Captain John Bailey
Captain John Bailey
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Captain Bailey Obituary
BAILEY _ Captain John tragically left us April 12, 2005. John was born August 23, 1972. At an early age, he moved across Canada with his parents Pat and Wayne and sister Kym. He spent time in Whitehorse, Yukon and Fort Nelson on the Alaska Highway. In 1988 he moved with his family to South Surrey and graduated from Semiahmoo High in 1990. He graduated from BCIT in Helicopter Engineering. He then trained as a fixed wing pilot, followed by commercial helicopter pilot certification at Boundary Bay Airport. John flew for his father's company, "Bailey Helicopters" in the northern BC Oil and Gas industry. He received his I.F.R. and A.T.P.L. ratings. He flew the S76 on the Vancouver-Victoria shuttle and Helijets Air Ambulance. John fulfilled his dream of being a helicopter pilot; however his life's greatest gift was his ability to befriend anyone with a single smile. He was loved by so many people and loved people so much. Even in death he donated life to six people. He is survived by his best friends: his parents Pat and Wayne and sister Kym (her children Joshua and Alexis); brother-in-law Brent; stepmother Judith and her children Tacita, Heidi and Josh. He will also be profoundly missed by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and so many very close friends. A Celebration of life to be held on Saturday, April 16, 2005 at 2:00 p.m. at Victory Memorial Park Funeral Centre, 14831 28th Avenue, Surrey. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to BC Transplant Foundation, 555 West 12th, Vancouver, BC V5Z 3X7. Victory Memorial Park Funeral Centre 604-536-6522
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92 Entries
Dean Elliot
April 15, 2010
I still think of John on a daily basis. I really wish he was still around today, so I could thank him in person for all the joy in my life he has given me. Not only was he a great friend and co-worker he also introduced me to my wife. On my wedding day we all made a toast to John, I still wish to this day he could have been there standing by my side.
John you will always be in my thoughts!
April 14, 2010
I was an admirer of John's and was a year younger than him. He had such a gentle heart and people loved being around him. Even though I didn't know him personally I had lots of friends who knew him and spoke of him highly.
My prayers are with his family..
-Kari McNiven
Alison Nootebos
April 15, 2007
I also think of John often and even more so in the last week. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Charity Parkinson
April 14, 2007
As it was John's memorial day on the 12th, I have been thinking about him a lot. He is always in my heart and in my thoughts. He often pops up in my dreams and I always feel grateful that he is still in my life that way. I will always remember John and his generosity and his sense of humour. I wish his family and loved ones all the best and my heart is with you all.
Delwyn Boutwell
May 31, 2006
I had the pleasure of working with John at Helijet. He was such a great guy to work with, so much fun to joke around with. I had given notice that I was leaving to move to Calgary with my family and on my second-to-last day, John was joking around, saying, "you're not going anywhere", I laughed and asked him if he was working tomorrow, he assured me that he was and I told him I would say goodbye to him then as it was my last day. That was the night that John left us ... I never did say goodbye. He was just such a quality guy, my thoughts and prayers are with you still.
John holding Caden James Osmack,24 hours old
May 5, 2006
Judi Bridal
May 5, 2006
John..I only knew him for a short time. He was a very special friend of my son-in-law and my daughter. (Sean and Melanie) he was Sean's best man and one of the very first people to hold my grandson Caden. Sean and John made a mini movie called "Dance Johnie Dance". I think of that movie often, and it makes me smile. I can't imagine your pain. How proud you must be to have created and raised such an amazing young man. John came to my home on numereous occasions and he always brought that special smile. I miss him, I miss hearing about his latest antics..God bless you and John.
Rebecca Lee
April 16, 2006
Dear John,
Once again I seem to be far away in physical presents from family during this difficult time. However, my thoughts and remembrance were never far from home and you. Despite the fact I could not stand by your grave or walk in memory at Jericho Beach, trust I was with you. Although it was not the beach, here in Ottawa, I walked down to the river and placed a flower in the water to be taken away with the current. I stood and watched and thought of you….. I just wanted to say that I miss you my dear cousin.
Lots of love, Becks
Charity Parkinson
April 13, 2006
I was at the beach lastnight with several of John's close friends and family. It was beautiful to be around all those who share love for John as I do. He is in my heart and my thoughts, and often my dreams. One of the things that his anniversary reminds me of, is that we should always remember to cherish the ones that we love in our lives and to show them that as much as we can, because every moment counts. I miss you John!
