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Theodore Bernstein Obituary

BERNSTEIN--Theodore. February 12, 1930-August 20, 2007. Soul-mate of Nina, Father Extraordinaire of Peter (Sarah), Amy (Kevin), and Laura (Ed). Devoted Grandfather of Adam, Daniel, Rebecca, Nathan and Ruby. Much loved brother, brotherin-law, uncle and friend. Leader of the fight against McCarthyism. Activist, ILGWU union leader, lawyer, true hero, mentor, compassionate, funny, brilliant, inspiration to many. True mensch. Services Thursday, August 23, 2007 12 noon, Riverside Nassau North Chapel, 55 North Station Plaza, Great Neck, NY. Family will receive guests at the family home.

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Published by New York Times from Aug. 21 to Aug. 22, 2007.

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Marie Driscoll

September 4, 2007

I am deeply saddened by the passing of my friend, my mentor and former boss, Mr. B, who gave me my job and believed in me. Not a day goes by that I do not see the results of his hard work. It is a great privilege to have a part in continuing his work and all of the lessons that he taught me. To his beloved Nina and family I send my deepest condolences. I will greatly miss my friend.

with family

Susan May

August 26, 2007

For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

Kahlil Gibran speaks so eloquently.........
My thoughts are with you all. Laura, I know you will always hold your father close to your heart.

micheal bond

August 24, 2007

u told me about your dad laura and how sweet he was and loving and it showed in yourself i am just so sorry for u and your family but he will always love you and be in your hearts

Mary Gilluly

August 23, 2007

Laura and family,
My mom and I send our love and sympathy to you all. I feel honored to have met "Laura's Daddy," and I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy Shulman

August 22, 2007

Dear Nina, Peter, Amy, Laura and clan,
I'm in California and heard the sad news. I've always thought of you all as extended family and feel that the world is diminished with the loss of yet another member of that family. I will treasure memories of his fighting spirit and his dry sense of humor. Sending you all my love, wishing you only the best of memories, hoping to hug you all in person when we return to NY.
Judy (and Avi)

David Greenwood

August 22, 2007

Dear Nina,
Sorry to hear about Ted. And sorry I haven't been in touch with you these many years. I have fond memories of both of you.
Love,
Dave Greenwood

Norman and Sandy Reisman

August 21, 2007

Sandy and I are deeply saddened by Ted's passing. When I first met Ted, 25 years ago, he was one of my first labor clients. It was through the many lessons that I learned from Ted as he carried out his duties to the ILGWU Funds, that I decided to focus on labor for my career. As our professional relationship grew into a friendship, I continued to learn from Ted. He always set great examples. We will miss him very much. Our sincerest condolences to Nina, Peter, Kevin and the entire Bernstein family.

Melissa Driscoll

August 21, 2007

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the entire Bernstein family. The best way for me to honor Mr. Bernstein’s memory is to share the sound advice that Mr. Bernstein shared with me as I began my legal career. Mr. Bernstein told me to find something that made me happy and stand up for my rights and not accept anything less than respect from my colleagues in an environment that can sometimes be cut-throat. Clearly, these are principles that Mr. Bernstein followed in his own life and career as he fought for what he believed in, all while commanding well-deserved respect from his colleagues, friends and family. I was fortunate to recently share time with Mr. Bernstein and Nina and will cherish those memories. This world was blessed to have him and has suffered a great loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Mr. Bernstein.

selma ruderman

August 21, 2007

Ted was the best boss and friend in the world.

My family and I send our love and sympathy to his beloved Nina and his children and grandchildren.

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