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Karen Stegmeier
October 9, 2022
I remember being friends with her in Chama, New Mexico growing up. She and my brother Charlie were girlfriend/boyfriend for a while. She was beautiful all of her life! Can´t believe it has been 10 years! I will miss her as long as I live!
Ed Romero
October 8, 2020
Miss you alot my dear friend.
Maria McConnell
October 8, 2020
It's hard to realize that Pam has been gone for 8 years. Seems just like the other day she and I, my dear husband Leonard and her doctor friend were riding down the road from Big Sur, CA on our Harley motorcycles and she and I were holding hands across the road as we sat on the back. It is such a vivid memory and it seems like it was just yesterday. And today, my beloved Leonard is also gone. I hope they are both riding through paradise together. I miss them both every day.
Bonnie Radovan
December 16, 2012
Pam amazed me. We took a walk together (she with her portable oxygen) along West Cliff Drive in Santa Cruz in early 2012. She was courageous and will be missed by all who loved her.
Mary Lou Clark
November 10, 2012
Pam, I will miss you dear friend and your e mails. You are in Gods house now and it's must be easier to breath. Give Wendell a hug from me.(Pam and I were good friends in high school)
Mary Lou Clark
Becky Davila
November 4, 2012
May you rest in peace and sing a song for your 1964 TWU classmates that will follow you to your resting place. We loved you then, we love you still.
George Smith
October 17, 2012
Pam was such a special, courageous, lovely person with an extraordinary will to live, who never complained despite her painful medical problems. It was a great privilege to have been her physician for many years. I will always remember her.
October 17, 2012
Pam was such a positive and loving person-we shared our love of animals-I am glad she had her cat companion with her. Nancy Doyle MD

This photo was taken last April at the Botanical Gardens in Phoenix.
Tom Luhmann
October 16, 2012
I was fortunate to know Pam and to count her as a loyal friend for many years. I will always remember her humor, generosity, and kindness not only to her friends but to others that she came in contact with during daily life. The last couple of years were tough for Pam. She met the challenge with grace, dignity, humor and a desire to do new things and live life to the fullest all the while knowing and understanding that existence on this earth is finite and transitory at best.
Rest in Peace Pamela.
Mahria Day
October 16, 2012
Pam and I were work buddies and transformed into so much more as the years went on. She had the voice of reason, peppered with humor and blessed those around her with her compassion. You will be missed.
Peggy Leslie Stark
October 15, 2012
I'm sorry to hear about Pam but the Heavens will definitely enjoy her humor! My sympathy for her family and friends.

Pam and I on a Harley ride to Big Sur in 2010. One of her bucket list items.
Maria McConnell
October 15, 2012
Pam and I worked together for many years and remained close friends after we retired. We enjoyed many good times in recent years as she was determined to live life to its fullest in spite of her failing health. She was a wonderful, magical woman who will be dearly missed by all who had the joy of knowing and loving her. Leonard and I will miss her beautiful smile,spirit and sense of humor.
Neel Storr
October 15, 2012
She will surely be missed by all who knew her. My condolances go out to all who loved and cherished her life.
Larry Montoya
October 15, 2012
I remember the great times we enjoyed at SFHS Hasta Luego Me Amiga. Larry Montoya LVNV
October 15, 2012
Addio to a fine friend, with sympathy to her dear sisters, family, and all who loved her. Tanti belli cosi shared in Santa Fe and Sorrento.
October 14, 2012
My condolences to Pam's family on her passing. She and I graduated from Santa Fe High School in 1960. My prayers and thoughts are with the family. Edwina Quintana Sanders, N. Richland Hills, Texas
Suzanne McLean
October 14, 2012
There will be a celebration of Pam's life on Wednesday, October 17th, 7pm, at the First Congregational Church, 900 High Street, Santa Cruz, CA. You may contact me at 831-461-1947 for information or questions.
American Heart Association
October 14, 2012
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
Karen Weaver-Stegmeier
October 14, 2012
Pam never had an enemy because she never spoke ill of others...A true friend to the end...I am heartbroken
Stephen Earnest
October 14, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear Pam finally lost her battle here on this plane. She was a good friend to lots of us left behind. Here's a toast to her next adventure.
Charlotte Brito Wunderlich
October 14, 2012
I am deeply saddened to hear of Pam's passing. My deepest sympathy to her family.
Class of 1960
Marylouise (Sanchez) Dreibelbis
October 14, 2012
Pam will be sorely missed by all who knew her. Her infectious smile and friendly spirit graced every space she filled. My condolences to the family
October 14, 2012
Pam, rest in peace; give my regards to the 1960 SFHS gang up
there with you. To the family my deepest & sincere condolences, may god comfort you during this difficult times.
Ed Saiz Auburn, Ca.
Mike Lucero
October 14, 2012
My condolensces to the family of Pam. Did not know Pam that well but always admired her sense of humor and all around sociable demeanor. May God Bless all of you.
Adele Croucher/Petersen
October 14, 2012
Pam, the world has one less beautiful & giving person. Rest in peace. The Heavens have gained another Angel.
Jane Porter Apple
October 14, 2012
My neighbor and SFHS bud. What fun she was. She bore her health issues with a determination to enjoy life and give her joys to others. My thoughts are with Nancy ,Berta and family. I know you will miss her so.
Eddie Romero
October 14, 2012
I am deeply saddened to hear of Pam s passing. She was a perfect example of Bravery and Dignity. My heartfelt condolences to her family.
Rocky Pearson
October 14, 2012
Will miss my dear friend and know God has a wonderful spirit and angel in heaven. God bless you Pam..
Anne Wester
October 13, 2012
I am so sorry for losing my dear friend Pam..What a special and beautiful person. My prayers are with Roberta and Nancy...Sleep with the angels my sweet Pam
Legacy Remembers
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October 14, 2012
PAMELA BRASHEARS Obituary
PAMELA RUTH BRASHEARS Jun. 2, 1942 - Oct. 12, 2012 Pamela Ruth Brashears, formerly of Santa Fe and Chama, NM, and Rohnert Park, CA, passed peacefully in her sleep at home in Scotts Valley, California. Pam was the beloved sister of Roberta Brashears... Read PAMELA BRASHEARS's Obituary
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