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Charles Dinkelmeyer Obituary

Dinkelmeyer - Charles Jr., of Commack, NY on October 26, 2023 at the age of 91. Beloved husband of the late Marilyn P. Cherished father of

Gretchen Seward, Charles F., Paul, Katrina Finnegan, Brian and the late Heidi Kent and

Amanda Dinkelmeyer. Adored grandfather of nine. Reposing Thursday 2-4pm and 7-9pm at Commack Abbey, Inc., 96 Commack Road, Commack, NY. Mass of a Christian Burial Friday 10am at Christ the King RC Church Commack, NY. Interment St. Charles Cemetery Farmingdale, NY.

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Published by Newsday on Nov. 1, 2023.

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Kenny 82

October 26, 2024

I graduated along time ago......but every now and then I remember what he wrote in my yearbook..."Someday we are gonna climb a mountain"....profound beyond wisdom.....God Bless You and God keep you safe Mr Dinkelmeyer......see you on the other side...

David

March 17, 2024

Dink was the Bees knees man!

Kenny '82

November 11, 2023

Mr Dinkelmeyer was a good man...a lot of fun to talk to......May the Lord Bless him and keep him safe.... and May the Lord comfort those who grieve this loss

Christian Nielsen

November 6, 2023

So Sorry for The Loss of a Great Man . I Knew Mr . Dinkelmeyer from east meadow HS call of 79 . Always a Smile and a Kind Word . Those were Kinder Times and He truly made Difference to so Many . When I think of East Meadow HS His Name Is Right There with all of The Fond Memories . God Bless

mark smolen

November 2, 2023

A great coach and a great man. He did so much for so many. In my day of westling, he was very "self-less" and cared more about making his wrestlers happy than his own vanity; he brought in our new assistant coach (Venti) because he knew that's what we needed and let Gary Venti run the show even though he was the head coach and had already coached state chapmions. He did that for us and was alwasy devoted to his wresters and students. I remember telling gary Venti several times, after high school, that Mr. Dink was under appreceated and I wished I visited him when I had the chance. Rest in peice my great coach; you eanred it!!
-Mark Smolen

Jim Boos

November 2, 2023

Going into high school I had no plans on wrestling. So when the season started my sophomore year and I did not show for practice Coach Dinkelmeyer tracked me down in the hallway the next day during school. The day after that he showed up at one of my classes. I stuck to my guns initially, but he did not give up and after a few days he finally convinced me I was making a mistake. He was right of course and within a few weeks I was in the starting varsity lineup. I did not know it at the time, but I needed wrestling. It has taught me incredible life lessons and given me the greatest friends. Thanks for everything coach and rest in peace.

Dave Flatley

November 1, 2023

Coach was one of the greats! He was so welcoming to me when I joined the faculty at EMHS. A humble gentleman who was always willing to help in any way possible. Rest in Peace.

Glenn Hillman

November 1, 2023

Had coach Dink for a gym teacher. He was funny smart and would always let me slide when it came to making up gym classes. Many fond memories of his classes in my high school years. Till we meet again coach. RIP

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Reposing

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Commack Abbey Inc

96 Commack Rd, Commack, NY 11725

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Reposing

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Commack Abbey Inc

96 Commack Rd, Commack, NY 11725

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Mass of Christian Burial

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Christ the King RC Church

Commack, NY

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