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NANCY KOPPELMAN Obituary

KOPPELMAN--Nancy

Walker. Born June 4, 1954 in Anaheim, CA, to Velma Koontz Walker and Ross Walker, died peacefully at home in Santa Barbara, CA on May 26, 2017. She is survived by her husband Larry, her heart's purest love, daughter Renee; her brother James Walker; her nephew Tru Phillips; rescue dogs Jasper and Thea; and literally hundreds who claim her as their best friend. Nancy was known for her relentless quest for social justice and her persuasive progressive vision. Her passion for social equality began when she was a college student working in the women's health care movement. In the early 1970s, not long after the United States Supreme Court's landmark Roe v. Wade abortion ruling, she helped create the feminist health-care clinic. In 2007, Koppelman became a member of the Democratic National Committee. She served on President Barack Obama's national finance and election committee from the very beginning, and throughout his time in office. Over the past ten years, the Koppelmans hosted events for authors, scientists, five Nobel Peace Prize winners, world leaders, and politicians, including President Obama and Vice President Joe Biden. Nancy also was as an ambassador for UCSB Arts & Lectures; was key on the board of Direct Relief; co-founded the Global Neighborhood Fund, which helps fund social justice in Liberia; and served on the advisory boards of the Aspen Brain Forum and the Aspen Institute and Open Heart World Wide. On a personal level, Nancy Koppelman was the "holy hostess." Everyone who knew her felt surrounded by her magnificent love and basked in her enveloping hugs. She expertly understood and affirmed people's strengths, and connected people to one another to fulfill their mutual artistic or philanthropic goals. Whether she was entertaining or endorsing Presidents or advising a friend of her beloved daughter Renee, Nancy brought out the light and the best in everyone. No one had better or more clever repartee than Nancy, and she was as good at going low as she was at going high. If you asked her "How are you?" she would reply, "I'm adorable." She had an incomparable gift for mirth and was known for her exceptionally whimsical gift giving. In the last months of a lifetime of fearless inner and outer explorations, Nancy taught her tribe how to love without pretense or constraint. In her own words: "To be continued ... " Please send all your love to Nancy's family by donating to the causes mentioned.

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Published by New York Times on Jun. 4, 2017.

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Patrick Quiroz

May 29, 2020

Nancy I miss you so much, your kindness and compassion was an inspiration to us all. I loved your political activism and your hard work to bring justice and fairness to the system. Love you always Nancy.
Sincerely, Patrick

Jean Mower

April 8, 2019

After moving back to the UK I lost touch with Nancy for a few years and so had no idea of her passing until recently. I am still in shock. Nancy was without question one of the most beautiful people I have ever met in my life, both inside and out. She made such an impact on me and I will always hold her in my heart. I cannot imagine the grief her family and friends have suffered to lose such an earth angel, but I have no doubt she is in Heaven watching over them all.

Devon Hunter Gaines

September 1, 2017

Will there ever be a more soulful creature? You sure left one helluva mark doll baby! XO

Maria de la Vega Christiansen

June 22, 2017

Nancy you were and will always be such an amazing gift in my life I will miss you my dear sweet friend..

Hillary Hauser

June 21, 2017

Nancy Koppelman, you will always be adorable in all of our hearts. I will always remember you at the beach, and your big smile, giving me (and everyone else) the shirt off your back. Thank you for being with us, and all that you've done for our country, to make life better for everyone. Love, Hillary

Chad Boliek

June 9, 2017

Too soon, Nancy. (Lifetime friend of your Mom and Dad)

Margo Stewart

June 6, 2017

Peace be with you and all who love you.

Mikki Andina

June 5, 2017

Your big heart and extreme generosity will be very much missed.

Lisa Lloyd

June 4, 2017

Your smile will be with me always and your hugs will never be forgotten...big & real, strong & sturdy. Missing you.

Patrick Quiroz

June 4, 2017

Nancy, always an amazing human being. You will be missed by many, many people, people that you touched with your magic gift.

June 4, 2017

You were our teacher, on how to live and how to die.We learned at your side. You will be missed, more than you could ever have guessd!
Beverlye Hyman Fead

Teri Gabrielsen

June 4, 2017

Santa Barbara will never be the same without you. Angels on your wings

June 4, 2017

Happy birthday old friend. Threw rose petals off Newport Pier for you. Love always. Debbie Calvy

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