Mr. Paul Andrew Gilliam
1979 - 2010
Mr. Paul Andrew Gilliam
1979 - 2010
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Paul Gilliam Obituary
Paul loved his years of baseball at St. Pius X High School, San Jacinto College, and then ultimately going semi-pro with Jack Schultea's Northwest Wildcats.
An avid fisherman, he loved nature. He was a caring husband, son, brother, grandson, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. He was the sunlight in a dark room.
Paul is survived by his loving wife Crissy; his parents Ray and Randa Gilliam; his brother Peter Gilliam and his wife JoAnn, and their daughter Mary; his sister Charlotte Ray and her husband Jeff, and their children Jacob and Emma; grandfathers, Roger Gilliam and his wife Carroll, and Earl Bayne; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from five o'clock in the afternoon until seven o'clock in the evening on Thursday, the 4th of March, in the Jasek Chapel of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston, where a vigil service and recitation of the Holy Rosary is to commence at seven o'clock.
A Mass of Christian Burial is to be conducted at ten o'clock in the morning on Friday, the 5th of March, at St. Michael Catholic Church, 1801 Sage Road in Houston, where the Rev. Msgr. Frank H. Rossi, S.T.L., is to serve as celebrant.
Honored to serve as Pall Bearers during the services are Peter Gilliam, Jeff Ray, Gary Majewski, Eric Michalak, Brandon Michalak and Michael Wilson.
The Rite of Committal will follow, via an escorted cortege, at Forest Park Westheimer Cemetery in Houston.
In lieu of customary remembrances, the family requests with gratitude that memorial contributions in Paul's name be directed to the charity of one's choice.
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March 1, 2017
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anon
September 27, 2015
Paul, I think of you every day. You had so much life energy, and it still lives on in me and everyone whose life you touched. You will always be loved.
September 25, 2015
Happy birthday paul
anon
March 1, 2015
Remembering you with warmth
anon
September 24, 2014
Thinking of you always
anon
September 28, 2013
Happy Belated - Thinking of You
for Paul
anon
May 1, 2012
shine
anon
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march 2012
anon
May 1, 2012
Randa Gilliam
March 1, 2011
One year today, Paul. The most wrenching of my life. But if negating this experience meant not having known you...I would do it over endlessly. Now, I sometimes fear that easing of the pain might somehow diminish memories of you; so I cling to both. And hope or maybe just know...that our love will meld it all into an enveloping glow of love and pain and acceptance...and this family will find comfort in realizing that you are with us. You are wonderful! Love you, Honey. Mom
July 7, 2010
Paul~
To this day it feels as if I've lost an arm or leg. Something so big is missing from our lives. There isn't a day that passes that we don't think of you or a memory from some point in our lives. To know that there will be no more memories crushes us so we hold tightly to the ones we have. There is so much more that could be said, but words cannot describe the loss of you and the hole that has been left in our hearts. Your loyalty, protection, mischief, laughter and most of all love is missed by all.
May 21, 2010
Paul, You helped me so much through out my life I know I wouldn't be who I am today if it wasn't for you. You are missed every day and I know your always lookin down on the people you love. I pray for your family and for your wife still till this day every day. You will never be forgotten and you will always be loved!
Randa Gilliam
April 25, 2010
Dearest Paul,
Even as a little tyke, rubbing mashed potatoes into the carpet and running off laughing out loud at the reaction gained from me, you loved sharing yourself with others. Growing older, you became open, outgoing, compassionate & loving. As a gallant young man, you had the strength to approach anyone, openly and with zeal, beaming your way across those emotional guards we all put up, letting us know you are here and life is great. Your own bigger than life enthusiasm raised our expectations of our own selves. In the same room with you, life was brighter, more fun, interesting! As a man grown, you are one whom each person knowing you counts a good friend. You are that caliber of person who stands up for the needs of friends and family. Peter still says you are the best little brother ever. "You've got responsibilities, don't go there" can be heard from you as often as "I'm with you". A "Hi" to someone lonely is as important as a serious sharing of yourself to one whom you know has some real life issues. You step up when it comes to suffering. You care.
