Christian E. Frechette

Tina and Derek,

My thoughts and prayers are with you both and your families. I am truly sorry for your loss.

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Are prayers are with you and your family in you time of need. God takes them for a reason and he was needed. Now he is your guardian angel looking down and watching over you.

Liz Lemanski and Michael Christian

Hi Derek,
Just wanted to let you know I'm still thinking about you and your loss,I hope that in time the great memories you have with your son will ease some of your pain.Life is so unfair and I can't understand how you are dealing with this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tina and Derek .. there are no words to express how sorry we are for your loss. We have three little ones of our own and we can't even imagine what you are going through. Please know that Christian is in GOD's hands and he will always be watching over you.

God Bless you all

Your cousin's from Toronto (Francis Cirillo's son)

Oh, that feeling...the one that says.."I want him back, I want him back" and you know there is absolutely nothing you can do. Please, please...I want him back. This will go on for some time, but it will get a little less everytime you feel it. Each time you say it, or feel it, you will see there is no getting him back. Yet, that will be in years to come. But, right now...mourn him, talk about him, remember him. Yet, know that where he is now..he is not suffering. He isn't calling for Daddy, he has really gone home ...because with God we live forever...and you will see him again. He isn't sad now...it is you that have this heartache...he is just like he was before. Your Christian! May God comfort you until enough tiime has passed so you can think of him without the ache in your heart.

A Poem For Tina & Derek

Little Christian teach us compassion – so that we can help comfort a broken heart
By a word, or a smile, or an outreach hand - we can help bring together what is torn a part

Little Christian teach us forgiveness – for we too will need grace one day
And the measure we use – will be held up against us – for every action and word we say

Little Christian teach us faith – even if at first just the size of a mustard seed
For once planted it can grow – causing many others to now believe

Little Christian teach us love – love that perseveres and never dies
With tiny raindrops, kiss our lips – until the day we too can fly

1 Thessalonians 4
15According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.

Tina and Derek,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy for you and your family.

Tina & Derek,
I just heard the news and wanted to tell you both how deeply sorry I am. There are no words to take your pain away, I can't even begin to imagine what you are all going through. Thoughts, prayers, and tears go out to you all.

Dear Tina and Derek,
May the comfort of your family and friends help ease your grief. I am so sorry for your loss.

hey y'all, we just want you to know that your son was a beautiful little messenger of God, a child held so close to His heart that he could feel every beat. And that closeness was what comforted Christian in his time of need. His will and goodness will shine above our personal tragedies, and in that you will find a love for God you never new existed, and a closeness in your family that will give you the strenght to carry on. We love and miss y'all, kisses for everyone, and you will always be in our prayers. love you guys, scotty, antionen, brandon, and brianna.

Tina and Derek,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please feel all the heart felt thoughts and prayers that are being sent out to your family and may they give you the strength you need. The loss of Christian is truly the deepest tragedy. May your family find the stength to carry on.

My Dear Son,
I miss you so much. You were and still are my best friend. You always wanted to be with me. I am so sorry I couldnt be with you when you needed me most. Your smile, your hugs, your kisses I miss so much. Why did he have to take you away from me? Oh god do I love you son. Please give me the strength to move on for our family. I just cant get over you needing me and I wasnt there. I will never let your memory fade, I promise you. I would give anything for 5 more minutes with you. I just want you back. I love you so much.
Dad

Of course absolutely nothing can ease your pain right now. My heart has been heavy since I heard this tragic news so I can only imagine what you are feeling right now.
I only hope that reading all of these testimonies to your family and your beautiful boy Christian somehow make you feel a fleeting moment of joy. Everyone supports you and loves you. May these words and the love of eachother and your families get you through this sorrow.

Love,
Katherine

Christian ~ We knew from the moment we laid eyes on you, what a precious gift from heaven you were. Owen has so many of your beautiful traits, we are so blessed to see so much of you in him. You are our sweet angel, words cannot express how much we miss and love you. You crawled into our hearts and made yourself a very special place, a place that will always be yours. It hurts too much too say good bye, so we will see you soon sweetie, sleep tight.

Love you always ~
Uncle Artie, Auntie Theresa & Baby Owen

Tina, Derek, Cameron and Ashton,

I just want you all to know, how sorry I am for your loss. Christian is very special and his memory will live in our hearts forever. I just want you to know that I'm here for you all for whatever you need...I Love You All very much.
Love, Diane

Dear Tina & Derek
Our deepest condolences for your loss. He is now in a safer place in the hands of the Lord. May he rest in peace. God Bless you and your family

Aunt Connie Pirrello and cousins Mimma, Anthony & Sabrina Polsinelli from Toronto

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Dear Tina, Derek & Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you forever and I will be there when you need me.