Bob McTiernan
April 13, 2006
John's own words:
"...Love, the joy, the pain.
Everything rolled into one,
It's not one thing in my life that makes me
incredibly happy.
So many beautiful moments...."
by John Wayne Bailey
Murray Bailey
April 13, 2006
I would like to share these thoughts I have of my remarkable cousin.
JOHN IS WITH US
John is with us when we find
subtle beauty
in the ordinary.
He is with us when we dare
to follow our dreams,
when we face challenges with quiet confidence.
John is with us when we share
more of ourselves
than would seem possible.
He is with us
when we are there for others
and take pleasure in their joy.
John is with us
when we take delight in discovery,
when we allow ourselves a sense of wonder.
He is with us
when we choose
the path less traveled.
John is with us when we offer someone a hand,
when we bring a smile to someone�fs face,
when we share a laugh.
He is with us when we have
a positive outlook
and when we put others at ease.
John is with us when we do
the little things that make a world of difference.
John is with us when we are at our very best.
Hugh McDonald
April 13, 2006
miss you john...enjoyed one today in your honour...in class I talked about you today...a big smile came across my face
Michelle Gillett (nee Lyttle)
April 12, 2006
I just wanted to say that i am thinking of John and his family today. I know how hard the first anniversary is when you lose someone you love. I hope a cherished memory of John makes you smile today.
Brent Cook
April 12, 2006
john
a year has passed since you have left us, in the physical sense, but your spirit will remain with us forever. nothing in my life has ever reminded me of the fragility of human life as much as your untimely passing has. it is hard some days to remember this but there always seems to be moments that catch my attention and remind me. when they do , they stop me in my tracks and i think of you. i am sad when i do, but these moments also help me make the most of my day because i reminded that today is all we really have. no matter how much we worry about the future.
love brent
Jenny Haskins
April 12, 2006
John, I think about you and your family so often. I still can't believe you are no longer here. I saw this poem at the beach the other day, and thought of you....
"Those whom we love go out of sight, but not out of mind; they live on in the hearts of those they leave behind."
Kym Cook
April 10, 2006
It's hard to believe that the cherry blossoms are in full bloom again. A reminder that is still painful, yet John would remind us to see the beauty in the renewed life that is surrounding us.
Tomorrow, (April 11), my mom and I are going to John's grave site for 4:30 then going out for dinner to Iguanas in White Rock. Should anyone like to join us, to talk and to remember John's brilliant smile together, please do.
Sabrina Chatterton
March 2, 2006
John,
It has been a long time since you have passed almost a year. First time I found out was when the Transplant society posted a story about your donation. I opened up the paper and saw your smiling face and then read the shocking story that you had passed away. I couldn't believe it, I couldn't accept it. I met you at the Roxy with your friend. We became great friends and met there often. I will never forget those great memories. Years later I would run into you and we would talk the same way as if no time had passed. I miss your smile. I miss your wit. I don't know how you passed but I am incredibly sad that you're gone. My deepest sympathies to your family and all your friends.
Michaela Fox
February 6, 2006
John was a great friend to me when I was in Vancouver 8 years ago. I met him at the Roxy nightclub and we became friends. Our friendship continued after I left Canada and returned home to Australia. He made me smile and laugh and every time I heard from him, it made my day. It was only last week that I learned of John's death. It was such a terrible shock and my heart goes out to John's family and friends, and all those who loved John.
John, thank you for helping to make my time in Vancouver so much fun. You were my saviour on my last day and i remember our day together in Kitsilano fondly. Thank you for always making me smile and being a great support, even from so far away. I will miss you.
You will continue to make me smile and i don't doubt that you are smiling too.
