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Peter Perry Obituary

WATERVILLE -- Peter Emerson Perry, 55, formerly of Dixon Terrace, Winslow, passed away July 22 at Oak Grove Nursing Home after a long and courageous battle with leukodystrophy.

Peter was born in Oconto, Wis., a son of Robert and the late Norma Perry. His family moved to the Waterville area when he was only 1. He attended local schools and graduated from Lawrence High School in 1973 and the University of Maine in 1977, with an engineering degree. He married JoAnne Stanhope, of Portland, in 1977.

Peter worked for S.D. Warren, Somerset, for many years, then worked for Nalco as a principal consultant in the paper industry, until his illness prevented him from working in 2003. With that job he traveled to Europe, South America and Asia and would often call home to tell his nieces and nephews of his travels.

At home he loved working on his house and cars. He had a special joy of restoring old European sports cars, MGs in particular. He was an avid race fan and in his later years raced as a hobby. Pete was also a Red Sox and Patriots fan. He enjoyed special times with family and friends camping at Sebago and Moosehead lakes, and trips to Cape Cod.

He was also an avid reader with a special interest in books on African exploration. His quiet times were spent with his kitty friends, especially Jester, the explorer, who has gone on ahead, and Miss B, the sweet, who remained close in his final illness. Special memories of Pete will be his quick wit and dislike of all things bean -- green or otherwise.

Peter is survived by his loving wife, JoAnne; father, Robert, of Benton; brothers John Perry and wife Peggy and Andrew Perry and his wife, Beth, all of Winslow.

Peter is also survived by nephew Christopher Perry, his wife, Amy, and their children: Matthew, Grant and Mason of Florida; his sister, Kathryn Perry, of Bowdoinham; nephew James and his wife, Jen, of Ohio, and his sisters Alison and Andrea of Winslow; brothers-in-law Gary Stanhope of Arundel, Martin Stanhope and his wife, Teresa, of Topsham and their children: Nicholas and Kristin; special friends of the heart: Scott and JoAnne Hopkins and their children, Matthew and Hannah, most recently of Shapleigh; and Rick and Patsy MacInnes of Baltimore, Md., and their children Brian and Kate.

A special thanks to Dr. Clifton Smith and staff, and Dr. Anthony Pakiam for going the distance. To the staff at Oak Grove Nursing Home for their continued care and concern; and the staff and volunteers at HR Hospice who came in at the end and provided excellent care for both Pete and his family members during some difficult times.

Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 and 6-8 p.m. Tuesday at Veilleux Funeral Home. A funeral service will be held at 1 p.m. Wednesday, at Veilleux Funeral Home, 8 Elm St., Waterville, ME 04901.

Donations may be made to HealthReach Hospice, 10 Water St. Waterville, ME 04901.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Morning Sentinel on Jul. 24, 2011.

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August 30, 2011

I can not think of anyone I enjoyed working with more than Peter Perry. Our frequent travels together and phone conversations were always a great learning experience and joy. Peter taught me more about paper making than any years of experience could have. I never hesitated to say that Peter Perry is the smartest person I know. But, it was his views on life that kept us laughing and enjoying the moment. He was always quick with a joke or a great story, and our travels provided many good stories. I am thankful for the times he thought of me and let me know via an e-mail or phone call.

I wish I could have spent more time with him these last few years, but what time I did get with him I really enjoyed, hunting ground hogs in the backyard, camping with his Dad in my driveway, sharing a meal with him at the home. Even in my last visits the one thing that was always there was the spark in his eyes as he listened to your story and even though he could not add his sentiment I always knew he understood and was enjoying the time we had.

Thank you Peter Perry, you have made me a better professional and person, and I will miss you. My thoughts are with you JoAnne and I hope we can get together soon.

Larry Hutchinson

July 28, 2011

JoAnne,

I had the privilege of getting to know Pete after being hired by "Father Bob" at Scott, Winslow ... whew, was it that long ago!? Over the years we worked together a lot, he was one of the toughest customers I ever had, which made me better. I think Pete was the smartest guy I've ever worked with and I learned an immense amount from him over the years. I missed seeing him these last 10 years I've been over here in Asia.

Pete was much more than just "smart", the intelligence that you could see burning in his eyes, his passion, and the keen wit and humor in his always ready smile gained him a lot of friends and fans in his world travels.

I always loved talking with him about cars and racing ..., when we weren't fixing paper machines ..., and some day I hope we get to do some "hot laps" together on a track somewhere.

I'm sure it's been tough the last few years and even tougher now, my deepest sympathies to you. But as Pete used to say "life goes on" so after the pain and the loss I wish you frequent flashbacks and lots of big smiles from all the good times with one of the worlds finest souls.

We will all miss him but are all better for having known him and I will be raising a glass in his honor more than once.

All my best,

Jack Thomas

July 26, 2011

JoAnne, I got the opportunity to go on an audit with Pete several years ago and we drove up to northern Canada together. It was a great trip and it gave me a chance to get to know Pete better.
My wife Connie and I have you in our prayers, and hope you find peace in the fact that Pete is no longer suffering. He was someone I looked up to.

Jack

Wade Amos

July 26, 2011

I was saddened to hear of Peter’s passing. He was a wonderful person. I first met Peter when he interviewed me for a scholarship in high school. He checked in with me every year through college and I continued to enjoy visiting with him at UMaine alumni events for years after I graduated. My condolences to Peter’s family and friends.

