Robert O. Murphy

Robert O. Murphy obituary, Lynnfield, MA

Robert O. Murphy

Robert Murphy Obituary

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Robert O. Murphy, DMD of Lynnfield and formerly of Arlington, passed away early Sunday morning, May 22, at Hathorne Hill. He was the best friend and beloved husband of Linda (Mannix) and a loving and devoted father of Robin and Dr. W. Wesley Reed of Lynnfield and Suzanne and Chris Reilly of Marblehead. He was the cherished "Bibi" to his twin grandsons Lucas and Sheamus Reilly. Robert was the son of the late Timothy and Anne (Hughes) of Arlington. He is survived by his loving brother and sister-in-law, Paul Hughes and Anne Marguerite Murphy of Marshfield, MA. He was also the brother of the late Richard Murphy. He was a proud "Double Eagle," graduating from Boston College High School in 1959 and received his B.A. from Boston College in 1963. Upon graduating, he entered Tufts University School of Dental Medicine and was awarded his DMD degree in 1967. Already a Naval Officer, he was stationed at Camp Lejuene in Jacksonville, NC from 1967-1969. He continued on in the Naval Reserves for several decades, retiring finally as a full Commander. Bob was known by everyone as a kind and generous man always ready with a helping hand or a joke, depending on what was needed most. He loved life, his family and his friends. He enjoyed music, travel and golf, but his true passion in life was sailing. As a member of the Boston Yacht Club in Marblehead, he spent many tranquil hours sailing his beloved racing yacht Defiance and almost as many less tranquil hours racing her out of Marblehead Harbor. His mischievous grin was his trademark. During his career in Dentistry he was a member of the ADA and the Middlesex Dental Society. He practiced Dentistry at the same location in Arlington, MA for forty-five years and was loved by his patients and long-time staff alike. He quietly and with little fanfare was involved with and supported numerous organizations and charities. His funeral will be held from the McDonald Funeral Home, 19 Yale Ave., Wakefield on Wednesday at 9am followed by a Funeral Mass in St. Maria Goretti Church, 112 Chestnut Street, Lynnfield, MA. Visitation for relatives and friends will be held at the Funeral Home on Tuesday from 4-8pm. It is the family's wish that in lieu of flowers donations be made in Bob's memory to the Alzheimer's Association, Chicago, IL (www.alz.org); Autism Speaks, New York, NY (www.autismspeaks.org); or as a special tribute to him to engage in the acts of kindness that he so often performed.

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June 13, 2016

phyllis emsig posted to the memorial.

June 9, 2016

Kirt and Camille posted to the memorial.

June 1, 2016

Rod & Jean Murphy posted to the memorial.

phyllis emsig

June 13, 2016

Suzanne and the rest of your family,
Our family is saddened to hear of your Father's passing away. Not only a skilled dentist but a kind, humorous and warm human being. It was a privilege for our family to be his patients for many years.
With heavy hearts,
Phyllis Emsig and Mark Goldberg

Kirt and Camille

June 9, 2016

Kirt and I send our condolences to your family and friends and encourage you to hold fast to God's promise to reunite us with our dear loved ones as he did for Lazarus! (John 11:38-44)

Rod & Jean Murphy

June 1, 2016

Linda, We did not know that Robert had died. I would have gone to the wake and funeral. Jean and I knew Robert as my cousin and as our dentist for many years. I used to like going to the dentist in spite of being a fraidy cat with dentists because I might see Aunt Peg or my sister, Clare or John Lane or Paul in the waiting room. With no experience with Alzheimers, I know it must have very difficult for all. We will pray for Christ's mercy and his soul.

lauren lauria

May 31, 2016

Robin,
I am so sorry about your dad. Although I never met him I knew right away he was your father when I saw his picture. You share the same warm smile. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
xoxo-
Lauren Lauria-Marcinowski

May 31, 2016

Linda. So sorry to hear this. You Robert and I go back to early times in our lives when things were so bright to us. Robert was a good friend and loved to tell the old stories of the Arlington neighborhood of our early years.

