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Benjamin Barrow Obituary

Dr. Benjamin Childs Barrow, 85, went to Heaven Christmas Eve, Dec. 24, 2013. He passed away at his home in Athens, surrounded by his beloved wife of 63 years, Emily, two of his daughters, and several other family members.
Dr. Barrow was born May 25, 1928 at Athens General Hospital. He was the son of David Frances Barrow, a math professor at the University of Georgia, and Mary Augusta Arnold Barrow. He was the grandson of David Crenshaw Barrow, chancellor of the UGA and for whom Barrow County was named.
He is preceded in death by his parents; a brother, David Crenshaw Barrow, and two sisters, Frances Barrow Hoge and Mary Barrow Hoge.
He is survived by his wife, Emily Aderholt Barrow; four daughters, Nancy Barrow Davidson (Danny) of Athens, Betty Barrow McCanless (Andy) of Canton, Emily Barrow Salley (Hayes) of Monroe, and Audrey Barrow Watson (Rob) of Griffin; eight grandchildren, Benjamin Parrott (Amber), Andrew McCanless, Jr. (Suzanne), David McCanless (Shannon), Michael McCanless, Audrey Salley, Matthew Salley, Emily Watson and Robert Watson, III; three step-grandchildren, Paul Davidson, Jennifer Davidson, and Jessica Tatum, and several great-grandchildren.
He received his bachelor of science in zoology from the University of Georgia 1951 and an ROTC commission. From 1953 to 1955 he attended graduate school at UGA. He then attended the Medical College of Georgia, graduating in June 1958. He did an internship at Macon Hospital in 1958-59 and a general practice residence at Macon Hospital from 1959-60. He then practiced in Monticello, Ga for 13 years from 1960 to 1974.
He married the love of his life, Emily Louise Aderholt on August 18, 1950 at the First Baptist Church in Jefferson, Ga.
Dr. Barrow served in the Air Force between his freshman and sophomore years of college in 1946. He spent most of his time in Japan. He was called to active duty in the Army in 1951 and served for two years in Texas, Kentucky and Alaska.
He had many hobbies, including painting, carpentry and farming, but he especially loved sailing and was proud of his first-place victory over 82 yachts in the prestigious Lite Carolina Regatta which he won on his birthday in 1980!
Dr. Barrow is remembered by many friends and patients for his beautiful singing voice. He was known for singing while walking down the hall in his practice in Monticello and Athens. Many patients have said "how could you feel too bad, even though you were sick, when you heard your doctor singing in such a beautiful voice." His family was blessed to sing with him in church choirs and on many other occasions. They may not have felt this way when awakened early mornings on a school day in Monticello by his singing over the intercom system that he had installed in each of the children's bedrooms, but they felt blessed nonetheless. He served as choir director at the Monticello Presbyterian Church and sang in the choir at the Athens First Presbyterian Church, Athens Choral Society and the Classic Singers.
He was an elder in the First Presbyterian Church in Athens where the family were members.
His affiliations included the Phi Rho Sigma Medical Fraternity, Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society, Fellow American Academy of Family Practice, 1987; American Medical Association, Medical Association of Georgia, AAFP, Crawford W. Long Medical Society. He served as honorary staff at St. Mary's Hospital of Athens and Athens Regional Medical Center and former president of the medical staff at both hospitals. While in Monticello, he served as Chairman of the Jasper Memorial Hospital Medical Staff and Jasper County Board of Health. He was the county physician for Jasper County and the clinician in the Health Department pre-natal, well baby and family planning clinics. In 2001 he was honored in Athens for his 20 years of community service by the American Heart Association.
Memorial services for Dr. Barrow will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, December 28th at the First Presbyterian Church in Athens. The family will hold a visitation at Bernstein's Funeral Home on Atlanta Highway on Friday December 27 from 5-7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the music ministry at the First Presbyterian Church in Athens in memory of Dr. Ben Barrow.
On line condolences may be made at www.bernsteinfuneralhome.com
Bernstein Funeral Home and Cremation Service are in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Athens Banner-Herald on Dec. 28, 2013.

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January 4, 2014

I had the pleasure of working for Dr. Barrow in his Monticello office during my high school years. He was a compassionate doctor, loving and caring. He was such a vibrant part of the Monticello community. He was always at all the football games to care for the injured players. Of course, his voice was a gift from God that he shared graciously. It was sad to learn of his death but heaven is a little sweeter because of his presence. And I know my grandmother is glad to see him. She loved him dearly.

With love and sympathy to Dr. Barrow's family,
Dorothy Brittain Turner (Rome, GA)

Jayne Walters

January 1, 2014

Betty, So sorry to hear of your father's passing. May God hold you in His peace and love during this time of loss for the family.

Blessings,

Cathy Clark

December 31, 2013

Mrs. Barrow, Nancy & Audrey,
I have the fondest memories of Dr. Barrow while visiting your home during my teenage years. He was so kind and always happy. My prayers are with you and your family.
With sympathy,
Cathy Berryman Clark

Roy and Ann Meeler

December 30, 2013

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Dr. Barrow was a great guy and friend.

