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Matthew Kuhn Obituary

Husband, Father, Ball Player, Musician, Matthew J. Kuhn, age 89, of Frederick, MD passed away peacefully on Thursday, Feb 6th 2020. Born in Morgantown, WV, he was the middle child of three children of Mary and James Kuhn. He is survived by his wife of 63 years Barbara, daughter Mary Pat and her children Katelyn and Nick, Shelli and their daughter Adley, daughter Kris and her husband Bob Kelm, son Jim and his wife Cindy (Harkness), son Mike and his wife Nancy (Anderson) and daughter Kimberly, and his sister Barbara (Maiocco) of Weston, WV.

Raised on a farm in Weston, WV, Matt earned a Bachelor's Degree in Music from West Virginia Wesleyan in 1952 and a Masters Degree in Music from West Virginia University in 1954. It was while attending WV Wesleyan that he had his first try out with the Pittsburgh Pirates at Forbes Field - signing as a center fielder. After two years in the Pirates minor league system, he was drafted to serve in the US Army during 1954-1956, where he served as a Military Policeman at Ft Gordon, GA. Completing his service obligation, he returned to the Pirates organization for Spring Training in 1956. After sustaining a serious hamstring injury at Spring Training, the Pirates Director of Baseball Operations Branch Rickey converted Matt into a left hander starting pitcher and assigned him to the Northern League with the Grand Forks Chiefs. It was as a pitcher for the Chiefs where he met his wife to be Barbara - he a ball player needing a dental check up, she a Dental Assistant in a small Dental office in Grand Forks, ND. They were married 4 months after their first meeting.

After his Baseball and Army careers, Matt returned to his other passion - Music. He started his teaching career in 1957 on the Paiute and Shoshone Indian Reservation in Owyhee, NV where he taught for four years. He also taught music in Sheridan, WY for one year.

In 1962, Matt took a teaching position at Damascus High School, Damascus, MD where he would go on to teach for 31 years, retiring from the school district in 1993. During his tenure as Music Director at Damascus, the Damascus High School Band performed thousands of shows across the globe. From football game half time shows to winter and spring concerts, Matt brought a level of professionalism, discipline, and perfection to the band performances; this included the Damascus Community Band. Every show and concert was designed to pay tribute to a historic event, theme, military service, and the country. He also led the band's support and performances at hundreds of musicals, local parades, the Cherry Blossom parade in Washington DC, the 1982 World's Fair in Knoxville, TN, and twice representing the United States at the 35th and 40th Anniversaries of the World War II Normandy Landings in Europe. In 1979, the Damascus High School band was the only non-military band to be invited to Europe to celebrate the 35th Anniversary of Operation Overlord. Honored to perform for numerous world leaders and Veterans, performances included locations within England at Bournemouth, Salisbury, and Poole with the Royal Marines; as well as in France at the American Cemetery at Vierville sur Mer and Utah Beach, Pointe du Hoc, St Lo, and the Arc de Triomphe in Paris. In 1984, the Damascus High School Band was invited back to Europe to celebrate the 40th Anniversary of the Normandy Operation, a return trip highlighted by a performance at Normandy with President Ronald Reagan in attendance.

Matt is remembered as a highly disciplined, loyal and dedicated teacher, mentor, and leader. When not teaching, he maintained a strict exercise/running routine, tending to the family's animals and garden, and enjoying country drives with Barbara in their Triumph Spitfire convertible. The impact of his desire, heart, personality, and incredible work ethic has touched generations of Damascus High School alumni and friends.

A Celebration of Life event will take place at the Damascus American Legion on Saturday 13 June 2020 during 12:00-5:00 pm, with a short formal opening ceremony at 12:30-1:00pm.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to "DHS Music", Damascus High School, Attn: Band, 25921 Ridge Rd, Damascus, MD 20872 and/or "Hospice of Frederick County", 516 Trail Ave, Frederick, MD 21702 or PO Box 1799, Frederick, MD 21702.

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Published by The Frederick News-Post from Feb. 10 to Feb. 11, 2020.

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Steve Ehlman (71)

March 7, 2020

Mr. Kuhn was the reason I became a band director and made music my life's work. He was there as my mentor, always available when I needed advice and guided me to a successful band career. The memories I will always cherish and am proud to have been able to call him my friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kuhn family. May we all have such a fulfilling and rewarding life.

