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Raymond Kirker Goodhue

1951 - 2019

Raymond Kirker Goodhue obituary, 1951-2019, Portland, ME

BORN

1951

DIED

2019

Raymond Goodhue Obituary

PORTLAND - Raymond Kirker Goodhue, Kirk as he was known, died unexpectedly on Aug. 14, 2019, after not recovering from a heart attack. He is survived by his wife, Melinda Titus, his daughter, Sara Goodhue-Calluy, his brothers, Larry and Jeff, three stepdaughters, four stepgrandchildren, and countless friends up and down the coast of New England. He was predeceased by his parents, Raymond and Janet, and brother John.

Kirk and Melinda met at Una in 2004 and married at Portland City Hall on Feb. 12, 2009. Their joint fondness for Portland's bars and restaurants, conversation, and observations on life made them a consummate pair. They lived a peaceful, parallel life between their shared residences on Peaks and Portland.

Kirk could often be found on the port side middle deck of the Machigonne II as many as six or eight times per day, travelling between the island and mainland offices of his Port Island Realty business. He was deeply dedicated to his clients, and he lived his saying, that "there's always another ferry" by never failing to fulfill any request. Kirk spoke quietly but fondly of his more than thirty years of living and working on the island, having never missed a boat.

Kirk was born on Nov. 18, 1951, in Oil City, Pa., and lived his youngest years in Akron, Ohio, and Wilton, Conn. In his adolescence, Kirk moved to Maine, after his father's retirement moved the family to Boothbay Harbor. It was there Kirk fell in love with the New England coast, and developed his passion for sailing. He was a sailing instructor at the Southport Yacht Club, and continued to visit Cozy Harbor for the rest of his life to recall his formative days on the ocean. We know his sailing years imbued him with a true north, and innate moral compass that guided us all through difficult life choices. Kirk recalled his days of sailing as some of the best of his life.

In Boothbay, his mother started a successful real estate business that Kirk assisted with, before moving to Portland as a young man after receiving his B.A. at Syracuse University. After a year in the banking industry, Kirk began working with Port Island Realty, and bought the business in 1998. Over the next three decades he would develop a deep knowledge of island properties and island life that he shared with his clients. He was a true island icon, and for many islanders, Kirk was the first person they'd meet when arriving on island, and the last person they'd say good bye to before leaving.

Kirk enjoyed all outdoor pursuits, and was for years a regular morning runner around Peaks Island. When a lung disease began to interfere with his morning runs, he considered the purchase of a jogging stroller so that he could bring along his portable oxygen tank, so much did the morning sea air mean to Kirk. He picked up cycling and eventually became content to stand quietly on his island porch, overlooking the ferry landing. He would laugh in amusement that his plantings of Russian Sage surrounding a bench on the sidewalk would be mistaken for lavender: passersby would strip off a stalk of flowers, smell it, only to be disappointed in the lack of aroma and execute the same action again.

Kirk was dedicated to civic service and was a volunteer for a number of organizations in Portland and on Peaks Island. Kirk served as a Civil Commissioner for the City of Portland and spoke admiringly of those who provided public service. In particular, he held in high regard the firefighters, medical technicians, and police officers who dedicated themselves to working for the city. We know he would have liked to thank the firefighters, EMTs, and police officers who responded to him after his collapse.

In keeping with Kirk's wishes, there will be no memorial service, and his body is being donated to scientific study. His family is comforted to be surrounded by the ocean that continues to roll on and remind us of our dear Kirk.

Per his wife's request, donations in his memory can be sent to the

Peaks Island Children's Workshop

PO Box 80

Peaks Island, ME 04108

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Aug. 16, 2019.

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Susan Y

August 25, 2019

I was so sorry to hear of Kirk's passing. He will be so missed.

Craig Roberts

August 23, 2019

Melinda, I'm so sorry for your loss. Kirk and I went to high school together and sitting here remembering our group, Kirk,Curt Phil, Frank and the many laughs and adventures during that time. First thought was Kirk's car the Blueberry. He'll be happy now standing at the helm, sails full and a breeze over his shoulder on his next journey. You take care.

August 20, 2019

Dear Melinda I am so sad to hear about Kirk. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family. Lots of love, Betty

Laura Chris Allison Jessica Parrott

August 19, 2019

Melinda, our hearts go out to you during this time of deep sorrow. We know you have countless wonderful memories of your life together and we hope that brings you some measure of comfort.

