Mary F. Roon

July 15, 1944 - August 20, 2011

Mary F. Roon obituary,  July 15, 1944-August 20, 2011

Mary F. Roon

July 15, 1944 - August 20, 2011

BORN

July 15, 1944

DIED

August 20, 2011

Mary Roon Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 25, 2011.


Mary F. Roon, 67, of Port Angeles passed away August 20, 2011, of colon cancer.

Mary was born to Anthony and Mary Andriese in Chicago, Illinois, on July 15, 1944.

Mary married Robert J. Roon on July 16, 1966.

"And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."

Mary Roon embodied these words in her life and work. A lifelong advocate for equality and justice, Mary became a registered nurse at age 40 because of a strong desire to empower women.

After working at the University of Minnesota for 10 years as an obstetrical nurse, her frustration with invasive birthing practices led her to pursue a master's degree as a certified nurse midwife. She worked for five years for the Mayo Clinic Health System in rural Minnesota.

In 2000, she moved to Port Angeles to become a practitioner at the Peninsula Women's Clinic.

Mary loved her work as a women's health care provider, relishing the opportunity to treat the whole person. She tried to see beyond her clients' immediate clinical symptoms to focus on their overall nutritional and psychological health.

She was beloved by many because of her concern and empathy. She persisted in her work as long as her health permitted, delivering her last baby about six weeks ago. She absolutely adored and was totally bonded to fellow midwives Debbie Bopp and Lyell Fox.

Mary believed that her faith should be integrated into all corners of her life. She was an unabashed social and political liberal, insisting that humanitarian concerns should trump economic self-interest.

Her concern for civil rights is mirrored by her interracial family, achieved by birth and adoption.

Her charitable interests, which were many and eclectic, included environmental advocacy groups and educational institutions. Mary clearly loved justice and mercy, but her humility needs a bit of an explanation: She was not humble in the meek and mild sense; in fact, she could be fiercely in-your-face if she thought the cause was just.

Her humbleness centered on her conviction that all persons were created with equal rights and should be treated with love and respect.

Mary loved life fiercely, always seeking adventure. She was a prolific reader and writer with a keen, uncompromising wit, as well as an avid gardener, cook and keeper of chickens.

During the last few years, she rafted a class IV waterfall in the Ecuadorian Andes, swam with sharks in the Galapagos and mantas in Hawaii, and ran a triathlon. She rarely slowed down but reveled in the beauty of creation, living her life as one extended hymn of praise.

Mary is survived by her children, David Roon of Moscow, Idaho, Maria Roon of St. Paul, Minnesota, and Amy Roon of Seattle; and by her husband, Robert Roon of Port Angeles. Her ragtag crew of grandchildren and extended family include Justice Roon, Benjamin Roon, Drew and McKenzy Bogden, Lisette Waits, Michelle Schuiteman, Jose Marin Jarrin, Shakeela Gibson, Anna Gifford and Kathy Balling. Her loving sister, Norma Schuiteman, of Olympia, Washington, was at Mary's side for five weeks during her final struggle with colon cancer.

We love you, Mary, and we will miss you deeply.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, August 27, 2011, at 10:30 a.m. at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 301 East Lopez Avenue, Port Angeles; and on Sunday, September 11, 2011, at 2 p.m. at University Congregational United Church of Christ, 4515 16th Avenue Northeast, Seattle. The Revs. Richard Grinstad, Peter Ilgenfritz and Amy Roon will officiate. A reception will follow each service.

Memorial contributions may be made at Natural Resources Defense Council, www.nrdc.org/joingive; Olympic Medical Center Foundation; the Patient Navigator Fund; or a charity of your choice.

Please visit the online guestbook at www.drennanford.com.

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September 21, 2012

Melissa Reader posted to the memorial.

January 6, 2012

Chelsea Palmer posted to the memorial.

September 8, 2011

Jayme Peterson posted to the memorial.

Melissa Reader

September 21, 2012

Even after all this time, i miss you dearly. Rest in peace Mary.

Chelsea Palmer

January 6, 2012

I was a patient of Mary at Peninsula Women's clinic. She was one of the wonderful midwives who saw me during my pregnancy of my only son who is now 4. She inspired me and was someone to look up to concerning personality and outlook on life. I will always remember her and she has a permanent positive imprint in my life.

Jayme Peterson

September 8, 2011

If it wasn't for the expertise of Mary my son might have died during delivery. She was an amazing midwife, my family and I will never forget the how she delivered my son who is now three today into this wonderful world. I am greatful to Mary for being the best midwife a pregant woman could ever ask for. Mary you will be missed deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with Marys family and friends.

