José "Joe" Ramon Santiago
1965 - 2018
José "Joe" Ramon Santiago
1965 - 2018
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BORN
1965
DIED
2018
José Santiago Obituary
Joe is survived by his wife Carrie and his four legged babies Titan, Skye, and Molly. His loving mother Josefina (Robert) Carpenter of Raleigh, father José Maria (Janet) Santiago of Midlothian, VA, brother Javier (Susan) of Youngsville, sister Josefina (Greg) Hobbs of Austin, TX, half-sister Kellee (Michael Stein) Santiago of San Francisco, CA, half-brother Sean (Lisa Bay) Santiago of Los Angeles, CA, step sister Krista (David) Thomson of Devol, OK, and step brother Mark Jones of Amelia, VA. Nieces and Nephews: Javier, Carlos, Gabriela, Christopher, Jacob, Calvin, Wyatt, Sophia, River, Makayla, Jessica, Ryan.
Joe grabbed life by the horns and fought against mediocrity, he lived his life far surpassing what others only dared to secretly dream, if it was worth doing it was worth doing in excess. Joe spent his professional career as a software developer and enjoyed working for himself on the projects closest to his heart. Joe was a was an avid investor, licensed pilot and flight instructor, real estate agent, competitive powerlifter, scuba diver, skydiver, golfer, and loved his football teams (Miami Hurricanes, NC State Wolfpack, South Carolina Gamecocks, and the Carolina Panthers). Joe lived his life on his terms and needed approval from no one. He had a larger than life personality and a gigantic heart.
A celebration of Joe's life and funeral mass will take place at 1:00pm on Tuesday, January 9, 2018 at Saint Catherine of Siena Roman Catholic Church at 520 W. Holding Street, Wake Forest, NC. Visitation with family will follow at the church, Joe's ashes will be interred at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial donation in Joe's name to your favorite animal rescue group, or any of his (SPCA of Wake County, Neuse River Golden Retriever Rescue, Peak Lab Rescue, For the Love of Dogs).
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Lori Ruffing
January 26, 2018
Love to Carrie...I think about what you're going through often and hope that you find peace.
Madonna Alvarez
January 13, 2018
My heart goes out to Joe's loving family and his friends who love him so much. I only saw and knew him as an infant, for I have not seen the family in a lifetime of years. I knew Josefina and José María, his parents, and his mother's family, the Barcias. I am so very sorry to hear of this heartbreaking tragedy of Joe's death. There is a saying that may be true for you: Friendship divides our grief and doubles our joy. May the outpouring of love from all those who know Joe offer you some comfort in your grief.
Kirk Stem
January 11, 2018
Still can't believe it... Thoughts and prayers are with your family. I'll miss you Buddy.
Pury Santiago
January 9, 2018
May God bring his peace at this time.
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Grace Godlin
January 8, 2018
January 8, 2018
I was deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Jose Ramon Santiago. I will always treasure the memories of Jose's gracious generosity in hosting the family reunion feast at Versailles.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Santiago family.
Grace Godlin, Venice, California
Charlotte Morris
January 8, 2018
We are so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. The Trinity family is with you all. May you feel our strength with you as you navigate the tough days ahead. Our hearts are broken for Jose and the rest of the family. You are in our prayers.
Russ French
January 8, 2018
Carrie, I am so very sorry to hear this news about Joe. I never had the opportunity to meet him in person, but was on Skype many times speaking with Joe. He was always so very helpful and kind, He will be missed greatly. My wife & I will be sure to pray for you and your family, that the Lord would be there to comfort you in this heartbreaking time.
Norman Davis
January 8, 2018
May God Bless your soul Joe !!! Family be strong and keep your faith in the Lord !!!
A M
January 8, 2018
Thank you for everything Joe, you will be in my prayers
Lia Dexter
January 8, 2018
I would like to extend condolences to Joe's wife and his extended family. I only knew Joe from his work with BTTM where his technological talents shone. He will be missed.
Daniel Paterson
January 7, 2018
So so sorry to hear of Joe's sudden passing. I didn't know him well, only from our trading group but he was always there to help you if you needed it. He will be missed.
Rachel Landis
January 7, 2018
My heart breaks and aches for you all. I'm so very sorry for your loss and at the start of a new year. Please know I am thinking of you all.
One less place at a table
One less cup of coffee in the mornings to make
One less gift to give on holidays,
But oh so much love left,
And so much still to see around
Even when tears burden the view.
Much love and light to you all during this time. My heart is with you all.
Diane Monaco
January 5, 2018
The Santiago family is in our hearts and our prayers each and every day. There are no words to express how deeply sorry we all are for your tragic loss.
The Monaco Family (Trinity Episcopal School, Richmond, VA)
Tatiana Kahn
January 5, 2018
I remember Jose as a little boy, in my home with my mother feeding all of us lots of good food, sharing Easters and Thanksgivings, watching my father act silly to make Jose and his siblings laugh. I remember the Jose that I took to the Bruce Springsteen concert in 1985, the Jose that was there when I first started dating my husband. The time I took Jose and Mark to see "Out of Africa" because they made me see action movies. He was a sweet boy, a great cousin. I know others knew the adult Jose better than me, but as I type this I see the little boy in my childhood home, laughing and playing. Very good memories. Rest in peace Jose. You were loved.
Patricia Schmid
January 5, 2018
I am so sorry and sad to learn of the premature loss of a good friend. I send my condolences and prayers to the wife and family. He will be terribly missed by many. He was such a great man. God Bless from the BTMM family.
Vicki & Doug Overton
January 4, 2018
We are so saddened to learn of the loss of Jose. The entire Santiago family will be held close to our heart in prayer.
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