Ann Marie Barter

August 18, 2019

I didn't know Kirk well, but we shared hundreds of smiles and head nods along the way. I'm most grateful to him for enriching our neighborhood with Sam, Kevin, Rex, Daphne, and Homer. I treasure their friendship and adore Malinda. My heartfelt condolences to all who loved him.

Liz and Humphrey Johnson

August 18, 2019

We are saddened beyond words. Kirk was so much like the island he called home: down to earth, honest, and accepting. God Bless.

David Simpson

August 18, 2019

Kirk what a wonderful person, I will miss seeing you. Melinda please take care, you are such a good wife too Kirk. Peace and Love to all !!

Kirk loved my dog Zachary. Here he is in the ocean which was his favorite place to be.

Lisa Fuller-Porter

August 18, 2019

I first met Kirk when he was associate broker with Howard Heller. My parents listed their property on Crescent Avenue with Port Island Realty. He was a oh so pleasant person. The next encounter I had with him was when he lived in what was the MacMillans house on the corner of New Island Avenue and Whitehead Street. I used to take care of the MacMillans gardens when they were away for the 3 seasons. We both startled each other when I was working in the garaden and he came around the corner of the house. It was so funny as we both jumped a couple feet off the ground. Then we laughed until our bellies ached. Peaks will sadly miss Kirk, yet Peaks will forever be loving his memories. Once a piece of Peaks Island enters your heart you are hooked on her and she on you. RIP.

Carolyn Parker

August 18, 2019

The Island will miss this gentle soul...
My sincerest condolences to his family..

Carolyn Parker

August 18, 2019

The Island will miss this gentle soul...
My sincerest condolences to his family..

Nan and Christopher Hadden

August 17, 2019

Before Kirk spent so much time on Peaks, he was our neighbor in the West End for many years. His daughter, Sara, and our daughter, Julia were constantly in and out of each other's houses during grade school. We remember him as a soft spoken, dry humored, warm sort of fellow, always upbeat even throughout his nasty struggles with lung problems. I loved his personal style that never faltered. Though we did not see him often in later years, it was always a joy to run into him. He will be missed. One of a kind. Condolences to his daughter, Sara, first wife, Elin Doyle and current wife, Melinda.

David and Julia Titus Thomas

August 17, 2019

Melinda, we are happy to have met and visited with Kirk and know he will be greatly missed by you and many others.

Jon Beking

August 16, 2019

My friend, you will be sadly missed.

Cheryl Miner

August 16, 2019

Kirk was such a help when I moved to Peaks. The Island has lost a very kind and helping person.
My condolences to his family.

Donna Titus

August 16, 2019

Melinda, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I remember you sharing how close you were and the fun you shared together. I remember how much you telling me how you
enjoyed each others company. Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you at this time. Donna

Susan and Jim Porter and Campbell

August 16, 2019

We are heartbroken at the loss of Kirk. Our lives and the house we live them in are Kirk's gift to us. He was a good friend and we will miss our laughs and dinners together. The island will never be the same. Our thoughts are with Melinda and the family.

Claudine Weatherford

August 16, 2019

Kirk sold us our beloved house on Central Ave and found wonderful island and Portland properties for several of our friends. He was a delight to work with and a treasured friend.

Jeffrey Cusack

August 16, 2019

My condolences to Kirk's family. He was a good friend and mentor to me. I will miss him terribly, but remember him fondly.

Perry Sutherland

August 16, 2019

Much love to Kirk's dear family. There aren't enough words to express how much I and so many others adored your gentle soul, Kirk. You warmed my heart at every encounter these past 32 years

Pete & Cindy Curran

August 16, 2019

So sorry to hear of Kirk's passing. He will be fondly remembered by many friends, family and colleagues

James Flagler

August 16, 2019

We will miss Kirk's ever present smile and good nature, he was a true island treasure and we loved his sense of humour and passion for life.

Janyce Beck

August 16, 2019

I will miss our happy conversations on the boat. Godspeed dear Kirk, Janyce

Margo Lodge

August 16, 2019

To his family and his many friends, so sorry for your loss.

Bernie Smith

August 16, 2019

Kirk was a great Gentleman. The Island will miss him. Joan and Bernie Smith

Suzy & Joe Kane

August 16, 2019

Kirk was a very important part of our life on Peaks Island. It was always a pleasure to talk with him. He was a true gentleman with a lively and well-informed mind. Our deepest sympathies to his family, colleagues, and friends.

Jill Keefe

August 16, 2019

May his memory be a blessing

Marcia Appel

August 16, 2019

He will be greatly missed by a great number of people. I was shocked and saddened to learn of his death.

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