Until we meet again my friend.
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
May the rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again my friend
May God hold you in the palm of His hand

Craig & Mary Fran Huck

April 29, 2016

Jen,
Mary Fran and I are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for you through this difficult time.
CAVU Strong!

April 29, 2016

Darrel,
Please accept my sympathy at the loss of your son. I remember the boys from Holy Cross and how proud you were of them.
Judy Dellamano

Brande Ellis Yaist

April 28, 2016

Jen,
My deepest sympathies in the loss of your dear husband, and my friend Bret. He will always be remembered for his wit, smile, and huge heart that was willing to help anyone he met. May God comfort you and give you strength.

Sandy Harris

April 28, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. Darryl I can't believe you and Diane have lost both of your sons. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Prayers are with all of you.

Mary Range

April 28, 2016

Jennifer,
Be assured of my sympathy and prayers. I am sorry I cannot be with you physically, but know that I am with you in spirit at this time of loss. Bret is now enjoying a better life - one free from pain. May that be your consolation and may you know gifts of God's love and presence in a special way. As you face the future, realize that you are not alone. God's enduring and faithful love will be with you as well as the support of your family and friends. Love you, Jennifer.

Wanda Harris (Cassity)

April 28, 2016

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Kathy Cassity

April 28, 2016

Jennifer, my thoughts and prayers are with you now. I am sorry that our family was not as close as it should have been. I am so sorry that you have lost your best friend. Love and prayers.

chris keel

April 28, 2016

So sorry for the loss of Brett!!may god give you comfort in your time of need!! Much love to my childhood friend!!

April 28, 2016

My deepest sympathy to family and friends. May you all find comfort in reading Matt 5:4 in this time of sorrow.

Darrin Compton

April 28, 2016

Bret at an early age of 21-22 was my soccer coach. I was 13-14yrs old at the time. Bret taught me so many things on and off the soccer field, which shaped me as a player and a person. A true role model! Prayers and peace to all who loved and will miss Bret Cassity!

April 28, 2016

My condolences for the loss of your love one may are heavenly Father comfort your family 1peter 5;9,10

Al Rudolph

April 28, 2016

So sorry to hear of a fellow LEO's passing. Your watch has ended here on earth. You will now be helping St. Peter guard the gates to heaven.

Jane & Larry Symons

April 28, 2016

Cavu Stl (Ceiling And Visibility Unlimited) that is now you our St Louis friend. We so enjoyed our talks with you about your love of aviation and our shared "home town". You left your imprint on all of our hearts.

Julie & Craig Rupp

April 28, 2016

Our hearts are heavy. Prayers and comfort to the entire Cassity family. CAVU,dear friend.

Jody Hallan

April 28, 2016

I have many fond memories of Bret from high school and hanging out at Hurricane's. The world lost a beautiful sole but now Detective Cassity can latch down on all of us.

April 28, 2016

SEMPER FI - FELLOW VETERAN
THANK YOU - FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY.
You are one of our heroes.
We will remember you always and miss you dearly.
Take your Warrior's rest for a duty well done.

I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them strength.

As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.

SEMPER FI
U. S. MARINE AND VIETNAM VET

Alan Blair

April 28, 2016

I am sorry for your loss. I did not know Bret but had a chance encounter with him many years ago outside the Scottrade Center prior to a Blues hockey game. He was a true gentleman.

Tina and Stephen Dus

April 27, 2016

So sorry for your loss my friend and families.

Showing 1 - 27 of 27 results