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Boardman
March 16, 2025
Will always remember you with loving thoughts, Joe. Laura & Dennis
Boardmans
March 17, 2023
Still think of you often, Joe. Can´t believe it has been 17 years but that is how fast time goes. You are still in our thoughts and hearts.
Love Dennis and Laura
Laura and Dennis
March 16, 2020
We still think of you often, Joe. Your fishing days with Dennis, the kids school, games, and our day to day life. Peace and love.
Laura Boardman
March 16, 2019
On this 13th anniversary of your passing Joe you are still in our thoughts and hearts. Laura & Dennis B.
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Doug Lobao
April 13, 2006
Joe-Mel; It has taken some time to dry my eyes and except your loss.I think of all the crazy and funny things that we did at work and play and it always brings a smile to my face,but always ends with a tear in my eye. You will always be special to all you have left behind and it has been a real treasure to have spent a good amount of time with you. You have taught us alot, like how to grow the best grass, plant the right flowers and shrubs, but most of all you taught us how to laugh. I will miss you always and think of you often,a smile to the face and a tear to the eye. All I ask, is for you to save me a seat with your family and friends, because it will be comforting to know you will be there when I arrive. I will plant a tree in my yard to honor you, and I will never forget you, your cousin Doug. Pam,Tiff and Joe; I am truly sorry for your loss,and if I can be of any comfort to you now and in the future please don't hesitate to ask.
Janet King
April 8, 2006
Memories of you, Joe, will always be memories of Olde Salt Village and Kinney Shores. Meeting you on the beach those many years ago was one of the best things that ever happened in our lives. Your love for Maine and the beach made a connection with us that can never be broken. It is because of you and Pam that we moved our family here and raised our children in this gorgeous seacost town. All of Jon and Sam's childhood memories have a piece of you in them....always. Your laughter, your love for children, and your big heart, always looking for ways to help someone out and make someone else feel special, will be things about you that will permanently rest in my heart.
You were Dave's buddy...he LOVED the knocks on our door Sunday mornings....with a beverage to start the warm summer day...all he ever did was laugh when he was with you. He truly LOVED you Joe.
You cared so deeply for so many people Joe...a guy like you only comes along once in a lifetime...We are so glad you came along into ours.
Janet
Jeff Lobao
April 8, 2006
Dear Pam,Tiffany & Joseph,
As I sit here reading all the incredible things about Joey, I started remembering all of the great times I had working with him when I was just a kid mowing lawns and cutting down trees. He gave me my real first job and and I must say there was always laughter when we did. I suppose that was his gift, laughter, and never a dull moment for sure.
Memories are what we now have and they are all great. Until we see him again, and we will, rest assured, they will keep us all moving forward in our lives.
Joey will be forever in our prays.
Love,
Jeff, Dorothy, Heather and Ashley
Irene Lobao
April 3, 2006
Dear Pam,Tiffany & Joseph,
No words can really express my profound sadness of Joey's death and there is nothing I can say right now that will ease your aching hearts. My generation is the one whom the Lord should be calling home, not yours.
When Henry was very sick and nearly at the end, Joey and I had a long talk in my back yard on death and dying. If it is any consolation to you, he said that he was not afraid to die because he strongly believed in God and life after death.
In time your heartache for Joey will occupy a part of your heart but your love for him will take over a bigger part.That part will give you the memories and courage to go on with your lives and live them to the fullest as Joey would have liked you to.
On a genteler note, I will miss the phone calls that always began with " Hello Aunt the sun is shining and the temperture is 85 " ( while we were in the middle of our cold winter )And to add fuel to the fire, " Tell Uncle John I'm planting my second crop of tomatoes " He loved Florida and the tempo of his life there.
God keep you,Joey, in His warm embrace.
Pam, Tiffany, & Joseph we are so sorry and we love you.
Aunt Irene
Janet/Dave King
April 2, 2006
Dear Pam, JoJo and Tiff...
