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VALENTINO John Valentino, age 53, of Fairfield, the loving husband of Angelina Valentino for over twenty-six years and the devoted father of Frank Anthony and Felicia Bianca Valentino, passed away suddenly on Saturday, July 31, 2010 in St. Vincent's Medical Center. Born in Bridgeport, John was a lifelong area resident. He was formerly a driver with Emsar Research. John was dedicated to his family and could always be found sharing a family meal eating his favorite foods of Roast Beef, Lasagna, Mortadella or Prosciutto. He loved being outdoors at home where you would find him gardening, entertaining the neighborhood children or washing the driveway. He was a fun loving guy; everyone who met him loved him. He also loved both the New York Jets and the New York Yankees. In addition to his wife and children, John is survived by his mother, Rose Silano Valentino; his sister, Elizabeth Tetu and her husband, Gary; his brother, Ron and his wife, Karen, all of Trumbull; his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Tony and Michelina Manca of Fairfield; his sister-in-law, Rose Leggo of Ansonia and his nieces and nephews, Danielle Laczkoski, Joey and Jenna Tetu, Anna Leggo and Alyssa & Andrew Valentino. He was predeceased by his father, Frank Valentino. Friends are invited to attend funeral services on Wednesday, August 4, 2010 leaving the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road in Fairfield Center at 9:20 a.m. to attend a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Fairfield. Entombment Oak Lawn Mausoleum. Friends may greet his family on Tuesday, August 3, 2010 from 4-8 p.m. at the funeral home. Donations may be made in his memory in care of the funeral home. To send an online condolence, please visit : www.shaughnesseybanks.com The family wishes to thank all of the medical team involved in his care as well as the Davita Dialysis Team for taking such good care of him.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Aug. 2 to Aug. 3, 2010.

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Angelina Valentino

July 31, 2020

I can’t believe it’s been 10 Years since you left me. I still miss you every day and hope that you’re happy in heaven and resting peacefully. I know you’re watching our beautiful Giancarlo as he grows. He is my joy now. I tell him about you and all the time. Keep my place warm until we meet again. Miss and love you always . . . “Too much”❤❤❤ Angie

Dominick & Jennie Carfi

July 27, 2020

Miss you cousin!
Dominick & Jennie Carfi

Angie

April 15, 2019

Happy Heavenly Birthday! Wish you were here to celebrate all the good things God is sending our way, but I know you have the best seat in the house and will always be with us✝ Love you . . . Too much

georgene weston

July 13, 2017

I was on Vacation, when at a rest stop I found John's Funeral prayer card on the ground,I could not leave it there, so I picked it up and have been carrying it with me ever since, I feel he's watchin over me. If you would like it back contact me. 1-516 931-1311/ 516-474-4357cell

May 25, 2017

I miss you Daddy <3 love you always.. Felicia

Angie

April 15, 2017

Happy Heavenly 60th Birthday my love. I miss you so much all the time and more every single day. I hope you are partying hardy up there . . . Love you . . . Too much

June 19, 2016

Happy Heavenly Father's Day! Love to all up there too much . . .

May 19, 2016

April 28, 2016

Will who ever wrote the previous note, please let me know who you are. It's unsigned and I need to thank you.

Sincerely, John's wife, Angie

April 27, 2016

I just cried my eyes out watching your story, on a re-run of "While You Were Out". I can't believe you are gone. My very deepest condolences to your wife and family. My thoughts and prayers are with them.

April 15, 2016

Happy Heavenly Birthday! Missing you as always . . . . Too much

March 22, 2016

Hi Gigi. Thinking of you extra tonight. Deedee is pregnant with twins! I know you had something to do with this. I wish you were with us celebrating this past Sunday. I miss you, our talks, so much. Love you daddy. Love, Gigi

December 8, 2015

Another Christmas apart, but I know you are with us all. I miss you this year more than ever. We need you to watch over us more than ever now and help me make the right decisions to make life easier. Missing my mamma tons too. Please let her know because I know you are together. Love you forever, too much. Merry Christmas in heaven.

