Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BORN
1955
DIED
2019
FUNERAL HOME
14116 S. Middle Rd.
Edinburg, Virginia
Cynthia Dellinger Obituary
Cynthia Grim Dellinger, of Edinburg, went to be with our Lord Saturday, January 26, 2019 at Shenandoah Memorial Hospital in Woodstock, Virginia.
She was born August 4, 1955 in Woodstock, VA, to Dorothy and James B. Grim.
Cindy married Charles Dellinger September 15, 1973, who survives.
She is also survived by her mother, Dorothy Grim Bean of Mount Jackson; one beloved son, Wesley Dellinger and his wife Rhonda Dellinger of Edinburg; two very dear grandchildren, Faith and Christian Dellinger of Edinburg, whom she loved so dearly; and one brother, James Michael Grim of Mount Jackson. Also surviving are numerous nieces and nephews.
Cindy's father, James B. Grim Jr., and stepfather, Lorenzo Bean, preceded her in death.
She was a life long resident of Shenandoah County, a graduate of Stonewall Jackson High School, and attended Lord Fairfax Community College.
Cindy was a loving and devoted mother, wife, grandmother, and daughter. She was a problem solver who took on difficult tasks with competence and determination. Her passion for hard work and dedication to community service will leave a large void in the hearts of all those who knew and loved her. She will be greatly missed.
Cindy was very active in St. Jacobs Lutheran Church and served as a Trustee and Past Chairman and member of the Church Council.
From 1980-1987, Cindy worked in the Broadcast field as a television and radio news anchor. She became a licensed realtor in 1987 and was very proud to open her own company in 1991. In 1994, she became a member of United Country Shenandoah Valley.
Cindy was very active in the community as well. She served on the Board of Directors for Habitat for Humanity, was on the Board of Directors for the Mt. Jackson Chamber of Commerce, on the Advisory Board for a local bank, and also on the Valley Conservation Council.
Cindy has been a member of the Shenandoah County Republican Committee, representing the Conicville District for 30+ years.
In 1987, Cindy was honored to be the first female elected to the Shenandoah County Board of Supervisors, securing her seat as an Independent candidate. After being elected, she was asked to rejoin the Republican Committee, which she did and was elected to her second term on the Shenandoah County Board of Supervisors as a Republican and served as the first female chairman.
Cindy was an active member of the SCRC, serving as a delegate at Republican Conventions, fundraising, assisting with parades and festivals, and holding several Committee offices.
She was the Past President of the Massanutten Association of Realtors and served on the Risk Management Advisory Group for the Virginia Association of Realtors. Cindy completed coursework for Accredited Buyer Representative status (ABR), was a Licensed Broker, held a GRI certification, and was a Certified Real Estate Consultant (CCRC).
A Community Prayer Service will be held at 6:30 p.m. Thursday, January 31 at St. Jacobs Lutheran Church, 15226 Senedo Road, Edinburg.
Pastors Katie Gosswein, William Fitchett, and Matthew Diehl will conduct a funeral service at 11 a.m. Saturday, February 2 at First Baptist Church, 116 Lakeview Drive, Woodstock. Burial will follow in the Dellinger Farm Family Cemetery.
The family will receive friends Friday, February 1 from 5 - 8 p.m. at First Baptist Church, 116 Lakeview Dr., Woodstock.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to any of the following: St. Jacobs Lutheran Church, P.O. Box 175, Edinburg, VA; Conicville Fire Department, 57 Conicville Road, Mt. Jackson; The Dellinger Cemetery Fund, 34 Dellinger Acres Road, Edinburg, VA 22824; or to a charity of choice.
Online condolences may be left at www.valleyfs.com
Arrangements are in the care of Heishman Funeral Service and Valley Funeral Service Branch, Bowmans Crossing.
Sign the Guest book at www.nvdaily.com/obituaries
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Cynthia Dellinger
Vincent Poh
February 15, 2019
My condolences to all the family. My prayers are with you and Cindy.
Wes, Trish, Ashby, Jack and Mary Rose Irvin
February 6, 2019
Dear Dellinger Family -
We are heartbroken about the loss of Cindy. We both loved, admired and respected her very much. We are so very thankful for her life and the friend she was and will always be. There are just no words at all to ease the pain and loss we all feel. She was and will always be to us and to all an incredibly remarkable and special lady.
We love you Cindy, we will miss you and we were very blessed to call you a friend.
Our hearts are heavy and will be forever and our prayers will always be with The Dellinger family.
God Bless and with Love-
J. Kerlin
February 5, 2019
Cindy and I went through school together. She always had a smile on her face and was friendly and helpful to everyone.
She will be greatly missed.
