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Paul Murphy Obituary

Paul I. Murphy, age 54, of Oakbrook Terrace. Beloved husband of Maggie; loving father of Paul J. and Anne Murphy; dear brother of Kitty Bajkowski, Jane (Ken) Marcus, Joe (Jackie), Mike (Patty) and Terry (Mary Lou); dear uncle of many. Mr. Murphy was well known and respected for his tireless efforts on behalf of children with special needs. He became deaf at the age of 8, and was a member of the original graduating class of Hinsdale South High School's Deaf/Hard of Hearing Program. At the time of his death, Mr. Murphy had worked in a variety of capacities within special education programs, ultimately becoming Executive Director of the S.A.S.E.D. orginization. Mr. Murphy's other interests include his founding membership in the Oakbrook Terrace Lion's Club, Commissioner with the Oakbrook Terrace Police Commission and member of the Military Vehicle Preservation Assoc. Mr. Murphy was preceded in death by his parents Paul and Rita Lucille Murphy. Visitation will be Monday, 3 to 9 p.m. at Steuerle Funeral Home, 350 S. Ardmore Ave., Villa Park, IL. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday beginning at Steuerle Funeral Home at 8:45 a.m. following to Ascension of Our Lord Church for 9:30 a.m. Mass. Interment Queen of Heaven Cemetery, Hillside, IL. Info 630-832-4161 or www.steuerlefh.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Nov. 13, 2005.

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John E Austin

March 12, 2023

Paul was, and is, I would consider my best friend I took it very hard when he left us early I know he´s in a much better place. We went through thick and thin together I wrestled with him for four years at Hinsdale south played football with him we excelled in wrestling I like to work out with him, he was a strong man he had a strong heart I could´ve not asked for a better friend. I lost my best friend but I do know I´ll see him again someday I´ll see that smiling face. I´ll probably see the glisten Office head before I see the smiley face, Paul was a great man a funny man, a great father , a great great friend I know this comes much later than all the other condolences but I came upon his picture and the stories about his life I have some mini funny stories, so I´m not I can´t even tell but that´s OK. He has great kids. He had a great wife , we did many things together. I miss you Maggie I miss your family for a little older now. I don´t know if I´m any wiser I was just lucky to have Paul as a friend him in my life and the lives of so many others that he changed. Thank you Lord for sending him my way And allowing me to spend too short of time with him. It´s hard for me to talk about it without getting so emotional but he is a bright spot in my life to this point see you soon buddy.

Maggie Murphy

November 27, 2005

Thank you so much to all who have been kind enough to send condolences. Your thoughts and prayers mean so much to us. Maggie, Paul and Anne

MARY HUSKE

November 21, 2005

Dear Maggie,

I was shocked to find Paul's name listed in the Tribune Obituaries yesterday. I tried to call you last night, but got your answering machine. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

With my very deepest sympathy,

Nickie Kruse

November 18, 2005

I went to a friend of mine's mother's funeral yesterday and while I was there as well all the other older students of yours had a sad news telling me and others and we were shocked and felt sad. We would want to give you a hug and say god bless to your family and your husband may rest in peaceful.

Don & Ann Ventura

November 17, 2005

Dear Maggie, Paul & Annie,



What a kind, thoughtful neighbor! We'll miss seeing Paul's gentle, smiling face around Oakbrook Terrace. A City that he so obviously loved & cared about.

our friend, Paul Murphy class of 1970

November 16, 2005

Judy Zito

November 15, 2005

Dear Maggie, Paul and Annie,

I was very sad to hear of Paul leaving us. I met him at Illinois State U. when we were undergraduates. When I took the job in Dist. 48 to my surprise the Murphy children attended school in the district. Paul and I were reaquainted and we always shared a laugh and good story. I was so proud of Paul's accomplishments and successes as an educator. He really cared about the "kids" and was thoughtful and caring as a man. I have been priviledged to know him. May your family stay strong in the days ahead. Paul would want only the best for you. Sincerely, Judy Zito

Sharon Hazel

November 15, 2005

Dear Murphy Family,

I was very sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. May you find peace in the days ahead. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

S. Hazel

Barbara Tulo

November 15, 2005

My Dearest Maggie & Family:

Linda called me this evening with the very sad & shocking news. Please accept mine & Joe's most deepest sympathy for your loss. I remember Paul's heartyness & good spirit when he would come to visit at the Junior High. He did so much for so many in need. His spirit will live on through his work. Cherish your memories-they can never be taken away from you. God bless you. May the Angels in heaven bless you & keep you in the palm of their hands.

Dan Parmelee

November 14, 2005

Mr. Murphy, you were truly a remarkable man and I was proud to work under your supervision at SASED. You were the heart and soul of SASED, and you will be missed.

sarah hilb

November 14, 2005

I am shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's passing. I could go on and on (as I'm sure everyone can!) about how much Paul touched my life. I learned so much about being a great teacher from him, and will forever be greatful to him for giving me a chance and always believing in me. My prayers are with his family whom I know he held dear to his heart.

Andrea, Laura and Michelle Albrecht

November 14, 2005

I am so very sorry for your loss. It was very unexpected. I will be praying for your family. May God bless you in your time of sadness.

Rayzelle Heard, Multi Needs Medical Asst.

November 14, 2005

My deepest sympathy to the Murphy family.

