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Shirley Stanton Obituary

Shirley S. Stanton May 30, 1924 September 7, 2013 Shirley S. Stanton, of State College, died peacefully Saturday, September 7, 2013, at the Fairways, State College. Shirley was born May 30, 1924, in West Milton, a daughter of the late Leland Smith and Ouida Koch Smith. She spent her youth in New Columbia and attended schools in the Milton School District, graduating in 1942. After high school, Shirley was employed for five years by Piper Aircraft Corporation. During that time she was a pilot responsible for delivering airplanes from the manufacturer in Lock Haven to purchasers in various cities throughout the United States. When Piper downsized and moved their manufacturing plants elsewhere, Shirley moved to State College and was employed by Penn State in the Student placement Office. She met her future husband in that office as he was graduating, and he came through her office for multiple interviews with potential employers. They subsequently married in George Washington's Church, in Alexandria, Virginia, on Washington's Birthday in 1952, in the midst of all of the celebrations that were occurring on that day, in that city. Over the ensuing years, she accompanied her husband, in his career path as a Certified Public Accountant, from State College to Denver, to Seattle, to Denver, and back to State College. During those years she attended classes at Pennsylvania State University, University of Colorado, and University of Washington. During her time in Seattle, she was employed by Boeing Aircraft Corporation as a technical analyst of the flight characteristics of the 747 airplane while that plane was in its early developmental stages. After returning to State College in 1957, she served as Assistant to the Dean of the College of Business at Penn State until her retirement in 1982. She counseled and was the primary advisor to thousands of students during her career. Many of those students came up to her, anywhere in the world that she happened to be, and expressed their gratitude for her assistance to them at a critical time in their educational careers. Shirley was a sports enthusiast all of her life. She played golf and tennis regularly, she won the Women's Golf Championship at Centre Hills Country Club, she skied every winter locally, and traveled annually to ski in the mountains in the western United States. In spring, summer, and fall, she enjoyed camping and fishing in the streams in those same mountain areas. She gardened extensively with enthusiasm. Many persons said that they frequently traveled out of their way in order to view her colorful flower garden displays. In retirement, she continued all of those activities, and also included volunteering extensively with YMCA and Penn State Women's Volleyball. Shirley is survived by her husband, Lionel (Lon) Stanton; her brother, Dick Smith and his wife Joy of Milton; and numerous nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her brother Jack Smith and his wife Sally, and her sister Maxine Smith Share and her husband Robert. Services for Shirley will be private, at the convenience of the family. Online condolences may be sent to www.kochfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Centre Daily Times on Sep. 8, 2013.

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Charles Smith

September 1, 2025

I have previously thanked Mrs. Shirley Stanton for her outstanding service to the College of business. I do so once again, albeit rather briefly, in order to avoid "the loss institutional memory". Shirley deserves continued recognition for her outstanding service to the College of Business' students during the College's foundational years. As a former graduate student, I remember her so very well and fondly. Thank you once again Mrs. Stanton.

Kevin Masterson

February 6, 2023

I remember meeting Mrs. Stanton the first time I walked into the College of Business my freshman year in 1978. I was a confused freshman, not sure what I wanted to do, but knowing that I had to change my major and majoring in business appealed to me. She was so magnetic and I knew right then that I wanted to change my major to business. She guided me through the process, which was not easy to do as the school was closed due to a large influx of students like myself transferring from other majors. She took such a personal interest in each student. I loved talking with her and getting her feedback on every possible course and professor there was. My fraternity brothers and I called "Dean Stanton". She was a major positive force for me at a point in my life when I lacked direction, caring & guidance. I am grateful to have known & been guided by her.

