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Benjamin Arim Obituary

ARIM, BENJAMIN A. Benjamin A. Arim "B-Diddy", age 30, lost his long battle with Hodgkin's Lymphoma on February 13, 2012. Ben was preceded in death by his father, Timothy Petersen. He is survived by his daughter, Breanna; his mother, Kristy Allen; father Bill (Kristin) Arim; brother, Matt (Jill) Arim and sister, Kendra Arim; his grandparents, Lorraine Allen, Norma Arim, Bill and Betty French, Alvin and Jean Petersen; special aunt and uncle Lynn (Gary) Champion, as well as nieces, nephew, aunts, uncles and cousins. A service to celebrate his life will be held on Friday, February 17 at 1 PM at Heritage Life Story Funeral Home - Van Strien Creston Chapel, 1833 Plainfield NE where friends are invited to visit with his family on Thursday from 6:30 to 9 PM. Interment in Blythefield Memory Gardens. For those who wish, memorial contributions may be made to the family to help with funeral expenses or to the Hope Lodge of the American Cancer Society. To read more about Ben's life, to share a favorite memory or photo or to sign the guestbook, please visit www.lifestorynet.com.

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Published by Grand Rapids Press on Feb. 14, 2012.

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Tyler VanHattem

December 7, 2012

Diddy, not a day goes by that I don't think about you and wish you were still here with us, but Lord knows your in a much better place! I'm greatful for the times we shared and the lasting memories I will always keep. Whenever I'm feeling down I just think about you and ALL the good times and I can't help but smile. Love you bro, always and forever. Q&L

boolia

December 2, 2012

Always missed but never forgotten. You are such a beautiful soul

julia boolia

December 2, 2012

Ben was a very wonderful man! He could light up a room with his smile. Pull anyone out of a bad mood in 2.5 seconds & most importantly be a great friend. He always had wise words to share. I love you diddy & I'll see you when I get there. Your family remains in my prayers & I know, for today & the last couple months in general, you'd be very proud of me! That's all that matters to me. Lub u

February 17, 2012

Kris,
Praying peace and strength for you from the memories of BJ you have and that others will share with you in the coming days.
Love you, Tracy

Shoe

February 14, 2012

When I think of BJ the first thing that comes to me is that smile...BJ was always looking to find something to smile or laugh about...his heart was full of laughter and fun. Thankfully as he went through one of the toughest stages here on earth fighting the battle with cancer...he was able to be with the ones who loved him...and able to laugh & smile thru the tough days...the pain and bad days are behind you now BJ, you are home. I will miss your laughter and smiles...see ya when I get there.

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Michael Allmon

February 14, 2012

Have alot of great memories with Ben. My condolences to the Arim family with battling this terrible disease. Ben....will be missed greatly.

February 14, 2012

Matt, We are so sorry for the passing of Ben. We are thankful he is in heaven with Jesus and look forward to meeting him someday. Praying for strength and peace during this difficult time.
Dale and Kathy Zylstra

kate ums

February 14, 2012

I'm glad that you aren't suffering anymore, but I miss you already. Look out for my mommy and daddy up there, I have asked them both to welcome you and take good care of you. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. <3

Annette

February 14, 2012

Bill and Kristin, I am so sorry for your loss. Ben was a special man and fought hard. You were both an amazing support for him. God Bless.

February 14, 2012

I can't wait to see you again

Courtney Husen

February 14, 2012

Kris,
I haven't talked to you in a while but I remember talking about your wonderful son with you when we worked at Kohls. It is so difficult to see the ones you love go, however know that he is in God's kingdom now and he is cancer free :) I am here for your family if you need anything, many prayers are being said for you.

Meaghan Bilsky

February 14, 2012

Kris, Thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Love you. <3

Heather Berens

February 14, 2012

Chris I can't even imagine how hard this must be for you. You and your family are in my prayers.

February 14, 2012

Matt and family, May you always know that Ben is with our Lord and Savior and with his dad and grandma. I remember Ben as a little blonde headed boy who didn't like dirt. Love you all. Aunt Ruthie

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