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Bhushan & Raka Gulati
October 1, 2011
We will always cherish the friendship and memories that we shared with you.
poovendhan
September 14, 2011
Dear periamma,
god will help you ,don't worry ,it was a big loss for our family,please come to india for your relaxation,take care bye!
always smiling ...
Gayathri Nagenthran
August 27, 2011
Navin Kumar
August 26, 2011
Dear Pandian Family,
It is very sad news to hear the loss of Uncle. I have heard from Murugan the type of person Uncle was, and seen first hand the type of person Uncle raised Murugan to be. The qualities of fairness, equality, justice, and calm temperance come to mind in both cases. Uncle has has left a positive and powerful legacy. He will be dearly remembered and greatly missed.
Danielle Jolly
August 25, 2011
Dear Lakshmi and Family,
Words cannot express how sad we feel knowing Raj is no longer physically with us on this earth. Honestly, it is still hard to believe. Raj was so very friendly, wise, considerate, loving, progressive, patient, gentle, welcoming, and the list goes on. I still remember Raj warm laughter. When he laughed it was like it came from the bottom of his stomach. Some of my favorite memories with Raj are:
Raj and Lakshmi invited me and John to have dinner in Baltimore. Unfortunately, John had to travel for work but I came and had dinner. During dinner, I kept thinking to myself “they really care about my wellbeing” Raj asked me about my program, my future educational goals, my career goals and my personal goals. He also asked questions about John just like a father would for his daughter. Even though I only knew Raj for a short time, he certainly has made a lasting impression. Some people ask questions to determine social status or just to know information but not always in a good way. Raj was not like that. When he asked questions, he listened patiently for you to you answer because he genuinely cared and wanted to offer and impart wisdom. He used every opportunity as a learning or teaching experience and for that I will always be appreciative.
My second favorite memory was on the same day when I came to dinner. He said “Danielle, look at Lakshmi, doesn’t she look beautiful in that sari (they just came back from the temple)? I asked her to keep it on and not change so you can see how beautiful she looks. I also want to share our culture with you since I know you are always curious”. At that time, he looked at Lakshmi with what I can guess to be the same admiration and adoration he did years ago. I asked God that day to please bless me so that my future husband can look at me that way even after many years of marriage.
My last but not least favorite memory of Raj was when I was confused about accepting or declining a job offer. Again, he patiently listened to all the pros and cons I thought up and simply said “ You are very smart and talented. Take your time and the right opportunity will come. You don’t have to worry about a name. Just try your best and get good experience. You can bring value to any place you go. You always work so hard and it will work out for you”.
So it is with much sadness that we had to see him go but I am so very thankful that he was a part of all of our lives in such a positive way. He will certainly live on in each and every one of us in one way or the other and for that we are grateful.
August 24, 2011
Dear Lakshmi, Murugan, Ananth:
We all are very sadden upon hearing of Raj's passing. It leaves us with heavy hearts. He will always be remembered as a cheerful and caring soul who loved his family and friends very much. We feel your loss and pray that all the good memories with Raj will provide you with comfort.
~Robert Granell Family
August 23, 2011
Dear Lakshmi and Family,
Joe and I are so sorry for the loss of your loving husband and father. It was a privilege to know Raj; his kindness and wisdom has made an impression on us all and will live on in your hearts forever. May we always be friends. Love, Dagmar and Joe
Uthayakumar S
August 23, 2011
Dear Mathini, Murugan and Anand,
It is hard to believe that our beloved Maharaj annan has left us. I know the loss you have suffered is irreplaceable, but I too am haunted by the memories I have gathered from so many years. I have always looked up to him and he has always been an older brother to me and helped me and guided me throughout my life.
After high school, when I was clueless about my next move he took me under his wings. Later when he got admission to do his Ph D in the US, on his way at Madras, he chose to stay with me at my hostel room, instead of choosing a comfortable hotel. And I still remember the four of you coming all the way to the airport to receive me when I first landed in New York.
I remember a line he wrote from Madras to his good friend, Chellasay annan, on the day of Diwali, away from all friends and relatives, when he had no place to visit or no one to celebrate with. “Today is Diwali, for us, it is just another day.” I am sure he would have laughed as he wrote that line. He didn’t despair when things were not going well, he persisted and persevered.
I can’t believe we will never see him again. Yet we must carry on. We must treasure all the love and wisdom he imparted us and remember he is with us, he lives within us. The best way to honor him is to remember him and live a good life as he would have always wanted of us.