Your Felicia xoxo

October 4, 2015

Miss you more than ever. Please guide my steps <3

August 30, 2015

I always think of you, but today I attend another family party without you. It makes me wish you were here even more than usual. Life will never be the same. Love you . . . Too much.
"Giulinetta"

Dom & jennie Carfi

July 15, 2015

John,
Miss you cousin! You have a wonderful family! Wish you with us think about you a lot,rest in peace!
Luv you, from dom & jennie

July 14, 2015

Thinking of you always daddy. I miss you and love you so much. Miss our chats and your stories. Love, felish-y

June 21, 2015

Happy Heavenly Fathers' Day! xo

May 19, 2015

Happy Anniversary! <3

April 15, 2015

Happy Birthday in heaven, John! They say time heals, but I belive it only helps one adjust. I miss you more every day. Love you always, too much. Angie xo

April 5, 2015

Happy Easter in heaven! Love you . . . Too much.

February 14, 2015

it's our day, honey! I know you are celebrating up there. Give my Valentino Day love to our parents and extra for you . . . Too much Angie xo

January 1, 2015

Happy 2015 in heaven! The Honeymooners are on! I'm sure you are right up there laughing with them all now! Love you always . . . Too much<3

January 1, 2015

January 1, 2015

December 19, 2014

34 years ago today we had our first date . . . Wish you were physically here to share it with me now . . . I know your heart is still next to mine . . . Love you forever, too much . . . xoxoxo Angie

November 24, 2014

Thanksgiving is upon us, Hun. It's gonna be cloudy just like you and Mamma loved it. I'm hosting for the first time since you all went home to God. I can feel you all near me and holding me up when I need it. I will always be thankful for you. Love you so much always ... Angie . . . kiss Mamma for me <3

felicia valentino

August 28, 2014

hi daddy. thinking of you. missing and love you for always. <3 wish you were here with all of our family. xoxo ti amo papa

July 31, 2014

Four years ago today God called you home. It's still hard for me to understand why; but I know God has a plan for all of us, and he needed you there in heaven. I will always miss and love you, 'till we meet again, too much Angie xo

July 4, 2014

Happy 4th of July! Miss you so much. Remember you told me you wanted to get engaged under the fireworks? We didn't till December because of other circumstances, but I'll never forget that Fourth on the beach under the fireworks. I hope you are celebrating I heaven. Love you . . . Too much xo

June 15, 2014

Happy Fathers' Day! Hope you are celebrating with your Dad and mine. Miss you and love you always. xo

Angie

May 19, 2014

Happy 30th Anniversary! Wish you were here next to me, but I know you are always with me in spirit; and someday we will celebrate together again. Love you . . . Too much!!!

April 23, 2014

Hi Honey. Hope your Easter with Jesus was as nice as ours was here. The only thing missing was you, but I know your spirit is right here next to us all. Love you . . . Too much! Angie

Dominick &jennie Carfi

April 16, 2014

Happy birthday cousin! Miss u!

April 15, 2014

Happy "57 in Heaven" my love! I know you are celebrating with all of our loved ones. I still wish you were here instead of being taken too soon. I will always love you, too much, keep my place warm until we see each other again.

??????Angie??????

April 10, 2014

Hi honey. Zio Arcangelo has joined you. I know you were all there to greet him. I hope you are all together with my parents too. I miss you so much and miss my Mamma so much too. Kiss her for me, and tell her I love her. Love and miss you . . . Too much xo Angie ??

February 14, 2014

Happy VALENTINO's Day in heaven honey!!! This was always a special day for us and always will be. Love you always . . . Too much!!! ?????? Angie

Felicia Bianca

January 5, 2014

Gigi. You've been on my mind tonight. You always are but more so tonight. Have a candle lit by your picture...it's a fall scent which is out of season butttttt You loved your cozy, fall days so it works :) Missed you this Christmas just as much as all the others. Miss our Christmas mornings together...you saying your corny jokes when opening your gifts and me laughing at the same old ones every time. I feel you here with me all of the time but it's not the same. I know heaven couldn't wait for you and this is Gods plan...But I miss you so. Jets have gone down hill...can you pull some strings to get us a franchise QB?! Lol. Love you GiGi. Love, feleeshie

December 11, 2013

Merry Christmas in heaven, Johnny! Life, especially at Christmas, will never be the same without you; but I plug along every day knowing your spirit is always with me. Until we see each other again . . . Love you always . . . Too much . . . Angie ??????

