Search by Name

Search by Name

Harold Reder Obituary

Harold Harris Reder 1911-2010 TOPSHAM Harold Harris Reder, 99, of Home Place passed away after a courageous battle with cancer on Wednesday, September 9, with his family by his side. Born in Jersey City, New Jersey, on August 18, 1911 one of 5 sons to Morris and Annette (LeBeau) Reder. He spent most of his early childhood in New Jersey before moving to Massachusetts in his high school years. He graduated in 1937 from Harvard College. He enlisted in the United States Navy soon after college, and honorably served during World War II. He married his soul mate Verna May Lewis in 1941 and they settled in Massachusetts to raise a family. In 1939 Harold opened the first of and soon to be a chain of nine, Reder Restaurants in New York, Pennsylvania and Massachusetts. In 1978 the family moved to Westbrook Maine and he established the Maine Armored Car and Courier Service, what is now known as Brinks. Harold was an avid fisherman and could be found on the water when ever he had the time. He was also a very loyal fan of the Red Sox. Harold was a 33rd degree Mason and a member of the Shriners. He is predeceased by his loving wife, Verna; three brothers, Leonard, Edwin and his twin Charles. Harold is survived by his two sons, Alan Reder of Topsham and Jonathan Reder and his wife, Susanne of Raymond; a granddaughter, Lillie Reder of Raymond; and a brother, Jason Reder and his wife Norma of Block Island, R.I. FUNERAL NOTICE: A graveside service will be held on October 26, 2010 at the Eastlawn Cemetery, Williamstown, where services will be held for both Harold and his twin brother Charles who has died in April of 2010. If you would like to share your thoughts and condolences to Harold's family please visit www.desmondfuneralhomes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Sep. 14, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Harold Reder

Not sure what to say?





Marilyn and Harold Less

October 10, 2010

Dear Alan and Jon, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Your father was an individual person and we remember many times. The last time was at the Reder reunion in 1992. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Marilyn Reder and Harold Less

BURTON SHAPIRO

September 22, 2010

ALAN - I JUST LEARNED OF YOUR FATHER'S PASSING - SO MANY MEMORIES HAVE RUSHED IN - I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM AS A FAIR BUSINESSMAN WHO CARED FOR THE COMMUNITY - HE ASSISTED ME MANY TIMES FOR VARIOUS ANNUAL BANQUETS - I ALSO CHERISHED THE TIMES I HELPED OUT AT THE "6" HOUSE - I HOPE TO SEE YOU OCT 26TH - PLEASE GIVE THE TIME - BURT

September 19, 2010

Dear Alan and Jonathan,
We were so sorry to hear of your father's death. It's very sad, but also - what a guy! What a long, varied, rich and interesting life! We learned some new things about Harold from the lovely obituary in the paper, and were touched to remember Verna and Charles.
A fond farewell to your amazing Dad and our warmest sympathies to you.
Affectionately,
Carla and Margy Washburne

September 16, 2010

I was sorry to hear of the passing of Harold and also Charles, they were both lovley people.
Sharon Cassidy, East Nassau, NY

September 15, 2010

I remember Harold when he delivered milk.A great success story.Our thoughts go to
Allan,John and Suzie.The Gigliotti Famiy.

jim hunter

September 14, 2010

Harold, we shared a magic evening once on the Rupert River; when the hatch was just right, and the trout were hitting one after another. I think of then, and of you, every time I fish. I'll miss being able to reminisce with you about that. My best to Alan and John, and the rest of your family.

Denise and Sheldon Tepler

September 13, 2010

We will miss you Harold and your wonderful stories of your youth with Verna and your years in the restaurant business. We will also miss your delicious cooking.

Denise and Sheldon Tepler

September 13, 2010

We will miss you, Harold, and your wonderful stories of your youth with Verna and your years in Williamstown. We will also miss your delicious cooking, especially that rich turkey dish you were rightfully proud of. Rest well friend.

Showing 1 - 9 of 9 results

Make a Donation
in Harold Reder's name

Memorial Events
for Harold Reder

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Harold's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Harold Reder's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more