Michaela Fox
brent cook
November 15, 2005
john
it's been a while since i talked to you this way, and i hope nobody minds that i use this site to do so. went to see you on remembrance day. said hi to your grandma to. i went to play you some tunes, say what i wanted to say and was then going to go my own way...so to speak. things didn't quite go that way. when i arrived there was an older gentleman cleaning up his wifes grave site with the help of his son. seems they were there to plant 100 tulips that will bloom twice. they asked me if it was okay to plant some around cicely's grave and i thought that would be nice. we talked for a fair bit about a number of things, life, death, religion, communication, music...etc. good conversation sometimes comes at the least likely of times but is always nice to engage in, especially with someone new. by the time we shook hands and said goodbye to one another it had started to rain heavily so i popped open my umbrella and managed to huddle beneath it for awhile. played you a couple of songs and said what i came to say, left you a poppy and then left to warm my hands at the nearest coffee shop. despite being very cold as i left i felt incredibly warm inside. we are all connected somehow and it is so easy to see when we don't close our eyes to the fact...or the facts that are constantly around us. experiences are greater than possesions and i am constantly reminded of this every time i see your picture on my wall.
talk to you soon
love brent
Jason Dedels
September 7, 2005
To all of John’s family and friends my deepest sympathies. I met and worked with John at Helijet where I was fortunate enough to experience his humorous personality and fun loving demeanor. My heart goes out to all who knew John and to my fellow employees at Helijet.
Susan Laverock
August 23, 2005
Today is John’s birthday. He would have been 34 had he not been taken from us so tragically over four long months ago. Our family, Aunt Sue and cousins Amy, Sarah, and Caroline, Carissa and Tyler are thinking especially today of Pat, Wayne, Kym and all those many family members and friends who loved him.
Today, on John's birthday, we celebrate his life and we will renew one message, among many, that his death brought so significantly to us – that is to live life to the fullest and value each day with family and friends. His birthday gift to us is the remembrance of his smile, his humour, his work ethic, and his eagerness to explore new places while still being very much anchored in his family.
We miss you John so very much.
Oh yes, John, I have to tell you that rose you gave me three Thanksgivings ago is still blooming with beautiful orange blossoms and it is the first thing I see when I step outside my door each day. Our fondest love and our birthday wishes. You remain in our hearts.
Sue, Amy, Sarah and Caroline Laverock.
Sarah Laverock
August 14, 2005
John,
I think about you everyday, but today I cannot seem to get you out of my mind. You were so loved by our family and your presence is so incredibly missed.I need to say some things to you as I am coming to terms with my loss.
After the night at the hospital I had an incredibly vivid dream that I lost you and I kept searching to find you. I would not give up until I did. These dreams continued every night for two weeks. But John, I realized soon after that that I have found you. I see you every time a helicopter flies overhead. At Carissa's 6th birthday - the first family function after our loss, a helicopter flew by and everyone stopped what they were doing because we knew you were watching us from above. I find you again when I hear Kym laugh your same laugh. I find you when I see the eyes of your beautiful niece and nephew. I also find you in my dreams but now they put a smile to my face because they make me remember what a remarkable person you were.
I want you to know that while the pain has not vanished for our family, we are at peace.
I want to thank you for the man you always were - a man who loved unconditionally, a man who saught after his dreams, a man who brought a smile to everyone's face just being in your presence, a man who loved so much.
If there is one lesson to be learned in this it is to live our lives more like you did.
You are a role model to so many people.
I love you very much, cous.
See you in my dreams,
Sarah
Hugh McDonald
July 29, 2005
To John's family and friends... I like many others miss John a lot. We met at a kits watering hole and enjoyed many conversations about everything life had to offer. I hadn't known him for very long but from what I know of him he was a stand up guy and very fun to be around. As a teacher I remind kids everyday... treat each day like your last... love people... enjoy friends and family... and explore your passions... just like my friend John did! John, your spirit lives on... John... like phil... I to went out and signed my organ donor card not long after your service to celebrate you... you are an inspiration... many sympathies to your family and many friends... it is with a heavy heart that I say your legacy will live on in the hearts and minds of the many lives you touched! Take Care!!
bob mctiernan
July 25, 2005
Dear Ace,Judith, Patti, Kym,
I continue to re-read "John's Leagcy" all the entries. John is a "Man's Man" I sit here sad---then I am "pinched" to remember -I will get to see Him soon and see what he has been up to since leaving. My hope. You have to be so proud of John.
Love u guys
mct
Brent Cook
July 24, 2005
John
Went for a run this morning. Physically I was alone but spiritually you were with me. Perhaps that was why it was the best one I've had in quite awhile. Thank-you. Think of you lots, shed lots of tears and love to look at the picture of you throwing Joshua high in the air in your mom's pool.For me,there is no better picture that says it all about your adventurous spirit than the photo taken of you in your pilots suit giving the thumbs up symbol to the camera and wearing a great big smile on your face as your helicopter sits in the middle of the road in the background and an ambulance is to the left of you. I LOVE IT and remember it often when I believe I'm forgetting what life is really supposed to be about...ADVENTURE. Talk to you again soon.
