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Wayne A. Goates

1927 - 2020

Wayne A. Goates obituary, 1927-2020, Salt Lake City, UT

Wayne Goates Obituary

Wayne A Goates
1927 - 2020
Wayne A Goates passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones on Sunday, 26 April 2020. He was born on 3 September 1927 at Lehi, Utah, to Herman Calvin and Maesa LaRee (Anderson) Goates. He spent his youth in Lehi working with his father, mother and siblings on the family sugar beet and poultry farm. He graduated from Lehi High School in 1945 where he was involved in dramatics and music. He served in the Army, being posted in Korea with the occupation forces during 1946 and early 1947, receiving an honorable discharge in May 1947.
Shortly after his military service, he was called as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the New England Mission where he served faithfully, spending nearly half of his two-year mission doing "country work" and traveling without purse or script. Upon returning from his mission, he studied at Brigham Young University, where he majored in Agronomy, and received a Bachelor of Science degree in 1952. While there, Wayne was involved in the Delta Phi returned missionary group, where he sang in its chorus and participated in a concert tour through local western states. It was during that concert tour that he met the love of his life, Carol Goaslind. After singing in Preston, Idaho, where Carol lived and was caring for her parents, he, with other members of the chorus, attended a local dance. One of Wayne's friends spotted a beautiful woman with whom he wanted to dance; but he was shorter than her so he asked Wayne to cut-in part way through the dance. Wayne and Carol danced that dance together, as well as every dance following. On their first date, they finished the evening talking about their marriage. They both knew when they met that they would be eternal companions.
Wayne and Carol were married in the Salt Lake Temple on 2 October 1952. Their marriage was an equal union built on faith, righteous principles, service, caring, hard work, integrity, patience, respect, kindness, and love. Together they started a family and legacy.
Early in their marriage, Wayne pursued additional education at the University of Utah, where he earned a Master of Science degree in 1955 with majors in Biology and Zoology, and with a minor in Ornithology. He started his career as a teacher of Biology and Zoology at Olympus High School in 1953 and he continued working there through his entire 40-year career. His first 13 years were in teaching; thereafter he worked as a guidance counselor. Wayne was respected at Olympus for his quality and competence, but was known for his sense of humor, devotion, and true concern for the students. Near the end of his career, he was recognized by the State of Utah for his exceptional work in education and for the vast number of lives that he had influenced.
Wayne was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served in several bishoprics, including as a bishop, was a high councilor, stake missionary, and served as a stake executive secretary for more than 21 years. He also served faithfully in numerous other callings. Wayne was also a temple worker in the Salt Lake and Jordan River temples for more than 20 years. Through his actions, he consistently demonstrated his love for the Lord, and he set a wonderful example for all who knew him.
Wayne is survived by his daughters, Debra Lynn (Martin) Hill and Janet (Marcel) Davidson; sons Kent Wayne (Arlene) Goates and Robert Todd (Cynthia) Goates; brother Morris (Kathryn) Goates; 21 grandchildren, and 58 great grandchildren. He was preceded in his death by his parents, a brother (Calvin), sister (LaRee) and wife, Carol.
The family would like to thank Christie, Richard and the other caregivers at Symbii Home Health & Hospice for their loving assistance, counsel and understanding during the last few months of Wayne's life. They were able to enjoy him as the family and others did - as a kind, gentle man with a keen sense of humor.
A graveside service will be held on 1 May 2020 at 11:00am. Family and friends can join the service through the Jenkins-Soffe Facebook page. When circumstances allow, a family-and-friends-get-together celebrating Wayne's life and legacy will be held. Condolences can be shared with the family at www.jenkins-soffe.com. In Lieu of flowers the family requests that you please donate to a charity of your choice.

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Published by Deseret News from Apr. 29 to May 3, 2020.

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May 7, 2020

What a great man. I never saw him when he wasn't pleasant to be around.

Brent Scharman

Steve Wright

May 3, 2020

My respect and condolences to the family of this great person who exemplified love to all he met. I was never blessed to have him as a teacher at Olympus (Class of '61), but Mr. Goates was one of those wonderful teachers who you knew loved loved the students. His annual "hike" of his pantlegs to display his school-spirit socks was looked forward to with anticipation and warmth. A true Titan-just a little older. Thank you, family, for sharing him with Olympus for so many years.

May 2, 2020

I had the rare opportunity to know Wayne both as a student and as a a ward member. He was my advisor in the Key Club and gave us great insight in serving the student body of Olympus. I also had the privilege to know him as a great leader in the Ward. He will truly be missed by everyone in the Ward and Stake. We are sorry for your loss but know that Carol is glad to have him with her. Geoff Colton

The Artie Lance Family

May 2, 2020

Wayne was a great man, neighbor and friend. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathy and David Peterson

May 1, 2020

We are grateful for Wayne's examples of hard work, love and service. He was a blessing to our neighborhood and community. Love to his family

Steve and Liz Doxey

May 1, 2020

Wayne Goates, our dear friend, is a hero of ours. He is faithful, gentle, and Christlike, as described in the wonderful graveside service. When we first moved into the Holladay 3rd Ward 28 years ago, he was still grieving Carol's passing. Yet we observed how Wayne went out of his way to comfort and support Wayne Volz, our neighbor who had recently lost his wife. Wayne is humility personified. We will always remember and revere him. We're so glad he has been reunited with Carol, and send our best to his remarkable family!

Chuck Alvey

May 1, 2020

To the Wayne Goates family, remembering all the fun times we had together. Our Third ward activities, youth conference in the Uintah Mountains and breakfast in Milcreek Canyon on the 4th of July. The great times we had as friends and neighbors. We will miss our association to say the least.

Chuck Alvey and Family

April 30, 2020

Dear Janet,

I am sorry to hear that you're missing your father. My sympathies. I'm happy to hear that it was peaceful and that you were together.

Fun to hear about Lehi! Our family was in sugar beets as well there at the Lehi mill. That is a wonderful bio of your dad; I'm sure he loves it.

It's been forever since we've spoken, but I remember our days in school together fondly. Sending all my best wishes!

Jamie Omer

Trisha Snarr Beck

April 30, 2020

My mother, Harriet Snarr, spoke very highly of "Mr. Goates." They worked for many years together at Olympus High School. I know she considered him a dear friend. Sorry for your loss, but I want you to know that he left an amazing legacy in all that he did. Best to you, Trisha Snarr Beck

Edwin and Debbie Buchanan

April 29, 2020

So sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. He was a great friend, neighbor and bishop. I have wonderful memories of him while in the Holladay 3rd ward and while attending Olympus High School. He will truly be missed. May the Lord bless his family at this time.

April 29, 2020

I would imagine that any memory Mr. Goates would have had of me would be a difficult one. Yet, I always knew that he cared. I wish I could have shared with him that I went into education as a second career in my 30s, eventually earning my MEd. in my 50s. He was a formidable gentle giant.

Anna Harper

April 29, 2020

Anna and the family of the late Richard G. Harper extend our sincere condolences on the passing of Wayne. Dick worked with Wayne at Olympus for many years and Dick often expressed his respect and appreciation for Wayne. He was a wonderful teacher and colleague.

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