Deb

My family's thoughts and prayers are with you, may you take comfort in your faith and he rests in the arms of god. He is now your guardian angel.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Tina & Family,
Words could never express my sympathy. My thoughts & prayers are with you family during this difficult time.It has been years since our families have seen each other. I heard of this terrible tradgedy from my brother Bobby, and on the news. I know Christian was your angel, and he always will be. Now he will watch over you & guide you through life to help you overcome any obstacles you may come accross. Keep your head up, and be strong. You have a wonderful family for support. Remember this: You will all be together again, and until then Live, Love & Laugh while reflecting on your beautiful sons life. If there is anything my family can do for you do not hesitate to contact me. You will be in my prayers. May God bless you all.

Dear Tina and Derek,
My heart sank when I heard the news last week, but I was just devastated to learn today that Christian was your precious son. My thoughts and prayers and with you and your family and the Ashton family.

To the Frechette Family,
Although we have never met, I feel so sad for all of you. I know that nothing can take your pain away, but please know that more prayers are being said for you. My daughter is the same age as Christian and she told me that she wanted to send him some daisies, so we will plant daisies in our garden for your beautiful Christian. God bless you always.

I don't know your family, but I want to tell you how sorry I am for all of you. To even imagine for one moment the pain and loss and grief you are enduring is almost too much to bear. Stick together and love one another.

Dear Tina and Derek:
Though words cannot express the sadness I feel for you both upon hearing this news, I know I can speak for my entire family in offering up my thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy.
All our love,

Tina & Derek,
As fellow parents and members of the Sturbridge community, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We grieve with you, and know the treasured memories of this sweet smiling boy will be in your hearts forever.
The Lennon family

Tina / Derek:
We are soo sadened to hear of the passing of your son. Please know that he is in a beautiful place now watching over you all.
We love you!

Tina and Derek,
I can't imagine your pain at loosing such a beautiful little boy.
Parents aren't supposed to bury thier children.
Christian was an Angel here on earth, now he is one in Heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary Lou Manning (Carlson Receptionist)

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little boy, my heart aches for your family. I am the mother of two young sons and cannot imagine the pain that you are feeling. I just hope that someday the pain will fade and you will be able to feel joy once again, if only for your two other sons. Try to take comfort in knowing that God is taking care of Christian now. He will always be your special angel.
A mother from Charlton

Tina and Derek and family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I wish I could say or do something to take all your pain away. Just know, Christian is in a better place and someday you will all be together.
With Love and Sympathy,

Frechette family,
I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Children should be able to be in the care of others without anything of this severity happening to them. Know that my prayers are with you always and Christian will now be looking out for friends and family from heaven. God will take good care of your little boy.
With sincerest thoughts,

Tina and Derek,

Christian is looking down on you and your family and will be your gurdian angel that will help guide your family each day. Think of this when your feeling blue, and know Christian is always with you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

(Your Cousin from Toronto, CANADA)
Frances Cirillo's daughter

I am so terribly sorry for your loss,I know no words can take away your pain right now.I hope that you can trust that God had a bigger plan your your beautiful boy.I hope that knowing that can help ease your pain over time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Derek and Tina,
I am truly sorry for your loss and also sorry I could not attend the services last night. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your familys.

Tina and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss and can not imagine your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dear Derek & Tina,
I am truly so sorry for your loss and cannot imagine what you and your family must be going through. I know that there are no words or actions that anyone can say or do right now that will take the pain and sorrow from your hearts. In time I hope it comforts you to know how many people are here for you and are thinking and praying for you and your family. If there is ever anything you need or anyway we can help - we are here!

Derek, Tina, Cameron, & Ashton, Our prayers are with you...we too mourn for your grief. Christian will always be in our hearts! May the love of friends and family surround you with comfort. Our love, Wendy, Ryan, & Cathryn

GOD MUST HAVE NEEDED A SPECIAL ANGEL AND CHOSE YOURS TO DO THE JOB. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY. HIS SMILE SAYS IT ALL. I DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT AS A MOTHER I CAN ONLY IMAGINE YOUR FAMILY'S GRIEF. TRUST IN GOD AND TAKE SOME COMFORT IN KNOWING HE IS IN A SPECIAL PLACE.

Dear Frechette Family,
our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Our thoughts are with your family tonight. If you needs any thing, please ask. Our son Alex adores your children, in fact just today he was asking for Ashton. I know that Christian will be greatly missed by his friends at Spiral Tree Daycare. God bless you all.

