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1934
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2022
William Ruf Obituary
September 30, 1934 - May 30, 2022
Born in Vermillion, SD. William "Bill" was the embodiment of enthusiasm for life. His passion, curiosity, and dedication to his family and interests were unparalleled. These traits defined his every experience ranging from coaching, to teaching, to his friends, and even to food. The list of people who's lives he touched is exactly as long as the list of people who have a crazy story about Bill.
Bill was preceded in death by his parents, Cortland and Amelia Ruf. He is survived by his wife, Mary; sisters, Pat Grant and Karen Ruf; and children: Amy (Al) Ruf, Darin (Libby, Henry, Olive) Ruf, CJ (Aliyah) Ruf, Christa Ruf, Scott (Shannon) Ruf.
MEMORIAL MASS: Friday, June 3rd, 10:30am, at St. Wenceslaus Catholic Church, 15353 Pacific Street, Omaha.
Memorials suggested to Nebraska Humane Society, American Red Cross, and the ASPCA.
Flowers may be sent to St. Wenceslaus Catholic Church.
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Mary Ray-Seymour
June 10, 2022
Bill, your kindness and understanding will never be forgotten.
You were the best softball coach. I can still see you throwing your glasses and hat in the air and yelling when you thought our team was being treated unfairly.
You seemed to understand everything I thought I was going thru at 15 years old. ha ha.
You were a true professional, and an honorable man who loved his family very much.
Thank you for being my friend, my softball coach, and mentor.
See you heaven someday, Mary Ray
Sue Knier
June 8, 2022
To Mary and the children of William Ruf, my condolences to all of you. I didn´t know your father well, but I know that he had wonderful children who were a delight to teach years ago. I´m sure you honored him by working hard at your chosen careers, and being good, decent men and women. God bless each of you.
Jeanne Barmettler
June 5, 2022
Oh Mary, I just now got the news that Bill has passed. My family and I had no idea! I don´t have words for how badly I feel about missing Bill´s funeral. I think you know how much we all loved Bill, and I hope there´s a place in heaven where Joe and Bill can sit around and have a good ole "gut raw"! God bless you and your family. Jeanne
John Brodston
June 3, 2022
In his name may good and comfort be provided to others in time of need.
Lora Dosen
June 3, 2022
Praying for your family that the Lord would bring you comfort. May His face shine on you and bring you peace. Mr Ruf sounds like he was a really great man. Enjoy and reflect on all of the memories. Love, Lora Dosen
Kathy Sortino Potter
June 2, 2022
Bill was the best coach we girls from Carter Lake ever had. He was tough, strict, but taught us to play fair, be kind to those less fortunate, and helped to mold us into determined individuals.
I tell stories about riding in his red convertible like a load of crazy girls. He was probably the best role model I had in my life and I will never forget him.
I am so sorry for your loss and that you didn't get to enjoy him longer.
Marti (Traynor) McAnulty
June 2, 2022
My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Ruf. I graduated in 1976 and I remember him fondly. Such a kind and caring man- always with a smile on his face. RIP sir.
LAURA SCIGO
June 2, 2022
Our deepest condolences to all!!!!
Garry Jurgens
June 2, 2022
In his early days at Ralston High School, I remember the older car that he drove. It was always stuffed full with softball equipment. He dedicated his life at Ralston helping kids.
Debbie (Nilius) Goettsch
June 2, 2022
Mary and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie
Mary K Miles
June 1, 2022
Never met Mr. Ruf but his family are truly the nicest people on earth. Thinking of you at this sad time.
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