Natalee Johnson

August 30, 2011

I am saddened to learn of Mary’s death. She was such an alive person. I was fortunate to go to school at the University of Minnesota in midwifery with her and then go on to work with her in Faribault Minnesota as a midwife. Mary was such a mentor in how she approached life… eager, energetic, positive, playful, fair, just, hardworking. We three midwives (Mary, Cathy and Natalee) felt it was providence that the first letters of our first names were CNM. We considered our team the three headed CNM. We navigated many paths together on our road to becoming experienced practitioners both in patient care and creating a midwifery practice. We cried together but mostly we laughed together through thick and thin. I feel a deep chuckle even now as I think of Mary and some of our moments together.

The patients loved Mary. She liked taking pictures of all of the families that we delivered to keep in a book. I look at her beaming smile, side by side with the patients, remembering fully that she gave them each her all.

Mary was going to live to 100 in my eyes; this is such a loss, so early. My heart and love go out to you Bob, and to you Amy, Maria, David and Justice. And all the rest of her family and close friends, you have experienced such a loss… May you rest in peace, Mary, after a much too short sprint through life.

Dale Stuepfeert

August 29, 2011

I was sadden to learn of Mary's death. My thoughts and sympathies are with family and friends. It has been many years - Prince of Glory - my memories are of a caring, energetic, supportive woman.

Heather Adams

August 28, 2011

Mary your already missed! Thank you Mary for always making me feel like I was the only person on your scheduel that day! You truly made me believe I could do anything. Mary you were wonderful! I'm so glad I learned from you and my daughter got to be held by you ;) Thank you again for your great stories and encouragment!!! I could not have delivered my daughter without you :) Miss you

Tonia Signor

August 28, 2011

Mary delivered my last two babies. My first delivery with her was frought with disaster. She went home and cried. I know because she told me. She gave me the gift of understanding when I was pregnant and adopting at the same time. She told me I could say absolutely anything about my adopted kids or there birth mom and she would understand. I did, she did. When my daughter she delivered was found to have a hole in her heart. She saw me in the parking lot minutes after I found out the news. She stopped to say hi. And stayed to comfort. She may have been my midwife but she was also my friend. I'm so sorry I found out too late for the memorial service. Know we are grieving, and rejoicing. Because she is so much happier in Heaven

Ramona Starks

August 27, 2011

First, thanks for putting such a great picture of Mary in here. Next, please accept my deep condolences in the loss of your wife, mother, grandma, sister and friend. It has been great fun reading the entries here and finding out all she has done in the years since she left Prince of Glory. She has lived a wonderful life and left a great legacy, not only for her children, but for all of us. Remember, she is now pain-free and in peace. Take care and keep her memory alive among you by sharing experiences through the years.

Our son born June 26, 2009 of a natural birth, thanks to Mary Roon

Laira Stewart

August 27, 2011

What a wonderful woman who was a strong influence in my life, made me believe giving birth could be beautiful and painless and helped me find a strength in myself I didn't even know I had. She did that for so many woman and she will be missed greatly.

Felicia Volkman

August 27, 2011

Such a ?~beautiful spirit~? inside and out. A glorious mentor to many. A blessing to all pregnant women who had the pleasure of getting to know her! Mary.. you will be missed more then words can describe !

Michael and Nikki Charles

Nikki Drake

August 27, 2011

It is very sad that we as a community loose such a great and wonderfully loving person. As a patient its even harder to loose a medical care provider that you truely loved and respected for every aspect of your medical with your provider. Mary was this provider to me. Highly respected and very knowledgable. I can remeber taking my son to meet her for the first time and telling him she delivered him. He was so confused, he didnt know or understand. Mary made my delivery pain free and drug free and helped me keep it that way. I will truly miss her with my future children.. My thoughts and prayers are with all her family and friends.

Dale & Sue Hulme/Quist

August 27, 2011

We rejoice that Mary is in heaven with so many other great Marys including the mother of our Lord. We sympathize with you Bob, David, Amy, and Maria as you face the days ahead with such a huge loss in the framework of love God has provided your family. But please take comfort in the knowlege that God has reconciled the world through Jesus Christ and that you will all be reunited in the "afterlife." Much love, Bob, Mary, David, Amy, and Maria from Dale and Sue.

Emily Beadle

August 26, 2011

I am very sad at the passing of Mary Roon. She was a great person and had a very big heart. My heart goes out to all of Mary Roons family and friends

Jessica Nowak

August 26, 2011

Mary Roon was a wonderful women. She helped me in so many way while I was pregnant with my son. She inspired me to go forth with my dreams. She is one of the reasons I decided to become a CDP. I am saddened to hear she has passed away but glad to hear she is no longer suffering. May you RIP Mary Roon.

August 26, 2011

Thank you Mary for the love and support you gave me all the time I knew you. Will never forget you taking time away from your own family to be with mine. To your family I offer prayers and the knowledge that you will all again be together in Heaven.

