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Eugene Torpey Obituary
Eugene "Gene" Francis Torpey, 67, of Manchester, loving husband of over 35 years of Barbara Anne (Nevins) Torpey, passed away peacefully surrounded by his caring family on Saturday, February 20, 2016 at Hartford Hospital after his courageous battle with cancer. Born in Hartford on August 3, 1948, a son of the late William and Florence (Murray) Torpey, he had resided in Manchester for over 40 years. Gene was a proud veteran of the U.S. Army during the Vietnam Era serving with the 18th Airborne "Blue Dragons". After his tour of duty, Gene became a life-long 18-Wheeler Truck Driver. He was a member of the British-American Club in Manchester and played the bagpipes with the Stewart Highlanders in Manchester. Gene was a life-long fan of the Boston Red Sox, and also enjoyed watching the New England Patriots, Notre Dame football, and UCONN basketball. A good game, especially shared with family members, was one of Gene's great pleasures in life. Gene was a good man who will be greatly missed by all those who knew him. Along with his beloved wife, Barbara, Gene is survived by two sons, Matthew Eugene Torpey of Marlborough and his girlfriend Erin, Daniel James Torpey of Manchester and his girlfriend Ali; three brothers, Richard "Dick" Torpey and his wife Peg of Monroe, MI, William "Bill" Torpey of East Hartford, Michael "Mike" Torpey and his wife Faith of Windsor; two sisters, Aileen Thomas and her husband David of Ballston Spa, NY, Florence "Flo" Kovensky and her husband Neil of East Hartford. Gene was also a loving uncle to many nephews and nieces. Funeral service will be Friday (February 26, 2016) at 8:45 a.m. from the D'ESOPO-East Hartford Memorial Chapel, 30 Carter Street, East Hartford with a Mass of Christian Burial celebrated at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, Main Street/Maplewood Avenue, East Hartford. Burial with military honors will follow at the State of CT Veterans' Cemetery, Bow Lane, Middletown. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Eugene's name may be made to the American Cancer Society, 825 Brook Street, I-91 Tech Center, Rocky Hill, CT 06067. For on-line expressions of sympathy to the family please visit www.desopo.com.
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Edie McKenna
March 2, 2016
Gene,
John and I always enjoyed your visits. And you never let us down with your many attempts at leaving. After a while, you would head for the door preparing to leave. The next thing we knew, you were sitting back on the couch with Zen on your lap.
One of the things I truly loved was how your entire face lit up when you smiled.
Anyone who knew you, knew that the most important thing in your life was your family.
My thoughts are with them now. I hope that in time their sorrow will be replaced with all of the happy times you shared together.
February 27, 2016
Barbara Matt and Daniel, I worked with Gene and remember that he was a person with a zest for life. Maryann and I were saddened to hear of his illness and passing. Our thoughts are with you all. Rich and Maryann Rose, Bolton, CT
Kelsey Aubert
February 26, 2016
Eugene will be greatly missed. He always put a smile on my face. I waited on him and his wife many times and am so sorry to hear of his battle with cancer, it truly hurts my heart. He was a good man and loves his wife sooooo much. She was his trophy and he her treasure.
Cecilia Lynch
February 25, 2016
Barbara and family my deepest sympathy on the passing of Eugene. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Love,
Cecilia(your cousin from MA)
"Little" Mike Johnston
February 25, 2016
Bigga Gene was an awesome Uncle!!! He taught me how to hit a fastball and taught me how to do knuckle push-ups! He was a tough guy with a big heart!
Amy Allen
February 24, 2016
Barbara, Matt and Dan,
Words are unable to express my deepest sympathy to you all. Gene was a special person and a joy to be around. Hugs to you all.
Marcia Hesse
February 24, 2016
Barbara, Matt, and Dan - So very sorry for all the heartache you are experiencing. Gene was a larger than life person who will never be forgotten. Much love to you all.
Tom Panciera
February 24, 2016
Gene you will be greatly missed. I will always have the memories from back in the day. Wish we had got that road trip in. RIP.Barbara my deepest condolences to you and the boys.
D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel
February 24, 2016
Our deepest condolences on your loss. The D’Esopo Family.
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Feb
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8:45 a.m.
D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel30 Carter Street, East Hartford, CT 06118
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