Paris and family Vargas

November 14, 2005

We are so very saddened to hear of your loss. Our hearts ache for your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless...



Paris Vargas and Family

DHH student Westmont Jr. High

Frank Palmer

November 14, 2005

Dear Maggie, Paul Jr., and Ann

I couldn't believe my ears when I got the call from Kitty ... Paul was a Cousin and Friend of mine since he was a baby .... Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you ... Our Prayers and thoughts are with you ..Love you guys ... Cousin Frank

Terry Martin

November 14, 2005

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's passing. I knew Paul both as a colleague and as a fellow Montini parent. His dedication to students with disabilities is widely known. He is a respected professional who always put kids first. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Jill Kolany

November 14, 2005

Dear Maggie and family,



My prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Paul was a character but above all, he was a family man. He cherished his family and spoke about them with pride and love. May that offer some comfort to you in the days ahead.

Ralph LoCoco

November 14, 2005

we're very sorry to hear about Paul it was a pleasure to have known him.our sympathy and prayers to you and your family. the LoCoco's

Keith Perkinson

November 14, 2005

I am saddened to hear of Paul's death. He was a football teammate of mine for 4 years at Hinsdale South High School. Murph was a fierce competitor during the game but a teddy bear off the field. Paul never had a bad word to say about anyone, and always had a smile on his face. Playing defense next to Paul was especially fun when we had to tap him on the helmet to pass along "motivational phrases and words of encouragement" shouted to us by coaches on the sidelines. Paul's replies were usually classic. Hornet football players will never forget the words, "Kick Murphy" ! Paul was the original Fridge Perry when our Coaches invented Shock Troops and installed Paul as an occasional blocking back who would sometimes carry the ball! Watching him run with the football left us in stitches but he was so serious. He will be missed.

Deb Tyrrell

November 14, 2005

Dear Maggie, Paul, and Anne,



You are all in our thoughts and prayers as we mourn the loss of our friend and leader. He was an inspiration to all of us at SASED and he is so greatly missed.

All Our Love

Nate and Bridget Williams

November 14, 2005

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Murphy family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karen Parmelee

November 13, 2005

I extend my deepest sympathy to the family of this great man. Paul Murphy was a very special person who I will deeply miss. He was an inspiration to all of those around him. He valued every teacher. He valued every child. He believed that together, we were capable of great things.

We will never ever forget you or your big heart, Paul. Your tiredless efforts and dedication to children with special needs will live on through your work. You will always be on our minds and forever in our hearts. Rest in peace.

Jan Luke

November 13, 2005

I can't express how much Paul will be missed. My thoughts & prayers are with you Maggie, Paul & Anne.

Sue & Richard Heinlein

November 13, 2005

Paul was a great neighbor and a good friend. More than that, he was a part of our family for over 23 years. Dad loved Paul as much as Paul loved my dad and I'm sure Dad was waiting for Paul when he crossed over. Together, they will keep an eye on both our families. Paul's warmth and caring will be missed. Love to you Maggie, PJ, and Annie.

Wendy & (brother) Bob Vokal

November 13, 2005

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Murphy family.

Know that Paul is with the Lord now, and you have another angel in Heaven.

God Bless you all, Wendy (& Bob)

JAMES PESCHEL

November 13, 2005

I remember Paul from football and wrestling as I graduated from HS in 1972. Paul was always kind to everyone and he especially helped those with hearing impaired. He will surely be missed by those who knew him.

My deepest sympathy to his family.



Jim Peschel Class of 1972

Pam Harris

November 13, 2005

My deepest sympathy to the family. Paul's dedication to his work and the knowledge he extended to other educators will be greatly missed. Warmest thoughts are with you.

Ellen Dwyer Zenker

November 13, 2005

There are no words that could possibly convey the depth and integrity of Paul Murphy. He was a dedicated man that worked hard on behalf of countless children with special needs. I know that he has made a difference in the lives of many. I will truly miss him.

My sincerest condolences to his family.



Ellen Dwyer Zenker

SASAD Board of Control

Wendy and Bob Vokal

November 13, 2005

Our prayers and heartfelt condolences to his beloved family, Ann, Maggie, and Paul Murphy. Also to Mike and Joe his brothers, and the rest of the Murphy family.

The lives Paul touched by caring, and helping his family, students and others are a living legacy today.



God has another angel in Heaven now.

Tracy Mack

November 13, 2005

My greatest sympathy to you and your family. I greatly admired Paul and always enjoyed hearing him speak about his ideas, life and experiences.

Paula

November 13, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with the Murphy family at this time of sorrow.

A Fellow Hinsdale So. Hornet

Jill

November 13, 2005

My deepest sympathy to his family. Paul was one of a kind. A kind, caring person. HE will be missed. May he rest in peace in the arms of the LORD

Shelly Evoy

November 13, 2005

Maggie, Paul & Anne...

My heart goes out to you and your family. Losing Paul is a great loss and I will miss him. Rest in Peace Lion Paul.

Ken and Nancy Ewert

November 13, 2005

We are both saddened to lose one of the "good guys" we have been blessed to know. Nancy was especially fortunate to learn from Paul as her supervisor over many years. His honesty and true caring of others was rare and will be greatly missed.

George Brown

November 13, 2005

I am so sorry to hear about Paul.

You have my most sincere best wishes.

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November 13, 2005

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