Steven Hawkins

February 16, 2020

I was among Mr. Kuhn's first band members, and all the way through my 6 years at DHS. He was everything that others have written about him. He gave the band pride in itself through hard work in the old auditorium-turned-band-room and through his professionalism. I can still recall the first drum cadence as the concert band became a marching band as well, taking the music to the streets in many parades. Memories of those times abound. I had no idea (or had forgotten) that he was a Pittsburgh Pirate for a time! What a life! My condolences to Barbara and the girls and their families. Farewell, Mr. Kuhn.

Kathryn E (Tompkins) Hampton

February 15, 2020

Such fond memories of a great man that truly lead by example with great discipline as he always worked tirelessly with all of his students... he had a very special knack to bring out the best in us while creating top-notch performances that we could all be proud of. RIP Sir, and thank you for your service to our country and our community!
DHS Class of 82

Doug Shuman

February 15, 2020

I've met many people in my life, but few as influential and as special to me as Mr. Kuhn. His jazz and string ensembles were the highlight of my day during my time at DHS. Mr. Kuhn was known not only for the talent and professionalism he demonstrated as an instructor of music, but for his sense of pride and compassion -- which he instilled in ALL his students. I and many others were in attendance at his very last concert at DHS in 1993, and it was clear from the standing room only crowd just how many people he had touched.

Mr. Kuhn was a man of great character and integrity, and I am truly fortunate to have been influenced by him. He may no longer be with us, but he will certainly not be forgotten.

My sincerest condolences to the Kuhn family.

Christina McNally

February 14, 2020

Mr.Kuhn was the best band director I have EVER met. May he rest in piece. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

February 14, 2020

It was indeed a privilege and honor to have worked with Matt during my eight years at Damascus High School. He was a dear colleague and friend. I knew both of his sons well; they were exemplary young men - the kind you'd want your daughter to bring home. He and Barb obviously did a fantastic job of parenting. His bands were incomparable - a great source of pride for the school, the Damascus community, and the entire MCPS school system. My feelings were that Matt was always striving for perfection - and, if you just look at his biography, it is apparent that he most often achieved it. His was truly a life well-lived.

-Al Eisel
Damascus High School 1978-1986
Damascus resident since 1995

Naomi Septoff

February 14, 2020

Matt was an inspiration to us all. Teaching, as you may know can be a discouraging profession. Matt always had a smile on lips and a an encouraging hug when he noticed you were down. He will be missed

Chris Bruchie

February 13, 2020

Mr. Kuhn was a wonderful man, teacher and friend. He treated us all with love and respect. He formed many lives with greatness. Will have memory for life. RIP

Rod Fry

February 12, 2020

Huge influence on my life. He played a very big role in who I am today. I remember him asking my dad why I wasn't playing football and the reason was I had made a commitment to be his drum major. He told me he would never deny my playing football and that I should play if I wished to do so. So blessed to have him in my life.

Jennifer Hanville

February 12, 2020

I can still hear his voice in the cemetery at the 40th Anniversary of D Day. He was walking among all of the band members who had been standing for hours. He was quietly encouraging us to stay strong. Also I still hear cadence when I walk. Great memories, great man. My prayers are with you all. -

Mark Cassera

February 12, 2020

Mr. Kuhn was a man everyone could look up to, he was dedicated to making you the best you could be and he made the hard work fun. He will be missed by everyone who had the sincere pleasure to know him. Peace.

Tina Hawkins - Pryor

February 12, 2020

Prayers to the Kuhn family at this difficult time. Find comfort and peace in the Lord. RIP Mr. Kuhn the Legend

Mildred Taylor

February 11, 2020

Matt, you were one of a kind. Devoted to the position of Band Director, expected perfection from your students and received what you demanded. Very seldom did I see you angry, but it could and did happen. Your laughter and smile was contagious. It was a pleasure to do the last minute two-three pages of typing for you. Millie

John Klose

February 11, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with the Kuhn family at this time. I will never forget my time in the Damascus High School band. Mr Kuhn not only taught me music but inspired me to always do my best. He will forever be my favorite teacher.
John Klose (76)

February 11, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with the Kuhn family at this time. I will never forget the years I spent in the Damascus High School band. He taught me not only music but also inspired
me to always do my best.
Mr Kuhn will always be my favorite teacher.
John Klose (76)

Kathryn Hampton

February 10, 2020

Mr. Kuhn was an amazing person that Im honored to have worked with as the DHS Band Secretary and in the band front. He was a great mentor and instructor! I know he will be missed. Prayers for the family.

Joy

February 10, 2020

I want to convey my sympathy to Mr Kuhns family. I always admired him in my years of attending Damascus High School. Great memories of a wonderful man! God Bless! Joy Mihill Semelsberger

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