Love Brent
Dallas Rattray
July 8, 2005
wow so many old names i see here =/
with me leaving Fort Nelson when i was 16, its hard to remember everyone, but when i seen this obit in the news paper i thought hmmm i know that guy, i was same age as him and went to school with him, also figure skated with his big sis kym.... so sad =( My deepest sympathy to family and friends.
Jon & Gerry Nimmo
July 4, 2005
Wayne, Pat and Kym
We are very sad to hear of your loss. John sounded like he turned out to be a fine young man. John always had an infectious smile and was always a gentleman.
ART FRASER
July 1, 2005
we are very sorry for you loss our thoughts are with you.
art jr
mason
jen
Holli Moncrieff
June 29, 2005
I first met John in Grade 7, back in Fort Nelson, and am not too proud to admit I had a HUGE crush on him.
John was one of the kindest people I have ever met, and true to form, he handled my attentions with grace. By the time he moved away in Grade 9, we were good friends, and managed to stay in touch, although a few years have passed since I last heard from him.
To the Bailey family, my deepest sympathies. John was the type of person who brought light into the world in many different ways. I'm sure everyone who knew him at any stage of his life misses him terribly. What a great loss of a wonderful man who had unlimited potential.
Ron Zalko Sport Club
June 23, 2005
Our heartfelt sympathy to the family of John Bailey who passed away tragically at the age of 32. John was a fine young man and an inspiration to our club members. He was dedicated to fitness and we are proud to have him as a member of our fitness "family" at the Ron Zalko Sport Club.
Harry Wilson
June 22, 2005
John and I were good friends when we were in elememtary school in Fort Nelson. My deepest sympathes goes out to Pat, Wayne and sister Kim for your loss. The memories of our friendship will never be forgotten.
Joy Dougans [Burkinshaw]
June 21, 2005
As I read the article in the Province, 'Our Son, Our Hero,' I realized that I knew this 'Hero'; I had taught him in grade 4 in Fort Nelson. I have very fond memories of a fun-loving little guy with a great smile that was bursting at the seams with life. It is heartwarming to know that he grew up to be such a warm, caring and generous adult. My sincerest sympathy to the family. May God bless and keep you.
Kym Cook (Bailey)
June 20, 2005
Each day is getting a little easier for myself and my parents. But there is still tremendous sadness that our John is no longer with us. Your kind thoughts and prayers are helping us through each day. We are very proud that John's spirit touched so many.
Thank you.
Kym (John's sister)
Rob Rees
June 20, 2005
I will always remember John as an amazing person who's door was always open to his friends. He will be missed by many.
Cindy MacArthur
June 20, 2005
Dear Bailey Family,
I did not know John, but read his story in the Province on June 19th and was touched. It brought a tear to my eye because it seems that he was such a great person, and was loved so dearly by all who knew him. I just want to offer a stranger's condolences on your loss.
Roger Rees
June 20, 2005
Claire, Nicole, Robert and myself were neighbours of the Baileys since 1988.
For years, almost every Saturday morning John and I would see who could be the first one out washing the family cars. I always enjoyed talking with John, and he was just the kind of person that was likable from the moment you met him.
He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. John's dad, Wayne, is one of my best friends, and our deepest sympathy goes out to entire Bailey family for their loss.
Regards,
The Rees family
White Rock
Alice and Ted Price
June 20, 2005
Dear Pat, Wayne and Kym - We do not know your sorrow - but we do know deep sorrow and can relate with you.
Our son, Captain Wayne Price, was killed in a tragic plane crash on January 17, 2004, following take off from Pelee Island in Lake Erie.
Wayne was 32 years of age, a graduate of Trinity Western Universities Flying Academy. He, like John loved flying.
When we read the Give Life British Columbia Transplant Society article in Sunday's Province we saw so many similarities as Wayne volunteered in several Africian countries.
We so regretted that we were unable to donate Wayne's vital organs as the plane was not recovered for ten days.
If you see fit we would like to hear from you.
