WILLIAM K. ABEND M.D.

1946 - 2013

WILLIAM K. ABEND M.D. obituary, 1946-2013, Newton, MA

WILLIAM K. ABEND M.D.

1946 - 2013

WILLIAM ABEND Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2013.
ABEND, William K., MD Age 67 years, of Newton on Saturday, September 21, 2013. William (Bill) is survived by his loving wife Phyllis (Weiss), devoted children Nicholas Abend and his wife, Gayle Chesley, of Philadelphia, PA and Katherine Abend and her husband, Kevin Wallace, of Washington, DC, cherished grandchildren Jack and Alexander Abend and Anna Wallace, beloved mother Esther Abend, brother Stephen Abend and his wife, Barbara, of Kansas City, MO, sister-in-law May March and her husband, Walter, of Chicago, IL, brother-in-law Bernard Weiss and his wife, Beverly, of Sarasota, FL, and many nieces, nephews and cousins throughout the United States and Israel. Bill was born on May 26, 1946 in Kansas City, Missouri to Esther and the late Joseph S. Abend, who had immigrated to the United States from Poland with other family members prior to the war. Bill attended Southwest High School and went on to graduate from the University of Michigan, College of Engineering in 1968 with a major in Electrical Engineering. He earned his PhD in Neurophysiology and his MD from the University of Chicago in 1976. Bill completed his neurology training at the Harvard hospitals of the Longwood Neurology Training Program in Boston, MA and continued research at MIT. He was a staff neurologist at the Brigham and Women's Hospital and also a Clinical Assistant Professor of Neurology at Harvard Medical School. In 1990, Bill joined Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates Department of Neurology and worked at the Wellesley and Chelmsford Medical Centers. He received multiple awards for his clinical expertise, including the Paul Solomon Peer Recognition Award from Harvard Vanguard, which honors physicians and other clinicians for their outstanding contributions through clinical excellence, patient service, teaching, or research. Bill was a knowledgeable and devoted caregiver who took the time to support patients and their families. He was appreciated for his gentle demeanor as he cared for countless patients and offered comfort in times of fear and uncertainty. He was described by colleagues as a person of integrity and character. Bill placed family as his highest priority. He enjoyed spending time outdoors with Phyllis and his two children, and he was especially fond of hiking with his family in wilderness areas. As his children became adults, Bill took great pleasure in discussing their professional interests, and also playing with and teaching his grandchildren. He valued maintaining solidarity among his extended family, and over the years he made it a point to attend many family events across the country. Services will be held on Monday, September 23 at Levine Chapels, 470 Harvard Street, BROOKLINE, at 1:00pm. Interment at Or Emet Cemetery, 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury. Following interment, the family will receive visitors at his late residence through 9pm, and continuing Tuesday 7-9pm with Minyan at 7:30pm each day. In lieu of flowers, Bills family asks that you consider a donation to the Temple Emanuel General Fund, 385 Ward Street, Newton, MA, 02459 or to the Jewish Community Foundation, 5801 West 115th Street, Suite 104, Overland Park, Kansas, 66211, Allen Abend Scholarship Fund in memo section. Levine Chapels, Brookline 617-277-8300 www.levinechapel.com

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October 17, 2013

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October 15, 2013

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October 11, 2013

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Kim Behrens

October 17, 2013

Dear Phyllis
Dr Abend was my doctor.i will miss him. He used to make me laugh.my family is thinking of your family.
Yours,
Kim Behrens

October 15, 2013

I am saddend to hear of my friend and colleagues passing. I extend my condolences to his family.

Michael A. Williams

October 11, 2013

God Bless you,Dr. Abend.

Bill Rothschild

October 11, 2013

I'm a physician who was a patient of Dr. Abend for 13 years. Aside from his obvious skills and intellect, he radiated a rapport which I treasured during every visit. I'll miss both his wisdom and positive outlook.

My thoughts are with his family,

ALLISON COHEN

October 9, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Jeanette

October 9, 2013

I was very saddened to hear of Dr. Abend's passing. I was his patient very briefly. I only had one appointment with him, but the kindness and concern he showed for me during that appointment (and the follow-up phone conversations after some tests) stayed with me.

October 8, 2013

15 years as my neurologist; a wonderful & caring physician, who I will sincerely miss. My deepest sympathies to Dr Abend's family.
-Frank Sullivan

October 8, 2013

My condolences to the family.
May the God of all comfort provide you with the strength needed to cope with your loss.

