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Mattie Sitgraves Obituary

ROCK HILL - Mrs. Mattie Brown Sitgraves passed away Wednesday, Aug. 31, 2011, at Piedmont Medical Center in Rock Hill, S.C.

She was born Jan. 7, 1919, in Catawba, S.C., a daughter of the late Joe and Omega Roddy Brown. She was the fifth child of twelve siblings and was preceded in death by Joe Willie, J.T., Dewit, Billy, Lucille, Geneva and Lucy, Mary Kelly, and daughter, Doris Sitgraves Cumberback.

She received her formal education in the public schools of York County, S.C. During her youth, she attended Foundation A.M.E. Zion Church and Mount Hebron Baptist Church. At age seventeen, she moved to Rock Hill. There she began attending Flint Hill Baptist Church where she confessed her faith in Christ, was baptized and joined the church under the leadership of the late Rev. Saunders. Her Christian journey began at Flint Hill Baptist Church.

It was at church where she met and married the love of her life, Thomas David Sitgraves. They were married for 63 years. To this union, four children were born.

Mattie and Thomas lived in many cities: Youngstown, Ohio; Philadelphia, Pa.; Plainfield, N.J.; and lived 25 years in Bronx, N.Y. At their retirement, they moved back home to Rock Hill, S.C.

In 1947, Mattie was ordained deaconess under the leadership of Pastor Saunders. In 1978, she returned to her spiritual roots here at Flint Hill Baptist Church and continued her service under the leadership of Pastor Walter Banks White. She was a true ambassador for Christ. She knew it was all about Jesus. She was dedicated and served Him with gladness.

Mattie was serious about her duties and was never late. She served faithfully in many of the church's ministries such as the missionary society, musical choir, mass choir, adult Sunday school, feeding of the hungry, the clothes closet, B.T.U., summer youth program, the after-school program, and Wednesday Bible study (9 a.m. and 7 p.m.). She served the deaconess ministry for 64 years and was woman of the year on more than one occasion.

Those who shared the sorrow and joy of Mattie's life and survive to cherish her memory are her daughter, Janette Simpson and her husband, George, of Phoenix, Ariz.; two sons, Laben Sitgraves and his wife, Ella, and Laurence Sitgraves and his wife, Susan, both of Rock Hill; a sister, Bessie Pitts of Clover, S.C.; two brothers, John Brown of Philadelphia, Pa., and J.C. Brown of Clover; a sister-in-law, Helen Lathan of Durham, N.C.; seven grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews and other grieving relatives and friends.

Funeral services will be 2 p.m. Tuesday, Sept. 6, 2011, at Flint Hill Baptist Church. The body will lie in state one hour before service. Her pastor, the Rev. Cedric C. Maddox will officiate. Burial will follow in Barber Memorial Cemetery. The body may be viewed Monday beginning at 3 p.m. The family will receive friends from 7 to 8 p.m. at the funeral home.

Clemons-McCray Funeral Home is serving the family.

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Published by The Herald from Sep. 3 to Sep. 5, 2011.

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Lawrence Chase(Laney)

September 17, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ward (Dub) Morrow

September 9, 2011

Janette,
Please know that God will keep and protect you through your hours of sorrow. May HE bless you and your entire family.

Ward (Dub) Morrow

September 8, 2011

May God keep and protect you during this period of sorrow. You are in my prayers.

Evelyn Coleman Hammond & Family

September 7, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 6, 2011

Larry ,I am sorry I cannot attend your Mother's service ,working unfortuntely.But you and your family will be in my thoiughts.God Bless you all.Kathy Walden

Iris Robinson

September 5, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

September 5, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Grief can be so hard but special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your love one today and always. May God bless you and give you strength and courage.

Ruth E. Miller(Bunchie)
New York, New York

deborah hemphill

September 5, 2011

mrs.sitgraves was a wonderful lady she was allways there to help anyone, she made sure if you needed a ride to church she would come and get you, she will be truly miss

September 4, 2011

Larry and Susan , thinking of you and your families . Your mother accomplished alot in her life. I remember warm memories you shared of family when you were young.My thoughts and prayers are with you for your loss.
Kathy Walden RHSC

Cynthia Roddey

September 4, 2011

May you be strengthened in your hour of sorrow by the promise of eternal life for all who believe in the promise of Heaven's peace and joy.

Larry and Gloria Burnside

September 4, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We will truly miss her.

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