Danielle Fansler
February 4, 2019
I had the privilege of knowing Cindy for forty years. She was good friends with my parents before me. She was an accomplished, kind lady that really made a difference in her community and in many lives. My thoughts and prayers go to her family during this very difficult time.
Patti Roadcap
February 3, 2019
Cindy was a wonderful lady. She would always call me by name and never failed to ask how my Mom and Aunt Pat were doing. She took time to talk to everyone she knew. Always caring about others. Now we think of her and pray that she can rest in peace. I pray for Charlie, Wes and family. God bless you in this troublesome time. Be strong.
Rhonda Weaver
February 3, 2019
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family through this heartbreaking event. We continue to pray for them during the healing process. We have nothing but good memories of Cindy. If there is anything that can be done dont hesitate to ask.
James and Rhonda Weaver
Ronnie and Doris Weatherholtz
K Romick
February 3, 2019
I know Charles and Wesley. I worked on Wesley's house. I want to give my condolences to the family of Cynthia. This gratuitous loss has shocked many in the community including me. I wish you all comfort and the very best.
Joyce Zirk/Baker
February 2, 2019
As my heart breaks for your loss, as my prayers are with you.
Sidney & Brenda Dinges
February 2, 2019
We had several real estate dealings with Cindy. Always kind and pleasant. Our daughter worked for her for seven years and every time we saw her she asked "how is
Kim"? Rest in peace, Cindy
Cathy Barb
February 1, 2019
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May peace and God's love be with you all.
February 1, 2019
Wes, Rhonda & Family Sorry about girls I meant Family.
God Bless. Norma Doman
February 1, 2019
Wes, Rhonda & girls Our hearts was sadden to hear about Cindy's death. Please know that you and your Family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless and give you peace as only He can.
Doug & Norma Doman Strasburg,Va..
Steve and Sharon Rhoades
February 1, 2019
Charlie, Wes, and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. We will miss her also. She became a friend and kind source of guidance to us on various local matters. Her friendliness to a couple of nonlocal folks will always be remembered and appreciated. We wish the entire family the strength to cope with a very difficult loss.
john Powell
February 1, 2019
my prayer go out famly
Mona Seay
February 1, 2019
Many ongoing prayers for all of Cindy's family that you find peace and comfort during this time and in the days and years ahead.
Wayne Sine
January 31, 2019
Cindy was an outstanding advisor on everything involved with real estate, and she was a great friend. Every time I spoke with Cindy by phone, she was so positive and uplifting that you could picture the smile on her face. I will miss her advice and friendship dearly, just like so many others. To Cindy's family, please know that my family and I extend our deepest sympathy to you.
January 31, 2019
In this tough time in your life, may friendship, sympathy and heartfelt condolences bring you comfort.
January 31, 2019
I'M PRAYING FOR ALL THE FAMILLY AND FREINDS.DANA SAGER :)
Margarette Shelton
January 31, 2019
Cindy will be missed by so many and the county has lost one of its champions. Sincere condolences to the wonderful family she left too soon.
January 31, 2019
Dear Charlie, Wes, and Family,
We offer our sincere sympathy for the loss of Cindy. She was truly a vibrant, cheerful, and dedicated community servant. May fond memories of her loving and vivacious spirit bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Michael and Pam Clem
Carrie Clark Clark
January 31, 2019
To all of Cindy's family, especially Christian and Faith -- you are in my constant thoughts and prayers -- this is just heart-breaking. Cindy was such an accomplished, loving, and generous person -- she was a blessing to her community, her church and all who knew her. May you rest in peace, dear Cindy, and may God's holy angels surround your family in protection and love, now and in the coming days.
Robert Reynard
January 31, 2019
Charlie & Family,I am so sad to hear of Cynthia passing I considered her a dear friend.May God comfort and strengthen you and your family during this time of sadness and and to continue to do so.
Delia Poole
January 31, 2019
Our family want to extend deepest condolences for the loss of your dear Mother. She will always be in your heart and the special memories will never be forgotten. May God bless your entire family. Vernon, Dee Dee, and James Poole
Larry & Cindy Good
January 31, 2019
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. May you find comfort and peace knowing how much she loved you and the precious memories you have made. She was a lovely person and touched all that came in contact with her. She will be greatly missed.
Sharon and Michael Snyder
January 31, 2019
To Charles and Family, So Sorry for your loss, I know she was a great lady, May God Bless You and Your Family.
Tonya Ketterman
January 31, 2019
Thinking of you all
Ann Phelps Shanholtz
January 31, 2019
Such a good lady. Prayers to all her family.
Nelson Keller
January 31, 2019
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Debbie Funkhouser
January 30, 2019
My deepest condolences to family and friends.
