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Art & Suez Jacobson
September 5, 2024

Art & Suez Jacobson
September 5, 2024
Art & Suez Jacobson
September 5, 2024
I met Jim Smith at Western State College in Gunnison, Colorado in 1960. We became fast friends. In the late 1960's, Jim introduced me to Emma, and it was obvious that they were meant for each other. Jim proposed, and he and Emma invited me and my college roommate, another fellow named Smith, (no known relation), to be ushers at their wedding. We drove to Scarsdale, NY, for the wedding. Besides it being a lovely wedding, I also remember the + 90 degree temperature and equally 90 % humidity, while wearing tuxedos!
We drove to the ferry bound for Martha's Vineyard, where we enjoyed a wonderful ocean front family home, a beautiful view and visit to the ocean and other sights in the Vineyard, as well as wonderful lobster meals, and gatherings with the bride and groom's family and friends! We have stayed in touch throughout the years, and Jim drove to Saratoga Springs, NY in a snowstorm, from VT to visit me at my wife-to-be's home in 2007, Due to the miles from Denver, separating my wife and I from Emma anf Jim, over the years, there was rarely enough time to get together. The photos below show Emma and Jim leaving their wedding, dragging the traditional cans from a Ford Mustang, while Jim's parents looked on, and photo 2, Jim and Emma, (right center) enjowing the beauty of the ocean at the vineyard, with friends and family.
Emma will be greatly missed by all! Our condolences to Jim and Emma's family!
Art and Suez Jacobson
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Jacky Miles
March 19, 2024
I think of Emmy with love and warmth and remember times on the Vineyard with her as ally and coconspirator! in the early days and host and guide in the later years. Such fun and lovely memories. Peace for you now Emmy.
Gretchen Hartman/Jack O´Connell
March 18, 2024
We have wonderful memories of sitting with Emmy on the front porch of our friend Betty´s house a few homes down from Emmy´s. We shared family stories, local gossip, and observations on the parking techniques of the tourists on the circle. Every summer we resumed our "patter" as if there had been no winter break. Emmy´s warmth and humor and generosity as a friend stood out. She was a unique person with a spirit which will live on in all of us who had the privilege of knowing her.
Marc Ferlo
March 6, 2024
I remember Emmy for being the kindest, loving and most supportive person growing up. She was like having a second mom to help raise us. One memory I have of her is when I didn´t make our 8th grade basketball team and I was upset and disappointed. She told me that there´s always next year and that in high school they will have a freshman team and there would be no cuts. Her message was simple. Don´t give up and keep trying. That really lifted my spirits and I´m grateful for her kind words that day.
Jermaine Henderson
March 1, 2024
I was one of those individuals Emma and her family enjoyed their home at Martha´s Vineyard.
I´m a friend of her daughter Jess who invited me to the island one summer years ago. I never went on vacations as a kid and even as an adult I never formally went anywhere to relax and take some time off work.
Upon arrival Emma and family were so nice. Included me in all family meals and she was even awake as we retrieved late night donuts! lol
I too remember the sunsets but equally beautiful were the sunrises.
I had a ball basically doing nothing for a few days with the Smith family. Lead by Emma they allowed me to not just enjoy vacation but spend time with other friends who were visiting as well.
Through her daughter I met Emma but she always took time to ask me questions about coaching and my family. Simply out she made me feel very special.
Mrs Smith will be sorely missed and I send my love and prayers to dad, Jessica and Jamie.
Thank you all for sharing such a special woman!
Jenn Marshall
March 1, 2024
As a child, I was envious of, and idolized, my aunt Em for her long hair. I wanted my hair to be long like hers and would fight like crazy when my mom, Midge, would cut it. I finally won my battle as I got a little older. Summers at the Vineyard are my fondest memories with all the family enjoying dinner at the big table, and I have a faint memory of being the flower girl at her wedding- that dress was so itchy! (wink)
Em was always cheerful and up beat. She always greeted you warmly with a big smile. I learned cross country skiing from her and uncle Smitty, and mom and I tried skiing at home in CT, but it wasn´t the same. The trails Em took us on were so beautiful and seemed so vast, but it was just around their neighborhood. It was always exciting and fun to be around Em. She touched so many people´s lives during her life time and left everyone with a smile and a warmth in their heart, and usually a great big hug. Truly the best of a good soul and she will be so deeply missed, but her legacy lives in all of us who knew her, and those memories will always bring a smile too.
Jeff Matuszko
February 28, 2024
One of my favorite memories is sitting out on the side porch of the house in Martha´s Vineyard. We would recap the day, people watch, and enjoy a cold beverage. I spent a couple summers working on the Vineyard with Jamie (my college teammate and friend). I remember Emma always being interested in how work was, how basketball was going, and what our plans for the night were. She always made it feel like home, even though I was just a summer visitor. I think back about those summers often. I am so thankful that I had the chance to get to know her (and grandma). My condolences to the Smith family as this is one of the biggest losses anybody could suffer, but I pray that they find comfort in knowing that she lived an amazing and full life.
Jada Prignano
February 28, 2024
