Alan Miller Porter

Alan Miller Porter obituary, Wilmington, NC

Alan Miller Porter

Alan Porter Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 19 to Jan. 22, 2023.
Alan Miller Porter Wilmington - Alan Porter, loving husband, father, grandfather, musician and mentor, passed away peacefully in Wilmington, NC on Monday, January 9, 2023 after a lifetime of spreading the joy of music. Born on February 28, 1933 in McKeesport, PA to William Bruce Porter and Cornelia Boggs Miller, he grew up singing with his siblings and went on to spend his life making music with community and professional performing groups. He truly loved and lived music!

After high school he served in the Air Force for four years and then performed for several seasons with the Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera. He enrolled at Mount Union College in Alliance, OH in 1957 to major in music where he received his Bachelor of Arts, cum laude, in 1961. He then attended the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana where he earned a Master of Music degree in vocal performance with performance honors. He met his future wife, Elaine, as an undergraduate, and they were married in 1961. They lived in Champaign-Urbana for two years and then moved to Fayetteville, NC where he began his 45-year career at Methodist University as a professor of music. At Methodist Alan served as Head of the Music Department and Director of the Division of Fine Arts. His role in the community was noteworthy as a tenor soloist, church choir director at Hay Street United Methodist Church, as well as within the musical theater community with Cape Fear Regional Theater, Fort Bragg Playhouse, and Circa Productions. He founded and directed the Community Chorus in Fayetteville, and later the Cumberland Oratorio Singers. Upon his retirement from Methodist University in 1998, he and Elaine moved to Kure Beach, NC where he directed the Wilmington Choral Society for nine years. He was a member of Carolina Beach Presbyterian Church and the American Guild of Organists for church musicians. In March 2017, Alan was inducted into The Fayetteville Music Hall of Fame. He entered Trinity Grove's senior care facility in Wilmington, NC in April 2019.

Alan is survived by his wife Elaine, his two sons, Greg (wife Susanna Vennerbeck) of Stow, MA, and David (wife Crystal) of Atlanta, GA, three grandchildren, Cameron Porter, Jude Porter, and Alessandra Porter, his sister Gayle Svec of North Huntingdon, PA, and numerous nieces and nephews.

A memorial service will be held at Carolina Beach Presbyterian Church, 2 pm Saturday, February 11, 2023.

For information about live streaming of the service, please write to [email protected] to request access.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Carolina Beach Presbyterian Church or the Department of Music at Methodist University in Fayetteville, NC.

Share memories and condolences with the family at www.wilmingtoncares.com.

Wilmington Funeral & Cremation - Wilmington Chapel - 1535 S. 41st Street Wilmington, NC 28403 910.791.9099.

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February 17, 2023

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January 27, 2023

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Tom Ciszek

June 6, 2025

In loving memory of Alan Miller Porter
I was a boy soprano under his direction, and music continues to shape my soul. I carry his lessons with me and hope to teach what he taught me to my son. His legacy sings on.

Monica (Marino) Davis

February 17, 2023

Elaine - I am so sorry to hear of Alan's passing. I was just thinking of him because I happened to be listening to a performance of Honneger's King David, which I participated in about 30 years ago when you guys lived in Fayetteville (I drove from Ohio to sing in it!). I think fondly back on the time when I had the privilege of performing with the chorus - my love of music has never left me. Alan was truly a blessing to many. Hugs to you and your family.

Tracy Morris

January 27, 2023

Alan Porter believed in me as a singer in the Wilmington Choral Society and helped me to perform at a higher level. He was a good and caring man. May he rest in peace...Tracy Morris

Clinton Weaver

January 24, 2023

Thank you to Alan and Elaine for all you meant to music at Hay Street United Methodist Church and Methodist College.

Wes Brown '73

January 19, 2023

A grateful remembrance of four years in the Methodist College Chorus and the joyful leadership and generous spirit of Alan Porter.
Tune: Methodist College Alma Mater

Hail to thee, dear Alan Porter,
Raise we now our praise for thee!
Singing forth our highest praises
Learning, singing, right on key.
You inspired and led with patience
Chorus, voice, ensembles, glee.
Thanks be to God for Alan Porter
Now and through eternity!

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