Morley & Betty McEwen
June 19, 2005
Wayne, Pat & Kim
Our deepest sympathy on your loss of John. We were really shocked when Del & Nadeen called tonight to let us know. Our thoughts are with you.
Del and Nadeen Drew
June 19, 2005
We were shocked to read the passing of your son. They say that they grow so fast and they leave us so quick. Sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tina Collinson
June 19, 2005
Dear Pat, Wayne, and Kym,
It's been so long (too long) since we last saw one another. Mom, Dad, Garnet and I just wanted you to know that you are all in our thoughts. It's hard to believe that John, the sweet kid I knew in Fort Nelson, is gone. I have many wonderful memories of hanging out with Kym and John in the basement of your blue house in Fort Nelson. We had so much fun there - our own real life "70's Show". It sounds like John grew up to be a remarkable person. I only wish I knew him as an adult. Thank you for his gift of life. How wonderful that John's beautiful spirit will live on in so many others. Not to mention inspire countless others to be as giving.
Phillip White
June 19, 2005
Bailey-we always had a good laugh on many of our trips to the local kits watering holes-talking about flying and women, always trying to figure out the latter-im still bloody trying! miss those nights, you were living my dream John, so glad that I got to know you and will never forget that last night when we all piled in a cab and went downtown-hilarious!-I signed my organ donor form today -thanks John
Jenny Haskins
June 18, 2005
Dear Pat, Wayne and Kym
I am so deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. I grew up next door to your family in White Rock and I have many fond memories of John. After leaving White Rock I seemed to bump into him often, and was fortunate enough to have many conversations with him. I hope during these sad times that you can find some comfort in the fact that you - his family were so important to him. His positive attitude, love of life, infectious smile and kind demeanor will never be forgotten by anyone who knew him. He was an unbelievable person, the world was blessed with his presence.
My thoughts are with you all, God bless you.
Jenny Haskins
Med Velasco and family
June 18, 2005
I had the pleasure of teaching John and helping him fufill his dreams of becoming a pilot in 1990. Wayne had asked me to teach John with the aim to finish his training in the shortest time possible. I quickly observed that John's determination, patience, perseverance would make John a great pilot. He was an extremely committed student, very focused and responsive to the challenges. We flew morning, afternoon and had ground school in the evening and he never complained. He successfully completed his Helicopter Commercial Pilot Training in record 6 weeks time. John is one of the best helicopter student pilots I have taught in my career. It was a pleasure for me to be part of his aviation career and watch John grow as a pilot and as a young man.
John's greatest assets were his patience, perseverance, reliability, and his famous "big smile". John will be missed not only in the aviation industry and the community as well. Wayne and your family, our heart goes out to you all.
Bonnie and Roy Peterson
May 25, 2005
Pat, Wayne and family: We are so saddened of your loss of John. We just read an old issue of the Ft. Nelson News and were so shocked. It has been several years since we last saw you but we still think of our times together in Ft. Nelson. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely Bonnie and Roy
T. Haywood
May 17, 2005
To John's Dad & Mom and the rest of his family and friends.
I did not know John but my daughter is a captain like John was at Helijet. It sounds like John was a wonderful, wonderful person and like us you must have been very proud of him when he became a captain. No one knows why these things happen but they alter your life forever and I hope you have some peace after reading all the tributes and realize how much of a positive impact John had on everyone. He certainly sounds like he was a very special person. My deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
Sincerely,
Meggin Carter
May 17, 2005
I have not seen John since high school and I am in disbelief of this extremely sad news. John and my now husband Jim were playing 3 on 3 when I first met Jim. My heart is filled with sorrow for your families loss. John was an amazing generous and talented man.
Jennifer Castela
April 29, 2005
I knew John in Vancouver and have had the honour to spend lots of time within his circle of friends. We've had fun conversations and I'm greatly saddened that he has past on. I've always admired his way with people. He has a special energy, a happy magnetic energy, that people love to be around. I hope his energy stays with me forever. He is a man to learn from.
Gaiya Miller(maiden name O'Connell)
April 28, 2005
I went to high school with John in Fort Nelson, I did not see him again until November 1998. We had signed up for the same acting class in Vancouver. We ended up working together during that class and had a great time. Although we did not see each other that often over the last 6 years, when we did he always had a good story and a smile to share. My thoughts go out to his family.
