1931
2015
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Mrs Jerome Barnes. (Nelda Evonne)
April 7, 2024
It has just passed 9 yrs since my dear Jerome´s passing. It doesn´t seem as though he´s been gone that long at all. I still feel his presence with me every day; when I misplace something I say to myself, "Sweetheart, can you please help me find...; and I´m always led tight to it. I have so many memories of our time together and dancing at the spur of the moment dancing in our home. We often playing little jokes on each other. He was such a gentleman... always so patient, kind, romantic, intelligent man who possessed a photographic memory. He was a 33rd Degree Mason, following in his father´s footsteps. We enjoyed just being together... it didn´t matter what we were doing. He was also very protective of me which a few people remarked about over the years. I love you still my wonderful husband and will meet you in Heaven and you will have our golf cart and clubs ready!
Mitchell Pollock
April 2, 2020
He was one of my favorite instructors at Troy University when I was getting my MPA. Very good man!
Sam Stewart
September 6, 2018
Jerry and I were hooch mates (shared living quarters) in Vietnam and a lot of missions together. We were good friends but as fate dealt the cards, went different directions afterwards. I will always remember Jerry and share the loss with you, his family
Gary and Rita Peck
July 10, 2017
Just found out that the most impressive leader I ever worked for has passed. I served with General Barnes in the early 80's at Live Oak, SHAPE, Belgium. He made a lasting impression on me and my wife that continued through our retirement from the USAF. Here's to a dedicated soldier!
Ken Rubin
July 5, 2017
Nelda, played golf with your late husband while I was at Shape with my Barbara and our 2 kids. We were also good friends and remember his attending my 40th Surprise Birthday party at our quarters on Shape. I retired from Shape in Dec 82. Have not kept up in years but truly remembered him well. What a wonderful person that I was always proud to call a friend. So sorry for your loss. Ken
Nelda Barnes
October 9, 2016
Anyone who served with my husband, please contact me. Sincerely, Nelda Barnes. (Mrs. Jerome Barnes)
Lee Gee
June 13, 2016
I just found out that my favorite general passed. He was a great leader and a true professional. I worked for BG Barnes when I was assigned to LIVE OAK, Belgium from Jan 1981 until he retired. I am sorry for your loss.
Retired Chief Master Sergeant
Tom and Becky Kennedy
May 5, 2015
Nelda,
Becky and I wish only want the best for you moving forward. You and Jerome were blessed with each other and glad to become friends with both of you. May God bless Jerome in heaven.
Theresa Thompson
April 14, 2015
Thinking and praying for you, Nelda, in this difficult time. Love, Theresa from the bank.
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