October 8, 2013

I was a patient of Dr. for almost 20 years. I was not an easy patient for him personality wise. It was only with his calmness , honesty, determination that I was able to come to terms with my condition. I dont know if that would have happen without Dr. Abend. I am sad for everybodys loss.

Joan Thomas

October 7, 2013

With my deepest sympathy. Dr. Abend was my doctor for 20 years and was always kind, knowledgeable and gentle. I will miss my visits with him and his calm assurances that everything would be alright. A reassuring presence in the midst of complicated medical decisions. Joan Thomas

October 6, 2013

OCT 6 2013 I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. DR AHBEND BECAME MY SON'S NEUROLOGIST ON OCT 10 2003. HIS CARING AND ABSOLUTE KNOWLEDGE MADE THAT MOMENT EASIER. WE WILL MISS HIM GREATLY. MARIANNE PRINCIPE YORK MAINE

Kristine Hunt

October 6, 2013

Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss, and the great loss to all of Dr. Abend's patients. In such a short period of time, Dr. Abend led me through a difficult diagnosis and not only made a difference in my life, he made ALL the difference to myself and my family. Dr. Abend exemplified what a physician should be, knowledgeable, experienced and genuine in his care. I can only imagine the depth of love and support of your family to share Dr. Abend with the rest of us. Thank you.

Kathleen Bell

October 2, 2013

Dr Abend has been my neurologist for over 20 years, I am indebted to him for my continued good health after a serious problem that he was the first to diagnose and treat. I Will miss him immensely and offer his family my sincere condolences

Bob Zolotor

October 1, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 27, 2013

Bill was a kind and patient colleague whose skill and wisdom were widely recognized by his patients and all their physicians. He was always willing to help out in patient evaluations and care and he will be deeply missed by all of us at Harvard Vanguard. I am very sorry for your loss and send wishes for comfort and strength.
Robert Sands

Eileen Prefontaine

September 25, 2013

I met Dr. Abend for a couple of consults at Harvard Vanguard last winter, and was impressed by his knowledge, thoroughness, and thoughtfulness. He gave me some advice which I very much respected. I am so sorry that he is gone so soon. It's clear how loved and well regarded he was. My thoughts and prayers to Dr. Abend's family and friends.

debbie hagerty

September 24, 2013

I was very saddened to hear of Dr Abend's passing. I've been both a colleague and a patient of his in the past and he was always professional pleasant and conscientious. I will keep him and your family in my prayers.

Stephanie Lippman

September 24, 2013

A dedicated Doctor to his patients and such a gentle, kind person. He may have been soft spoken but when you asked him about his grandchildren he would just light up and share a story... He will truly be missed by so many.

September 24, 2013

I am incredibly saddened to learn of Dr. Abend's passing. Dr. Abend believed in my medical issues when other doctor's did not. He even kept up with me while he was on leave. I pray for his family during this difficult time. The world has truly lost a great person.

September 24, 2013

I have many fond memories of going to J C Nichols Elementary School with Bill in KCMO and spending time with him outside of school. We will miss him at Southwest's 50th reunion next year. Rest in Peace, Bill.

Mike Dalen, Overland Park, KS

Katelyn David

September 24, 2013

As a patient of Dr. Abend's, I was always comforted by his calm demeanor and incredible intellect. Even when I felt things were getting worse, he assured me we'd find a way to make it better. I wish his family peace during this difficult time, and hope that the difference Dr. Abend made on the lives of his patients and colleagues at HVMA offers some solace.

September 23, 2013

Dear Phyllis, Nicholas, and Katherine, we wanted you to know how much we respected your Dad. He was a doctor's doctor who will be forever remembered by his patients and colleagues. He was a true gentleman. Shah and Laura Khoshbin

Amanda Sher

September 23, 2013

Bill was one of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege of knowing. His sweet smile was infectious, and his devotion to his family was endless. Big hugs sent out to our family during this difficult time.

September 23, 2013

To family and friends of Dr. Bill Abend,
Dr. Abend was a greatly cherished colleague. I relied on him for the care of many patients and was never disappointed. I am shocked and so sad to learn of his passing. We are very sorry for your loss.
Susan P Pauker, MD, Genetics

September 23, 2013

Bill was a most caring and thoughtful physician, always a gentleman and most respectful of patients and colleagues.

