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Matthew Vandergrift Obituary
Marion, formerly of Webster: Tragically in a car accident, Saturday, March 7, 2020, age 37. He leaves his wife, Andrea; his two children whom he loved dearly and who made him so proud, Ash Matthew and Alivia Skye; parents, James (Luanne) Vandergrift and Janet (Daniel) Vespone; mother-in-law, Sandy Occor; siblings, Amy (Alex Donk) Vandergrift, Joshua (Jeanette) Vandergrift, Linnaea (Jesse) Nifong, as well as step-brothers and sisters, Vanessa, Carissa, Brianna, Benjamin, and Samuel; brother-in-law, Rex Ocorr; nieces and nephews, Wyatt, Bryce, and Grayson Vandergrift, Jack, Audrey, and Evelyn Nifong; grandparents, Daniel and Carolyn Corretore; many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. He is predeceased by grandparents; Gary and Carol Vandergrift; father-in-law, Jeff Ocorr.
A US Army Veteran of Charlie Company 1st Battalion, 187th Infantry Regiment, RAKKASAN 101st Airborne, Matthew served in Operation Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan. He worked as a foreman for Tambe Electric.
He will be remembered for his love of family, military service, loyalty, competitive spirit, sense of humor, and infectious smile. You will be forever loved Matthew.
Friends may call 2-4, 6-8 PM Thursday, March 12, at Willard H. Scott Funeral Home, 12 South Ave., Webster. Memorial Service 10:00 AM Saturday, March 14, at Webster Presbyterian Church, 550 Webster Rd., Webster. Memorials may be directed to Wounded Warriors Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675, or Fund for Matthew Vandergrift's Children, c/o Canandaigua National Bank, 1155 Ridge Rd., Webster, NY 14580.
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Grandma....
March 8, 2022
Always in our hearts and mind... Take care of Papa for me until I get there !!
Brandon
March 24, 2020
We will never forget You Brother
nicole vespone
March 13, 2020
So sorry
Matthew Shoup
March 11, 2020
You will always be in my heart. Ill miss you as I do other who have gone. We had some great times and I cannot wait for more in the next level
Greg
March 11, 2020
Brother you are going to be missed. It was an honor serving by your side. My prayer is for your family to be comforted during this most difficult time.
Terry Van
March 11, 2020
We had the pleasure of meeting Matt several years ago when he came to our house. Since we already knew Amy, we remarked about the family resemblance! He was so polite and easy to talk to. He had an infectious smile that would definitely make him stand out in a crowd. We are deeply saddened by this tragedy and send love and prayers to the entire family. God has another angel in heaven watching over us all. Hold on to all the cherished memories and keep Matt in your heart forever ❤He knows how much he was loved!
Reginald Murray
March 11, 2020
RIP my Rakkasans Brother true warrior you are til we form again
Dick and Diana Marchner
March 11, 2020
Our hearts are broken but we know you will always be watching over Andrea, Ash and Alivia always and forever ! We love you Matt (and Papa showed you his love in a special and secret way...)
Colleen Pickett
March 11, 2020
I'm so sorry for your loss
Aaron Weiskopff
March 10, 2020
I didn't know Matthew, I had only met him once last year at the family Clam Bake. But I see how affected Carissa and the rest of the family are by the loss of this very important part of the Vandergrift family. I too lost a brother so I know that pain, and I offer my condolences to all of the family.
Joe Rosen
March 10, 2020
The best man and friend I've ever met or known I will miss you alot bro love ya and I will see you again one day
Alyssa
March 10, 2020
I knew Matt for a short period of time. But, every moment I had the pleasure of spending with him was awesome. His sense of humor brought the mood up in every room he entered, and his smile was infectious. Thank you, Matt, for bringing happiness to all who entered your life.
Tara Howell
March 10, 2020
So sorry for your loss. He was a good man. Thank you for your service Matt.
Peter belmont
March 10, 2020
I have no words. My heart is broken. Working almost every saturday with you for 8 years and having a chance to be your friend is a memory I will never forget. Fly high my friend. We weren't blood, but you'll always be my brother. Til we meet again on the other side.
Lauri Aquino
March 10, 2020
Janet, I can still remember you bringing Matthew over to my parent's house to slide down the hill for his very first time! I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to his wife, children and all of the extended family.
April 2010
Kimberly Salisbury
March 10, 2020
Matt was my daughter's T-ball coach when she was in Kindergarten. He was great with all the kids - patient and kind as he would teach them how to swing, throw and catch. My daughter now enjoys playing HS Softball, and even though Matt only coached her that one year, I have no doubt that having a coach as patient and kind as Matt to introduce her to swinging a bat definitely played a role in her enjoying it enough to keep going. Rest in peace, Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with Andrea, Ash and Alivia.
David &
March 10, 2020
He always made you laugh, so many good times. He will be missed always.
Scott (Scully) Learch
March 10, 2020
So very sad to hear about Matt (Frenchie). Much Love and Prayers being sent your way .
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