December 10, 2013

Miss you cousin!
Dominick & Jennie
Family

A G

December 9, 2013

Your memory will not be forgotten.

July 31, 2013

Three years ago today I lost you. God decided he needed you more. I know you are our Angel who watches over us every day. I will always love and miss you my husband, father of my children, best friend . . . Too much ??????

Angie

Angie

June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day in heaven, Johnny! I miss you so much, but I know you are here with me and watching over our beautiful children. Thank you for giving them to me. Love you, miss you always . . . too much <3 <3 <3 "Giulinetta"

June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day in heaven, Johnny! I miss you so much, but I know you are here with me and watching over our beautiful children. Thank you for giving them to me. Love you, miss you always . . . too much <3 <3 <3 "Giulinetta"

April 15, 2013

Happy birthday cousin!!! Miss you, watch over your family!
Love,
Dominick& Jennie

Angie ?

April 15, 2013

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Johnny! I miss you more now than ever. I feel you still with me helping and guiding me with your spirit. Trying my best to keep going. Please keep your love and guidance with me and especially Frank and Felicia. They love and miss you tons. Hope you have a great birthday in heaven. Keep my place warm until we see each other again. Love you . . . Too much???

Anonymous

April 10, 2013

No words can express the weight of your loss. May time and the beautiful memories of your father find you the serenity we all seek.

Your Feleeshie

April 10, 2013

I miss you Gigi...can't sleep tonight because I am up thinking of u. Was remembering your hugs. I love you so much and am trying to process you bring gone still the best I know how. It hasn't been easy. I love you..please continue to watch over all of us, esp Mommy and Frankie. Love you Gigi.

Angie

December 27, 2012

Merry Third Christmas in heaven, Johnny! I miss you always but feel comfort that you always watch over me and the kids. Hope you've seen Daddy by now and listening once again to his stories! I love you forever . . . too much. ???

June 18, 2012

Happy Father's Day! Miss you always xo

May 20, 2012

xo

April 15, 2012

Happy Birthday, Johnny! I hope you are having a nice one today with our Lord. We had a nice Mass this morning for you, and I know you were right there with us. Miss you always . . . love you always . . . Angie <3

April 4, 2012

Happy Easter! This is our second one apart. They say it gets easier with time, but it's not for me. I miss you more every day. I miss everything we had good, bad, and indifferent. Thanks for watching over Mom and Dad. They are doing a bit better and stablized. I love you and miss you everyday, but I know you are right near me getting me through. Love forever . . . too much "Julinetta"

March 1, 2012

Hi Hun . . . I miss you more than ever and still need you so much. I wish you could see the house and what I've done with it. I tried to make all our plans come true. I need your help with something from God's house. Dad is in the hospital, and Mom is a bit peaked and weak. Can you watch over them for me. Help them not suffer too much until it's their time, and God brings them home. I love you forever, too much. Angie

February 14, 2012

Happy Valentino's Day my love! I miss you so much, but I know you are with me always. Keep my place up there warm. Love you, too much . . . Angie <3

Angie

December 26, 2011

Merry Christmas, Johnny. We had a nice day with your family. I love them so. I miss you so. Keep sending me strength until we meet again. xoxoxo

Angie <3

December 9, 2011

Hi Hun, miss you always. I'm trying to live what we talked and dreamed about. Moved to Mamma's house. I so wish you were here to see it, but I know you are with us always. The kids are happy here and adjusting well. I'm doing ok too. No worries just keep my space next you warm for me until we meet again. Merry Christmas my love.

