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Sue-Ellen Lyons Obituary

LYONS, Sue-Ellen (Murphy) Sue-Ellen (Murphy) Lyons, 48, of Wethersfield, beloved wife of Christopher J. Lyons ended her courageous battle with Leukemia with her family by her side Friday, (June 8, 2007) in Hartford Hospital. Born January 24, 1959 in Hartford, she was the daughter of Geraldine (Joyce) Murphy and the late Frederick M. Murphy. A lifelong resident of Wethersfield and a graduate of Central Connecticut State University, Sue taught in the Hartford Public School System for over 20 years. Sue leaves her cherished daughter, Erin Lyons of Wethersfield; a brother, Kevin Murphy and his wife, Sharon of Raleigh, NC; a sister, Carol and brother-in-law, Peter Sywenkyj of Wethersfield; her mother-in-law, Elinor Backman and her husband, Carl of Middletown; her father-in-law, John J. Lyons of Columbus, OH; her brothers and sister-in-law, Jack and Cindy Lyons of Uxbridge, MA, Jeanne and Dave Delisle of Cromwell, and Peter and Debbie Lyons of East Aurora, NY; many dear nieces and nephews, Carolyn, Hillary, Kelly, Sara, Peter, Bridget, Cortney, Kara, Ryan, Abigail, and Sophia; her dearest friend, Christine Morrissette of Wethersfield and her many aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and neighbors. Sue was that person in life who you wanted to meet, her kindness, optimism, and joy for life was shared by her family and many friends through the years. She was one in a million. The Lyons family wishes to extend their thanks to the Doctors and Nurses of Dana Farber Cancer Institute and Hartford Hospital and all the amazing friends that offered help throughout her battle. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, June 13, at 9:15 a.m. from the Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home, 34 Beaver Road, Wethersfield, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in Sacred Heart Church, 56 Hartford Avenue, Wethersfield. Interment will follow in Village Cemetery, Marsh Street, Wethersfield. Sue-Ellen's family will receive relatives and friends in the funeral home Tuesday, June 12, from 4-8 p.m. The family requests in lieu of flowers, Memorial donations may be made in Sue-Ellen's name to The Jimmy Fund/Dana Farber 10 Brookline Place West, 6th Floor, Brookline, MA 02445-7295, [email protected] or to the Hartford Chapter of Swim Across the Sound, P.O. Box 290582, Wethersfield, CT 06129-0582.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 10, 2007.

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Aimee Gagnon

January 23, 2008

Hello Chris,
I am so sorry about the loss of your wife. I am sure she knows how much you and Erin love her and that she is with you both every day. Please accept my deepest condolences and may your memories be vivid.

Nicholas Psillas

September 21, 2007

Dear Lyons/Murphy Families,

My condolences on your loss of Sue.
We spend many happy days in class at CCSU back in 1980-81. I will always remember her as a warm, friendly and dedicated person.

Nicholas G. Psillas CCSU '81

Allison Konefal

August 10, 2007

To the Lyons/Murphy families ~

I just learned today that Sue-Ellen had passed. I was deeply saddened and wanted to offer my condolences.
I have such fond memories of taking care of her in the hospital. She was a remarkable women - so vivacious & positive. She inspired me with her courage. I will never forget her & I will keep your families in my prayers.

~ Allison Konefal, RN (Brigham & Women's Hospital)

Tina (Lynch) Lee

June 27, 2007

Chris,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers.

Joan,Michael, Jennifer, Andrea Maulucci

June 21, 2007

To the Lyons/Murphy Families...We just have learned of the loss of Sue-Ellen and we are so very sorry for your loss. Heaven has another Angel to watch over the ones that Sue-Ellen left here on earth. Words cannot express what we feel. You all are in our thoughts and prayers-----Carol, Sue-Ellen couldn't have asked for a better sister. Joan, Michael, Jennifer and Andrea Maulucci (Wethersfield)

The Citadel Group at Smith Barney

June 20, 2007

Chris, Erin and Family,
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers...
All our best

Kirstin Bednarz

June 19, 2007

Chris,
your in our thoughts and prayers. sorry to hear of your loss.