Michelle Gillett
April 25, 2005
I think everyone has that one special person from their past that will forever hold a piece of their heart. For me that person is John. Although it has been 13 years since he was my boyfriend, it feels like only yesterday that we met. I will forever cherish the many beautiful memories of the time we spent together. He was an amazing person and i was lucky to have known him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Michelle Gillett (maiden name Lyttle)
Mickey Moore
April 25, 2005
It is with great sadness and disbelief that I heard today of John's passing. He was not only my best friend in high school, but also best man in my wedding. Although we spoke more infrequently as years have passed and we pursued endeavors thousands of miles apart, each visit felt like we hadn't missed a day. My heartfelt condolences and prayers go to John's family and friends - I am sorry I wasn't aware of this earlier to be there for you. May God provide us all with peace and closure during this tragic time of loss. My memories of John will forever be treasured.
Jennifer Crape
April 25, 2005
John was a very good friend of mine growing up in Fort Nelson, BC. We lost track of each other after I left university at UBC but I often thaught about him. He always made me laugh and we could talk about anything. He was a very good friend. I can't believe he's gone. I will miss you, but we will see each other again one day.
Chris McTiernan
April 21, 2005
Wayne
I do not know you. My dad has sat and talked about what has happened at length---explained your son's accomplishments --his phenomenal personality--a giver--exceptional man--who has just became a Captain.
My father is quiet these days-around us-he told me-he only met John 5 times--and as others say--made him feel terrific with "That smile"-My father oftten chats about "the good old days" and when he talks about you and Steve---we always laugh and ask for more
I am sad that you and your family have suffered the loss of John.
My dad says you and John will definetly be together again. I believe that.
Chris McTiernan
Amy Delfs (Gullackson)
April 21, 2005
I was saddened to hear that JOHN had past away.I have fond memories of him living in Ft.Nelson.I can remember his passion for basketball and his kind heart towards any one who crossed his path.I'm fortunate enough to have had a friend like him.I send my love and prayers to his family and always will be grateful for my friendship with John Bailey.
Neil Bailey
April 20, 2005
Captain John you were an amazing person and you are now my guide watching over me in life. I pray and wish that someday we will all be together again. If there was ever a real "Superman" it was you John Boy. Your strength and goodness carries on in our hearts and in our souls. I am so proud of you, so proud. Thank you for guiding me home and in life.
Love - Uncle Neil
Corky & Lois Hall
April 20, 2005
So sorry to hear about your terrible loss. Our deepest sympathies.
Leanne Furlani
April 19, 2005
What a tragic loss. I ran into John several months ago after not seeing him for several years. I commented to him that he hadn't changed one bit from highschool. Infectious smile, great laugh. Truely one of the nicest guys I've ever known. I really got to know John playing badminton together at Semi. He was a great team player who made the sport so much more for his fellow team mates. My heart goes out to John's family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Janis Marchment
April 19, 2005
I work at Helijet, and I will miss that ray of sunshine that shone at Helijet when John peered in the pilot window to get his weather. It didnt matter if the rain was pouring down, his face lit up the room. We'll miss his positive attitude and his joy.
Janis
Curtis Humphrey
April 18, 2005
The only answer that I have come to is that heaven was short an angel and took one of the best we had. I miss my friend. I keep waiting for him to walk around the corner with that smile on his face and the twinkle in his eye. To the family my deepest condolances. The other day, I like many people, saw many sides of John that we never knew existed, all of which was very positive, which speaks volumes about John and his affect on others. I look forward to to walking around the corner and seeing you smile again. You can fly with me anytime.
Ollie Mogdan
April 18, 2005
CHERISHED MEMORY
You can shed tears that John has gone,
Or you can smile because he has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray
that John will come back,
Or you can open your eyes
and see all that he has left.
Your heart can be empty because
you can't see John,
Or you can be full of the love that you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow
and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow
because of yesterday.
You can remember John and
only that he's gone,
Or you can cherish his memory
and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what he'd want:
smile, open your eyes,
love and go on.
Wayne, we are praying that your heart will be soothed and your spirit restored.
Ollie
Bob McTiernan
April 18, 2005
Ace/Judith/Patti/Kym
There are no words--I can put here that will fill the emptiness we feel now-EXCEPT--CAPTAIN JOHN---is a LEGACY--and certainly will live on forever here on earth--with all those who were fortunate to know him --The Lord had a purpose for him here--he accomplished so much!!affected so many lives as witnessed on Saturday. John has received his ultimate wings-- the Lord has bigger plans and work now-he has been chosen to serve in a much higher calling than our finite minds can conceive-The blessing is ---you will get to be with John again--and see all his NEW accomplishments. This is only the beginning---not the end!!!
