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Col. William A. Perry Jr.

Col. William A. Perry Jr. obituary, Gardiner, ME

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William Perry Obituary

GARDINER - Col. William A. Perry, Jr. 87, of Gardiner., United States Army retired, passed away April 17, 2019 at Gray Birch Rehabilitation Center in Augusta. Col. Perry was born in his beloved Hallowell, Maine to William A. Perry Sr and Carolyn (Whittier) Perry.

He graduated from Hallowell High School, Class of "49" where he was active in baseball and basketball as well as the minstrel show, the Hokey Pokey. He was a talented dancer from childhood who loved to jitterbug with his "bride" Joyce. After graduating from UMaine in 1953 with a degree in education and an ROTC training, he married his childhood girlfriend, Joyce Arata, on March 27, 1953.

Col. Perry served his country in the US Army beginning in 1953 through 1958 with stops in Korea, Texas, and Massachusetts. He continued his career in the National Guard from 1958 until retirement in 2000. In September of 1958, he began a teaching career at Winslow High School in the English department. While there he helped with musical productions, athletic events and cherished the time he spent with his students. After teaching at Winslow he went into the National Guard, full time, with stops in Kentucky, the Pentagon and Maine. He is remembered as a strict but fair commandant of the officer candidate school at the Maine Military Academy located on "the hill" in Augusta. He was extremely proud of the fact that he trained the first female officer at OCS and he was instrumental in acquiring the military tank that continues to stand guard over "the hill." The military was his calling but his "beautiful bride" and his family was his source of pride.

While living the past 50 years in Gardiner, "Willie" served his community on various volunteer committees that included the city planning board, delivering Meals on Wheels and the Day on the Common. He was a Maine state high school track official, was involved with the Gardiner High School Music Boosters and helped with the GAHS "Ho" show. His interests included Big Band music, sports, gardening, reading, telling jokes that most people did not understand and following his children athletic careers. He was never without a story; his trivia recollection was legendary, and he was always ready for a political debate. Willie and Joyce enjoyed trips to Florida, Las Vegas, South Carolina, New York and the Grand Canyon, eating out, singing and dancing.

He is survived by his wife of 66 years, Joyce; his son John and his daughter Karen along with his beloved grandchildren Kyle and Sierra. His extended family includes his mother-in-law, Avis Millett; sister-in-law Shirley Arata; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

The Perry family would like to thank the staff at Gray Birch for passionate care and Androscoggin Hospice Care, especially Doreen, Holly and Michelle, for their unending support, many hours of devotion, which was a source of immense pleasure to Col. Perry over the past months.

Visiting hours will be held on Tuesday, April 23, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m., at Staples Funeral Home and Cremation Care, 53 Brunswick Ave., Gardiner, where a funeral service will be held on Wednesday, April 24, at 11:00 a.m. A full Military burial will take place at the Maine Veterans' Memorial Cemetery, 163 Mt. Vernon Rd., Augusta, on Friday, April 26, at 9:00 a.m.

Arrangements are in the care of Staples Funeral Home and Cremation Care, 53 Brunswick Ave., Gardiner, Maine. Condolences, memories and photos may be shared with the family on the obituary page of the Staples Funeral Home website: familyfirstfuneralhomes.com

In lieu of flowers,

the family requests donations be made to:

Androscoggin Hospice Care

15 Strawberry Ave.

Lewiston, ME

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Central Maine on Apr. 19, 2019.

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Gayle Warren

April 23, 2019

Dear Joyce, Karen and John, There are no words. Blessings to you all.

Sue (Peters) Fairfield

April 23, 2019

Karen and Joyce, I am so sorry to hear of Bill's passing. My parents mentioned Bill and Joyce fondly over the years. He will certainly be missed by the Gardiner community.

Jill Buzzell

April 23, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Bill and Joyce were good friends of my parents Sam and Gloria Laflin. My daughter Kasey helped care for Bill at Graybirch.

Kasey Doody

April 22, 2019

I met Bill for the first time working as a cashier in Farmingdale. After seeing him a couple of times I just HAD to ask if he was in any way related to the Laflin family as I saw a huge resemblance to my grandfather. No, he was not, however he was thrilled to find out my grampa was Sam. As it would turn out he and Joyce were great friends of my grandparents. From that moment on he told me a new story each time I saw him. I met Joyce only a few years later at my new job and saw Bill more often. Im sorry to hear of his passing, my heart breaks. Thank you Bill for the memories you shared.

Leo Caron

April 22, 2019

My condolences to the Perry Family for the loss of Col. Bill Perry. I had Mr. Perry as a freshman english teacher at Winslow High School. He made a good impression on me in my youth. I was in the class of 67. May Bill's spirit live long in everyone who he met in his life. I also commend you for your service to our country.

David Poulin

April 20, 2019

I offer my condolences to Col. William Perry's family.

I was one of his many students while he was at Winslow High School, Class of 1962.

Judy Pinkham

April 20, 2019

Rest in peace uncle Bill I love you

Beverley Hayward

April 19, 2019

Joyce, Karen , John and family, so sorry for your loss. Many memories of doing the KVMC Auxillary Variety show with your dad/husband as well as other school events. May the promises of our Lord and Savior bring you peace and comfort in your time of grief.

April 19, 2019

Joyce, so sorry to read about Bill's passing. He was one of the best teachers I have ever had. When I taught ROTC in the mid 80's I tried to morph myself into him - told myself that if I was half as good a teacher as he was, I'd do just fine. Here's a final salute from one soldier to another.
Ray OKeefe
Col. US Army Ret.
WHS Class of '65

Bunny Frazier-Brier

April 19, 2019

So very sorry to hear of Mr. Perry's passing. He was my English teacher at Winslow High School in the 60's . If my memory serves me I remember that her was a great tap dancer and how much we all enjoyed watching him on stage at school. He also was a wonderful teacher. I had the pleasure of seeing him about 5 years ago and we took a walk down memory lane. Thank you for your military service and your teaching. I will see you again, until then Rest In Peace.

Anne (Staples) Tessari

April 19, 2019

John and Karen,
So sorry for your loss.

Jaye Trimm

April 19, 2019

Karen and John ~ I was saddened to learn of your Dad's passing, but rejoice in the knowledge that he is at peace. Seeing the two photos brought back many memories, and I have to say, the one in uniform still intimidated me a bit, just as when I worked with him on "The Hill." I pray that many wonderful memories bring peace to your heart and a smile to your face.

Stephen McLaughlin

April 19, 2019

KP- So sorry for your loss .....

Judy Pinkham

April 19, 2019

Dear Uncle Bill we'll see you in a later life be good in heaven. Give my mom a big hug you will be missed.

Richard J Drapeau

April 19, 2019

Karen and John so sorry to hear of your Father's passing, I remember him when I worked at Camp Keyes, remember him well at the OCS school, may he RIP, thank you for your service Col.

Roger O'Clair

April 19, 2019

Farewell my Dear Friend, "thanks for the Memories", you were an inspiration and example to those you Trained throughout your life and military career! You will be sadly missed!

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163 Mt. Vernon Rd., Augusta, ME

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