Kirstin (Seifel)Bednarz
Brian Bednarz

Carol Ann, Dick, & Terri Sparveri

June 17, 2007

Dear Chris and family, so sorry to read of Sue-Ellen's passing. Please note that our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Helena Klement

June 16, 2007

Dear Sue Ellen's family, we only met Sue Ellen in recent years, at Crown Colony Club in Ocean Ridge, Florida. She was so full of life and kind and friendly, she struck both my husband and myself as a very exceptional person. We fell in love with her instantly. Our thoughts are with you, as we mourn her loss with you and celebrate the wonderful person she was to so many. We shall miss her smile and warm friendliness. Helena and Uri Klement, Marblehead, MA and Ocean Ridge, Florida

Dorian Dickinson

June 15, 2007

Dear Kevin, Chris and the entire Murphy and Lyons families:

Sue-Ellen remains an inspiration to so many and will continue to improve the lives of others through the years.

I was fortunate enough to be a childhood friend of Kevin's, grow up on the same street as Chris and know Sue-Ellen through school. Sue-Ellen's generosity and caring will never be forgotten. As an only child living in a different city, I will always remember and be grateful for Sue-Ellen stepping in to help my mother when she needed assistance and I could not get back to Wethersfield.

The Murphy and Lyons families are strong, good-hearted families with great character and my prayers are with you all.

Pat Trymbulak

June 14, 2007

I am so very sorry to hear of Sue's passing. I just found out today and regret not going to the wake. Please accept my prayers. A fellow Wethersfield friend and former Hartford teacher.Pat Trymbulak

Kathy (Tamiola) Slevin

June 13, 2007

To the Lyons/Murphy Families:
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Sue-Ellen. I grew up with Sue-Ellen (beginning in the 4th grade) all the way through to WHS. Although I have not seen her in many years, Sue-Ellen was always one that I will remember as a beautiful, happy woman who had a heart of gold. Please know that she is in God's arms - and at peace. My sincere and deepest sympathy.

Donna Read

June 12, 2007

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your wife, friend, mother. She is in my prayers.

Ellen (Fredericks) Valcourt

June 12, 2007

Dear Murphy and Lyons Families,
My deepest sympathies. I was so sad to hear of Sue Ellen's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jessie Matthews

June 12, 2007

To the Lyons families:
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jessie and Martha

Dorothy Meggie

June 12, 2007

To the Lyons/Murphy famililes,
I express my deepest condolences on the passing of Sue-Ellen. She was a true sweetheart. We went through the Wethersfield School system together, including Mrs. Holmes dancing school. May the love of family sustain you through these difficult times.

Lori Edgar

June 12, 2007

Dear Chris and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. We had all hoped for Sue-Ellens recovery but God truly wants her home with Him. You will be with her again and in the meantime you have a life time of memories to sustain you. God is with you,always.

Sue (Seserman) Borzelleca

June 12, 2007

Dear Chris,
I was so sorry to hear about Sue Ellen's illness and passing. Though it has been years since we last spoke, I have such fond memories of our time in high school together. Sue Ellen had a way about her - especially that contagious laugh and sparkly eyes.
I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pat & Emidio Pizzoferrato & Family

June 12, 2007

Chris & Erin - Our deepest sympathies to you for your loss. I pray you find comfort quickly knowing Sue Ellen is now with all the other angels.