Every time I try and write something in this guestbook, I break down crying because my heart aches for all of you so much and the loss you feel. I hope before this book closes I will have the strength to write all that I want you to know about what Joe meant to Dave and I as well as to Jon and Sam. We are all crushed at the thought of not seeing him in a few weeks but will be there to give you all the support you need to help celebrate Tiff's special day. We LOVE you so much and miss you terribly.
Jean & John Testaverde
April 2, 2006
MY FRIEND "JOE"
We met about 35 years ago, while working on a local political campaign. He was a fellow "portigee", so we immediately connected. Working with Joe made the campaign more fun. Happily we got ourselves a winner!!!
And so the campaign ended-----but our long and good friendship began----through this friendship John and I went to many family parties and get togethers with Joe and Pam.
The years went by and my husband and Joe became the very best of friends---even so that Joe asked John to be Godfather to his son, Joseph. Joe was a very hard working man
with his own landscaping business. He would often visit us at our home and bring his Mom, Dad, and sometimes his sisters.
As time passed, we each were busy with our own lives---but we always made time for phone calls. Then one day Joe and his family moved to Florida. He had his share of struggles with life as we all do, but always made time to enjoy and laugh.
I can recall many a wintry stormy day, sitting home with my husband; and a call would come from Joe in Florida. "How's the weather up there, he would say with a laugh!!!
Warm and Sunny down here"; and we would chat and again smiles came to our faces.
Joe loved life-----loved his family, his wife, Pam; daughter, Tiffany; and son, Joseph; and loved and respected his friends.
Then one day a call came from Florida. It was Pam. Joe had suffered a serious heart attack; he was critical and dying.
Just in the prime of his life; living in the place he loved, and overcoming a struggle in his life. God took Joe home--home to his Mom and Dad and brother who had all passed away.
And John and I were devastated that our very best friend was gone. Joe taught us the true meaning of friendship; of always being there for us at any time if we needed him-----no questions asked. He gave us laughter and joy. He gave us a special gift; a gift of Love;
and for that we will be eternally grateful.
We will miss Joe Mello; We will keep his friendship forever; and we will always
remember this "wonderful friend". xo Jean
Kendall Kravchuk
April 1, 2006
Uncle Joe was an amazing person to so many people. He was the type of person who could walk into a room full of strangers and leave w/ all new friends. After hearing about how many people showed up to his service in Florida and after seeing all the people at his service here in MA today, I realized just how many peoples lives Uncle Joe has touched. In fact Justin and I were joking that we were scared that not even a quarter of the amount of people would show up to our own funerals and that we promise to higher extra's for each other so that we look like we had half as many friends as Uncle Joe. His sense of humor and spirit was something that always allowed us to get through all the tough times this family has experienced during the past years and now during yet another tragedy, his sense of humor is what I miss the most. I've taken his death really hard, and its been very difficult for me to reach out. Aunt Pam, Tiff and Joe...this may sound redundent by now but I am always here for you if you need anything. I look forward to our families staying close through this loss and my heart goes out to every one of you. I love you all very much and I'm so very, very sorry.
jesse kravchuk
March 31, 2006
uncle joe is unlike anyone who I have ever met before, and there will never be anyone to compare to him. he was the most charismatic fun loving off the wall, generally nice person person that i will ever meet. I was lucky enough to work for him for a few summers and got to now him better, driving around in the back of his blue truck he always knew somebody on the road and would stop to talk to other " north american lawn apes " he knew his job well and was good at it just the same way he was good at being a uncle and a father, I truly regret not getting down to see you and your family in florida, I think if you are to judge a persons life it should not be by money or accomplishments, but how many people's lives you have touched and affected positively, my uncle joe lived a very spiritually rich life and he will be remembered and missed by all that know him
Lara de Oliveira
March 30, 2006
This is a poem I wrote for Joe Mello:
As I lay down beside him
As he spoke his final words
There it was, bursting through the gate
There was a moment’s stillness
It penetrated through the door
Never seeming to want to stop
A beautiful light gleaming down on him and me
I felt as if there was comfort all among us
Suddenly I realized, this was no dream
This was an angel, casting her light upon us
Her hand now on my shoulder
Gave me a disseminating warmth I had never felt
I then realized that the angel was here to take him away, although his duty was not completely fulfilled
I, with tears trickling down my cheek, would have to believe he was gone
I all alone in the room sat hearing the repeating words: He is not dead, he will never die, he can never die, and he has not left me
His body has simply let him free
I still had emptiness in my heart
It was just so hard to part
Until I thought: if he is happy
Then I should be happy too.
