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Stephan Steller Obituary

Steller, Stephan R. Entered Eternal Rest on October 14, 2012, at the age of 45. Resident of Whitefish Bay. Devoted partner of Tamara D. Murk. Loving father of Ava. Treasured son of Marshall and Sharon Steller. Dear brother of Nathan Steller and Tom (Debbie) Steller. Precious grandson of Marcelle Steller and Thelma Ray. Amazing uncle of six nephews. Further survived by other relatives and many very good friends. Stephan was an avid sports fan especially of the Oakland Teams. He was a financial planner for Ameriprise Financial. Most of all Stephan would like to be remembered for being a wonderful dad who adored his daughter Ava. Visitation will be held at the Feerick Funeral Home on Friday, October 19 from 4:00 until 7:00 PM. Services will be held in California at a later date. Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society, N19 W24350 Riverwood Drive. Waukesha, WI 53188.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Oct. 16 to Oct. 18, 2012.

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January 3, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Tamara and Ava... Stephan was such a great guy and always so fun to be around. We are going to miss you buddy..
Laura and Doug Burch

Chip Koppein

October 24, 2012

I don't know what to say other than Tamara, Ava and the rest of the Steller family are in my thoughts and prayers. We started with a business relationship that turned into a friendship within the first ten minutes I spent with him. I will remember you every time I watch a ballgame. RIP buddy.

Diane Rocha

October 22, 2012

I was shocked to hear of Stephan's passing. I grew with Stephan in our San Jose neighborhood and our parents are still very good friends. My family and I visited with Stephan and his family in Milwaukee in 2008. He was a gracious host; serving us a very Wisconsin meal. As we were leaving he gave my son a Milwaukee Bucks bobble head that's in his room to this day. I will always remember him for his light hearted attitude and gifted knowledge of sports trivia. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Steller family.

Christopher Schubert

October 21, 2012

Our condolences go out to Tamara and Ava. Stephan was always a good person to be around.

Jason Herrera

October 21, 2012

From the days at UoP to you fighting the post 9/11 mess to make it to my wedding just in time. You were a generous and genuine person that I will not forget. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Steller family.

Scott Chier

October 19, 2012

My heart goes out to Tamara,Ava and the whole Steller family. As I sit in my office this afternoon, there is a heavy sadness. I looked forward to running headlong into his quick wit and big grin all day long. He brought not only levity, but an lightness in the way he lived his life and the people he touched along the way. He was a man of great stature, great station,and great Character. A rare combination and I will miss him and his friendship dearly..

October 19, 2012

Stephan, you will be missed, your sense of humor especially, your calm, kind demeanor. Tamara my heart goes out to you, you and Ava are in my prayers.

Kathy Schorsch

October 18, 2012

I will always treasure my friendship with Stephan. He was like a brother to me. My heart goes out to Tamara and Ava, his parents Marshall and Sharon, and the rest of his family and countless friends. You will be missed.

Roxanne McCarthy

October 18, 2012

Dear Stellar Family,
I worked at Faria Elementary School with Sharon and have met Stephan a few times. My condolences to all of you at the loss of this great man! May God bring you comfort and to his wife and dear daughter Ava- I am so sorry for your loss!
Sincerely,
Roxanne McCarthy

Erik Jones

October 17, 2012

What a wonderful friend Stephan was to me and my family. He will never be forgotten. The past 3 days have been truly crushing! Our prayers are with Ava, Tamara and Stephan's family.

October 17, 2012

To have known and worked with Stephan is to have been the recipient of his humor, his kindness and his gentleness -- a true gentleman. How blessed we are. Stephan you leave an empty place in our hearts... and we shall miss your presence.
Love and heartfelt prayers to Ava, Tamara and all the Steller family.
Jeanne Adair, Southern California

Steven Voisinet

October 17, 2012

My sincere condolences. Stephan was a wonderful man and will miss him greatly!

