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Lois Marie Hilarides

1935 - 2019

BORN

1935

DIED

2019

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Draper Mortuary

811 North Mountain Ave

Ontario, California

Lois Hilarides Obituary

April 16, 1935 - January 2, 2019 Lois was born in Fairview, South Dakota, to Rev. H.J. and Evva (Van Wyk) Aberson on April 16, 1935. She moved with her family to Rock Valley, Iowa, at the age of six weeks. Her family moved to Artesia, California, when she was 12. She attended Bellflower Christian School, and graduated in June 1952. She worked as a bookkeeper in one of the local banks in Bellflower until she was married. Lois and Frank married on June 16, 1954. There were four children born to them: Rob (Jeannie) of Visalia, Ellen (Daryl Koops) of Ontario, Larry (Cindy) of Tulare, and Mary Beth (Mike Chrisman) of Ontario, and they were blessed with thirteen grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. Lois was preceded in death by her granddaughter, Lauren Koops-Beyenhof, and grandson, Gregory Hilarides. She is survived by her husband, Frank, four children and their spouses, 11 grandchildren, and 10 great-grandchildren, sisters Bernice Visser of Visalia and Janice Auman of Artesia, many nieces and nephews. Lois loved God, Jesus her Savior, her church, and her family. A memorial service will be held on January 19, 2019 at CrossPoint Church in Chino. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts in her honor may be sent to: Inland Christian Home, Inc., Foundation Fund, 1950 S. Mountain Ave., Ontario 91762

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Published by Daily Bulletin on Jan. 8, 2019.

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Barbara

January 14, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May reflecting on all the good times you've shared together help ease the pain that you feel. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this time of sadness and His promise for the future bring you peace. (Hosea 13:14)

January 11, 2019

Lois will be missed by the many lives that she touched. We are heartbroken for the family but know that she's singing in the angels choir.
Praying for your comfort.
Love, Cheryl & Cal Westra

Jane Vanderham

January 8, 2019

Our sincere sympathy with the passing of sweet Lois. She will be missed greatly. Enjoyed walking with Lois for so many years in Creekside. Those were beautiful times with many wonderful memories together with the group. Our prayers are with you and your family. May Gods love and comfort be with you. Love, Corry and Jane Vanderham

George Groen

January 8, 2019

Dear Frank Hilarides Family,
We trust that you will be comforted with God's SHALOM, as we send our love and pray for your strength during this time of sorrow. We remember Lois as such a delightful person who was excited about life and serving God faithfully. Of course, our daughter, Roann, was in your house often as friend to Mary Beth. Always remember Frank as a great leader on the School Board and I respected him deeply. Jesus is our Rock and our Salvation, and we surrender to His will and way. ..George & Betty
P.S. We will be in the Dominican Republic attending Donald & Roann daughter's wedding, so we will not be able to attend the funeral. However, count on our interceding on your behalf.

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