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JAMES DESJARDINS James Bradley DesJardins was born Dec. 18, 1965, in Bitburg, Germany, to Winnie and John DesJardins. His life was ended too early on the morning of March 27, 2010, in an auto accident. Jim touched the hearts of everyone he met. Everyone who knew him had a 'Jim' story to tell! He was preceded in death by his brother, Greg; paternal grandparents; and maternal grandfather. Jim is survived by his wife, Christina; their two sons, Qadir and Jonathan; his parents; brothers, William and wife, Tina, and Robert and wife, Shannon; and many nieces and nephews who all loved their Uncle Jim. Jim graduated from Chaparral High School and the University of Nevada, Reno. He owned two businesses with his brother, Rob, Desert Landscaping and Environmental Creations. Jim loved the Minnesota Vikings, cooking (especially soup), Disneyland, the beach, snowboarding, the original Joker, Motorhead (all punk rock music), coaching football, and most of all, spending time with his family and friends. There will be a service celebrating Jim's life at 11 a.m. Wednesday, April 7, at Christ Church Episcopal, 2000 S. Maryland Parkway. In lieu of flowers, you may donate to the Christ Church Episcopal Memorial Fund. In Jim's memory, his family and friends will be wearing his favorite colors, "Purple and Gold." All who attend are welcome to do the same. Please join us in celebrating his Wild and Wonderful Life. "We All love you and will miss you always." XOXO

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Published by Las Vegas Review-Journal on Apr. 4, 2010.

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May 24, 2010

We offer our sincere sympathy to your family,for your loss, We will always remember him, he was a great person,and a great coach to Dominic Garza. Rest in Peace
From the Garza Family Henderson NV

May 22, 2010

Today makes eight weeks without my Jim. I cannot even express how sad I am and how much I miss him. My world is so quiet and lonley without him. He was my foundation, from the very first day we dated. I know my boys are hurting more than I. I find the strength to keep going everyday in their faces. I listen to them talk about their father and see the smile that comes over their faces and know he is with us in our hearts forever.....I miss you Jim.....

Mexico cruise

May 22, 2010

Jims sons in our favorite place San Diego

May 22, 2010

Jim & Chris x-mas 08'

May 22, 2010

Jim & Chris Mexico 09'

May 22, 2010

Qadir Jim oldest son

May 22, 2010

Jonathan and Jim Fighting Irish season

May 22, 2010

Jason Schwartz

May 12, 2010

Wow, I simply can't believe he's gone. Way too soon for someone who was completely indestructible.

Nicole Norian

May 11, 2010

I only met Jim last fall. He designed a beautiful backyard for my family with some very special touches for my 5-year old daughter. I learned of his death when trying to contact him to do some more work for us. While I didn't know him well, I enjoyed his outgoing demeanor and I trusted his expertise. I was deeply saddened to learn of his death - more so than I can explain - but he left us a gift of beauty. I will remember him fondly.

Sandy Forsstrom

May 4, 2010

Sitting here at my computer not knowing what to say/write. I just found out and was shocked, still am. It's been about 4 months since I've seen/talked to Jim out in front of his brothers house after my son broke his arm. It seems like it was just yesterday and I can see him so clearly with that big smile of his. What a great smile. To the DesJardins family, I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts!

April 21, 2010

I knew Jim as "Des," or "Desi." When a group of us were going out, I always wanted to know if Des was going to be there, because if he was, I knew it would be a good time. He was such a warm guy and made everyone feel welcome. His smile automatically made me smile. I will remember all the fun times I had with Des. He is a legend of his time.

April 15, 2010

Jim was a Tasmanian devil, a tornado, a meteorite. Although he liked Motorhead, he was was Iggy Pop all the way -- Lust for Life. Jim was a clown, a rogue a charming charismatic. Jim was a brilliant flash bulb popping in the night. Jim was also a good guy, who tried to do what we must do in the world that we struggle through. So, I raise my glass to Jim. Let's raise our glass to Jim, because when a man dies he is probably thinking of the family that he loves and the people who he cares for, be he also wants to know that he will be remembered and spoken well of. Not everyone will be remembered, nor for very long. I will bet you, however, that when the name of Jim Des Jardins is brought up in conversation, you will see a brief, fond smirk upon the faces of those who hear his name. This is an accolade not easily earned, for many are forgotten. Not Jim. So, I will carry as small shard of sadness for my deceased friend, but at the same time, I will remember Jim and smile.

Scott Rader

April 14, 2010

Words can't express the shock. Good bye, Jim.

Jana Vorce

April 14, 2010

Jimmy, I will never forget your funny personality. You were always the nicest guy. The best stories. You will be missed bro.

April 11, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Jim, you will never be forgotten! ~Tracey Gennaro (Henderson, NV)

Dan Stoltz

April 11, 2010

Goodbye Jim. I am truly saddened by your very early departure. Your family will remain in my prayers.

Karen Edwards Wooster

April 9, 2010

I am still in shock at the news that Jim is gone. Although back in high school we always called him Jimmy. He could always make you smile and laugh (who could forget when you leopard spotted his hair at Chaparral) Jimmy i saw you last with Christina at our 20th reunion up at Metro Pizza. It was great to see you then and we talked for forever. My best to your wife and family as they have lost an amazing man

Stephan Melancon

April 8, 2010

I heard only today of Jim's death. Though I hadn't seen him in years, his loss struck me in the heart. I have a picture of us up at UNR. I'm going to get it out and post it. Jim made me smile everytime I saw him. Even as I tear up thinking about him, a smile takes over my face when I remember him. To his family: I wish I had gotten back in touch and met you. As someone else said, if there is a fund set up for your children, I would like very much to contribute. My prayers are with you in this most difficult time.

donovan mertikas

April 8, 2010

when jon told me his dad died it made me sad even though i only met him once but i could tell he was a very nice person.i am realy sorry for your loss

Kip McCart

April 7, 2010

I can honestly say that I have never met anyone like Jim DesJardins. I am grateful I had the opportunity to talk with you on our street just a couple weeks ago. The fact that you were skateboarding with your boys and bragging about your skills made me laugh. It was impossible to be in your presence and not be in a good mood and laughing. Everyone that ever met you would say the same thing. I am thankful to have known you since high school. You will never be forgotten!

