Barry Arnold Obituary
PLAISTOW, N.H. — Barry Joseph Arnold, 25, of Plaistow, died Sunday, June 14, 2009 in a boating accident in Hampton, N.H.
He was the fiance of Lauran Balliro, of Danville, N.H., to whom he was to be married on Sept. 18, 2009.
Born in Lawrence, son of Jayne (Stachulski) Arnold of Plaistow and the late Robert Arnold, he was raised and educated in Plaistow and was a member of the Timberlane Regional High School, Class of 2002.
Barry established Arnold's Lawn and Landscape Company in 2003 and was presently associated in partnership with his lifelong friend, Sean Cregg.
He enjoyed the beach, hunting and fishing, spending time with his family and friends and especially his fiancee, Lauran.
In addition to his mother and his fiancee, he is survived by a brother, Gary Arnold of Plaistow; his grandmother, Ida Stachulski; cousins, Valerie and Joseph DelGrosso. He was the grandson of the late John Stachulski, and will be greatly missed by many, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
ARRANGEMENTS: Relatives and friends may call on Wednesday, June 17, 2009 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Brookside Chapel & Funeral Home, 116 Main St., Route 121A, Plaistow. His funeral will be held on Thursday at 9 a.m. from the funeral home with a Mass of Christian burial at 10:30 in Star of the Sea Church, 141 North End Blvd., Salisbury. Burial will follow in Holy Angels Cemetery, Plaistow. Barry will be carried to his final resting place by his cousins, Joseph DelGrosso, Mark Scione, Jay Stachulski, Tim Grams, Gary Stachulski, Sean Quimby, his lifelong friend, Sean Cregg, and his future brother-in-law, Anthony Balliro. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Arnold Family, c/o P.O.Box 192, Plaistow, N.H.
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Sheena Dolce
June 22, 2009
Lauran and Mrs. Arnold,
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Barry's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this painful time.
patty woodman
June 19, 2009
Lauran and the Arnold Family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and the family. Such a sad day for everyone. R.I.P. Barry
Elizabeth Rogers
June 18, 2009
Jane and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family at this time of sorrow.
With my deepest sympathy,
Elizabeth Rogers
Tasha Boisvert
June 18, 2009
Jayne, Gary, and the entire family - I had the pleasure of meeting Barry only a few times but know how close your entire family is and how difficult this must be for all of you. Words can't explain how sorry I am for your loss. It is not fair that such a wonderful young man with such a bright future has been taken from us, so young, but take solace in the fact that he is at peace, with his father, and will be looking over all of you, your memories of him will help this. Jayne, stay strong and know that many people are thinking of you and are keeping you and your family in our prayers! Tasha
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DJ and Jen Robinson
June 17, 2009
Dear Lauran and the Arnold Family,
I am so sorry for your family's loss, you have our deepest sympathies.
Ashley Moniz
June 16, 2009
The Arnold Family & Lauran,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers. Barry was a wonderful person and he will truely be missed.
michele mcmanus
June 16, 2009
My prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss.
Rosanna Lavino
June 16, 2009
Lauran,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your families.
Linda Khoury
June 16, 2009
Dear sweet Lauran, my heart aches for you during this sad time. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Barry. I know that you will have many memories to help you get through this and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
Linda Khoury
Nicole Galdo
June 16, 2009
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss. Barry was a remarkably kind, generous individual, and I know his passing will leave a void in the lives of those who had the privilege of knowing him.
Lauran,
There are no words to express how deeply saddened I am that you have to endure such a heartbreak. I cannot imagine the pain you feel right now, and I do not know why such terrible things happen to such wonderful people. What I do know is that you are an extraordinarily strong person who will have the indefinite love and support of your family and friends in the difficult days that lie ahead. Your dignity and grace will forever be a testament to Barry’s memory.
“However long the night, the dawn will break.”
Angela Ray
June 16, 2009
My condolences to Lauran and the Arnold family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart to goes out to everyone who knew Barry...even though this is a tough time you must always remember the days that he put a smile on your face. It is the good times you want to remember and cherish forever.
Krista & Nina Wood
June 16, 2009
Lauran, I am shocked and sadden to hear of your loss. Anything you need please don't hesistate to ask. We are all here for you.
Cathy Darah Jones
June 16, 2009
Lauran,
I can't imagine the pain that you are going through. I know that nothing anybody says will help you feel better, but I hope you take comfort in the fact that we are all thinking about you and are willing to help you in anything that you might need. My heart is heavy for you and the Arnold Family.
Jeanette & Fernand St. Pierre
June 16, 2009
We did not know Barry personaly but we feel like we did from hearing our Son-In-Law Chris and daughter Lillian speak so kindly of Barry. He was the best of friend with Chris.
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you Lauran and Gary and his Mom.
May God give you all peace and comfort.
Kim Varney Chandler
June 16, 2009
Barry was such a great person. I was lucky to have both him and Lauran as my students while I was at TRHS. I am so very sorry for your loss. My love is with you all.
Karri Khoury
June 16, 2009
To the entire family, with deepest sympathies. You are in our thoughts always. RIP Barry, you will be sadly missed.
The Dowd Girls
June 16, 2009
Jayne,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time of your life. I'm sure he is with your husband now and hopefully with Mom and Dad.
Peggy Dichard
June 16, 2009
My sincerest condolences to Jayne, Gary, Lauren & the rest of the family for this most shocking loss. Barry was a very nice young man that any parent would be proud to call their own. He will be missed by all.
charles adams
June 16, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Al Vignart
June 16, 2009
My condolences to Lauran, Sean, and the entire Arnold family for such a tragic loss.
I recently met Barry at Sean's parents' house, and was extremely impressed with his personality, manners, attitude and disposition.
RIP, Barry.
Jennifer Prescott
June 16, 2009
Lauran,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. If you need anything let me know how I can help.
Carol McDonough
June 16, 2009
Jayne,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to u. U will be in my prayers.
I lost my 1st daughter too so I know the pain your feeling.
Don't ever let go of the good times
If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask'
Love u girl, Carol
Judy Quintal
June 16, 2009
Jane and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Mahar
June 16, 2009
Dear Lauran and Family,
Meghan and I are so very sorry for your loss. Barry was such a great young man. We wish there was something we could do to ease your sorrow.
With Love, Cindy and Meghan Mahar
Linda Roope
June 16, 2009
Lauran,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at such a hard time. Remember, you have a lot of friends at CVS. Let us know if we can help! We are here for you!
Gretchen Morrow
June 16, 2009
Lauran
You are in my thoughts... I am so sorry. please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Pamela Putnam
June 16, 2009
Lauran,
Thinking of you at this extremely difficult time.I'm here if you need anything.
Jacqueline Guilmette
June 16, 2009
Barry,
I had the honor of spending 25 years with you. I have fond memories of watching you on the beach riding the waves, fishing and the best was was when you took your last walk on the beach before your father passed away. I witnessed two men sharing wonderful moment and even though I could not hear what you were saying, it was understood the love the two of you were feeling toward each other. Today is my birthday, I give to you my day and will honor the man you are and the memories we shared. I love you always, your cousin, Jacqueline
Rella Bartlett
June 16, 2009
Barry, you were only here for such a short time, but you made a huge impression on all you came in contact with. Your future was cut short by a tragic accident that won't soon be forgotten. My heart is with the loved ones you leave behind. R.I.P. Kid.
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