Toni Goncalves

June 12, 2007

Chris & Erin and beloved family members, I am sorry for your loss. It's hard to think that SueEllen is not with us. I thought she would pull through this. I will remember her fondly. I will keep you all in my prayers. I'm sorry that I can't be there for the service but I am with you in spirit. May you find comfort knowing that she is with God in a sacred place and no longer suffering. Peace, Toni

Vicki Fraenhofer Holt

June 12, 2007

Chris,
I am so sorry to hear about Sue-Ellen. My mother has get me informed about all the happenings in Wethersfield over the years. I have happy memories of our times spent in high school with both you and Sue-Ellen. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Mario Tristany

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris, Erin, Gerry, Kevin and Sharon and Carol and Peter, please know that we share your sorrow and hope that you gain strength in knowing that Sue-Ellen is now at peace and she is with some truly great souls. May God bless all of you.

Mario ("Bro") and Linda Tristany

Lisa Warzecha

June 11, 2007

Gerry,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Please let me know if I can offer you any help (even a listening ear) during this difficult time. Your neighbor, Lisa

Jordana Nahum

June 11, 2007

Erin and the Lyons family,
My deepest sympathies. I'm so sorry I cannot be with you during this difficult time, but know that you are in my thoughts. Erin, I'm so sorry that you have to go through this, and you are one of the strongest women I know. I love you and I'm here for you.

Velinda Brown

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris, Erin and your families,
My deepest sympathy is with all of you. Sue Ellen always had a friendly warm smile when she greeted you. She had a twinkle in her eyes as she told stories about her trips and her family when we saw her at Jeanne and Dave's house. I will forever remember her beautiful looks, her kindness and her zest for life.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both, your families and to my dearest friend Jeanne.

Norma LaVoie

June 11, 2007

Dear Murphy & Lyons Family,

I am so sad to hear about Sue Ellen. I loved working with her. She was always so positive & glad to be alive. Her smile was so genuine. She will be missed. I am sorry that I can not be with you. I have moved to Arizona. You are all in my prayers.

Ed & Kelly Cruess

June 11, 2007

Dear Lyons & Murphy Families:

Please accept our deepest sympathy at the loss of Sue-Ellen especially to Chris and Erin. What a great example she is to all of us with such grace and faith she and all of you stood together to try to fight this terrible disease. God bless you all and know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

TIMOTHY DURANT

June 11, 2007

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Denise Seifel

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin,
You are in our prayers. We are so sorry to hear of you loss.

Always Bob and Denise

Dan, Leigh, Taylor and Katie Moran

June 11, 2007

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. It was always such a pleasure seeing Sue on our family walks. She will be missed greatly...

Marcia Nordgren

June 11, 2007

To Sue-Ellen's families and friends: I am so very sorry for your loss. Sue-Ellen was a wonderful person and friend, someone whose laughter and smile filled the room. Some of my fondest memories from high school involved Sue-Ellen. She spread sunshine wherever she went. My deepest condolences to Chris, Erin and their families.

Debbie Levesque

June 11, 2007

To Chris and Erin,
My deepest sympathy to you in your loss. Sue was a truly beautiful person who touched everyone around her just by entering the room. I am one of many who have been blessed to have had the opportunity to have met her.

Thomas Joyce

June 11, 2007

To the Lyons and Murphy families;
Saddened by your loss. Sue-Ellen was a wonderful human being and a "sparkling gem". Her star is shining in Heaven. A heartfelt condolence to your families.

Mike, Kim & Kyliegh Joyce

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris, Erin, Carol-Ann, Aunt Gerry & Christine ~ we are so completely overwhelmed with sadness that Sue is no longer with us physically. But I'd like to think that she has her wings already - she earned them while she was here on earth. She's has a big job to do up there being a Guardian Angel for so many. I keep picturing her glowing face and friendly smile. She was truly a genuine person and could light up a room with her mere presence. We will miss her so very much.

