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Larry J. Graham, 73, Kansas City, Mo., passed away February 21, 2014, in Foley, Ala., from complications from Alzheimer's. He was an instrumental music teacher in the Independence school system for 33 years. He also taught private lessons at Turner Music and Meyer Music for a combination of 50 years. He was preceded in death by his parents, Woodrow and Naomi Graham and his grandson, Jacob. He is survived by his wife, Vickie of the home, his son, Jeff Graham and wife Rebecca and grandchildren, Taylor, Connor, Derick, Savanah and Max of Kansas City and his daughter, Lori Williams and fiancee Lee Martin and grandchildren, Ashli and Hayden of Independence, Mo. He played in the church orchestra at Woods Chapel, and was on the hospitality and landscape teams. He loved to play golf, travel, and attend grandchildren's activities. A celebration of life will be held March 28, at Woods Chapel United Methodist Church, 4725 NE Lakewood Way, Lee's Summit, Mo. Visitation at 6 p.m. and service at 7 p.m. The family requests no flowers and suggests contributions to the Landscape fund at Woods Chapel or the Alzheimer's Association, 3846 West 75th St., Prairie Village, KS 66208 or online at alz.org

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Published by Kansas City Star on Mar. 19, 2014.

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bud taber

March 13, 2025

i miss you guys great friends
i will be 97 in april god bless
bud

bud taber

March 13, 2023

Bud Taber still thinking about you guys
i will be 95 next month.
"I ,miss Larry and you also
bye for now

March 28, 2014

So sorry for the loss of your loved one. He was very nice person to know.
Jim & Jean Denham

March 27, 2014

Vicky,So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband.Love and prayers Junior and Dianne Williams.

March 27, 2014

Vickie -- May God's love, peace, and comfort be with you and your family. George & Judy Kiser, Class of 1959

Larry Garrett

March 24, 2014

Very sorry to hear of this. The world is a lesser place without people like Larry. God Bless. RIP.

March 23, 2014

Vickie, I am so sorry you and the rest of your family has had to say good-bye to Larry. I know he will be missed. My thoughts are with you

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Alex West

March 22, 2014

So sorry for your loss of a wonderful man.

Linda Geary

March 22, 2014

Vickie, I am so sorry for your loss. Larry was such a sweet and kind person. I so enjoyed the banter between the "golf" boys. They did enjoy themselves. He will surely be missed.

Angela Williams

March 21, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Graham was my band teacher for 7th and 8th grade at Wm Chrisman Jr. High in Independence MO. In 1979 and 1980 he was such a gentle soul but so passionate about music and the young people he taught. He was a major influence on me for more than just music. He taught patience and kindness and humor. He was funny and generous. Truly a wonderful teacher! Thank you Mr. Graham.

Linda Vivian Dean

March 21, 2014

He was a great teacher. If I remember correctly, he was my band teacher when Truman was South Secondary in 1965.

Crystal Yordy

March 21, 2014

Mr. Graham was both 7th grade band at Palmer Jr. High and my private lessons teacher. He was a great teacher. His band class was one of the best parts of 7th grade for me. He will be missed, i am so sorry to know he is gone.

Roberta Goering

March 21, 2014

Mr. Graham was my music teacher in the 9th grade. We had just moved to Independence from a small town in Kansas and I was a bit overwhelmed by the changes. His band class helped me feel at home. I am sorry for your loss.

March 20, 2014

I had Mr Graham for band in 1966. He did make band fun. I enjoyed attending his class everyday.

Lindsey Barjenbruch

March 20, 2014

Mr. Graham was my first band teacher. His patience knew no bounds. A wonderful man I will never forget. His loss will be felt by many. - Lindsey (Rice) Barjenbruch

George Farquhar

March 20, 2014

I remember playing golf with Larry when we worked together at William Chrisman Junior High from 1969-74. He was a good guy, a good teacher, and a good golfer. He was always in the fairway and really good around the greens, which, if you think about it, is a pretty good metaphor for how to live your life.

Danny Pinon

March 20, 2014

Me Graham I very much enjoyed being in WCJH band because you were the leader. I think back to probably the only classes I remember and wonder.
How in the heck did you tolerate all the foolishness I created, it was only because you were one of my favorites.

March 19, 2014

Larry was a great father figure. I never heard him say one bad word about anyone. I will miss sneaking away at the kids games and buying him hot dogs. Going to lunch at Tim's Pizza and saying we ate BBQ. I know you will enjoy playing golf in Heaven where the sun is always shining and there is no wind to contend with.

Jim Williams
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March 19, 2014

Larry was a true gentlemen and a great father figure. I never heard him say one bad thing about anyone. He always had a smile and a handshake for me. I will miss sneaking away at the kids games and buying him hot dogs and going to Tim's Pizza and saying we went to eat BBQ for lunch. I know you will enjoy golf in Heaven where the sun is always shining and there is no wind to contend with.
Jim Williams

Richard Schupp

March 19, 2014

I am so sorry to hear this. Mr. Graham was a big influence and helped me along the path of being a musician. That life took me around the world, granted me experiences I could not have dreamed of and brought me life-long friends. Because of you, Larry Graham. Thank you.

Lou Reiling-Combs

March 19, 2014

Mr. Graham was my band teacher 7th thru 9th grade @ Chrisman Jr. 1966 - 1969. He was an excellent teacher and mentor. He helped instill in me a love of music and I still play my flute all these years later. My condolences to his family and friends.

Lori Givan

March 19, 2014

Vickie, I'm so sorry for your loss, and please know you're in our thoughts and prayers. I always enjoyed playing clarinet next to Larry in the orchestra at church. He always said things to try to make me laugh. Hugs and love to you.

March 19, 2014

Mr. Graham was my Jr. high band teacher and I also took Clarinet lesson's from him. His was a very patient and fun teacher and left us all with wonderful memories. Dottie Tomlinson Independence, MO

March 19, 2014

VICKIE, LOIS AND I ARE SADDENED BY THE NEWS
WE READ THIS AM. I HAVE LARRY S PICTURE IN OUR
GARAGE.YOU ARE WELCOME TO VISIT US IF YOU ARE
NEAR. GOD BLESS
BUD TABER

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4725 NE Lakewood Way, Lee's Summit, MO

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4725 NE Lakewood Way, Lee's Summit, MO

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