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Thad Kincaid Obituary

CHATHAM - Thad L. Kincaid, 48, of Chatham died Monday, Oct. 15, 2007 at his home.

He was born May 9, 1959, in Springfield to John F. and Betty Jean Lounsberry Kincaid. He married Lorie Houpt on March 10, 2002.

Mr. Kincaid was a carpenter who was known for his excellent workmanship. He also did flooring for Arizona Tile Co.

He is survived by his wife, Lorie; sons, Adam of Lincoln, Neb., and Matthew (fiancee, Elizabeth Remp) of Springfield; daughters, Michelle Kincaid of Springfield, Cindy (husband, Patrick) Casassa of Chatham, Kayli (husband, Tyler) Loafman and Jenna Bachman, all of Springfield; mother, Betty Kincaid of Springfield; sisters, Gyl Kincaid (husband, Joseph Malczyk) and Crisan (husband, Jack) Houston of Springfield; brother, Jaime (wife, Karen) Kincaid of Springfield; grandchildren, Kaylyn and Natalie Casassa, London and (soon to be born) Brook Lyn Loafman; and several aunts, nieces and cousins.

His family will greet friends from 3 p.m. until the time of services at 7 p.m. Thursday, Oct. 18, 2007, at Staab Polk Memorial Home, 201 S. Main St., in Chatham, with Pastor Ed Ingram officiating the services. Cremation rites will be accorded by Cremation Services of Central Illinois.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Association.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Press on Oct. 17, 2007.

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paul and sue greenwood

October 23, 2007

Gyl, Joe and Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Benjamin and Tanya Davitt

October 23, 2007

Adam, Matt, Michelle and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Thad's goodness and grace will never be forgotten. Please know you are all in our hearts and prayers.

The O'Briens

October 22, 2007

Gyl, Joe and family:

We send our deepest sympathies for your loss. You're all in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Constantino

October 21, 2007

Cris and Jack,

My deepest sympathy to you during this difficult time.

Nancy Constantino

Estella Merz

October 21, 2007

Crisan and Jack,

I'm so sorry about your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My prayers will be with you.

Aunt Coots

Kathy & Mike Hughes

October 21, 2007

Gyl,Joe and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

norma hinkle

October 20, 2007

Crisan,Jack,Kimberly and Kayla
I know you have some wonderful memories of the times when you were together through out the years.I pray they will help you through this time of your loss,my prayers are with all of you.
love to you all,
Norma

Dawn & Sarto Greenwood

October 19, 2007

Gyl,Joe & Family,
We were very sad to hear of your loss. May you find strength in the memories of your brother. Know you are in our thoughts.

Edie LeMasters

October 19, 2007

Crisan, Jack & Kincaid family & Thad's kids: My deepest sympathy goes to you all. I can't imagine the pain you are going through. I pray that God will comfort you and give you strength to get through this sad time. In Christ's Love,

Ginny Rhoades

October 19, 2007

Jaime, Karen & Katie,
I just heard about Thad. I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and all of your family, Jaime. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love to you three!

Jennifer Ford

October 19, 2007

Jaime, Karen & Kaitlin - We are so sorry for you loss. You are in our prayers.
- James, Jennifer, Calvin & Sam

Jane Malczyk

October 19, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you find comfort in God's love and the love of your family & friends during this time of sorrow.

Lynn (Goldesberry) Paice

October 18, 2007

Gyl and family: I was very saddened to learn of your loss. You are all in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Michael Logsdon

October 18, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Naomi Downing

October 18, 2007

To Thad's family:

I am so saddened to hear of your loss. I asked Karen to sign this book for me since I don't get out now. I wanted you to know that I will remember you in my prayers always. I have known your entire family for so many years and have many good memories of each of you. Naomi Downing

Randall Mead

October 18, 2007

"We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destoyed. We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that eht elife of jsus may also be revealed in our body." 2 Cor. 4:8-10. Thad is with our savior. We suffer his loss here and now but can rejoice in our coming reunion with him in Christ Jesus.

Marcia Musick

October 18, 2007

Betty and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Thad from Knox. I have a picture of Thad holding Mark at a Scout outing back in the 70's. He will be missed but he is with Jack and my Leonard and all are at Peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Judi (Whelen) Marshall

October 17, 2007

From my whole family to yours: Words cannot express how sorry we feel for your loss.Growing up I can remember him always being nice to his younger sisters friends when we stayed the night, or when him and Jamie would wrestle on the living room floor. As you grieve take comfort in knowing you will see him again in heaven.