While we, on this side, are in pain
Those, on the other side, are cheering for the new arrival of a wonderful man
Written by: Lara de Oliveira 11 years old
Emily Madruga
March 30, 2006
Uncle Joe,
I miss you soo much, more then anything right now, I love you. You were the best uncle that a girl could ask for. Everyone is missing you right now, it is really hard for everyone up here. My mom misses you, Casey, Dad, Kendall, Justin, Jesse, even Trav. I remember last time you were up here you told me and Justin that you would be our replacement godfather because we had lost Uncle Henry, I will never forget that. It meant the world to me and I know it did to Justin too. Trav misses you too. He had been calling me a lot, asking when you were coming up, he couldn't wait to see you again. There are so many memories I will never forget, so many good times and bad times, but they were all worth having. I'll never forget how you used to rip off our dolls heads, I'll never forget this summer when I came to visit, it brought me even closer to the whole family. The only thing that comforts me is that you are once again with Uncle Henry and Gramps and Gram. Say hi to them for us, let them know we love them. I love you soo much Uncle Joe, you are always always in my heart.
Aunt Pam, Joe and Tiff,
I can't explain how horrible I feel for you. I love you guys, our family is a family that no one can outdo. We have been through a lot but we still stay strong. Tiff, I know this is hard especially now, but you will be a beautiful bride and Uncle Joe will be watching, always.
Joe, a lot has happened and I love you too. Stay strong, if you need anything call me or email me. I'm your little cousin but if you need advice sometimes I'm good at it.
Aunt Pam I love you so much. Stay strong, my family will help you through anything you need. Even I will, I can't do that much but I will do anything.
I love you guys more then words can describe, stay strong, call us for guidance and I will see you soon.
*Time is not what you think. Dying? Not the end of everything. We think it is. But what happens on earth is only the beginning.*
Inez de Oliveira
March 30, 2006
Hey,
I still can't imagine that Joe is past away. I just think about the first time I met Joe in Joanne's house for dinner. I remember when I was walking into the house, I heard a loud cheerful laugh;Joe(of coarse). He was totally friendly about everything and very open. I feel as if I've known Joe for many many years; I wish I did. Whenever I came to Joe and Pam's house to visit, you made me feel totally welcome. I always asked my mom if I could go to Joe's house, because no matter what I did I always had fun. He always had something to talk about with everyone. I enjoyed just sitting outside,with Burton and Joe,playing fetch.
If I get a dad,I hope he will be nearly as amazing as Joe was to me.
Little Joe,your so lucky to of had a dad as fantastic as Joe was. I'm sure your years of growing up with Joe as your father has been awesome. He definatly brought up an amazing son.
I don't know his daughter,but hopefully I will soon.
I still don't have much words for everything thats happened. Sorry if this isn't as long as everybody else's. I have so much to say; but can't in words.
Your in my prayers all the time.
I hope you guys don't move away.I really want you to stay in Melbourne Beach.
The best of wishes for the whole Mello family.
Love, Inez
Tammy Lavigne
March 30, 2006
Dear Pam, Joe-Joe, and Tif,
We were so sad to hear the news of your dad passing away. Joe certainly was a fun-loving, generous man who lived life to the fullest. I have such vivid memories of him living in Old Salt. I see him sitting on the patio listening to music, waiting for you Pam to join him to sit and enjoy the day. I see him doing his mowing, and stopping to chat with those who called him friend. He will forever be remembered as a proud man who lived and loved life to the fullest.