MCT
Chrissie Bowker(maiden name Trewhella)
April 18, 2005
Wishing John's family and friends all the sympathy and love with this sad news. I live in Europe now but sat next to John all through Semiahmoo. A school friend emailed to let me know the sad news. Reading the other entries the main comment is of John's bright smile and that's also how I remember him -a truly friendly spirit that was a joy to have around. He will be remembered with a smile.
Sunny Leeder
April 17, 2005
I barely knew John like family and friends....but i was really saddened by his loss...he was a genuine sweet person who danced with the best of them (especially at my birthday in pemby)..thanks for my flight to Victoria Bailey...My thoughs are with his family and friends...........
Sun
Shannon Fera
April 17, 2005
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I never knew John but my father tells me good things. My prayers are with you all during this time.
Maywai So
April 17, 2005
John was one of those people who has an unforgettable infectious smile. He was a great pilot and a better friend. He will be missed.
erika banks
April 17, 2005
I knew John from highschool and we met up again during my last trip to Canada in April 2002. I am so deeply shocked by this incredible loss and find it so hard to believe, that I am speechless. I wish that I could have attended his service on the 16th, if only to help come to terms with this terrible tragedy. My heart and thoughts go out to his family. I know how much you meant to him and cannot even imagine what you are going through now. May his smile and warmth stay with you through this such difficult time and may you find peace in the thousands of wonderful memories you have of his time with us. If I could give you a hug across this ocean between us I would. I am so deeply deeply sorry.
Katrina Igglesden
April 16, 2005
All I can say is what a guy...anybody that knew John is a better person because of it. I met John through a friend that worked with him at Helijet...I'll never forget how he brought me flowers on our first date and the time he and I spent salsa dancing in his living room. He was definitely one of a kind. I hadn't seen John in awhile, but I was very sad to hear of his passing...to John's family, my heart goes out to you and I am so sorry for your loss.
Anita (Hume) Berekoff
April 16, 2005
My heart was saddened to hear of John's passing. I went to high school with John, and memories of his infectious laugh and charming personality will always be with me. He was always willing to help others..a trait that is evident in his organ donation. My thoughts and prayers are with his family in their time of sorrow. God bless.
Deana Burns (Grieve)
April 16, 2005
I knew John in high school, he was a true friend, kind and thoughtful and still when I think of him he's always got a smile. Please know, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time.
Alison (Lebeck) Nootebos
April 16, 2005
John was my first boyfriend in high school. I am deeply saddened to hear this tragic news. He was such a sweet person who will always own a piece of my heart. To the family- I am so, so sorry.
Christine Seath (maiden name Blas)
April 16, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to John's family. I knew John from high school and later met up with him again. He was a sweet, kind man with a big heart and a winning smile. He will be sadly missed.
Shiela Nutley
April 16, 2005
I am still in disbelief that I am never going to see John again. I will forever remember him as I last saw him on Friday night. All dressed up, happy, and having a great time. His perfect smile, perfect face, and perfect heart. I will miss him. My heart goes out to his family. I can only imagine the pain you are all feeling and for that I am truly truly sorry.
Jay Minter
April 16, 2005
John was and will always be remembered as a truely blithe spirit, so joyful and effervescent.
We are all the better for having had him touch our lives.
To all who knew John, especially his family and friends, my deepest, heartfelt sympathy.
Carolyn Davies (Niblett)
April 16, 2005
I feel truly honored to have known John. There are few people who you meet in life who touch you as being great in every sense of the word. John was one of those people! My condolences to all family and friends.
Charity Parkinson
April 15, 2005
I met John when I moved here in August last year. He quickly became a good friend and he was very close to my heart. He was one of those very unique people who you can share anything with, no matter how odd it may sound. He was open hearted and gentle and beautiful inside and out. He will always be a part of my heart and knowing him, even for a short time, has influenced my life greatly.
I send you all my best!!