Nancy O'Rear
January 30, 2019
Cindy touched the hearts of so many people, always sharing her big smile and giving of herself to show others she cared. Prayers for comfort to the Dellinger family in their time of loss.
Nancy O' Rear
January 30, 2019
You were so very much admired and loved by so many people. I never saw you, out in public, that you didn't wear a big smile on your face, and would always say, "How are you?" You will be missed by everyone who knew you.
Ellen (Wellard) Huffman
January 30, 2019
So sorry for Cindy's entire family. I was a classmate and am so sorry for your heartache. You are all in my prayers.
Butch & Lenore Kuykendall
January 30, 2019
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Thomas & Penny Troutman, Sr.
January 30, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
John, Tessie, Will and Thomas Lam
January 30, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
January 30, 2019
With our deepest sympathy at this tragic,difficult time may your faith help provide you strength on the road ahead,
Phil & April Baker
Denny and Sheri Vann
January 30, 2019
So sorry for your loss of your wife mother and grandmother she was a wonderful lady she will be missed by all knew her you have wonderful memories my God be with each other you God Bless you
Kenneth Warne
January 30, 2019
To Charles, Wesley and to all the Family of Cindy Dellinger,
The Lord only calls home the ones who are the very best to help him run the Heavens. We all know too well that Cindy is now one of the great Managers of the Heavens for the Lord as she was in her earthly life. The joy and love of our Lord is beyond all our comprehension. Cindy is at peace and walks alongside all of you in her family every day, being far closer to you now, than ever here in our physical life. And so now, may the Angels take her into Paradise, may the Saints sing of her to the Most High God, and may the Martyrs come to greet her and take her into the Holy City, where he awaits you to be with him for all time to come, even unto Eternity itself. She is greatly missed.
Cindy was our Broker when we purchased our first weekend home at Bryce Resort in 1992, our agent was Sybil Head. We respected Cindy highly and her real estate knowledge. She was a true asset to the community and Shenandoah County. Our hearts hurt over this senseless tragedy nor can we get it out of our minds. You are all in our prayers.
Our most sincerest condolences and warm regards,
Kenneth Warne & Michael Carroll
Lewes/Rehoboth Beach, DE
[email protected]
https://www.meninblackofficiants.com/
Todd Pence
January 30, 2019
Charlie, Wes, Rhonda and kids. Sorry to hear the loss of your wife, mother and grandmother. Cindy was an extremely wonderful person. May God bless you in your time of sorrow. Prayers to all.
Patsy, Pamela and Wade Ross
January 30, 2019
Our thoughts, our hearts and our prayers are with all of you at this time.
Scott & Cindy Bailey
January 30, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Terry and Amanda Borden
January 30, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our prayers are with you.
Georgie Church
January 30, 2019
I want to wish you my deepest sympathies. Cynthia was known to me as part of our United Country family. My office being in Arkansas. May God hold you in his hands while you work through the next few days, weeks and years. We will all miss Cindy greatly.
gary and jean biller
January 30, 2019
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
January 30, 2019
Our prayers are with the whole family.
Kirby and Donna Dellinger
Yvette Mooney
January 30, 2019
Charles and Family
We are praying for you and your family during this difficult time.Cindy will be missed and was a wonderful woman.
Karen Lankard
January 30, 2019
Dearest Charlie, Wes, Rhonda, Faith and Christian,
There are no words to heal our broken hearts, only precious memories to cling onto. I will cherish every one of them as you will. My "very special" cousin was an exceptionally strong yet very sensitive lady. Although her accomplishments and successes were many, her greatest accomplishment on this earth was her deep abiding love of family. I always joked with her that she was as fierce as a junk yard dog when it came to protecting Wes, Faith Christian and Charlie and her Mom. She would laugh and totally agree. Cindy was a rock! I will miss our many long conversations. We could share anything with each other. All of us are better because we knew and loved her and it is so difficult to imagine life without her.
I am comforted that your faith is strong and it will give you the strength you will need.
Linda & Clinton Hawkins
January 30, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our prayers are with you.
Walter , Jane & Brandon McDaniel
January 30, 2019
So very sorry for your loss. Cindy was a wonderful person. Lovely inside and out. Please accept our deepest sympathies and prayers.
Carolyn and Wayne Miller
January 30, 2019
Charlie, Wesley, Rhonda and children; You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God provide comfort to you during this time of great loss.
Jerry Canody
January 30, 2019
Cindy was a special lady and will be greatly missed. Rest in peace, Jerry and Pat Canody
Kay Pool Whetzel
January 30, 2019
Charlie, Wes, and family
I knew Cindy from childhood on. I was one of the broad street broads, just a few years older. We all played together growing up. I have always had fond memories of her and always thought of her as a wonderful person as well as her own person. Cindy will be missed by many and may god be with her family.