Affectionately,
Uthayakumar
Betty Sheky
August 23, 2011
Dear Athai,Murugan&Ananth,
I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family.I want to share my heartfelt CONDOLENCES with you.
Let his soul rest in PEACE in the feet of ALMIGHTY.
Have courage to face the situation
we are all with you in sharing your irreparable loss, which no words can fill in.
I pray to the Lord Almighty to give you courage,strength and support...
love,
Betty.
Velmurugan Mohanasundaraneru
August 23, 2011
Dear Chitti, Murugan and Ananth
I know this is a very sad and difficult time for us.We share the grief in this profound loss.
He was such a kind soul, who will be greatly missed by all of us.
May God rest his soul in peace and give us the strength to bear the loss of him.
In loving memory of Chitappa
Velmurugan
Sumathi Srinivasan
June 24, 2011
Pandian Family: Our deepest condolences. Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear the news. Our sincere prayers will always be there for you.
Muthulakshmi and Maharaj took care of me so well when I first came to this country, the numerous rides you have given me to the grocery shop and spending good time. You have always given me encouraging words when I have called you when my kids were growing up. May HE give you the strength and guidance. Ram and Sumathi (California)
May 18, 2011
Dear sister,
I am very sorry for your loss. God has given you strength and fill the gap left by Aththan.
With prayer,
Mrs.Stella, Chennai.
May 13, 2011
Raj was a valued colleague and always a bright shining star in any room he was in. I will always remember how easy it was to be with him. He laughed often and smiled always and was a talented scientist as well.
My deepest and sincerest condolences to his family and friends.
David Gelardi @ IBM
Alexander Lipatov
April 30, 2011
We are very sorry with unexpected death of our collaborator Dr. Maharaja C. Pandian.
We have a great impression with collaboration with Raj on MPI implementation of 3D Fluid-particle code (Projects Solar Probe Plus, Titan and Europa) during the period of time beginning from Fall 2009. We have missed him. On behalf of our team (673-672-6700) Alexander S. Lipatov, Prof. D.Sc.
April 30, 2011
Dear Lakshmi, Murugan and Ananth,
Our hear felt condolenses for the loss. Our prayers are with all of you
Murthy , Sujatha, Sravana and Kalyan
Jules Kouatchou
April 29, 2011
To The Pandian Family:
I am sorry for your loss and I wish you courage and strength in this difficult time.
I was privilege to have Raj as an office mate when he started working at NASA. He was very kind to me. One thing that I remember the most is that he was constantly asking how my son was doing and was always encouraging me to spend time with my son. On Friday, April 15, 2011 at about 4:45 p.m., I was in the rush to go home. I passed by Raj's office thinking that I will be unnoticed. He stopped me and asked me to come over to his office and we talked. He was smiling (as he used to do) and wished me a happy weekend. That was the last moment I had with him. I am deeply sorry that he is gone...
I wish you well.
Hamid Oloso
April 28, 2011
Dear Lakshmi, Murugan and Ananth,
As a colleague who worked closely with Raj at NASA, I knew him to be humble, thoughtful, smart and very fond of his family. I wish you the fortitude and the patience to bear the loss of this fine person.
Tom Clune
April 27, 2011
Dear Family and Friends of Raj,
My heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Raj will be deeply missed at NASA, not least for his consistently optimistic and cheerful personality. I'm sure that all those whose lives that he touched will feel the same.
April 27, 2011
Dear Lakshmi,
Mom and I are deeply sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with all of you.
Helen and Bonnie Hansen
Ying NCCS
April 27, 2011
Raj,
Rest in peace, It was a shocking news when I heard this morning from another NASA colleague.
We hardly know each other but we often met in the same building. I will miss you at the lunch time when we used to share the same microwave.
April 27, 2011
Dear Lakshmi and Family - Kip and I are very saddened for the loss of our friend Raj. We valued our time with you and Raj when we came back to New York for a visit. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lakshmi, you are a very dear friend and we send you our love and deepest sympathy.
Kip and Carol
April 27, 2011
Radha and Swamy will miss Raj who is a valued colleague for over 25 years and a great friend. Our prayers are with you.
April 26, 2011
Dearest Pandian Family,
Rupal, Deepak and family will miss this great person, and we wish that we all remember his great personality for ever. Our prayers are with you,
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