The task ahead is not an easy one. It will take prayers, tears, and leaning on those that love you.
I want to leave you with a beautiful way to remember his passing...Imagine Joe on board a boat, as he leaves the dock he can see the sadness on the faces of those who loved him. The boat sails off. There are many strangers on board, all of different ages. He is sailing through calm seas, the sun shines bright on his face,and the warm wind feels good on his skin. He is unafraid. Soon, land comes into view and the passengers all look toward it. As the boat nears the dock, faces come into view. Joe scans the crowd for someone he might know. The people on the dock are smiling, cheering and happy. Joe sees a few familiar faces, of his parents and brother, and friends who have gone before him. As the boat docks he walks off into the waiting arms of those he loves. There is great joy, he is home.
Tiff, your dad will be watching from above...be a bride in love.
Joe, you always made him proud. Walk in his footsteps.
Pam, live, pray, and may the memories keep him close.
Love, Tammy
Janet/ Dave King
March 29, 2006
Pam,Tiff and 'JoJo'.......
It is still too sad for us to put into words.
Know how much we are keeping you close in our thoughts and reliving many wonderful funny memories of a truly great man. We love Joe and all of you.
Casey Madruga
March 29, 2006
It is such a hard thing to accept and believe that my unclie joey died. I don't think anyone expected this. My heart goes out to Little joey, Pam, and tiffany, and my mom and My aunt bonnie, and to others who have lost him. I wish that i could have spoken some words with him before he passed away. He cared so much about my mother and when he found out me and her weren't getting along he talked to me. He was always looking out for me and trying to help me out. He told me i could talk to him about anything. I wish that i could have told him more. I love you.. and you'll always be in my heart.
Your niece
Casey
George Bento
March 29, 2006
Joe Mell,its me Bento,I sure am going to miss you and those sunday calls! I'm mad and sad at the same time,I can hear your voice,your laugh,I will always miss them.I'm so glad we had this time together Joe!I'll see you later.
Bonnie Kravchuk
March 28, 2006
Dear Pam, Tiffany and Joseph,
Though there is a distance between us, the memories we all hold are close in our hearts. Joe was a great husband, father and brother. If I could choose one word to describe Joe it would be "character". He made friends very easily, always made people laugh with one of his stories or jokes, but yet had a serious side some people really didn't know about. Steve and I and Susan and Mark stayed at Joe and Pam's home while waiting to attend his service. There I had an opportunity to walk around and see Joey through different eyes. He really was quite interesting. Joey liked to paint. He had a few pictures hanging in his house that he had painted. I bet some people didn't know that. He also loved history, reading autobiographies and books on the war. He had made a special album for my dad's war pictures, preserved his army jacket, and hung my dad's army picture proudly in his library. Another hobbie was cooking....There on the counter were all of his cookbooks. He loved to cook and would often call me when he got home from work and recite to me what he was going to cook that night for dinner, step by step. He also loved to garden. He had created a beautiful garden in memory of our mother in his back yard. His creativity made it unique and very special. I also noticed what he called "his office" (just a desk in his garage)where he called me from so many Sunday mornings. A chart of Joseph's first fish, the dates and how big they were hung over his desk --- the serious side of Joey.
Tiffany, this is probably the happiest, yet saddest time of your life. You are soon to be married and will start your own new life. Please remember your dad will always always be with you in spirit. Pass on to your children the stories about your dad. Keep his memory alive.
AND
Joseph, you cannot change the past, but you certainly can mold a beautiful new future and you are on the road in doing that. You have your dad's name Joseph. Make him proud .........Always remember ---
You got it from your father
It was all he had to give
So it's yours to use and cherish
For as long as you may live....
And Pam, the four of us had so many good times together, so many memories traveling, the camping trips, monopoly games, out on the boat etc. etc. Some people go a lifetime and never experience the love you two had for each other. I believe you found your "soul mate".
I pray that all our families find the strength to cope with the loss of Joey.