Love
Charity
Richard & Sue Latham
April 15, 2005
Wayne,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
Dean Elliot
April 15, 2005
John will never be forgotten, he touched us all with his smile, kindness, and understanding. John was much more than a co-worker he was a friend that I will never forget. Thank you John for all that you have tought me, I will always remember you. Keep smiling buddy!!!
valorie Lebeck
April 15, 2005
We had the pleasure of meeting John, through his courting our daughter, Alison.
We have manywonderful memories of him.
We enjoyed his humour and many times we were brought to tears with his humorous antics.
We were so proud of him when he was able to fulfill his dream of being a pilot.
John is a very special soul and for some unknown reason he was called to the next level.
Bless you all in his memory.
valorie and Patrick Lebeck
Dawn Merritt
April 15, 2005
I have known john for many years growing up in whiterock, his smile and laughter will be greatly missed. my deepest sympathy for his family.
Angela Kind
April 15, 2005
A kind soul with a sparkle in his eye. Whether serious or joking, he was always loved and appreciated, didn't know him well but wanted to. I will miss him very much and all that he had to teach. My prayers are with all that knew him and miss him.
Nicole Lundy (Rees)
April 15, 2005
John will be forever loved and remembered by so many. It's so touching to know that his precious life is being shared with so many others. I send all of my love to his family and friends.
Shannon Campbell
April 15, 2005
We all loved you and will miss you very much. You touched so many people.
crystal c.
April 15, 2005
John had a smile that could light a room and was loved by many. He will forever be in our hearts.
God Bless.
Cheryl Fraser
April 15, 2005
I work at Helijet and although I did not know John all that well he had the kindest smile.
He will be greatly missed.
With thoughts of deepest sympanthy,
Ashling Sutherland
April 15, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of John Bailey. He was well liked at Helijet by everyone who knew him and this tragic accident leaves an empty whole in all of our hearts. I will miss his smiling face and cheery attitude. He continued to make everyone proud of him and even if his last moments, he gave life to six other people. I am honored that I knew John and he will never be forgotten.
Ashling Sutherland
Lorelei Mooney
April 15, 2005
I didn't know John very well, but I could easily tell you that if you ever got the chance to meet him or get a smile from him, you could definitely call yourself lucky. Not everyone gets the chance to meet someone like him. He is very deeply missed.
Gary & Sandy Caplan
April 15, 2005
Wayne - Our hearts go out to you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss. We know he goes on living in the six lives he's saved and that he had another purpose in this life.
I'll miss him. (Curly)
Your friends Gary & Sandy
Glenn & Barb Gretsinger
April 15, 2005
John's visits to Campbell River were much anticipated by his relatives & friends who know him. It was an opportunity for his Uncle Brian & Aunty Verna to showcase the multi-talented and humble young man.
Each visit would involve a dinner or barbeque where everyone would have an occasion to talk to John. Most of these conversations would involve how his acting career was progressing and how he liked being a heliopter pilot. John would tell you he loved acting, but being a realist he had to support himself and what better way than his second love flying helicopters.
Being the realist, John, demonstrated,even in his darkest hour, consideration for others. By being an organ donor he brought new hope to the recipiants. I believe John being a donor is one of the most generous things I personally have ever witnessed. I believe this is truly the mark of the man.
John you will be sorely missed
Love The Gretsingers
Jodi Graham (maiden name Hall)
April 15, 2005
My deepest sympathy's to all that knew John and especially his family. I knew John in Junior and Senior High school and I will always remember his wonderful contiagus smile and what a warm compassionate friend that he was.
Molly McTiernan-Rowe
April 15, 2005
I learned of your loss through my father Bob McTiernan. Although I do not know you I want you to know that I am praying for all of you during this very tragic time.
Sincereley,
Molly McTiernan-Rowe
Christine Foran
April 15, 2005
The love, laughter and kindness that exemplified John will be missed by so many people he touched. I feel honoured to have known him, and blessed to have called him my friend. Thank you for teaching me how a smile can touch a persons soul. Your love of life, family and friends will never be forgotten. May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. Love and miss you so much, Bailey.
Randi Moscovitch
April 15, 2005
My deepest sympathy to everyone who new John. I didn't know John for the longest of time, but he was the sweetest, kindest person to ever touch this world. He is a great loss to this world. My heart goes out to his family, I too lost my brother two years ago at a young age, it's not easy. Be kind and support each other, you never get over it but together you can get through it. John would want everyone to carry on in his memory! All my love Randi
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