Joshua Berkovitz, Jonathan's friend

April 7, 2010

One of Jonathan's friends told me about the loss of his dad and even though I only saw him a few times I am so sorry for your loss.

Joshua , Jonathans' friend Berkovitz

April 7, 2010

One of jon's friends told me about the loss of his his dad. Even though I only saw him a few times i'm so sorry and I hope all gets better soon.

April 7, 2010

Jim,
You are in my thoughts today. Your passing has saddened me beyond words. Although we haven't spoken in many years, I have found solace in my memories with you and have smiled looking back on them. Reno, The Beer Barrel, San Francisco, Your mom's cheescake, The Pizza Oven, The Chevelle, Lake Tahoe, kneeboarding, and a million other memories. We were young and careless, but we did a lot of living and growing up during our many years together. You did more living in 44 years than most people do in a lifetime! You touched all of our lives, and we are better people for knowing you. You will always have a spot in my heart. I pray your wife and children find comfort in their memories, and may your parents and brothers find comfort in your wife and children. Heaven is rockin' right now and the angels are singing. You will be missed my friend.
Felecia (Fuson) Blow

The Yurek's

April 7, 2010

Were so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Marc Capri

April 6, 2010

True friend of over 14 years, I will miss Jim everyday. I never knew a person that could make me laugh and appreciate life like Jim. My deepest sympathy to his family. He will be missed Dearly.

Jim Williams

April 6, 2010

I spent everday with Jim when we went to school together in England.

I have never met Christina and Jim's Children but, I want you to know how much your Husband/Father meant to me. Jim was the life of the party and my time would not have been nearly the same overseas without his Friendship.

I will miss you Jim...

The Mertikas Family

April 6, 2010

When my son Donovan told me of his friend Jonathan's loss of his father, my heart broke. May God bless your family in this time of grief and help you to remember all of the wonderful times, they will live on with your family always. Although I didn't know Mr. Desjardins, my thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.

April 6, 2010

I offer my sincere sympathy to the family of James. May the light that he gave his family in life forever shine in the hearts of his wife and sons.
Dr. Rodano Glen Taylor School

Jim & Kristeen

April 6, 2010

JIms son Q

April 6, 2010

Jims son Jonathan

April 6, 2010

Jim & wife Christina

April 6, 2010

Jim by the pool

April 6, 2010

Jim & Dillan

April 6, 2010

Jim in Mexico

April 6, 2010

Shawn, Malia, Brett & Mark Hyde

April 5, 2010

Jim you will never be forgotten! You have left an incredible impression on our family and allowed us to be apart of yours. We are all better people after knowing you. Thank you for being you and giving us so many great memories to remember you by. There will be so many things in this life, that will take us back to a moment spent with you.

We will truly miss you and always love you! We will continue to be here for your family as you have been here for ours!

Kristi and Travis Bush

April 5, 2010

Rest in Peace Jim! We will miss you forever!

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Travis and Kristi Bush

April 5, 2010

Jim was taken WAY to soon. He was loved by everyone who came in contact with him. My family shared a special bond with Jim that we will never share with any one else. Jim's stories and memory are with us everyday and almost every moment. Jim will be missed everyday we are on this earth.

Jim, we love and miss you! Your family with be taken care of in your memory for as long as they will have us around.

Anna Welsh

April 5, 2010

Jimmy gave the Welsh siblings many great memories and stories to share and remember- many many laughs. His humorous nature was contagious. My brother Darren will miss him dearly.

I would to contribute to Jimmy's children's college or education fund if there is one set up. Please post if you have an account that donations can be made too.

My heart is with all of you this week and many more. I hope you find peace in what he shared and gave to those he loved.

Shannon White

April 5, 2010

My prayers are with you all, I appreciate everything you both have done for me and my children, Christina you always checked on me to make sure i was okay when Aaron passed and that meant so much to me if you need anything please call me 504-1058 (ANYTIME), Luv u guys and praying for you, xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Colleen Strange

April 4, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
The Galagans

Ron Stewart

April 4, 2010

The loss of this man is something that everyone that knew him will never fully be able to come to terms with, because when you try to think of someone else like Jim, you can’t. He was special in so many ways. He tried so hard to come across gruff and hard but there was just too much goodness in him to pull that off. He cared so much for his family and friends and was always there when you needed him. In some of my darkest days he was one of the few that searched me out until he found me and was ready with candid words of encouragement and love. I had the privilege of calling him my workmate and friend for about 14 years and it is only now that he is gone that I realized how much he effected my life.
To his parents, my deepest sympathy, but also heartfelt thanks for putting him on this earth and giving him the qualities that made him such a remarkable man. To you Christina, you made a great man even better. To Q and Jonathan be proud that you have the qualities and a depth of love instilled in you that came from him. Live your lives with the same power, passion and care for others that he did. Make him proud. And to you Rob, … I know your shoulders are burdened by all of this and my words are just words but just like you and Jim have always had extended your hands to help me, my hand is out to you now. Help us never forget.

JIM, thank you for the time you gave us. You were the definition of a true friend. You will be dearly and deeply missed. The world is just not right without you.

Jessica Hunden

April 4, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

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