Love and peace to you all ... Bonnie
Theresa Testaverde
March 28, 2006
Dear Pam, Tiffany, Joseph,
and Joe's sisters,
My heart is deeply sadden by the
loss of Joe. I remember Joe when
I was growing up. He was my parents,
Jean and John Testaverde's good(best)friend. They loved him deeply and I (we) can't imagine life without Joe. Always a smile on his face, a hello and warm greeting, followed by his great sense of humor.
Growing up for me was knowing Joe
and my parents friendship.
My mom said, he taught them the
true sense of being a friend. Gave
them love and respect always.
I am thankful for his gift of
friendship with them and for his
gift to me, knowing "such a guy
full of life and love."
His family are the lucky ones...
My prayers are with all of you.
Joe is not far away, look around
you, he will guide you.
Please know, that we (Testaverde's)
from Gloucester, Mass. remember
and will hold Joe close in our
hearts.
My best deep sympathy and love
to all of you.
Emily Madruga
March 28, 2006
Aunt Pam, Tiff and Joe,
I can't believe this is happening and I don't even know what to say to help you but I love you guys more then anything. Anything you guys need know that I'm here and I will help in anyway I can.
Through the years, I have never ever met a family closer then ours is and always will be. I have also never witnessed so many unknown people coming to family parties and actually enjoying themselves, not feeling uncomfortable. Uncle Joe was a big part of that and without him, everything will never be as good. He was the greatest Uncle I could ask for, I was blessed to have him. I remember only a few months ago last time he came to visit, he was talking to me and Justin about how we had lost Uncle Henry and no longer had a godfather, he said that he would be our substitute godfather. It meant so much to me and now I have lost him too. Everyone loved Uncle Joe, my friends, everyone. In our family my aunts and uncles are like my second parents, I have always been able to count on them for support and happiness. Uncle Joe was our sunshine, our good times. When I came to visit in the summer with Trav I grew so much closer to all of you, especially Uncle Joe out on the boat and so did Trav. The past few months Travis had been calling me every once in awhile to find out when good ol' Uncle Joe was coming up because as he put it he wanted to see him and pester him. I have only ever had good memories of Uncle Joe, even when he was torturing me and my sister and cousins. I will always remember him teasing us, ripping off our Barbie doll heads and throwing our dolls. This family has lost a lot of people but we have still stayed close and we always will. Thankyou to everyone who has supported my family through the years. I ask that the people in Florida please watch out for my family, they could use the help right now. I was blessed to have an Uncle like this and I will never in my life forget him. I love you Uncle Joe and I'm comforted to know that you are above me watching out for our family. Say hey to Uncle Henry, Gram and Gramps for the family. I love you.
Aunt Pam, Joe, Tiff- Stay strong, call when you need to and I will be seeing you soon.
**Time is not what you think. Dying? Not the end of everything. We think it is. But what happens on earth is only the beginning.**
RJ Carbone
March 28, 2006
To Pam, Tiff, Joe, Susan, and Bonnie (and all of Joe's relatives):
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that Joe was a great man who was able to see the best in every situation. He was one of the hardest working and most dedicated men I have ever known and I am proud to have known him.
Please accept the sincerest condolences of myself and my family.
RJ Carbone
Susan Madruga
March 25, 2006
I have been fortunate enough to have two wonderful big brothers in my life. Unfortunately, I have lost both of them. They loved me unconditionally and would have done anything for me. At this moment, I simply do not know how I will go on - my life will forever be changed. I cannot begin to express the heartfelt sympathy and concern I have for Pam, Tiffany and Joseph. They have been left with quite a chore at hand - to go on, be strong and be happy as I know Joey would have wanted them to. I know through experience, this is a very hard thing to do. Joey and I fished together from striper fishing up north in his little crawdad (which was a blast) to visiting Florida and catching everything we could get. He got a boot out of how thrilled I was at the sight of a dolphin or an alligator. I loved nature, fishing, gardening and cooking as did he. Being from portuguese descent our entire family, of course, loved to eat! He was a big tease! He loved Florida but he would always tell me how he truly missed his family. Our family is very close - cousins are like siblings, aunts and uncles like secondary parents. Like he once said to me, only my family calls me "JOEY". It is impossible to put in writing all of the things that come to mind about my brother, Joey. He bought me my first bike, all of the fun our family had at Old Orchard Beach, fun at Long Beach, feeding HIS chickens, teasing my daughters (he loved to do that), etc.etc.etc. Joey may be gone physically, but no one can ever take my wonderful memories of him away. He was so fortunate to have so many friends in Florida. My sister, myself and our husbands could not believe how many people were there to pay their respects. Joey always told me that he was not afraid to die, that he believed in God and that some day he would see Mom, Dad and our brother, Henry, again. I can only hope that this is true, but I have a strong belief that it is.