Nicole Laris

October 17, 2012

Stephan- you will be missed! You gave me a shot when no one else would. You were an amazing person, leader, father and friend! We will all miss you but will share in the memories forever. Tamera and Ava, you are in my thoughts during this difficult time, I am so sorry for your loss!

Kahri Phelps Okoro

October 17, 2012

Tamara and Ava
You had the wonderful blessing of being around Stephan! I am deeply sorry for your loss! Stephan was truely an outstanding guy! I always called him, Stephan Steller, the stellar fella because that is what he personified! I will forever treasure his jokes, smiles, and personal insights into life. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Mike McKay

October 17, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Deborah Lombardozzi

October 17, 2012

This news about Stephan is heart breaking and such a tremendous loss for his family, friends, and acquaintances. When Stephan walked into a room everyone noticed him; not only because of his large stature, but because he displayed a positive presence. Stephan managed to find humor in everything, which could keep a serious situation from getting too severe. He always made me laugh and he kept me on my toes as my counterpart at University of Phoenix.

Although I have not seen or talked to Stephan in several years, I will still miss knowing that he is no longer with us. But, rest assured he will be watching over his family and friends from a better place. Stephan's powerful presence will remain forever.

My thoughts and prayers are with Stephan's family and friends during this difficult time.

Patrick Vasquez

October 17, 2012

He was one of my best friends. He was a big caring man with an even bigger heart.
I miss him so much. Tamara and Ava my heart goes out to you and your family. All my love to you. He was the greatest friend anyone coould ask for.

Tony Snow

October 17, 2012

Tamara and Ava our thoughts and sympathies are with you and the family.

Jamie Loris

October 17, 2012

To the Steller family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Knowing the "Wisconsin Wonder" through his best friend Erik Jones, my thoughts and prayers are with you. This world is a little bit dimmer this week, he was a great guy!

Kami Weber

October 17, 2012

I will always remember Stephan for his larger than life sense of humor and larger than life sense of compassion. His passing is a true loss and he will be deeply missed. My condolences to his family.

Linda Augsburg

October 16, 2012

Prayers to you all during this time. Stephan was a devoted father and I witnessed his love for his daughter in the days and hours preceding his untimely death. May peace be with his family and friends across the country.

October 16, 2012

Tamara and Ava-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time. My little Ben keeps asking me how Ava is doing. Please give her an extra kiss from our family.
The Volpes

October 16, 2012

Tamara and Ava-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. My little Ben keeps asking me if Ava is going be alright. Please give her an extra kiss from our family tonight.
The Volpes

October 16, 2012

You will be missed my friend. You were one of a kind - loving, bright, funny, caring, thoughtful ... an overall good man. My thoughts and prayers are with Tamara, Ava, and all of the Steller family. Love You Stephan -

Daniel Waterman

Mel Defe

October 16, 2012

I have such fond memories of Stephan that go back years. He was a wonderful human being, full of life, funny, and kind-hearted. His passing is a great loss to all of us especially his family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Bob Boehler

October 16, 2012

I knew Stephan as a client at Ameriprise. He was a great guy and always fun to be with. I will always remember the last time I spent with him at a Brewers game a few weeks ago. My sincere sympathies.

Mary Bush

October 16, 2012

Our office will NEVER be the same without him. He loved his job and was always available to provide assistance or advice. He made everyone laugh and smile with his quick wit. I'm sure there will be a void in the hearts of everyone he touched. Tamara, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Ava. My heart breaks for you.

Helen Foletta

October 16, 2012

Stephan, the world has lost a wonderful person and you will be missed.Those of us who worked with you at the University will never forget your outstanding kindness, abilities, and help. We send many prayers for your family. May God help them through this difficult time. They are constantly in our thoughts as are so many memories of you.

Paul Tereshchenko

October 16, 2012

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

October 16, 2012

Tamara,
We will keep you and your little Ava in our thoughts and prayers. The Menefees

Shelia

October 16, 2012

Tamara,

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and Ava.

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