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Harry Shelly "Jack" Nessly

Harry Nessly Obituary

Nessly, Harry Shelly "Jack" longtime Wichita resident and businessman, died August 29, 2015, in Albuquerque, New Mexico, where his three daughters reside. Born in Mulvane, Kansas, December 16, 1917, to Harry Cartwright Nessly and Jennie Shelly Nessly, Jack was delivered by Solomon T. Shelly, his grandfather and Mulvane's first doctor. Educated in Mulvane Grade School and High School Jack was President of his class in his graduating year. He was a 1940 graduate of the University of Kansas in Lawrence, with a Bachelor of Science degree in business administration. He was a member of Beta Theta Pi fraternal order, ROTC, cheerleader for four years and K-Club member as a tennis and golf player. Julia Ruth Henry married Jack in 1940, the summer of their graduating year at KU. The following year, Jack trained with the U.S. Marine Corps in Quantico, Virginia and was sent to the Samoan Islands as a commissioned officer. Later Julia joined him until the Japanese shelling began and wives were returned by ship to the states. (Julia d. 1989) Nearing the war's end, Jack retired a Lt. Colonel and was a M. C. reservist. Jack wanted to be an auto dealer like his father and secured a General Motors dealership in Belle Plaine. More than 25 years later, Jack become an account executive with Merrill Lynch in Palo Alto, California, and later returned to Kansas as a real estate broker for Tallgrass/Ritchie Corporation in Wichita. He did volunteer work into his 90s at the Kansas Sports Hall of Fame Museum in Wichita. An avid golfer throughout his life, he played many of the major golf clubs in the world. He had memberships at the Wichita Country Club and the California Club in San Francisco. His greatest joy was golfing with his Wichita friends. Preceding him in death was his wife of almost 30 years, Flora Rogers Whitmer Nessly, and stepson, Frank Whitmer. Surviving family members are stepdaughter, Joan Whitmer (Bill) Dawson of South Bend, IN; three daughters: Amy Gwinn Nessly, Jenifer Nessly Shell, Carol Nessly Carpenter, all of Albuquerque; son-in-law, Dan Carpenter; two grandchildren, Jack S. Carpenter and Ruth Carpenter (Kelly) Bauer; two great-grandchildren, Emma and Toby Bauer.

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Published by Wichita Eagle on Sep. 6, 2015.

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Rick Moe

February 8, 2016

A great man and a patriot. I will never forget the day he took me up on my offer to take my car for a spin. There we were racing down Old Town in a Corvette! Thank you for your wisdom, stories and service to our country.

Juani and Chris Burrows

September 11, 2015

Although our friendship with our neighbour Jack was short it was something we will treasure forever. We loved to spend time with Jack and had many precious moments listening to his stories from days gone by. Jack was a lovely man who loved people and was loved by many. Rest in peace Jack and may God bless you.

Linda Graham

September 8, 2015

Jack was a very dear friend of mine. We shared many good times during the "Tallgrass days". He was so thoughtful of others and always willing to help those in need. We've lost a true gentleman, may he rest in peace. My condolences to the family.

Harry Simpson

September 6, 2015

Saepe Expertus, Semper Fidelis, Fratres Aeterni.

Often Tested, Always Faithful, Brothers Forever.

Thank you for your service to this nation.

Michael Reisman

September 6, 2015

Jack was one of the nicest people I knew. Always positive, always kind, always there for his friends and his pets. I met him through Flora, his wife who recently passed away too, and they have been close friends ever since, and we also were lucky to acquire our Basset Hound from them. Jack and I played golf together and I always enjoyed his stories about a large variety of subjects. The world has lost a great man, but we are all better off and enriched by having known him.

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