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Donald Godfrey, 58
YARMOUTH - Donald Godfrey, 58, of Yarmouth, passed away peacefully at home, sur-rounded by loving family, on Sunday, April 2, 2017.
Donald was born in Bangor, to the late Prentiss and Frances Edwards Godfrey, on May 9, 1958.
Donald married the love of his life, Miriam Lisa Curtis, of Brunswick, on April 19, 1986. They settled in Yarmouth, where they raised their three daughters, Abigail, Emily and Victoria Marie.
This poem, written by his brother John on the eve of their wedding, says it all:

Donald Used
Just Eight Words to Explain
How Miriam
Drives Him Insane.
The Words Showed Emotion
As Deep As The Ocean:
"I Love Her Yet More
Than My Plane."

Donald graduated from Middlesex School of Concord, Mass., class of 1976; and Harvard College of Cambridge, Mass., class of 1980. He worked in finance throughout his career, with his final role as mortgage lender for Carriage House Mortgage in Falmouth.
Donald also was an accomplished pilot. His passion for all things aviation stemmed from his father Prentiss and grandfather Edward Rawson Godfrey, who established Godfrey Field in Bangor in 1927.
Donald obtained his private pilot's license at 17, and later added seaplane and instrument flying privileges. Donald joined the Maine Civil Air Patrol, rising to the rank of lieutenant colonel and serving as director of operations, counter drug officer, and historian.
Lt. Col. Godfrey received many awards for his Civil Air Patrol Service, including the Chuck Yeager Award (1999), Benjamin Davis Award (2000), Grover Loening Award (2008), and the Paul E. Garber Award (2015). In addition, The Federal Aviation Administration awarded Donald the prestigious Wright Brothers Master Pilot Certificate in 2016, as a result of nearly 50 years of flying with a perfect record of safety and regulatory compliance.
He belonged to many other aviation organizations: Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association, American Yankee Association, Aero Club of New England, ME Aviation Historical Society, and The Quiet Birdmen. Other volunteer efforts included the Ronald MacDonald House of Portland, Safe Passage of Yarmouth, Junior Achievement, and Big Brother, Big Sister. He also held a Black Belt in the art of Korean Sword (Kuhapdo) and was a member of First Parish Congregational Church of Yarmouth.
Donald's favorite role was as a loving dad, husband, and friend. He loved traveling with his wife and children, recently to Spain, England and South Africa. He was honest, loyal, and held in the highest regard both personally and professionally.
Donald is survived by his wife, Miriam Curtis Godfrey, of Yarmouth; daughters, Abigail Frances Godfrey, of Portland; Emily Louise Godfrey, of Portland; and Victoria Marie Godfrey, of Yarmouth; brothers, John E. Godfrey and wife Elizabeth, from Beverly, Mass.; David Godfrey and wife Regina Godfrey, of Southport; sisters, Ann MacDonald and husband Lloyd, of Cambridge, Mass.; Alice Godfrey Eyles and husband Steve, of Hamden; father and mother-in-law Myron and Mary Louise Curtis, of Brooksville; brother-in-law Dean Ramsdell Curtis, of Brooksville; and sister-in-law Margot Curtis Kinsman and husband Charles Penney Kinsman III, from Brunswick. Donald also leaves behind numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and very close friends; and his two devoted puppies, Wolfgang and Brodie.
The funeral service will be held at First Parish Congregational Church of Yarmouth on Thursday, April 13, at 11 a.m. A burial service at Mt. Hope Cemetery in Bangor will be held at a future date. Arrangements are under the care of Funeral Alternatives, 374 Rt. 1, Yarmouth. Condolences may be expressed to the family at: www.FuneralAlternatives.net.

In lieu of flowers,
one may contribute to the
Donald Godfrey Maine Youth
Learn to Fly Memorial Scholarship
Bangor Savings Bank
215 U.S.-1 ALT #1
Falmouth, ME 04105

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Apr. 6, 2017.