Felicia

September 10, 2011

i love you daddy....missing you so much :( wish you could give me one of your big huggies right now...love you gigi

August 31, 2011

Missing you so . . . thank you for keeping us safe . . . love you forever <3 <3 <3 Angie, Frankie, and Felicia

July 31, 2011

One year today, Johnny, almost to the minute; and we miss you more than ever. We are going to the shore today because we know that's what you would want us to do. We know that your beautiful spirit will be there with us as always. We love you forever . . . too much . . . in our hearts always . . . Angie, Frankie, and Felica xoxoxo

June 20, 2011

Happy Father's Day, Johnny! We miss you and love you so much. I know you are celebrating with your Dad again and maybe even mine. We love you forever . . . too much . . . in our hearts always . . . Angie, Frankie, and Felicia xoxoxo

May 19, 2011

27 years ago today we married . . . the weather then is just like today . . . did you send the sun for me on this rainy week? I know you did . . . I will always love you! Happy Anniversary, Johnny, until we celebrate together again . . . Angie

April 18, 2011

Happy Birthday Big Johnny. We all miss you very much. Love John John and family.

Dominick & J ennie Carfi

April 17, 2011

Happy birthday Johnny! We miss you! Till we meet again cousin! Your family is always in our prayers.

April 15, 2011

Happy Birthday, John! I miss you so much. You are always in my heart and soul . . . too much! To the day we meet again and can once again celebrate this day together! I love you always . . . Angie

January 28, 2011

Happy 2011! I miss you so much. I hope you are resting and keeping a spot warm for me. I love you . . . too much! xoxoxo

December 16, 2010

Merry Christmas my love. I know you are going to celebrate it with Jesus this year, and I know your spirit is shining in all our Christmas lights and will shine in my heart forever. I love you . . . too much. <3 <3 <3

November 19, 2010

Daddy...havent written to you in a while. I love you so much... it wont ever stop....I miss you more with everyday that passes...I love you GeeGee...we are 7-2 right now :) I know youre so happy about it. xo
your little felish-y

September 9, 2010

love you . . .

christine jarvis

August 31, 2010

you are stronger then you feel,smarter then you think, and loved more then you will ever know!

your family has always help a speial place in my heart love is never ending!

christine jarvis

August 31, 2010

I love you guys you have always been a special part if my life and near or far the love continues to grow!

christine jarvis

August 31, 2010

August 31, 2010

One month today, Johnny. My heart will always belong to you. Love always, Angie

August 23, 2010

Hey Daddy..

I was walking through campus today and I can feel that Fall weather coming :) I know it was always your favorite...sweatshirt and cozy football weather...I love you so much..

August 20, 2010

I love you, Johnny. Your light will shine in my heart forever. Angie

August 10, 2010

Daddy,

Words will never, ever express how much i love you, but moreso; how much i miss you. You truly took a piece of my heart when you left me.

We have so many memories together that I will always hold close to my heart. Although you are not physically with me, i know you are here in spirit, in my heart, and in my memories.

I hope you are looking down and smiling with joy over how many people have expressed so much love for you.

I would give anything for just another minute, but I know you are up there in peace and awaiting this Jets season. Ill make sure to root extra hard for the both of us.

I will carry everything you have taughtme these past 23 years with me always. Please watch over our beautiful family. Our fabulous 4 will always remain...I love you Gee Gee, more than you know.

Love always,
Your Gee-Gee, little feleesh-y
Felicia Bianca

August 9, 2010

I miss you Johnny . . . you will always be the light and strength and love of my life . . . now you are my angel. Keep a space warm for me until we are together again. Too much . . . Angie

Debbie Guerrera-Villano

August 6, 2010

Angie,Just heard the news of John's passing.My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your Family. Although it has been many years... you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michelle and Angelo Amaranto

August 5, 2010

Dear Angie,

We are so sorry to hear about your husband. I would have been there at the wake but have been going crazy with my brother with the hospital, doctors and cat scans. That is where we have been for the last four days. Otherwise, we planned on being there for you. We are sending something through Lynda for you. We are thinking of you. Your husband looked so handsome. You were made for one another. He is looking down on you Angie. We love you.
Sending God's love your way.
Sincerely Michelle and Angelo Amaranto

August 4, 2010

Dear Rose, Angie, Liz, Ronnie, Karen and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely, Kristen (Lee and Joe's daughter)

ct health of southport

August 4, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the Valentino famliy.

Maria Marcoccia

August 4, 2010

Rose, Liz and Family,
Andy and I just heard of John's passing. We are so sorry to hear of this loss. We pray God will give all his loved ones strength and courage to get through this difficult time and may John always rest in peace.
Sincerely with all our love always,
Maria & Andy

Ronnie & Joni Fogle

August 4, 2010

Angie, Felicia & Frankie, you have our deepest sympathy on the loss of your precious John. May he now be resting peacefully.