Jess Krystopa

June 11, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything that I can do, please let me know. I will be there Tuesday and Wednesday, but if there is anything you need before hand just contact me and let me know. Mrs. Lyons was a wonderful woman with a heart of gold, and since I have been friends with Erin, Mrs. Lyons has always been caring, and very kind hearted. She always had a smile on her face, and I don't think I have ever seen her mad or upset for more then 10 minutes. She will be missed, and I hope that her pass was painless and without suffering.

betty martelle

June 11, 2007

Dear Carol, Kevin, and family,
It is with great sadness that Sal and I hear of your loss. From everything you have told me Sue Ellen was a wonderful optimistic person and a wonderful sister. Our deepest regret is passed to you and your family. Laura Lynn also asked me to express her heartfelt sympathy.
With Great Fondness,
Betty & Sal Martelle

Kelly, Dave Clark & Family

June 11, 2007

Dear Carol, Erin and Family,
The world has lost a beautiful soul, but heaven now has one of the sweetest Angels. We are so sorry for your loss.

Laura-Lynne Powell

June 11, 2007

To the Lyons and Murphy families --Words truly can't express my sadness over your loss. Please know so many of your friends (old and new) and neighbors are grieving with you and praying for you all. From California I send my deepest condolences to a family that holds a special place in my heart. Laura Powell

Jill, Donald, Nick & Kaitlyn Swoverland

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin and Lyons/Murphy families,

Our deepest sympathy. Sue was a wonderful person, a truly great friend and loved by all of us. We will miss her and her beautiful smile that touched our lives. In your time of sorrow, please know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe and Pat Smith

June 11, 2007

Gerry -

Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

Nancy Walker

June 11, 2007

Christopher J. Lyons & Family,
So very sorry, a heavy saddness of your sorrow is around the Wethersfield Country Club along with our prays & thoughts. Sue-Ellen enjoyed the game of golf & we have been blessed by having her around all of us here at WCC. Sincerely, Board of Governors, Pat Aquaro, Fred Bachand, Mike Seaver, Many Friends and Staff of WCC.

Kristine Lisella

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin...we are so saddened by Sue-Ellen's passing. Also grateful for being able to get to know her over the years. She is such an inspiration. Her love for her family...her pride in her daughter...her smile..her sparkle.. and love of life are what I will remember always. I will miss seeing her out on walks...but her spirit will live on in our neighborhood. She has had an amazing effect on alot of people! God Bless you..and your family. God Bless Sue-Ellen.
Kristine

Kate Trahan

June 11, 2007

Gerry, Kevin and Carol:
I was so saddened to hear of Sue-Ellens passing. Please know that I have all of you in my prayers and am thinking of you during this difficult time.

Betsy Warner (Wilcox)

June 11, 2007

Chris,
My mother told me yesterday of Sue Ellen's death and I was shocked. I had spoken with her several months ago and she sounded wonderful; positive as usual; and she told me that she was going to "beat it". I wanted to see her during my visits to CT but she was not well enough - I so wish I could have spent a few minutes with her to catch up after all these years. I remember well the fun times we had at WHS and her incredible zest for life. She was so kind to me when my son Andrew died at a very young age; I remember her attending his funeral. I'm sorry I will not be able to come to Sue's services, but you, Erin and all of your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember Sue's smile. With my love and deepest sympathy,

Susan Ventres

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this extremely difficult time. Sue was such a help to my daughter when they both were at Kennelly and how we enjoyed chatting when she would come to visit me at work.

Amy Widmer

June 11, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin,
I am so deeply saddened to hear the news of Sue's passing. She was one of my dearest friends at Kennelly and I so enjoyed the times we spent together. Her smile did indeed light up a room. She will be deeply missed! My sincerest sympathies to your family.

Amy Ventres Widmer

Wethersfield H.S. class of 1977

June 11, 2007

A dear friend and classmate.

