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Shirlee Taraki Obituary


Taraki, Shirlee Heda
Born in Chicago on April 25, 1922, died in Evanston on January 23, 2009 at age 86. Daughter of the late Leah Simon Heda and Dr. Frank Heda; sister of Roslyn Heda Barson and the late Dr. Burton Heda; mother of Lisa and Yosuf Taraki; grandmother of Ariane and Ilyas Taraki and Faris Giacaman; aunt and friend of countless others. Studied at the University of Chicago: BA in psychology (Phi Beta Kappa), MA in elementary education. In 1944 she married Mohamed Rasul Taraki, an Afghan student at Northwestern University. In 1947 she moved to Afghanistan with her husband after he completed his doctoral studies at Cornell University. During her twenty-five years in Afghanistan, Shirlee devoted herself to teaching English to girls in Kabul's public schools. After her husband's death in 1972, she returned to Evanston and worked at the Northwestern University Library until retirement in 1990. In Evanston, she was active in various organizations including NOW, the Women's Liberation Center, Amnesty International, and the Evanston Commission on Aging. She also took up biking, cross-country skiing, folk dancing, and many other pursuits. Following the Soviet invasion of Afghanistan in 1979, she became involved in relief work with Afghan refugees in the Chicago area, serving as co-chair of the Afghanistan Reconstruction Support Committee and coordinator of the Afghan Women's Task Force. Shirlee will be remembered as a very independent person who gave generously of herself and demanded little of others. She touched the lives of many people and will be dearly missed by those who knew her. Memorial service will be held 4-6 pm on Sunday February 8 at the Levy Center located at 300 Dodge Avenue in Evanston.

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Published by Evanston Review from Jan. 29 to Feb. 5, 2009.

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Dawn Pencovic

March 25, 2009

Shirlee was one of my dearest and oldest friends. We shared memories of Kabul and an enthusiasm for the language and people of Afghanistan. The Tarakis have generously bestowed their hospitality on me since those early years in Paghman and Kabul. In Chicago Shirlee always had a full program of events and activities I could hardly keep up with, and she is an inspiration to me in her cheer, wit, and affection. She doted on her wonderful family, and I share their sorrow at her passing.

Sherry Bryan

February 17, 2009

Dear Yusef, Rohiya, Ilyas and Ariana,

Shirlee Taraki was a long time friend of mine. I worked with her helping Afghan families in Chicago and she was a resource to me in understanding The Afghan culture. She was an interesting person and a role model to me and others I'm sure. She was interesting and never stopped moving forward and liked people without perjudice. I will sorely miss her. Thank you for your hospitality.

Gretchen and Del Leppke

February 12, 2009

Our condolences to Lisa, Shirlee's daughter, who we got to know through many contacts among Shirlee, Rosemary Ruether and Gretchen on feminist and Palestine-Israel issues. Also in association with Anna and Fred Anrod. Shirlee was an unique person who will be remembered over many years.

Newland Smith

February 10, 2009

Shirlee was an inspiration to me as one with an inexhaustable passion for peace and justice. I remember the time she gave me gifts to take to her daughter,Lisa, whom I met in Ramallah during a Sabeel Conference.

Hava salimi

February 7, 2009

Dears Yosuf , Rohiya,
Ilyas and Aryan

The our life-size condolence is that;
Shirlee can’t be replaced ever and never and she will be allways missed.
We’re very proud of her remaining ones and we believe they are going the same way.

Hava Salimi & Dara Mostofi

Ann Siegel

February 1, 2009

Shirlee was a valuable, long-time member of the Evanston Amnesty Internation group and will be missed by all of us.

Mike Fehland

January 30, 2009

Shirlee Taraki was a volunteer at Mather Pavilion Nursing Home for 14 years. She started by presenting a program on Afghanistan and this grew to a regular cooking class and then to a program called Shirlee & Friends where Shirlee introduced residents to a great variety of her "friends". These could include anyone from a Tibetan Monk to a professional artist to a published author or an Irish Folk Dancing Group. Shirlee connected with everyone she met and she truly connected with us.
She will be missed and my deep sympathy and condolence to her friends and family.

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