We miss him, share our sadness with those ho loved him.

Roberta Falke, HVMA Hem/Onc

Elizabeth Ross

September 23, 2013

Dr Abend was a wonderul neurologist and a caring clinician. He will be missed at Harvard Vanguard.

Marleene Hoag

September 23, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Abend and witnessing his kindness and compassion for his patients. My thoughts amd prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

September 23, 2013

I have had the pleasure of working with Dr Abend over the last 12 years in Chelmsford HVMA. He was a kind and caring physician and friend. He will be missed by all of us here in Medical Specialties and especially missed by his all of his patients. My prayes are will him and his family.

Kathy David
Chelmsford HVMA

September 23, 2013

I will certainly miss him. Always thoughtful, kind, quiet and brilliant. If I needed a neurological consult about someone I was seeing, I could always go to him to listen to my concerns, my thoughts and get an answer. Always supportive of me and other clinicians. He was a wonderful man and doctor

Lynne B. Markinac, np

Maureen Allen

September 23, 2013

I worked with Dr Abend in Chelmsford for many years before I moved to another practice. He remains the benchmark by which I compare all other neurologists I consult. A kind, thoughtful man and exceptional physician. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Sally

September 23, 2013

A wonderful, caring, kind man, dedicated to his patients and finding the right diagnosis and treatment for them. His eyes would light up when talking about his cherished family.

September 23, 2013

It was an honor to have worked with Bill Abend for many years at Wellesley. He was such a wonderful colleague. We will miss him.
Mary Barker

Michelle Cleary

September 23, 2013

I worked with Dr Abend many years ago, he was a very kind man. I am so sorry for your loss and may your memories carry you through these difficult times
Michelle Cleary

Vera Fajtova

September 22, 2013

Bill will be greatly missed. He was a caring physician and a brilliant diagnostician. It was a privilege to practice with him, HVMA was lucky to have him, and I thank you for sharing him with us. My deepest sympathy.

September 22, 2013

I had the honor of knowing Bill for almost 25 years as we worked together at Harvard Vanguard in Chelmsford. I was repeatedly in awe of his intellect, dedication, and strength of spirit as he helped his patients through complex and frightening diagnoses. I also felt fortunate that he let me see his very human side: his weakness for chocolate, his great laugh, and especially his love of family. I will always remember my colleague and friend.
With deepest sympathy for his dear wife Phyllis and his whole family,
Rafael Pupo

Heather Price

September 22, 2013

I had the good fortune to work with Dr. Abend over the last 5 years. He always made me feel beyond appreciated at my job. He was one of the first people to congratulate me when I got my Diamond Award and I will never forget his warm and kind smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

September 22, 2013

My deepest sympathies to Bill's family. He was a wonderful caring doctor, it was a privilege working with him at Harvard Vanguard. Jim Goldman

September 22, 2013

Dear Phyllis, Nicolas and Kate,
Words cannot express how deeply I am sorry for your loss. I'll never forget Bill's smile and kindness. It has been my privilege to knowing him and working with him; he is a brilliant, honest, caring and compassionate human being and one of the finest physicians that I have ever known. I know that nothing anyone can say will take away the pain of your loss. My heart with you, I'll miss him!
Deepest sympathy,
Lina Fu

Carolina DeSimone

September 22, 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss. I was fortunate to work with Bill in Wellesley. He was an amazing and caring human being. Always so thoughtful, respectful and generous.

September 22, 2013

We were blessed to have a close friendship with Bill since the 1970's and we will always cherish our memories of him. He was one of the kindest and most loving, good humored and wise individuals we have ever met. He leaves behind his wonderful, dear wife, Phyllis, Nick, Kate and their children. Our love and deepest sympathy to each of you and to all of Bill's family

Hugh and Lydia Vine

September 22, 2013

Phyllis, Nicholas and Kate,
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the great opportunity to work with Bill for 13 years in Chelmsford, He was a brilliant, caring and compassionate Doctor.
He will forever be in my thoughts and I will miss him dearly.
Fondly, Sandra Walton

Beth Leavitt

September 22, 2013

It has been a pleasure to work with such a wonderful physician. I will always have fond memories of our conversations, and dark chocolate! He will be missed.

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