Actually, Paul, you love. Big bear hugs for your friends, guy or gal, whether they like it or not; understanding your dad's perpetually 2 year old dog whom you found to be just an overly sensitive baby & then he was your own; to simply holding Crissy's hand, anytime anywhere. You are full mettle, Paul.
Leaving for college, you left such a big empty place in this home that your sister cried for two weeks. So not having you here physically with us now is hard. Though you surely are spreading your own brand of joy amongst the good souls of heaven, we know you are also embracing us here beaming and instigating a moment or a flood of merriment. So we see, Paul, that if we can reach out to others as you have shown us, than we will see a better way; and you will continue making our lives happier.
I knew you were wonderful since always, Paul; you are still. I do so love you, honey. Mom
Live life passionately
Love unconditionally
Laugh out loud
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Dan Alvarez
April 3, 2010
Ray, Randa and family,
I am so sorry for your loss! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
God Bless you.
Gilliam Family
April 2, 2010
Paul,
I believe God must have needed a good laugh in Heaven. There was no greater love to you than that of God and family. You would do anything for us, and your protection is still felt.
Your infectious laughter still echoes in the air around us, and we still see the glint of mischief in your eyes. We'll see you in heaven.
With Love,
Fom all of us
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Jesica Hanson
March 27, 2010
Forever missing you, for you have been far away for far too long. My prayers are with Crissy and the entire Gilliam family. I hope that you can find peace, for I believe that Paul would want that. God Bless.
Julie Claybrook
March 9, 2010
Paul RIP!!!! my thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew Paul!!! God Bless!!!!
Kory Rutledge
March 9, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Paul's friends and family. God Bless.
Nikki Brannon
March 9, 2010
Paul was truly amazing, and its not fair that he is gone!! He was able to touch my life so many times and he was always there anytime I needed anything!! He actually just got me a job at BFE a week ago. I am so hurt by his loss and I know that he is in heaven watching over all of us!! I love you paul and miss u sooo very,very much!!!!!!
Mike D
March 9, 2010
Paul was one of the truley great individuals that people love to be around.He made you a better person just being with him. He always had a way of making you feel welcomed.
I love you very much Paul.Im going to miss you forever bro. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Dianna Wells
March 9, 2010
Our dear Crissy, God Bless You. If you EVER need to make a out of the ordinary call...please call Kenny and I...we went to the house today and left you a note. Please....It would mean the world to us...Dianna & Kenny...713-560-6388
Dalia Hammock
March 8, 2010
Crissy and The Gilliam Family
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Christy Craig
March 6, 2010
I am truly saddened and stunned to hear of Paul's passing. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobbi (and Robert) Wooldridge
March 6, 2010
Our deepest condolences and prayers go out to the whole Gilliam family. Robert has many fond memories of Paul growing up. Our thoughts are with you during this most difficult time.
Lee Church
March 5, 2010
Gilliam Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy go out to you and yours. Paul will be greatly missed. I have many fond memories of Paul from fishing, and other things we did. He was really a fun guy to hang around, and always made everyone laugh. He will never be forgotten.
Kelli Cook
March 5, 2010
Paul I have known you for at least 20 years.... I am so shocked and sadenned at the same time that you are gone. I know you will always be here for us... My thoughts and prayers go out to pauls family.... I MISS YOU PAUL GILLIAM
Sean Salinas
March 5, 2010
Crissy and Family,
Our deepest sympathies are with you. Paul was a wonderful man and awesome teammate! His dedication to the Wildcats was unbelievable and will never be forgotten. He was THE person that could always be counted on no matter what the situation was. He will truly be missed and we all have to believe that God has a plan.
God Bless,
Sean Salinas and Family
Will Banks & Family
March 4, 2010
Crissy, Charlotte & Family,
We are truly sad about Paul's passing. He will be missed very much. It is hard not to forget Paul, because he was always a happy man who was always smiling. Thanks Paul for being one of my first friends and making me feel welcomed through out high school, especially freshman year.