Traci Dunn

August 26, 2011

My heart goes out to Mary's family and everyone that knew her, as she touched everyone she knew. I was fortunate enough to have her deliver my last daughter, and she made the experience an absolutely wonderful one. What an amazing woman in all her accomplishments and she will be deeply missed.

Richard Foster

August 26, 2011

After ten years in Berlin, Germany, I was honored to come home to Minneapolis where I got to know the Roons as pastor of Prince of Glory Lutheran Church. Mary was a force of nature. I shared years of family camps, Roon hospitality, worship and lively discussions with the wonderful Roon family. May she rest in peace. Pr. Richard Foster

Megan Price

August 25, 2011

Mary is the reason I decided to go to school to become a midwife. An amazing, caring soul who will be missed dearly.

Michelle, Jason and Emma Rhodes

August 25, 2011

Our hearts are with your family at this time. You have touched so many lives, and the good you have done in this community will live on in the next generation you helped to bring into this world. You will be greatly missed.

Ricky Love

August 25, 2011

Mary was a very dear friend and someone I knew that if I needed someone to talk to, she would listen. I will miss her and I know that my mom thought very highly of Mary. My prays are with you all.

Rebekah Eid Burton

August 25, 2011

Roon family! I have many wonderful memories of
Mary and your family while growing up at Prince of Glory. My deepest condolences to all of you!

Carol Witte

August 25, 2011

Mary, Mary, wonderful friend and mentor. She was such a gift to me, and to so many. How blessed we have all been to have had you in our lives, and how hard it is to lose you. With love to all your family.

Carol Brusegar

August 25, 2011

So many memories ... years together through our children's childhoods and at Prince of Glory Lutheran Church. Mary was a dynamic person who impacted many. Blessings to all of the Roons!

Sarah Hines

August 25, 2011

Mary was such a lovely person. She made my birthing experience wonderful, and I will miss her.

Melissa Reader

August 25, 2011

Thank you for bringing my beautiful boys into the world. I think about you often and you will be truly be missed by many.

Carrie Ford

August 25, 2011

Mary thank you for coming into my life when you did. You are an amazing woman and you changed my life. I am glad I had the chance to know you, you will be missed terribly.

Robin Keehn

August 25, 2011

Bob & Justice...thinking of you during this very difficult time. Justice, your grandma loved you dearly and believed in you with all of her heart. She will always be with you. Praying for all of you. Warmly,
Teacher Robin

August 25, 2011

Mary Roon; wonderful, caring midwife who delivered both of my granddaughters and took such loving care of my daughter before, during and after the births. Thank you to her family for sharing this wonderful lady with all of us. She will be sorely missed. She is now at peace in the arms of our Lord Jesus. Cookie Singhose-Allison

August 25, 2011

I feel very blessed to have known Mary, thank you for sharing your mom, wife & grandmother. She delivered 3 of my 4 children and I couldn't have done my deliveries without her. Mary was an amazing coach & friend. Prayers with your family!

Evan Ritchie

August 25, 2011

Amy,
My love for you is constant. The Ritchie family sends you our affection and support from Bellingham

Peg Burris

August 25, 2011

Thank you Mary for the wonderful care you have given me over the years. You touched my life and heart, as you did for so many with your care and genuine concern. May you rest in peace. Job well done. You will be missed until we meet again.

August 25, 2011

Another Prince of Glory-ite checking in to say that the Roon family = bedrock of my (and Juli's) return to organized religion. Solid, constant, full of energy and faith...you all enriched my life and I send my prayers and affection to all of you. Mary--whatta woman!

Keisha Hutchins Hirlinger

August 25, 2011

Sending love and holding the family in the light. From our family to yours.

Linda Brozek

August 25, 2011

your mom was a a beautiful person

Aaron Ash

August 25, 2011

Hold tight to memories for comfort. Lean on your family & friends for strength, and always remember how much SHE touched those around her.

Our condolences during your time of grief. May God bless your family.

August 25, 2011

Mary Roon was one of the nicest people I have ever met. She is loved and will be missed by our whole family. Chris Johnson( Atl Ga/ Mpls Mn)

Kimberly Sleeper

August 25, 2011

Knowing Mary was an honor and inspiration, and she will forever be in my heart!

shery thomsen

August 25, 2011

u will be missed. love ya mary and thx for being my mid wife. miss ya

Lindsey Shannon

August 25, 2011

Mary was a beautiful person, a strong, supportive and loving midwife. I will forever be grateful to have known her and had her to guide me through a healthy pregnancy and the beginning of my son's life. She will never be forgotten.

Saehea Johnson

August 25, 2011

Blessings to the entire Roon clan! The memories of Camp Knutson...are still etched in my memory bank!! Loving and praying for you all. Saehea

August 25, 2011

The Women's clinic will not be the same with out Mary. What a wonderful woman she was. She will be dearly missed

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