Charlie Smith

September 1, 2022

As a 1960s graduate student at Penn State's College of Business in Boucke Building, I shall never forget Shirley Stanton. Student academic advisors did not come any better than Shirley Stanton in the 1960s, and they are unlikely to come any better than Shirley Stanton if she were still in service in our new Business Building today. Shirley Stanton was an effective academic advisor. Shirley Stanton was a wonderful human being. A beautiful example under so many important headings. Charlie Smith

Charles Smith

September 1, 2020

As a graduate student in Boucke Building at Penn State in the 1960s, I remember Shirley Stanton fondly and well. I remember her standing (not sitting) behind her desk as she welcomed, counseled and advised an unending line of students on a daily basis. And with her pleasant and encouraging personality, it was obvious that the students did not want to be advised by anybody other than their beloved Mrs. Shirley Stanton. Shirley Stanton was very clearly an important asset of Penn State's College of Business from 1957 to 1982. Charlie Smith

Dottie and Chris Roberts

September 2, 2019

she was a fantastic friend and neighbor.

Dottie and Chris Roberts

September 13, 2013

I hardly know how to express my feelings about Shirley death. She was a wonderful friend and neighbor to the Poschadel family. Later she was again a wonderful help and friend as Chris and I were married and moved to Centre Hall. I (Dottie) will always remember her spectacular gardens, African Violets and the tennis we played. She will always live in my heart and soul. Peace Dottie and Chris Roberts

Kathy Wilson

September 12, 2013

Dear Mr. Stanton, I just heard the sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for giving me the chance to get to know you and Mrs. Stanton. In my mind, I envision
Mrs. Stanton with a huge smile on her face, piloting her Piper Cub towards her next great adventure...

Lyn Williams

September 12, 2013

Mrs. Stanton, I can picture you happily tending God's lovely gardens. You surely will enjoy doing that.

September 12, 2013

Tears came to my eyes as I read the obituary in the CDT. Shirley Stanton (Mrs. Stanton!!!!) was the first person I met in the College of Business Administration's Boucke Building at Penn State when I arrived on campus to begin studies for my MS (Business-Accounting) degree in 1960. As an International student from South Africa I felt quite insecure as I faced an uncertain future, and Shirley's pleasant, supportive approach to mentoring students made a significant contribution to setting my mind at ease.
I returned to South Africa after graduation in 1961, and then came back to Penn State for the Ph.D program in 1964. And what a pleasant surprise it was to see Shirley still at work as a mentor for the CBA's students - in the same pleasant, supportive manner as I had observed in 1960/61.
I shall never forget Shirley Stanton. She was a lovely person, and a beautiful human being.
Charles (Charlie) H. Smith
KPMG Professor Emeritus of Accounting
Penn State

Frank Lemmon

September 12, 2013

Lon,
Shirley will be missed.

Jennifer Nastase

September 10, 2013

Dear Mr. Stanton,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of your wonderful wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jennifer, Carole, & Joshua Nastase

Lauren Erb

September 9, 2013

Mr. Stanton, So sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. Always enjoyed speaking to her when she stopped by the office or called.

Phil Fleming

September 9, 2013

I had the great pleasure to work with Shirley at the Business College in the mid-1970's. During her career she provided advice to thousands of students seeking guidance on such matters as selecting the proper courses, scheduling a particular professor, or perhaps improving your golf or tennis game.

Among those many students were countless student athletes, including academic All-Americans, future Hall of Famers, and future business leaders. She encouraged each and every one to make the most of their educational opportunities.

Every student who sought her advice received the very best that she could provide. On those occasions when a student was seeking a way around the rules and requirements, she could scold them lovingly with an icy glance over the top of her glasses. To many students of that era, she was affectionately and respectfully thought of as the Mother of the Business College. She was part of why Penn State was a great place to grow up.

Cathy Lyons

September 9, 2013

I was so sorry to learn of Mrs Stanton's passing . Her memory is forever etched in my mind. We had countless hours of conversations about life and living, sharing aspects of key events in our lives. Her wisdom and knowledge helped shape my daily activities. Thanks to both of you for being so special. Lon, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gale Miller

September 8, 2013

Ken, Brooke and I were so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. We have so many fond memories of renting from the Stantons for 14 years....trimming those fruit trees, enjoying the flowers, building snowmen, playing in the yard, enjoying produce from Shirley's garden, visiting the cats....too many memories to name. Our thoughts are with you, Lon, during this difficult time. Gale, Ken and Brooke

Daron Dibert

September 8, 2013

Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. I have fond memories of bowling with Shirley & Lon in the Fellowship League along with my parents, Dan & Santina.

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