I'm truly sorry to hear about your little boy. My prayers go out to the whole family during your time of sorrow and loss.
Love
Nicole

Tina & Derek
We are truly sorry to hear of the loss of your little boy. Our prayers are with you and your family and may the Lord give you strength and peace at this time.

( your cousin from,Toronto, Canada)

Dear Cameron, I am so sorry that your little brother had an accident. I'm sure you will miss him very much. Now you have your own special angel watching out for you from heaven. Your teachers and friends here at Burgess Elementary School are sending you all our good thoughts and prayers.
We love you.
Mrs. Lee

Derek and Tina,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Love,
Heather Frechette (Midlothian, VA)

Derek and Tina,
I am so sorry about your little boy. I have a son 5 and daughter who is 4 and I can't imagine your pain.I remember when we were kids Derek and you were always at our house. When I heard this was your son, it broke my heart. Your family is in our prayers.God bless you all!

Dear Christian's Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. We will sadly miss Christian. Our arms are always open. We will never forget you Christian. Love you and miss you forever.

To the family of Christian,
We do not know eachother, but I want you all to know that my children and I are keeping you and Christian in our prayers. What a beautiful baby boy you were given, I'm sure he lit up your hearts and lives with a light that words could never even begin to express. I cannot even begin to imagine your pain and longing. I pray that God somehow gives you the strength to live a life good enough for you and for Christian, and that God recieves him and keeps him in his eternal peace until you meet again.

Derek & Tina
There are no words to take your pain away at a time such as this. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Little Christian is happy in the arms of the lord now and he will watch over us like the small angel he is.

Your Canadian Cousins
Charlie,Lori,Chuck, Andrew,Lisa Crisostomo.

Tina,Derek & family I am so sorry for your loss. As many have already said there are no words to write down. I have and will say prayers for you! God bless!!
I am thinking of you!!

To christian's family,
my heart goes out you all, i also am a mother of 3 beautiful children one being 4 yrs old.!It is a tragedy you have to have this come into your life, he was a precious lil boy i can only imagine the smiles he brought to many faces!!! that will always be remember..
god bless you and your family
The Lindsay Family

Tina and Derek: I am a stranger but know your pain. We lost our little boy unexpectedly many years ago at age 15 months and words cannot describe your sorrow and your loss. Only people who have been through this tragedy know your pain. Christian is an angel now who will watch over his beloved family and you can pray to him always for strength and guidance. My prayers are with you.

Tina,Derek. We are sorry to hear about your loss. Your little boy is in our Lords Home now. Our deepest sympathies. We will pray for him and your family. You are in our thoughts. God Bless. Tina I am your mothers cousin Frances Cirillo from Canada

We are so very sorry for your loss. My God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tina, my heart goes out to you. Little Christian is with God, now.

You're in our prayers. May the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your spirt at this difficult time.

Love,
Leo,Mary,Ashley & Tyler Frechette (Midlothian, VA)

Tina and Derek,

You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God watch over you and your family in this time of need.

My deepestest sympathy to your family through this very difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Words can not express my deepest sympathy to your family during this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Derek, Tina, Cameron and Ashton,
We are so deeply saddened to hear of Christian's passing. There are no words that will reduce or take away the heaviness your hearts must be feeling right now. Please know you are in our thoughts and in our prayers and with time may God grant you the strength not to grieve for the loss, but to celebrate and rejoice in the gift that was Christian. Heaven has a new angel. We are here if you need anything.

I do not know you but you had a beautiful child I am the mother of an 11 year old boy and cannot imagine life without him. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all and may your darling child rest in peace.

I am so very sorry for your loss. What a precious little Angel Christian is. Have comfort knowing he is in our Lords care now. God Bless ~*

Our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. Christian will be sadly missed. Sincerely, Sturbridge Children's Dentistry.

Dr. Olga Restrepo
Amanda Doherty
Michele Everett

Our little Angel, FOREVER in our hearts. We will never forget his contagious laugh and huge smile! He is our Guardian Angel watching down on all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Sharin, Stephen & Thomas Anthony

My heart goes out to your family at this most difficult time. Christian has the face of a angel. God bless and help you through this unbearable time.
A friend

My heart and prayers go out to the family of this beautiful child!

As a mother of a small son I cannot imagine your pain.My thoughts prayers and tears are with you.Stay strong and cherish your memories and hold them tight to your heart.A mom in Charlton Ma

Tina & Derek,
There are no words I can say except that I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking & praying for you and your family.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will always remember Christian's bright, warm smile and vibrance. Our hearts go out to you. All our Love, Deanna & Reggie