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Dr. Thomas Scott McCay

1929 - 2015

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Thomas McCay Obituary

Dr. Scott McCay

Jackson

On the morning of August 20, 2015, beloved husband, father, and grandfather Thomas Scott McCay, Sr. passed away at home with his loving wife Bettye by his side. He was 86 years old.

Scott was born on August 4, 1929 in Utica, Claiborne County, Mississippi, the second son of Mattie Ellis McLemore and Gadi Lum McCay.

Though quiet by nature, Scott was blessed from his earliest years with a knack for developing deep and lasting friendships. He met one of his dearest life long friends, Kenneth Vaughan, in first grade. Another treasured friend was his advisor and mentor at Mississippi College, Dr. William O. "Doc" Saddler. Many other dear friends, too many to name, blessed his life. Scott put a high value on relationships. He cared sincerely for each person he met and was known to record names of new acquaintances in a small notebook kept in his pocket. He derived great pleasure in making others smile and in finding ways to make them feel special. In his unassuming way he did much good for others behind the scenes.

After graduating from Mississippi College, Scott attended medical school at the University of Mississippi from 1950-51 and Johns Hopkins University from 1951-53. Following an internship at Charity Hospital, New Orleans, he completed residency at the School of Aviation Medicine, USN. He served as a Flight Surgeon in the United States Navy, stationed in Korea from 1955-1957.

Scott began his career as a caring and loved physician in Belzoni, Mississippi. As testament to the high regard patients felt for him, a notable number of children born in Belzoni during his tenure bear his name. After eight years of general practice, he returned to the University Medical Center for a radiology residency and became one of Mississippi's first board certified radiologists. He worked at Saint Dominic Hospital as a staff radiologist from 1968 until 1978 and as Chief of Radiology from 1978 until 1996. He also practiced at Mississippi Diagnostic Imaging. Throughout his career Scott was active in the Mississippi State Radiological Society and the American College of Radiology, serving as Journal Editor of the Mississippi Radiological Society and as Mississippi Councilor to the American College of Radiology. He was honored as a Fellow of the American College of Radiology and was faithful in his service to this Society until his retirement. He was actively involved throughout his career in radiology education, serving as Clinical Instructor at UMMC from 1968-1996 and in the School of Radiology Technology at Saint Dominic Hospital from 1968-78.

Also active in the community, Scott served as a Rembrandt contributor to the Mississippi Museum of Art, a host for the International Ballet Competition, a volunteer with the Mississippi Symphony Orchestra, and as Chairman of the Board of American Bank. He was a faithful member of the vestry at Saint Stephen's Reformed Episcopal Church.

Scott was preceded in death by his brother Gadi Lum McCay, Jr., his sister, Martha Streibeck Broadus, and his first wife Bonnie Barham McCay. Following her untimely passing, he was fortunate to win the hand of Bettye Higdon McCay, with whom he shared 35 beautiful years. He is survived by Bettye and their large blended family including children Barry McCay (Ellen), Kim Simmons, Scott McCay, Jr., Kay McNabb (Venton "Bubba"), Jan McGraw; grandchildren Haley McCay Arndt (Karl), Michelle McCay Richardson (Matt), Lauren McCay Whitehead (Ross), Brad McCay (Olivia), Kimberly Simmons McMullin, Elizabeth Clark Simmons, Melissa McNabb Dabagia (Mark), Corley McNabb Wicker, Venton "Beau" McNabb (Kristen), Suzanne McGraw David (Ken), Emily McGraw Vestal (Ryan), Mary Margaret McGraw Boulton (Bruce), and 24 adored great grand children. He is also survived by his sister, Peggy McCay Harlow, and cousin Jack Sistrunk (Lib).

The family wishes to thank Hope Easterling , Alice Collins, Shirley Clark and Lanell Boler for their tireless and compassionate care during this difficult time. A special thanks, too, to the community at Saint Stephens Reformed Episcopal Church.