Paul Paolucci
March 24, 2006
My deepest sympathies to Joe’s family. I met Joey in 1967 when he worked for his Dad and his uncles, part time after school and on weekends ( I have always called him Joey from the first day we met, to differentiate him from Big Joe). We weren't real close friends, but we did live close by and saw each other quite often over the years Whenever we would see each other it was always, “Hey Palooch” "Hey Joey” always with a smile and something funny to make me smile or laugh, A great guy with a big heart. That is what I remember most about Joey. I haven't seen him in quite a few years, but always asked about him and how he was doing whenever I spoke to his cousins. I moved to Florida in 2000 and had recently found out that Joey moved to Florida also, I was planning to get over to the east coast to see him, but because of failing health reasons I never did make it. It leaves me with a heavy heart.
The kiss of the Sun is for pardon
The song of the bird for Mirth
One is nearer to Gods heart in a garden
Than anywhere else on Earth
God Bless You Joey Rest in peace
Cathy Irizarry, FL Tech HR
March 23, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the Mello family. Joe always had a smile and kind word. He made me laugh every time I saw him and I will never forget him. He was a great man who cared deeply for his family. God Bless You.
Bobby & Michele Zyjewski
March 23, 2006
Dearest Pam & Kids,
Bobby and I can only say how sorry we are and send our Love, Prayers and hugs to all of you right now. Bobby and I have only great memories and laughs of Joe... The adventures on the boat were always a day of fun.... Please know we will miss Joe and will always have a smile when we think of him :0)
TONY J. NOLIS JR.
March 23, 2006
PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AT THIS TIME AND KNOW THAT EVERY THOUGHT IS WITH YOU.LITTLE JOE (HOLLYWOOD) WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE TIMES YOUR DAD HAD EVERYONE SMILING AND LAUGHING,IAM SURE HE IS SMILING DOWN ON US TODAY.
GOD BLESS TONY
Tricia Mott
March 23, 2006
My heart and thoughts are with you all during this time of loss. Remeber his love and you will honor his memory.
Joe ( Little ) Mello
March 23, 2006
Dear everyone who signed this book and remembered my father, who we will all miss, Its really helps me get threw this whole thing knowing how much people cared and loved my father. Big Joe was an incredibal guy and father especially. I know i am going to miss him everyday for the rest of my life, He was not only my father but he was also my best freind, fishing buddy and co-worker. My Father did everything for me and thats why i am going to have a hard time with his death. Never in my life could i once say that my father let me or my family down in any way. He was a true family man and the hardest worker i have ever known. He brightened up anyone's day that he came across. He never once put himself before me, my sister tiffany, and my wonderful mother Pamela, who i will be taking good care because i know my father would want me too do just that. It would be hard for me to list all the good things about my dad because their are so many. I now get left with only memories of my father who i will love and cherrish for as long as i live and strive to be as great a man as he was... Dad i will never forget you, you are my hero and best freind and i wish u didnt have to leave so soon. Please watch over me and say hello to uncle henry, grammy and grammpy. Your the best father a kid could ever ask for. See you on the other side "Big Joe"
LOVE,
Your Son,
Little Joe Mello
P:S- Its an honor to have your name.