Bill Chase

Linda, Robin, Suzanne and families, We share your grief in the loss of a wonderful human being. The consistent theme of these notes include Bob's compassion, his desire to live life to the fullest, and his infectious smile and wonderful sense of humor.

Joel Higginson

May 31, 2016

Linda, Robin, Suzanne and families,
We share your grief in the loss of a wonderful human being. The consistent theme of these notes include Bob's compassion, his desire to live life to the fullest, and his infectious smile and wonderful sense of humor. My life was truly enriched by having been one of Bob's "sailing buddies".

john pallotta

May 31, 2016

Dr. Murphy was a kind, genuine, and very well liked man. I know this from working with him, but also from caring for his patients. Most of his patients have been with him for decades because he was trusted and well liked. His patients are an unusually nice group of people as well. It has been my pleasure to continue to care for them. He has helped out and touched many people along his journey and he will always be well remembered, respected and missed
Dr John Pallotta DMD

May 31, 2016

Dear Linda, Robin and Suzanne,

Please accept our sincere sympathy over the loss of your husband Bob. Never remember seeing Bob with out a smile. Please know who very much we care,it is with heartfelt sorrow that we write this message. All our love to you,please know that the world was a better place because of Bob.

Tony and Carol-Ann Vorias

May 30, 2016

It is with deep sadness in my heart as I learned of Dr. Bob's passing - His infectious smile and love of life and family is truly a testament to his being. As the Sailing Buddies traversed the Caribbean - we all learned from their friendship - and passion for life. I so fondly enjoyed working with Dr. Bob in restoring smiles to those lives he touched. May he smile and watch over his loving family and bring comfort to those he has left - God Bless you Dr. Bob and rest in peace my friend.
Sincerely
Michael Kalajian III
Westford, Mass

Carol & Len Lilley, jr.

May 30, 2016

Dear Linda, Robin, Suzanne, and families, We are so sorry for your loss . Bob was a wonderful person who will surely be missed. May your fond memories of him bring you all comfort and peace at this difficult time and beyond ! Very Sincerely, Carol and Len !

Jeanne Smith

May 30, 2016

Dear Linda, Robin & Suzanne,

Thank you so much for sharing Murph with the rest of us!!
He always met me with a smile, always had words of encouragement, and never had a bad word to say about anyone.

I would be remiss if I did not add that he also made me laugh...a lot!
The years I spent working with Dr. Murphy are full of many of the fondest memories of my life. I got to see his acts of kindness "live and in person" each and every day.
I am a better person for having known him, and will always keep him in my heart.

Please accept my deepest condolences.

Jeanne

Richard Axtell

May 30, 2016

We are saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. Murphy. His relationship with our family and with the Farrington's continued for 50+ years. He had the utmost respect of both Mr. and Mrs. Farrington for his demeanor as well as his professional accomplishments. And so it was with our own family; June, Dick, Rich and Charlie Axtell. We send our sincere condolences on your loss.

May 30, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in what is recorded in the Bible at Jeremiah 29:11 and 12.

Marcia (Corbett) Gaudet

May 29, 2016

My sincere condolences to the Murphy family. Although you may not remember me Linda we met a long
time ago in Provincetown at a dental convention. I was a patient of your husband for many years until I moved to Cape Cod. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathy and prayers to all.

Bonniw Arabasz

May 28, 2016

It is with deep sadness that we mourn the loss of such a gentle, kind human being. I had the honor of working in Bob's office for 28 years. He was loved by his patients for his compassion, his ability to make them feel comfortable, always respecting their dignity, without regards to their ability to pay. I learned so much from him, not just about dentistry, but also about life and living it to the fullest. Bob's deep faith was evident in everything he did. The world would be a better place if more people were like him. My deepest sympathy and much love to Linda, Robin, Suzanne and family.

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