Visitation will be held at Wright & Ferguson, Highland Colony Parkway, Tuesday, August 25, 4 until 7. A memorial service will be held Wednesday for family and church members at Saint Stephens Reformed Episcopal Church, Flowood, at 11:00 with visitation at 10:00.

Memorials may be made to Saint Stephen's Episcopal Church, Saint Jude's Children's Research Hospital, or Blair E. Batson Hospital for Children.

Beloved Scott, Dad, Grangrang, you were always loving, always forgiving, ready with a smile and a second chance, always patient and expecting the best from us. We will miss you so, and look forward to the day we are together again through Christ Jesus our Lord.

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day—and not me only but also to all who have longed for His appearing." 2 Timothy 4:7-8

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Published by Clarion Ledger on Aug. 23, 2015.

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Roberta Byrd

August 31, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Dr. McKay was a great Dr, I worked many years with him at St Dominic, he was actually one of the fine radiologist that followed me after finding out I had polycystic kidney disease and always made sure I kept a close eye on my lab's..in later years one would have never know we would cross paths again but only this time on dialysi, sharing those long hours together. I was however blessed to receive transplant in February..but still kept up with my sweet friend thru Lanell. And just asked about him this week only to find out he had passed away. May God give you and your family peace. He will be greatly missed!!!

Peter Curcio

August 26, 2015

thanks to Dr. McCay. he gave me a chance to be the MRI technologist I am today. my thoughts and prayers to the family. My radiology school director was Dr. Red Stuart in Hammond, La whom Dr. McCay knew very well. they were in med school together.

August 25, 2015

Scott was a wonderful Man and Doctor. Love And prayers for his family especially Bettye

Elizabeth Raley

August 24, 2015

So sorry for your loss... Praying for the family.

David Caldwell

August 24, 2015

RIP to a wonderful person

August 24, 2015

He was a great Dr and close friend he was a very giving man. You will be missed. RIP

Allison White

August 24, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. Scott was such a kind, loving man. I was blessed to know him. Praying for you all during this time.

Mary Vela Caston

August 24, 2015

I'm so thankful I got to know Scott through Peggy. He was a kind and gentle soul, and always had time for a chat. I will miss him.

Antoinette Wells Archer

August 23, 2015

We are sorry to learn of your loss and will keep you in prayer.

michael smith

August 23, 2015

dear dr. mccay and fam, i am so sorry for your loss. when dr. scott would pass through the rad. dept. at river oaks, i never saw him without a smile! sometimes he would stop and make someone laugh. i'm proud for having known him and wish the family peace!!!!!!

Paul Higdon

August 23, 2015

With deepest sympathy... We will all miss Scott, he touched so many of our lives in special ways...Only time and memories will help with your loss.

Pamela Christian

August 23, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of the McCay family during this time. We know God is with you and will provide the strength you need during the coming days.
The Boyd's

Matt Higdon

August 23, 2015

Love,

Matt, John and Clare.

Jean Homod McLendon

August 23, 2015

So very sorry for your families lost. I actually remember Dr. McCay from Belzoni. He was my childhood doctor in Belzoni until leaving. He was a very caring and compassionate doctor.
May GOD comfort you and yours in his loving arms.

Thomas McLaurin

August 23, 2015

I wish peace and comfort for the MCCAY family during their lost of DR. MCCAY.

Cecilia Karn Miner

August 23, 2015

Blessings and peace to the McCay family. May wonderful memories carry you through.

Julie Gilchrist

August 23, 2015

Can't imagine Scott not being there to share family news both good and bad as he was always helpful and supportive. Missing a special cousin already.

Nancy Griffing

August 23, 2015

I loved Dr. Scott! It was a privilege to work with him at St. Dominic and MDIC. My prayers are with the family during this difficult time.

August 23, 2015

Scott was such a wonderful and benevolent
Physician.
Truely loved.
Carrie Ann and Alan Stallings

August 23, 2015

Sophia and Lee with our love

August 22, 2015

Covering your family with prayer during this time of grief.

Sandee McPherson

The Staff of Parkway Funeral Home

August 23, 2015

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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