Josh and Amber Piller

October 17, 2007

We love you guys and are so sorry for your loss. We, as well as our entire church, are praying for you.

Marilyn Thomas

October 17, 2007

Dear Betty and family, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please except our deepest sympathy. You were a special neighbor for many years. God bless and keep you and your family during this trying time.
Sincerely, Paul and Erna Suter

D.J., Kathy, & Jay II Samuel Homes

October 17, 2007

It has been an honor and a pleasure for us to work closely with Thad the past five years. His excellent craftmanship as a carpenter is evident in all the houses he built for us. We will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of grief.

Delores Diefenbach

October 17, 2007

Betty & family,
I was so sorry to hear this news from my Mom&Dad(Ed&Jane Charles). I only got to see him at the annual Kincaid/Chezem reunions at Bob & Bette's, but I do remember him fondly. You & your family are in my thoughts & I am praying that you all find some comfort in your faith, God's love & your treasured memories of Thad.
Sincerely,
Delores(Charles)Diefenbach

Mike and Vickie Landess

October 17, 2007

Dear Kincaid Family,
Thad was a great guy. Mike and I will always remember him in our prayers.

Sharon Nichols

October 17, 2007

Dear Betty and family:

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I have so many wonderful memories of Thad, especially when we were younger and I spent as much time in your home as I did in my own. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of grief. With deepest sympathy and love to all of you.

Aaron Davitt

October 17, 2007

Betty and family -
We were very sad to hear of your loss and keep you all in our prayers. Thad was in our family a short time but will always be remembered.
- Aaron and Jennie Davitt

Karen Downing-Apostol

October 17, 2007

Dear Betty and family,
My prayers are with each of you. I fondly remember Thad from the time he was a little boy at my wedding in Knox. Although I cannot fully understand your grief, I know that losing a son would be so difficult. I have known all of you so many years and treasure many memories. God grant you peace and strength now and forever. I care for you. Love, Karen Downing-Apostol

Gabrielle Schwemmer

October 17, 2007

Even though I am not able to be with the family during this sorrowful time, I am with you in spirit and prayer. Love to you all.
Gabrielle (Gagnon) Schwemmer

irma knoles

October 17, 2007

Lorie,
I am sorry for your lost and please know you are in our prayers.
Jeffrey & Irmalou Knoles
(from CCTC)

Shane Guernsey

October 17, 2007

I am sorry for your loss. Thad was a good soul and a generous man.

Curt Moffitt

October 17, 2007

I am sorry for the loss of Thad. He was a good man. We will do whatever the family needs at this time.

D Songer

October 17, 2007

I did not know Thad but knowing he was much like his brother Jaime-he had to be a very special and caring person who was loved by so many. My heart goes out to his family and many friends. The Kincaid family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Katie Keller

October 17, 2007

Though Thad was part of our family for a short period of time, he will always be a part of our hearts. Our prayers are with Thad's family.
With deep sympathy,
Katie Baumgart Keller
Clarkdale, Arizona

Sandra Walk-Walden

October 17, 2007

Thad will be greatly missed by all of his friends from Southeast High School Class of 1977. We all enjoyed seeing him at the reunion in June, and we are deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Our hearts and prayers are with Lorie and his entire family.

Rebecca Rising

October 17, 2007

My prayers are with all of you. Though I'm not with you, my heart and love are. Myself, my "children" and my grandchildren will always hold loving memories of Thad in our hearts and family.

Nancy Alsman

October 17, 2007

My sympathy goes to all of Thad's family. I have known you all for many years. Nothing hurts more than to loose a child. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all. Nancy Alsman..Effingham, IL

tyler turnbull

October 17, 2007

sorry for your loss

Mary Bringle

October 17, 2007

Dear Betty,
So sorry for your lose. You and your family are in our prays.
Don & Mary Margaret (Smith) Bringle

Jaime and Ryan Houle (and girls)

October 17, 2007

Thad will be greatly missed by all that knew him. He was a kind and generous man. There will never be enough kind words to say about him. He truly meant the world to everyone of us that had the opportunity to know him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family; for their comfort and closure.
All our love and support,

Andrew Selvaggio

October 17, 2007

My sympathies go out to the Kincaid family during their time of sorrow. Although I did not know Thad, I have come to know several of his family members and know that he must have been a special person as each of them are. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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