Bob and Diane McGregor

July 26, 2011

JoAnne
Diane and I send our deepest sympathy for you loss. We both have fond memories of Pete and the few times he spent time working with me and the time he spent in our home.

Tim Monaghan

July 26, 2011

Joanne,
Deepest condolences to you Uncle Robert and the rest of the family

Przem Pruszynski

July 26, 2011

I would like to pass the most sincere condolences to Pete's family. Having opportunity to know and work with Pete was a privilage. Will cherish these memories for years. Przem with family.

Bob Clark

July 26, 2011

My deepest condolences to the entire family. Having shared many classes at Lawrence with Peter I know his wit and intelligence will be greatly missed. Bob Clark LHS '73

GUSTAVO GORNI

July 26, 2011

Dear JoAnne, we are so sorry. Peter always will be in our minds.Hope you have the power to live without him.We always remember the good time we passed togheter. monica, franco, gustavo

Anibal Udabe

July 26, 2011

Our most sincere condolences to her spouse JoAnne and Pete Perry´s family members. I had worked in Chihuahua Mexico with Pete, I remmeber him full of life and energy, with very special smile in his face always. Hope God have mercy of Him. Anibal and Olga Udabe

Chris Futral

July 26, 2011

JoAnne,

I am truly saddened to hear of Pete's passing. He was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He was a pleasure to work with and especially fun to travel with. Peace be with you.

Don & Trudy Hanson

July 26, 2011

To all the Perry Family,
Our deepest sympathies to you all. We are thinking of you.
Sincerely,

Mike Loubier

July 26, 2011

Dear JoAnne,
I would like to extend my deepest simpathy to you and your family. I worked with Peter for many years at Somerset and can tell you that those of us in the Papermaking Family are better off having spent time with him. He will be sadly missed. May you take some small comfort in knowing that you are in our thoughts prayers today.

Pierre Jean CLOCHER

July 26, 2011

France is sharing your pain and remember how outstanding Pete was for us...
we feel very sorry and sad to lose such a talent, human being and friend...next time I will see you Pete, I will come with a good bottle of Bordeaux and we will have a good time as we had in Saillat... I miss U my friend...

Peter Buikema

July 25, 2011

Pete was a valued asset at Nalco. If it could happen, he had experienced it, and you could count on Pete to tell us the pros and cons, so we didn't have to suffer like he did at the time. I haven't worked with him for almost ten years, but remember him fondly.

Dominic Rende

July 25, 2011

Our most sincere condolences to JoAnne and all the Perry family members. I had worked closely with Pete for several of his Nalco years, with admiration, with great respect for his talent and knowledge, and with smiles for his quick wit and teachings. He was greatly missed at the onset of his health problem and his physical presence will forever be missed. I will always remember the picture you have shared herein. With a tearful eye, please accept this writing. Nick and Carol Rende

July 25, 2011

To JoAnne, Bob, and the rest of the Perry family; I am so sorry that Peter was not able to go many more miles with us. He helped repair a big hurt that I had. I very much appreciate knowing and "being a part of" the Perry family. Please know that I share your pain and loss. David Record

Bruce Cordy

July 25, 2011

I'm very saddened to hear of Pete's passing. I had the the privelege of working with Pete a number of years ago as colleagues at Nalco. He brought the highest level of expertise, ethics and professionalism to the workplace. Pete made you feel every problem could be solved and solved well - the kind of person you looked forward to working with every day. My heart-felt condolences to his family and friends.

Kippy & Gail York

July 25, 2011

JoAnne,
In the 20+ years that we have known Pete, he was truly a great person! There are not enough adjectives to describe Pete, he was that special! You have our deepest sympathies in this time of your loss!

David Martin

July 25, 2011

To Andy & Beth and all the Perry Family ,the Love and care you showed to your Brother was truly evident to all of us who know you. Your many visits to see Peter at the Nursing home and bringing him " Special Treats" really showed him your Love and affection towards him. I am sure Peter knew how much you loved him Andy & Beth. Trusting In faith Peter is now without pain and suffering and is enjoying what we all strive to achieve and that is the after life out there in the Great Beyond. May knowing that your friends share in your pain and sorrow bring you some comfort at this difficult time you are going through .

July 25, 2011

JoAnne, we are so very sorry for your loss. Peter and I shared a lot of lunches together in high school. I remember the wonderful, happy day you were married. My heart is with you now. Pam (Clark) Gilbert

Rhonda Bolduc

July 24, 2011

I have fond memories of working with Pete at the mill. His shining smile, great wit, and his willingness to help me learn more about papermaking often cross my mind. I can't tell you how many times the saying "icecubes in the wet end" has brought a smile. Pete gave me those words. Sending my condolences to you JoAnne and your family.

Ray Bard

July 24, 2011

Dear JoAnne,
I am truly sadden by Pete's death. He was an amazing person and a good friend.
My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Ray Bard

Pam Gray Begin. LHS '73

July 24, 2011

My deepest condolences to Peter's family.

Everett & Jackie :LaPorte

July 24, 2011

We both thought that Peter was one of the nicest persons we have ever met. Out deepest condolences to the Perry family.

Robert & Diane Abbott

July 24, 2011

JoAnne and Family,
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Peter touched many people in his travels and will be missed greatly.

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