Nancy Barnett
January 30, 2019
Cindy was my friend and we shared so many great times and memories. Our Community has lost a hard working, determined, and generous neighbor. Smart, elegant, out-spoken, and insighful - all qualities Cindy possessed. Rest In Peace, my special friend. May you and the good Lord watch, care, and protect Charlie, Wesley, Rhonda, Christian, Faith, your Mom and Noah - the loves of your life. We will miss you Cindy, you are a one and only, and until we meet again, my friend.
Timothy Cline
January 30, 2019
Our sincere prayers to the Dellinger family for what has happened to Cynthia. She was regarded as a fond associate in the realty and mortgage industries.
Joanne Celorio
January 30, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
January 30, 2019
Wes, Rhonda, and Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. May time bring you comfort. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
David, Cathy, Zakari, and Caelan Hottle
Ina Baker
January 29, 2019
So unfortunate but grateful she lead a full life giving of herself to God, family, friends and community. May God richly bless everyone with fond memories. May each be comforted by God's warm loving arms and peace she is now protected. Thoughts and prayers also with Shenandoah County Sheriff's Dept.
Jerry & Ina Baker
Debbie (Lam) Marazzo
January 29, 2019
Cindy was a friend and classmate. My mom loved her, as did the countless others that had the privilege of knowing her. Charles, Wes and family and Mr. Noah, there are no sufficient words to express the sorrow for the loss of your Beautiful Cindy. May God wrap you in his arms and hold you to his heart.
Karen Cooper
January 29, 2019
WES AND RHONDA SO SORRY FOR LOSS,I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Karen Cooper
January 29, 2019
Wes and Rhonda, so sorry for your loss ,I am lifting you up in prayer daily
Judy Hounshell
January 29, 2019
I am so very for your tragic loss. Cindy was a very special,giving,loving human being. I can't possibly image what you are going through but pray God will help you through this. Cindy, I loved you dearly.
Nancy Armstrong
January 29, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Wesley. I am a cousin of yours (have never met). My grandfather was Charles Dellinger from Conicsville.
Phoebe Kilby
January 29, 2019
What a shock to learn of Cindy's passing. I so enjoyed working with Cindy when she served on the County Board of Supervisors and I was Co-County Administrator with Vince Poling. She was such a kind and friendly person. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Elaine Phelps
January 29, 2019
Having worked with Cindy, I knew her well and admired her professionalism as well as her dedication to family, friends and community. What a tragedy to lose such a vibrant and good woman. Rest in Peace.
Carrie Clark Carlsen
January 29, 2019
To all of Cindy's family, especially Christian and Faith -- you are in my constant thoughts and prayers. Cindy was just such an accomplished, loving, and generous person -- she was a blessing to her community, her church and all who knew her. May you rest in peace, dear Cindy, and may God's holy angels surround your family in protection and love, now and in the coming days.
Sara strazzella
January 29, 2019
Charlie, Wesley, Rhonda and kids, I can't begin to imagine your pain we have all lost a wonderful woman one who always went above and beyond. You all have been a big part of my life and family growing up wether it be working with mom or Cindy working with Dad. Please know all of us are here for you when you need to talk or anything!
Susan Holsinger
January 29, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss! My deepent sympathies to the families. I never knew Cindy personally. I can remember her enthusiasm as a cheerleader at SJHS and that reflects the kind of person she was!
Bobbi Robertson
January 29, 2019
Charlie & Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I pray GOD will comfort you in the days to come. Cindy was truly one of a kind.
January 29, 2019
The loss of a love one is difficult. May the precious memories you have help you cope and bring you peace. 1 Thes. 4:14 can bring you some comfort knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death can be reassuring. May the God of peace be with you and your family.
Cynthia Tuttle Sumner
January 29, 2019
Charles and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. I have been praying for you non stop since I heard the news. Sincerely, Cindy Tuttle
Bobbi Robertson
January 29, 2019
Charlie & Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I pray GOD will comfort you in the days to come. Cindy was truly one of a kind.
Cathy Rec
January 29, 2019
Losing Cindy effects us all. She was a good person and a great friend. Her beautiful smile will be missed
Betsy Brown
January 28, 2019
So sorry for your loss praying for the family ❤
Showing 1 - 74 of 74 results
Make a Donation
in Cynthia Dellinger's name
Please consider a donation as requested by the family.
Memorial Events
for Cynthia Dellinger
Funeral services provided by:
Heishman Funeral Home, Inc.-Valley Funeral Service Branch - Edinburg14116 S. Middle Rd., Edinburg, VA 22824
How to support Cynthia's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Cynthia Dellinger's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
