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McLEAN, Va.  Over 22 years, William Aramony built the United Way of America from a tangled web of charities into a philanthropic powerhouse, bringing in more than $3 billion annually. His success was eclipsed by a scandal in which he spent the charity's money to fund a lavish lifestyle, including gifts and trips for a 17-year-old girlfriend.

Aramony died Friday at the Alexandria, Va., home of his son Robert. He was 84. He battled prostate cancer that metastasized to his bones while he was serving a six-year prison term for fraud and tax evasion related to the scandal.

William Aramony was a son of Lebanese immigrants and dedicated his |time after his 2001 release from prison to peace-building efforts in the Middle East, his son said.

This summer he traveled to Egypt to meet with political and religious leaders following the overthrow of Hosni Mubarak.

He earned a master's degree in social work at Boston College in 1951. While serving in the Army in the 1950s, he did social work counseling soldiers, his son said. In 1954, he joined United Way's predecessor, the United Community Funds and Council of America.

"At heart, that's what he was, a social worker," Robert Aramony said. "He did it his whole life."

Aramony was the United Way's CEO from 1970 to 1992, and he built the United Way into one of the nation's best-known charitable groups. Revenue increased from less than $800 million to more than $3 billion during his time at the helm. The now-familiar structure of using United Way to facilitate payroll deductions at charity campaigns run through the workplace blossomed under Aramony's guidance.

The United Way's high-profile partnership with the National Football League also took hold under Aramony.

The charity's successes were overshadowed by the scandal surrounding Aramony's spending.

Prosecutors said Aramony's spending on personal luxuries with United Way funds constituted a fraud because donors expected that their money would go to charity.

At his federal trial in 1995 in Alexandria, where United Way is based, prosecutors and court officials estimated that he defrauded donors of anywhere from $600,000 to $1.2 million over a 10-year period. He was convicted on 23 of 27 counts, including fraud, tax evasion and conspiracy.

Much of the case against Aramony concerned his four-year affair with Lori Villasor, whom he met while he was 60 and dating her older sister. Aramony, who was married at the time, took the teenager on trips, billing her plane tickets and meals as charity expenses.

Court testimony showed that Aramony directed his secretary to hide expenses for trips she took with him to Egypt, London, Paris, Las Vegas, New York City and other locations.

Several women who worked at the charity also testified that they were subjected to sexually harassing behavior by Aramony.

His defense lawyer argued that Aramony was suffering from a brain trauma, a shrunken frontal lobe that made him increasingly irrational and coarsened his sexual drive.

He served six years of a seven-year prison sentence.

He was born in Jewett City, Conn., on July 27, 1927 and graduated from Clark University in 1949.

United Way Worldwide, as the charity is now known, issued a statement offering condolences to Aramony's family.

"Mr. Aramony integrated the network of local United Ways, formed national partnerships and increased contributions," according to the statement. "Since 1992, United Way has undergone major governance and structural changes. In partnership with the Board of Governors, a rigorous new audit, budget and other financial controls were implemented, along with a Code of Ethics, to ensure that the problems associated with former management can never occur again."
Published by The Record/Herald News on Nov. 15, 2011.

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November 15, 2011

November 15, 2011

Dear Gail and family,

Philip and I are so sorry to learn of Bill's death. And we want to extend to you and your family our heartfelt sympathy.

Bill was a tour de force, a visionary who built the United Way into the powerful institution everyone knows and respects. We enjoyed working with him over the years. When the difficulties happened, Bill was so fortunate to have you as a devoted and loving friend and wife. We know how lonely and lost one feels when half of you is taken away, and we truly share your sorrow.

We always seem to be at a loss for words when trying to offer some solace. So perhaps I can share a poem that our 97 year-old dear friend, Adelaide Cummings, wrote in 2007 about death and loss:

Departure

When we die, existence ceases,
Our early life? It ends.
But if we leave behind small pieces
In the hearts of friends.
Something of ourself lives on.
It's just the body that is gone.
And though the soul has flown out free,
Our essence does not cease to be.

For etched in the heart forever,
To dust, decay immune,
Are bonds death cannot sever,
A parting gift, a boon.
When death creates a bond so deep
That words cannot be found,
We hug to heart, we cherish, keep,
The memories that abound.

It's not easy to explain, discuss,
But part of them abides in us.


We are out of the country, and so we regret that we are not there to provide our hugs and support at this time. Gail, we send this to you with our love, and with our sincere sympathy for your profound loss.

With love and hugs,

Janet Reingold and Philip Yasinski

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