Barbara J. Burton

You know I was so strong those first weeks after mama died. She and I had many talks about death and hers in particular. She was not afraid of dying, though she was in no hurry as evidenced by her incredible will to live. Regardless, her time came and with it brought the peace that had been missing from her life on earth for such a long time. And now that she has been gone for a month and it's been a bit over a month since I've talked to her, and touched her, that empty spot inside me is really letting itself known. But I promised my dear mama that I would be strong, and that I would take care of the others, as she worried so about all of them. So to honor her, I will do my best and pray every day for my sisters, brother and dad to have comfort in their hearts knowing mama is in a better place and that their sadness will not hurt so much. And just like the rest of the family and all of her friends, I will forever treasure the memories of my mama. A woman so strong and so full of love. (P.S. - Mama, I still tell you "Goodnight and I Love You" every night before I go to sleep.)

You are truly the most special, treasured person I have ever known, and feel so proud to have you as my mom and friend. In my heart I am so relieved for you that you are up in heaven looking over us all, and out of your constant terrible pain, but my saddness of not being able to laugh with you, talk, touch, love on you is something that my heart aches with!!! I will love and miss you forever, and my thoughts are always of you. One day the crying will stop, and be replaced with lots of smiles and happy memories, one day........

Mom, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I miss you so much and just want to hear your voice one more time. I am at peace that you are not suffering anymore, that is what gives me the strength to push on. I will love you forever.......

My mother, Aunt Marjorie and I came to visit you for Aunt Edith’s 100th birthday. You and Barbara treated us with much kindness and lots of wonderful food and laughter. She was such a special person. She touched so many people with her warm and loving spirit. Please know that the relatives in Kansas City have you in our thoughts and prayers.
Janine McPhee (Mildred’s daughter, Lucy’s granddaughter)

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

There are so many memories . .Camping trips, trick-or-treating, Easter Eggs hunts, and weekends at our cabin. Barbara and ‘Bob’ doing all the mom stuff that as kids we took for granted, and as adults we cherish. I spoke to Barbara days after ‘Bob’ died. She said that not many people could say they had a best friend for over 50 years. They had shared experiences with kids, grandkids, happy times, sad times, celebrations and sorrows. Now, the Wiedenhoft girls share your sorrow. There are no words that can describe the loss of our moms. Deana, Debbie, Diana, Donna, and Little Kenny (yes, you will always be Little Kenny), you have been in my thoughts, knowing what you are going through during this time. Big Ken, the loss of your best friend for over 50 years, I can’t imagine, and my heart aches. Today was a wonderful celebration of Barbara’s life. I look forward to the day I can look at pictures of Barbara and Bob and our families, not with sadness for what we have lost, but with happiness and laughter for what we were given. I know they will always be together (along with that bottomless cup of coffee) and be with all of us in memory and spirit. Jan-E-Beth

Ken, I'm so sorry about Barbara's loss. I hadn't seen you in safeway for awhile to chat with you and to hear how she's doing. I love you so much and I"m gonna miss her so much. You two are very special to me and god bless you and your family. Tina from safeway :)

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of Barbara. We worked together at JCPenney and she was wonderful to work with, as she cared for everyone. My heart goes out to her family.

We have lost a close and dear friend from the time we moved here from California and knew no one. Grandma Burton invited us to join in with the family for the Christmas holiday which we did and met Ken and Barb and their 5 children who made us fit right in with our 4 children. We have enjoyed sharing many times with the family in good and sad times. Right now this is a great lost to us and we send our sincere condolences to Kenneth and the girls and son and their families. Thanks again for letting us be part of some neat times. We will miss you Barb.

Ken
I am so sorry for the loss of your Barbara. My sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts are with you.
Joanne Amrine

Barbara was my godmother and a very dear family friend of many, many years. She and I also worked together at JCPenney, after she suggested I apply. I can hear the laughter, concern, and caring in her voice whenever I think of her. Along with my mom, I learned how to be nurturing, and to work hard too, from Barbara. Family and friends are fortunate to have had her in their lives. My love to the 'Burton girls', big and little Ken, and families.

Jill Wiedenhoft, James Goranson, and Ellis

You were my aunt, my friend, and my encouragement. I will miss our conversations, and will treasure our last conversation. Beverly Huu