Dwight & Tammey Cannon
March 4, 2010
We are shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Paul. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Becky Guzman & Family
March 4, 2010
At this time of sorrow,
may these truths sustain you...
Your loved one will always
be as close as a memory,
and the God of all comfort
will always be as
close as a prayer.
With Deepest Sympathy
Bennett Menard
March 4, 2010
Ray & Family,
The numbing shock of such a tragic loss
is beyond a verbal communication.In this time, may your pain be lessened by the life time of warm and funny memories that so captured your affection.
Ray,from what I read he was a son that all fathers aspire to raise.
Our Warmest Sympathy,
Bennett Menard & Family
March 4, 2010
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Michelle Agleton
March 4, 2010
Crissy.
I cannot even begin to tell you how deeply saddened for you and your family I am at the tragic loss of Paul. Just always know that you, your family and the Gilliam's are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here for you my dear friend. God Bless you and may He comfort you now more than ever.
Michelle Agleton
March 4, 2010
Crissy.
I cannot even begin to tell you how deeply saddened for you I am at the tragic loss of Paul. Just always know that you, your family and the Gilliam's are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here for you my dear friend. God Bless you and may He comfort you now more than ever.
Brad, Shawn, Bradley, and Christopher Morrison
March 4, 2010
Crissy,
There are no words to express our sympathy other than 'We're sorry for your loss'. Paul was yours and to have found you, even if for a short time, made him a lucky guy. We'll miss his quick wit and positive outlook on life.
Jack Schultea
March 4, 2010
Dear Crissy nand Family: What a shocking loss!!! Paul was the heart and soul of the Wildcats for eight years. He so truly loved the game and his team. He was our MVP, and no one on the Wildcats will ever wear #35 again. As difficult as it is, try to remember that God always has a plan. We love you, Jack and Cecilia Schultea
March 3, 2010
Alex Merecka
March 3, 2010
My deepest sympathies go out to Paul's family for their sudden loss. Paul was a great person and made a very positive impact on the people he encountered. Paul and Crissy were the perfect couple and will always be remembered as such.
March 3, 2010
Crissy and The Gilliam Family,
I am so sorry for you loss. Paul was such a wonderful person and so much fun to be around. He always had a smile on his face and I will remember that always. He loved you Crissy so much and it was evident in everything he did. My heart is aching for you all right now and just know every single one of you is in my prayers and thoughts. Paul will be missed greatly. Again you are in my prayers.
Love,
Reacia Keene
Friends at Westbound Bank
March 3, 2010
Dear Ray, Crissy & Family,
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time, may his loving memories bring comfort for the tears and light for the way.
Friends at Westbound Bank, Bellaire
March 3, 2010
We will miss his smiles and funny stories.
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time, may his loving memories bring you comfort for the tears and light for the way.
Laurie Russell
March 3, 2010
Crissy and family,
We are thinking about you all. Our prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Paul is an angel FOREVER watching over you!
Many hugs and prayers,
Laurie and Scott Russell
J L
March 3, 2010
My condolences to your family. all those who knew PAUL will miss him.
Happy are those who mourn, since they will be comforted. MATTHEW 5:4.
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March 3, 2010
Crissy, Ray and Family,
As you seek answers as to why Paul was taken from you at such a young age, know that God has a plan for him in Heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
darnell wicks
March 3, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. Crissy & Family are in my thoughts & prayers.
March 3, 2010
Crissy our love and prayers are with you in this time of sarrow. May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace.
Love you,
Rhonda and Courtenay Payne
March 3, 2010
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Dearest Family, I know how close each and every one of you are and my heart is filled with such saddness for you all. It's just not suppost to happen this way! All Our Love, Mary, Keith, Emma and Olivia Cohn
mary cohn
March 3, 2010
Dearest Family, I know how close each and every one of you are and my heart is filled with such saddness for you all. It's just not suppost to happen this way! All Our Love, Mary, Keith, Emma and Olivia Cohn
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