Uncle Pete and Aunt Jennie Silano

August 3, 2010

Angie, Felicia, Frank, Rose, Liz, Ronny and families,
Johnny was a great nephew and will be greatly missed! I thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Dominick, Jennie, Carl and Kelly Carfi

August 3, 2010

Angie,Felicia,Frank,Zia Rose,Liz and Ronny and family,
It seems like yesterday we were all sitting under Grandpa and Grandma Silano's back yard under the grapevine,having fun together, eating, singing and enjoying each other! Johnny,I remember the way you ate your cereal with your hand wrapped around the box! You are a great cousin, I will miss your smile and your laugh! May you rest in peace! We will never forget you!! You will always hold a special place in our hearts! We will keep Johnny and his family in our thoughts and prayers.

August 3, 2010

Dear Angie and Family: Bess and I want to express our deepest sympathies for your loss of John. Just know that our prayers are with all of you. Eternal be his memory.
Bess and Sam Koutas Fairifled, CT

Roxanne Ruane

August 3, 2010

Dear Angie, Frank and Felicia,
I'm so sorry for your loss! Please know I keep John and you all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time! May your loving memories of your times together help you find peace in his rest.
Love and hugs! God bless you all!
xo Roxanne, Colin, Colin Jr, and Marshall Ruane

peter caluori

August 3, 2010

Angie and family im sorry for your loss.
i worked with john at ccl lable 10 years
a go he was a great guy soft spoken and never got mad. was fun to be around.

Christine S. Mansfield

August 3, 2010

Angie, Aunt Rose, Lizzie, Ronnie & Families,
Our love extends out to you. "Big John"'s smile lit the room -- whether he was telling a story or singing to Uncle Frank's accordion under my grandfather's grapevine. His presence just warmed the room - immediately -- and made everyone feel so welcome. We are just heartbroken for your loss and share his memories as pieces that will inspire us. Rest in peace, and God bless. Chrissy, Marty, Evan, Andrew and Patrice

O'Connell Family

August 3, 2010

Angie and Family,
Our prayers are with you and your family at this time. John is your special angel looking down on you and guiding you at all times.

Chad

August 3, 2010

Although I am not a member of the Valentino Family through blood relation, John, Angie, Frankie and Felicia have always done their best to make me feel as though I am. That is why I lost a family member as well when John passed away. Rest in peace, Mister Valentino. You will be sorely missed.

Lynda Marielle Christina

August 2, 2010

Dear Angie,Felicia,Frankie,We want you to know how sad we our for your loss. John was a great person. He will be missed. He can know watch over all of you. We love you. Lynda,Marielle,Christina

Lynda,Marielle,Christina

August 2, 2010

Dear Angie, Felicia, Frankie, our prayers and thoughts are with you. May John watch over all of you and keep you safe. He was a great person and we will truly miss him. We love you

Mary Jane Caron

August 2, 2010

What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. Each day we must try to be more kind,loving, gentle, patient, like Johnny was and he will smile down on us. We Love you dearly my sweet Johnny!
All our Love,
Mary Jane, Mark, Christian & Taylor

Toni Marie

August 2, 2010

Angie, Aunt Rose, Lizzie and Ronnie and kids, our hearts are with you at this most difficult time. John was a loving, wonderful person, always happy and fun to be around. My favorite memories of him include many piggy back rides and being in his wedding. His memory will always be with us. Love you all!

Frank Valentino

August 2, 2010

Rest in peace, Dad. I will always miss and love youmore than anything. Although you are gone, I will always hold a very special place for you in my heart. Please have a safe and happy journey up into heaven with Jesus and the great Lord.

Sienkiewicz

August 2, 2010

Although it is difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

With Love Always,
Steve, Phyllis, Krissy and Wendy

Cathy Paris

August 2, 2010

Rose & Family;
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.John is your Guardian Angel now and he will watch over everyone.
Antoinette Zangrilli & Family

August 2, 2010

Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. John was the nicest person; he never complained and was always very pleasant. He was our favorite patient. We will all miss him.


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