Betsy Arrington-Tsao

December 29, 2013

Dearest Emily, Nancy, Betty, Emily and Audrey ... John is in New Zealand for the holidays and we were both so saddened to hear of Ben's passing. We have memories of wonderful times singing together in FPC Choir events, visits to the lake house, loads of happy laughter and good cheer. You all have been dear friends for many years. The world as we know it won't be quite the same without Ben in it but our lovely memories will have to sustain us. Know that our love is with you during this difficult time of grief. Blessings ... Betsy Arrington-Tsao (Ohoka, New Zealand) and John Tsao (Athens, Georgia)

Linda Sherrer

December 29, 2013

Nancy -- So sorry to hear of your Father's death. We will include you and your family in our prayers. Charles and Linda Sherrer, Business Services

Jan Hughes

December 28, 2013

Nancy, I failed to mention that my parents loved Dr. Barrow! Now they will all be together in that wonderful place we call Heaven! Jan Hughes

D.C. Rhoden

December 28, 2013

Dear Emily and Family.
I am so sorry for your great loss and sorry that I didn't get the word of Ben's passing until too late. He was my favorite doctor of all I have had in my 80 years. He was a good diognostician and helped me in many ways. Your family has always been special to us. The first church wedding Jane and Peggy catered was one of your daughters. I will always remember the slight mishap with the cardboard separators between the layers. We will miss Ben. Our love goes out to all of you. God Bless you in this time of sorrow.

Kaye and David Dawson

December 28, 2013

Barrow family, I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Barrow made such a positive impact on the lives of those of us who were blessed to know him. He was an amazing person who always encouraged me. You are all in my prayers.

Connie Sorrow

December 28, 2013

Nancy, I am sorry in the passing of your dad my prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

December 28, 2013

Nancy and family-'
your Dad was my Dr. and friend for many years. So sorry for your loss. God's comfort, grace and mercy be yours . Gloria Churchill

Neal Browder

December 28, 2013

i am so sorry that I picked up the paper today and saw Ben's demise. Ben and I were friends when we were attending Barrow Elementary School in Athens. Ben lived with his parents in five poins, I lived in the back of my parent's grocery store on Lumpkin Street. I remember visiting Ben at his parent'e house, and enjoyed every minute with Ben. One time, when we were in the fourth grade, we built a shadow box depecting the Boston Tea Party. Ben was always very creative. I thought he was a little wierd, cutting up frogs and grasshoppers; but, he was inspecting the creatures, and I knew then that he would someday be a Medical Doctor. I was seeing my Physician one day when walking down thw hall I saw his shingle on his door. I went in to see if I could speak with Ben, and he came out of his ofice and invited me in. Now, his waiting room was full of patients, but Ben wanted to talk of our days at Barrow School. After about twenty minutes I told Ben "Ben, you have a room full pf patients; see them, and we will talk another day." Regretfully, we never did. We were both busy with our professions, mine being Media Real Estate. Again, my sincerest condolences on your loss. Neal Browder, Elberton, Georgia

Larry Nalls

December 28, 2013

Dr. Barrow was indeed a special person. I offer my sincere condolences to you. He was a healer who made everyone feel better by merely being in his presence. My memories of him are of a caring man who made others feel special too.

Jan Hughes

December 28, 2013

Nancy, My deepest thoughts and condolences are with you and your precious family. It was an honor to be able to help out when you needed me to do so. Your dad was a precious and considerate man and I loved it when I asked him did he want chocolate syrup on his ice cream........he would always smile and say yeah! It was a privilege to be there in such a sweet environment. May your Mom, Emily, know that he loved her to the 'inth' degree! He is smiling down at all of his family and wishing no grief.......Miss me a little, but let me go. He is in Heaven with our most awesome God without any pain at all. For God only takes the best. His accomplishments in life were noted with such honor, grace and dignity. My love to all, Jan Hughes

Norma Fitzpatrick

December 28, 2013

Nancy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and in the days to come. I lost my dad in 1998. You will always miss him.

Lin Caldwell

December 27, 2013

Leslie & I loved Ben! We are deeply saddened at his passing. We send our sympathy, thoughts, prayers, & love.

Rosalyn Holl

December 27, 2013

I am very sorry for your loss and will miss him just by his absence. There will be another beautiful voice in the celestial choir. God bless you all.

Bernstein Funeral Home

December 28, 2013

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Babbie Guscio

December 27, 2013

Sorry for the loss to your family of this remarkable person. I would certainly have loved to hear him sing to his patients and in the choir at church. Although my greatgrandfather, grandfather and brother were and are doctors how fun to have one with a song in his heart. Babbie Paris Guscio, Bluffton, SC

December 27, 2013

Emily, my heart goes out to you today on hearing of Ben's passing. I was a grateful patient of his, loved singing next to him in the choir, enjoyed visiting with you both and sailing with Ben on Lake Hartwell, and was privileged to have him as a friend. He will be sorely missed. Dave Lunde

Elaine Gunter

December 27, 2013

Dr. Barrow was my mentor in work and in life. He taught me how to be a caring and respectful healthcare professional. He taught me how to raise my own family through the way that he and Miss Emily raised their own children. He was an outstanding man who cared so much for every patient he ever had. He had this great big smile all the time and always wanted to make everyone else happy. I will remember him for the rest of my life and try to continue to model my own life from his example. His children and wife were his great joys. My heartfelt condolences to each of you.

Ruth Anna Magers

December 27, 2013

All memories of Uncle Ben are joyful, warm and filled with love and gratitude. He made me, and everyone else who crossed his path, feel special and appreciated. My heart misses him already but I know that I will see him again and in that I can rejoice. Until then, his "tea slave" will hold onto the times spent with him and Aunt Em. I will always be his "Ruth Anna" even when I was Ruthie to everyone else. Oh, how I love you, Uncle Ben.

December 26, 2013

May Jehovah comfort the Barrow family. ..

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