Marshall Grissom

Marshall Grissom obituary, Louisville, KY

Marshall Grissom

Marshall Grissom Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 22, 2023.
Marshall Grissom, 41, of Louisville, KY died peacefully Friday, November 17, 2023, after a life immeasurable in its depth and impact.

Marshall was born on December 28, 1981 to his parents, Anderson (Andy) Eugene Grissom III and Margaret Grissom Gittner.

At an early age, he discovered his cooking was more than just a talent, it became his love language and way of filling both the hearts and appetites of those he loved. Food became his passion. In the kitchen, Marshall was a born leader and could orchestrate a magnificent meal for hundreds with the same ease as preparing a dish for his precious family of four. For years, Marshall skillfully presided over the Indoor Dinner at St. Agnes Catholic Church's summer carnival, infusing each event with remarkable ease and unwavering grace.

The pinnacle of his career involved owning and operating the restaurant Dish on Market in downtown Louisville. To this day, people still talk about the food and fellowship they experienced there. But Marshall could never share his recipes. Not because he was guarding a secret but because he honestly didn't know what to tell them. His gift was being able to season and measure to taste. Nothing ever tasted exactly the same because it was made from the heart - not from a measuring cup.

Marshall's love for people out measured the phenomenal menu from Dish. While his food was legendary, his heart will be cherished most by those whom he hired in recovery, offering them a renewed chance at life and a fresh start through employment. This was one of Marshall's greatest accomplishments and he took pride in helping others.

Marshall met Brandy in his early 20s when they both worked at Shenanigan's. Together, the two navigated the University of Louisville's Business School. They married in 2008 and began building a life of adventure. They had two children together, Sawyer, 13, and Evie Maye, 10.

Marshall adored his children. He showed them love through hours of play, camping adventures, coaching their sports and most of all - his passion for stirring up a beautiful meal. Sawyer and Evie grew up watching him prepare all the family meals and they could often be seen in the kitchen with him as he taught them all he knew.

Marshall's annual presence on the Kentucky State Fair stage filled him with pride. His undefeated record in cooking competitions wasn't solely about the trophies and accolades; it was the joy of having Sawyer and Evie Maye, his companions in competition, standing proudly by his side that truly made each victory meaningful.

In addition to food, family, and friends, Marshall also loved fireworks and for many years took the Fourth of July party to new levels. He organized the neighborhood block party, complete with a cookout and an elaborate fireworks show. The fireworks were so elaborate the setup would overtake the entire driveway and involve spraying down the rooftops of neighboring houses "just to be on the safeside." Brandy would nervously enjoy the show that she could only describe as Clark Griswold meets Tim the Toolman Taylor - but with a Roman candle.

During his formative years, Marshall was a student at St. Agnes School and Atherton High School. Upon relocating to Bowling Green, he graduated from Bowling Green High School in 2000. Throughout his childhood, he shared lively moments with his cousins Ramsey Grissom and Jody and Jason Hermes, finding solace and guidance in the presence of his cherished aunt, Martha Jane Smith, whom he affectionately regarded as a second mother until his final days.

Marshall is preceded in death by his parents, Andy and Margaret, as well as his brother Anderson Grissom. He leaves behind a precious family, including the love of his life, Brandy, and their children Sawyer and Evie Maye. Marshall's stepmother, Linda Grissom remains dedicated to his children and helps create special moments that keep Marshall's adventurous spirit alive in their hearts. Marshall is also survived by his sister, Tammaye Grissom, along with many beloved aunts, uncles and cousins.

A funeral will be held at St. Agnes Catholic Church at 10:00 am on December 16, 2023, with a celebration of his life to follow at the home of Jack and Shelley Meredith.

There is no way to measure the lives Marshall touched as he truly did more for others than he did for himself. In his honor, help someone needing a boost in life, sit down to a good meal that makes you smile, light a firework or two, or cheer on his favorite team - Go Cards!

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December 16, 2023

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December 16, 2023

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December 16, 2023

Jolie Scott posted to the memorial.

Jolie Scott

December 16, 2023

Jolie Scott

December 16, 2023

Jolie Scott

December 16, 2023

Marshall helped save me from a hopeless state of mind. I will forever remember his love passion and empathy for helping others! He gave me a chance when I was all out of chances. I love him and his family! He was an impact maker who changed many people´s lives!

Jolie Scott

Steve Hartung

December 16, 2023

I met Marshall in December, 2019. We were in the Brook Hospital together. We had numerous conversations; deep conversations about God and nature and existence and our disease. He was clearly very intelligent, perhaps too intelligent. On January 28 my wife of 29 years, died of untreated alcoholism, which was I think the linchpin that helped set me free. Marshall helped me also. We did not speak or get together much, but he helped me. I am unable to attend this morning, but I will praying for him and his family. I miss him and will always remember him.

Kitt Tuttle

November 28, 2023

I met Marshall while walking my dog. He was in the front yard playing with Evie and stopped me to introduce himself. Just a few weeks after that, his whole family was at my house celebrating my daughter Tillie´s 3rd birthday. In almost 8 years of knowing him, I never once heard him say a bad thing about anyone. I´ll never forget his chuckle, and any time I hear fireworks, I will be reminded of him helping to make 4th of July memories for everyone in the neighborhood.