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Russ Snyder

March 31, 2025

Hey Donald, got to go for a plane ride awhile back and of course I immediately thought of you. Hope you have sunny skies and fair winds flying up in Heaven. Russ Snyder

Russ Snyder

March 31, 2024

Hey Donald, I'm sure your in heaven flying around seeing sights you've never seen before. You ARE missed by all of us. God Speed... Russ Snyder

Russ Snyder

March 31, 2022

It is very difficult to understand that almost five years have come and gone since you were forced to leave us. As stated previously whenever I hear a private plane overhead I immediately think of you. You were taken much too early but I know you lived a full lifetime in your 58 years. See you in the clouds. Russ

Russ Snyder

March 31, 2021

Donald, it is difficult to see a plane without remembering you. Vividly etched in my memory was the day we went flying in your Gruman and watched the fight jets taking off and then climing perfectly vertical. You exhibited a dry wit which I greatly appreciated. I'm sure you know that your family is doing well but I also realize that a day does not slip past without their thinking of you. Love binds people forever. Russ Snyder

Eric Bowie

April 12, 2017

Miriam, how shocked I was today when I heard of your loss. I am so very sorry. Though I only met Donald a few times one of the most memorable moments was trusting him to get in the tiniest plane on earth and fly out over the Gulf of Mexico to your vacation spot on North Captiva! He was one of the happiest people on earth.

Dave Porter

April 12, 2017

A fellow classmate at Middlesex who always impressed me with his quiet achievements and hold on life. My thoughts and prayers go to Mariam and their girls.

Chris Couch

April 11, 2017

I was a classmate of Don's at Middlesex, as well as a fellow classics student. My fondest memories were of sitting around with our assignments, with penciled translations of Latin stuffed into the upper margins of our textbooks. Don would refer to the benefits of "belly wash", otherwise known as soda, deftly shooting flies out of the sky with rubber bands. I might have seen him buzz the football field at far too low a height with a wobble in his wings, but I'd never admit it. Truly a great person through and through, he is sorely missed. Here's to you, my friend.

Barbara Kierstead Gagne

April 11, 2017

Miriam - It's been years since I've seen you two. My memories of Don are drenched in humor. He was a delight to be around at the bank. His wry sense of humor, his love of flying, his passion for getting behind the numbers and understanding his analyses. This smile is one I'll always remember. My deepest sympathies to you and your girls.

Russ Snyder

April 8, 2017

You were one of the warmest and most gentle souls I've ever met. Know that Miriam, your children, and all of your family are in my prayers. Fly on, Donald... Fly on...

April 8, 2017

Although No word is enough to help you take away your pain, but our Heavenly Father can give the strength and the comfort to those with a broken heart. Psalms 9:9. May you be granted the inner peace to help you cope with your loss. Our thoughts are with you; Please accept our sincere condolences.
JW
Florida

Tammy Thomas

April 8, 2017

Miriam, Ken, the kids and I have such fond memories of times we spent with Donald, you and the kids. I can't recall a time when he wasn't smiling. He had such a kind heart and gentle soul. We are so incredibly sorry that you have lost this wonderful man all our love and prayers to you and the girls. Ken, Tammy, Alli and Noah

Maggie Loheed

April 8, 2017

Loss for words but please know how sad I feel for your huge loss. Thinking of you.

April 8, 2017

Miriam: I am so very sorry for you, the children and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rita & Simonne Feeney

Dale MacDonald

April 7, 2017

Miriam & kids,
I am so sorry and shocked by Don's passing. My heart is breaking for you. The world has lost such a kind and gentle man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xoxoxo

Allison Snow

April 7, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. I think the first time I met Donald, many years ago, was when he showed up in a sea kayak quite far from land, and greeted us with his big smile while we were sailing on Penobscot Bay. He was such a wonderful person.

Julie Curtis

April 6, 2017

My heart is cracked open and love is spilling out toward you, Miriam, Abby, Emily, and Tori. Donald was a lovely person, a loving dad and husband, and a warm and welcoming member of our extended family. I will miss him.

Allan Smith

April 6, 2017

Donald was an extraordinary man. And, one of the nicest people I knew at Harvard. I am sad at this news. And, Keeping Miriam and his family in my prayers.

Greg Stephens

April 6, 2017

Don was my best friend and roommate at Harvard. To say he will be missed is an understatement. My prayers go to Miriam and his family; his was a life well lived.

Bruce Beecher

April 6, 2017

Miriam my thoughts are with you and your family. I have wonderful memories of flying and fixing up old planes with Don back in the EAA days. Don was a great man and a good friend.

Bruce Beecher

Al Strout

April 6, 2017

So very sorry to hear this Miriam. Don was a special guy. Lot of great memories.

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