Marie Bernier

June 10, 2007

To the Lyons & Murphy families, My sincere condolences. I, too worked with Sue Ellen at Kennelly School. She always had such a great smile & was always so positive no matter what was going on in her life. I have fond memories of meeting with her at the Wethersfield diner for breakfast. God Bless each & every one of you, you are all in my prayers.

fran dambrouckas

June 10, 2007

chris and erin, i am so shocked and sorry to hear about sue....last i heard she was doing well....chris, i do know how you feel and offer my sincerest sympathies.this wont even be real for months......erin, know that your mom was so very proud of you and loved you dearly....

Marie and Pat Gormalley and Josie Tristany

June 10, 2007

To The Lyons/Murphy Families,
We were sorry to hear of the passing of Sue-Ellen.It is hard to lose a wife,mother, daughter and sister at such a young age.Knowing that her suffering is over and that she is with Our Heavenly Father will help in the healing process. Be patient,Keep her memories alive inside a special part of your hearts.There will be times
when you will cry and smile and laugh when you think of Sue Ellen.These are the times when your pain will be eased.You are not alone through this .Knowing that your family and friends are close by will give you strength.
Our prayers,thoughts and condolences are with all of you.

Dianne M Yancey

June 10, 2007

Dear Aunt Gerry and family,
It has been many years since we have been in touch. I was deeply saddened to hear about Sue-Ellen. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Love Dianne (Murphy) now Yancey

Rita (Mangiagli) Bristol

June 10, 2007

To the Lyons and Murphy families,
I went to school with Sue-Ellen in Wethersfield, and although I haven't seen her since then, my immediate memory upon hearing her name was her cheerful smile and sparkling eyes. My condolences to you all.

Sue (Lawlor) Skehan

June 10, 2007

Chris,
Fond and precious are the memories of my frienndship with Sue-Ellen, from so many years ago. Sincere and heartfelt condolences to you, Erin and family.

Peter, Margot and Mia Popowycz

June 10, 2007

Dear Chris, Erin, Aunt Gerry, Kevin, Carol and the Lyons/ Murphy/ Sywenkyj Families,

We share in your tremendous heartbreak but will continue to keep cousin Sue and your families close at heart. She was the best and she had the best in you all! Love,

Kim Lombardo

June 10, 2007

Dear Chris &Erin

I have known you all for so long and Im so very sorry for your loss. She put up a great fight butI guess the good lord needed some more great angels to watch over us. She will be missed that is for sure.Take care and if you need anything dont hesitate to contact me. Your friend Kim

Daniel Delisle

June 10, 2007

Dear Chris and Erin,
Extreme sympathies on SueEllen's passing; although we didn't get to see her often it was always a pleasure to visit with her when we did. Erin, she was so proud of you and all that you were doing. Memories will live in our hearts always. God Bless.

Dan, Michele and Renee

Joanne Speziale

June 10, 2007

Gerry,
I don't know if you remember me but I came with Sue to visit you in Naples one February. I am so sorry to hear of her death. Although Sue and I didn't keep in touch that often, I still thought of her as one of my friends. She had a spirit and adventure for life. I'll always remember her especially when I go the Wethersfield Diner. I know she really liked that place. My love and prayers go out to you, Chris and Erin.

Betty Kamais

June 10, 2007

My Condolences. I was Sue-Ellen's para at Kenelly School. She was a great person. We had a great time working together. Sorry I can't be at the funeral, I'm in Greece. She will be greatly missed.

Sandra, Brian, and Jillian Amoroso

June 10, 2007

To the Lyons-Murphy families,
Words can not express our sorrow at the loss of our beloved Suzy-Q. We were blessed more than you'll ever know to have her as a neighbor, friend, and special "auntie". Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to each and every one of you.

Sandy Oconnell

June 10, 2007

To the Murphy/Lyons Family: I was very fortunate to have known Sue for many years. She was a person with great faith in God and in Life. May all the cherished memories be remembered by family and friends. She is in my prayers.

Donna Crawford

June 10, 2007

Dear Chris and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Sue-Ellen from her early teaching days in Hartford. The kids loved her! She was a wonderful person.

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