Emma Smith was a wonderful beautiful intelligent women, she had the soul of a beautiful sunflower. Warm, vibrant, and joyful of new adventures and life experiences. She loved fluffy objects, the outdoors, and always created a great atmosphere of joyful smiles. I remember Sunday's barbecues and dancing with Emma. I also remember every night before my shift has ended, me and Emmy would walk back to her room and I would tuck her into bed. "Smitty" as Emmy always referred to her husband, always communicated towards me, that she loved him dearly. She would always be excited to see his presence and joyful that I was around to experience his presence too. Emmy's presence will be greatly missed, and will always be a piece in my heart.
Love, Jada Prignano
Bill Brooks
February 28, 2024
Laughter-especially in the absurd tangles of planning and confusion that were the daily bread at the Vineyard. The number of times we exchanged knowing glances when Eleanor veered off on some wild scheme and Clif quietly retreated to the front room to watch the boats!!
Linda Carpenter Leavitt
February 27, 2024
Emmy befriended me when I arrived in Scarsdale in the third grade, not knowing anyone, and she remained my faithful friend through high school, when we were constantly on the phone. We formed a lunch cub in elementary school and were Girl Scouts together (her mom was our leader) for six or seven years. We took modern dance classes together. I visited her in Martha's Vineyard several times and In 1963 we drove across the country to California with her mother (the whole way) and my mother (part way. A memorable trip! A terrifying highlight was riding down the Grand Canyon on mules. Everywhere we went, Emmy just naturally attracted boys. She was well liked in high school, friendly to everyone. I persuaded her to attend our 50th reunion in 2014 and though initially reluctant, she wound up enjoying herself and old classmates were glad to see her. As was I! I feel lucky to have had Emmy as a friend. Heartfelt condolences to Schmitty, Jess, Jamie and grandchildren.
Linda Carpenter Leavitt
Chris Fox
February 27, 2024
May 1, 1998 my friend Jason and I took a chance and moved to the Vineyard. We had never been there, and had only heard about it. We figured we would just stay in the hostel until we could find a place to rent for the season. It was really tough to find a place and our time was up at the hostel. Emma`s daughter Jessica took a job at the same restaurant as us and we were in the process of setting the Navigator up for the season when she overheard Jason and I talking about how we might have to leave the island. With Emma and Schmitty´s blessing, Jessica offered their Oak Bluffs home to us until we could find a place to live. Luckily we met Mark Dewan at the Nav as well and the 3 of us ended up finding a home for rent for the season in Oak Bluffs so we were able to stay. My summer on Martha´s Vineyard was one of the best and most memorable of my life, and if not for the kindness of Jessica and her family, it would not have been. I will be forever grateful to Jessica and her family for this and for the lifelong friendships it brought me. Thinking of you Jess in this difficult time
Tony Kent
February 27, 2024
I never knew Emma but I know Jamie, a son that would make any mom proud and and I feel I know Emma through the heart of her son, plus I really respect someone who holds a marriage together for 55 years. my love snd prayers to the family survivors. and many blessings to Emma as she travels to heaven. Tony Kent
Barb and Ed Gorchinski
February 27, 2024
Our first memory is welcome neighbors to Country Club Estates, Venice Fl. We will never forget her warm smile and singing with the band. She loved to sing with Smitty and the band. Emmie loved cheering Ed on after his hip operation. We will miss you sweet lady
Gavin Brooks
February 26, 2024
I remember Emma as being so warm and welcoming. When visiting Martha's Vineyard, she was so excited to show us around; I knew instantly (even at my young age) that I was in a very special place. My love goes out to Jammie, Jess, and Schmitty
Amy Racicot
February 26, 2024
Mrs Smith helped in my elementary grades. Sweetest person you´d ever meet. Always smiling! What a blessing.
Dr. Stephen Moore
February 26, 2024
Dear Jamie,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your mom. Though I never had the privilege of meeting her, reading about her incredible life and the impact she had on those around her truly moved me. It's clear she was an extraordinary person, and I can only imagine how deeply her absence is felt. Please know I'm here for you during this difficult time, ready to offer support in any way you need. Your family is in my thoughts.
With deepest sympathy,
Stephen Moore

John Thompson
February 26, 2024
I am one of the many friends of Jess and Jamie who can attest to Emmy´s hosting and listening skills. I also remember her at all of our soccer games and will admit I was always jealous as my parents did not make the games. My wife and children loved visiting Oak Bluffs and spending time with the Smith clan and she will be missed dearly.
Romy Antoine
February 26, 2024
As a friend of Jamie, I´m sending my condolences to the Jamie. I never had to opportunity to meet Emma but heard many great things over the years

Tyler Wood
February 25, 2024
Emma was such a lovely lady. She was Full of welcome and kindness. The home on Martha´s Vineyard will forever carry the decades of her laughter and beautiful summer memories enjoyed by all of the friends and family that have grown up around her. This was taken just a few years ago on the front porch of the Vineyard house and sadly the last time I had the pleasure of spending time with Emmy. She will be missed but always loved.
Stephanie Gruskin
February 25, 2024
Sending heartfelt condolences, love, and prayers to Jessica and the entire family during this trying time.
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