Catherine Ogburn

November 26, 2023

Sweet Evie, I remember the first time I met you. I was looking over the door to say hi to your teacher. You were sitting with Campbell holding a baby doll. You smiled at me, and told me all about your baby. I knew then, that someone loved you very much. When I was your Teacher, I saw your kindness to your classmates. You were always wanting to help, and you loved cooking for your friends. You are so lovable the same way your Mom is lovable. I saw that love on your Daddy´s face when he was at School to pick you up. You, and your smile touched your Dad's Soul, and Heart. You helped make his life happy.


Sawyer, I really missed your family when Evie went on to Big School.Your Dad used to send me photos of the things you were drawing. He was so happy and proud, that you loved what you were doing, teaching yourself how to draw. It made him feel good to see you so focused on something you loved. Even before that, I knew your Dad loved being with you. I saw you playing in Block Center, building something that looked like a box. When I asked, you explained you were cooking, and you had built a stove. You told me about cooking with your Dad at home. He invited me to come to the Fairgrounds to watch you help him cook during the Chef Competition. I sat with your Mom. What I saw was a Dad who loved his Son. You and your Dad were an awesome team that day!


Brandy, sitting at the Workshop table, learning how you and Marshall went to school together, realizing that you created a family beginning with a man that you valued, and loved. Yours isone of the sweetest love stories I´ve ever been told. You are a natural born teacher who taught from the heart, and with help when needed. I can´t imagine the pain that you are in now, my heart hurts for you, the kids, and Marshall.

Whiskey, one day on the Playground, I was standing at the fence with Marshall, who was there to pick up your kids.. Marshall had left the window down in the car because he was just a few steps away. The kids were so excited to see you, and I wanted to see you as much as the kids did , since I had never met you. Suddenly you jumped OUTof the car window,and ran to the tree in front of school (nature calls, Whisky gotta go now). Marshall laughing, took off running to get you, You can right to him, because you knew he was a very good Doggie Dad, and he would understand.

Denise Szostak

November 23, 2023

Even for all of the trees in our neighborhood, I have an unobstructed view of "The Jolly Roger". It has always represented love from Father to Children.

Michael

November 22, 2023

Marshall quite literally saved my life. I was one of those whom he hired in recovery. In an unknown city, while still "incarcerated," lost, and desperate. Marshall gave me a chance; gave me guidance and advice; and most importantly, tough love when I made mistakes and needed consequences. You will be missed Marshall. My family and I are forever in your debt.

Julie Ice

November 22, 2023

Marshall was always willing to help those that needed it. He was a great guy that loved his family very much. So sad he left this world at such an early age but is in a better place now.

Dr. Beverly McMurtry Grissom

November 22, 2023

As the mother of Marshall's older sister, I knew Marshall his entire life. When Tammaye and I visited the family at Moutardier, I often rocked Marshall to sleep or calmed him when he was fussy. I dearly loved both Marshall and Anderson, though not a blood relative. There being no term for an ex-wife's relationship to the children of a subsequent marriage, I made up my own ridiculous descriptor: I called the boys my "ex-step-sons-in-law once removed." It always brought a smile. Marshall was so loving and attentive to me, but he was that way with everyone. I have always admired his approach to parenting. He was engaged, attentive, loving, and calm. I have always had such respect for his and Brandy's parenting prowess. I keep pictures of Marshall and the children on my refrigerator---silly pictures of them with Tammaye. Their family Christmas card picture is there, as well. I am keeping Brandy, Sawyer, Evie Maye, and my Tammaye in my prayers and always a part of cherished memories. May the family find comfort and peace in the knowledge that he was truly loved by so many people. May Marshall's sweet soul rest in eternal peace.

Cindy Yates

November 22, 2023

Marshall was one of the most caring, kindest and sweetest people I have ever known. One of my favorite memories is when he planned and executed perfectly his proposal to Brandy. He first came to John and I to ask our blessing, which we didn´t hesitate to give. He then meticulously arranged everything from timing his proposal, right before the fireworks finale at Thunder, having our family, his family and many friends waiting at Raw for when they entered, while managing to keep every detail a secret from Brandy. He will be remembered and missed dearly by many. I was blessed to have him as a son-in-law.

Payal Pancholi

November 22, 2023

We first talked when he came to drop Evie for a playdate with Aarya. His first comment was "wow it smells so good in here and love your kitchen backsplash". We talked about Indian food and spices and decided we will cook Indian food together one day and I will share all my recipes and spices in my kitchen. Unfortunately that never happened but our prayers are always with him and his family.

Shealia Murphy

November 22, 2023

Seeing so happy at Dish on Market. He was front of the house and back of the house! What a guy. He will be missed.

Tina Dusza

November 22, 2023

We were brand new to Saint Agnes with our two little kids. We attended our first fish fry and we were standing around outside probably looking lost amongst all the bustle. Marshall crossed the parking lot, introduced himself to us and the kids and chatted with us for a long while. He was magnanimous, warm and friendly and helpful, the best intro a family could have. He was our first friend from Saint Agnes. Thank you Marshall. Rest in Peace.

Carla Rowan

November 22, 2023

My sincere condolences to Brandy and the children and all who loved Marshall!
Love and prayers,

Carla Rowan

Cindy Yates

November 22, 2023

One of my favorite memories of Marshall is how he meticulously planned and executed his proposal to my daughter, Brandy. The first step in his plan was to ask us for our blessing, which we gave without hesitation. He then proceeded to manage the exact timing to propose right before the fireworks finale at Thunder. She had no idea of how much planning he had put into the proposal and managing to have our family, his family and many friends be secretly at Raw when they walked in. I never doubted the love and devotion that he gave Brandy and my precious grandchildren, Sawyer and Evie. He will be missed always.

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