Joe - Contemplation
March 23, 2006
Joe - Enjoyment & Smiles
March 23, 2006
Elyta Watkins
March 23, 2006
There are no words to comfort you at this time. As the days pass, I pray that you will be comforted by happy memories and the knowledge that Joe lived a happy and fulfilled life with a loving family. It was an honor and a pleasure to have known Joe who always had a smile and a good word. Our newly united family will miss him dearly. Love, Elyta
Hanna Grondin-Kerry
March 22, 2006
Pam, Tiffany & Joe,
My deepest heartfelt sympathies to all of you.
I have nothing but fond memories of all of us at Kathy and Mike's; we had a ball. Those memories will forever be with me and they put a smile on my face when I think of them.
Joe was a great man and I feel privledged to have known him and have him as part of our family.
Love to all of you in this sad time of your lives.
God Bless.
Love,
Hanna
Douglas Willett
March 22, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathies on behalf of our family to yours. The memories of growing up in Ocean Park and the family cookouts will live forever. Joe was a great guy who could get a laugh out of anyone. He wil be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love to you all,
Doug
Cheryl Smith
March 22, 2006
It was an extreme pleasure to know Joe. He was very passionate man about his family and work. You could always count on Joe to lighten up the room. :) Florida Tech will be missing an outstanding employee. He will be greatly missed.
God Bless His Family.
Karen Sousa
March 22, 2006
All I can say is that I am going to miss you so much. You have been such a big part of my entire life Godfather Joe! I love you with all my heart.
Pam, Tiffany & Joseph,
I love all of you and I am here for you. Please remember that we are not saying good-bye to Joe, we are just saying see you later.
Love,
Mary Cromer
March 22, 2006
Joe will truly be missed, he was such an asset to Florida Tech. He always had a smile and it was a pleasure working with him. My heart goes out to his family.
Laura & Dennis Boardman
March 22, 2006
Dear Mr. Mello
Imagine in this day & age we are but a few of the parents who still have children that refer to us as Mr. & Mrs. Mello, or Mr. & Mrs. "B". Times have changed and as parents we try to keep up through all of the trials and tribulations...and we have all had them. Those that haven't, amongst you, haven't been paying attention. We love our families and Joe loved and devoted himself to his family. This is my letter to your family, Joe
"Little Joe", as we called you from the first day we met you, you will always be a part of our family because you are in our hearts and we know you will grow to be the man your Dad always knew you could be. I want to hear you and CJ the day you say you can't believe your children did this or did that because that will be the day you realize what unconditional love is. Parenting is difficult, to say the least, but it goes on long after we have to say good-bye to those that parented us. All of your thoughts, deeds, and life lessons will go back to this man that we have come to say good-bye to today. Make him proud, Joe, and take care of your Mom and sister. You are no longer "little Joe" and have some mighty big shoes to fill. We love you.
Tiffany, from the first time we met you, as we made our daily journey back and forth to St. Marys School,I knew you would grow up and bring joy to your family in everything you did. Good Lord could you talk! I felt like I knew everyone and everything that went on at school just in our short little ten minute rides. Somehow it didn't surprise me the day your Dad called and told us you were on the radio. From watching you being thrown into the air cheerleading for the football team to hearing you on the radio, your Dad was so proud of you. Now you will soon be married and although Dad won't be there you will forever carry his spirit and zest for life in your heart. Make a good life, love your husband, and raise your children to know your Dad for the man he was that took care of and loved his family.
Pam, Dennis and I have been very fortunate to have you and Joe for friends. Not just any woman would let me call and say, "please let my husband come and visit you for a couple of days to go fishing with Joe." I knew they would be well chaperoned. You opened your homes and your hearts to us and for that we will be eternally greatful. We will always be here for you as I know you will be for us. We share that love for our families that knows no depth and our hearts ache for the sadness and loss you are going through.
And finally to you Mr. Mello. May Heaven have a cold one and a fishing rod waiting for you Joe. We'll miss your calls, your take on life, but most of all we'll miss you. God's speed and 'till we meet again. Love, Laura, Dennis, Kevin, Andi, and CJ
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