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1938
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2014
Patrick Hayes Obituary
Virginia Beach - Patrick Joseph Hayes passed away at home on Monday, January 13, 2014. Born on February 13, 1938, in Louisville, Kentucky, Patrick is survived by his wife, Donna Ann Merwin Hayes; his five children, Carolyn (Kevin), Patrick (Chrissi), Greg (Pam), Missy (Shawn), and Jason (Adrian); his seventeen grandchildren, Hayley, Spencer, Tess, Wyatt, Lindsey, Lauren, Phoebe, Gannon, Gracie, Grady, Vivian, Mack, Eva, Ella, James, Amelia, and Sylvia; his siblings, Corinne, Mack, Paul, and Shirley; and his best friend, his beloved dog Candy. Patrick was predeceased by his parents, Herman Mack and Anna Jewel Hayes, and his siblings, Carolyn, James, and Charlene.
Patrick came from a gifted family of musicians and was a talented singer, guitarist, and songwriter. He recorded a number of hit songs using the stage name "Fannom Patrick and the Footnotes," and his 1963 song "Eva" made the Top 40 charts.
A true patriot, Patrick proudly served in the 82nd Airborne Division of the U.S. Army. He instilled his spirit of service in his sons, who all continued his legacy and served in the 82nd Airborne as well.
After a successful career as an account executive, Patrick started his own business, Animal Crackers, where he combined his love of nature and animals by humanely removing wildlife from homes and businesses. Patrick was proud of this work and enjoyed telling stories of his unusual encounters.
Patrick was a hero to his family, who will dearly miss his sense of humor, his creativity and his ability to make any time spent with him memorable.
A prayer service will be held on Monday, January 20th, at 9:00 a.m. at St. John the Apostle Catholic Church on Sandbridge Road, Virginia Beach, Va.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick Hayes
Shirley Ann H.Wasson
February 26, 2025
Love your memories big Brother.
Shirley Ann wasson
April 15, 2024
Still missing you Big Brother.
Debbie Dalla Villa
January 19, 2014
Donna, I think of you so often and remember meeting Pat during an animal encounter at our home. What a super man he was. Peace be with you and all of your family. I will be in touch with you soon
January 18, 2014
Love and condolenses from ist cousin...
mary eula Gilmore and my family...
terry jo, mary randine, elizabeth jean,
William Rittenhouse v,and Shirley joan...to all the Hayes family...
Sending prayers and blessings...
hugs, me
Arlene Prather-O'Kane
January 18, 2014
Our condolences to all the Hayes family from the Prather family, you have our prayers.
Bill and Sharon Preher
January 17, 2014
We have so many warm memories of the time we shared as neighbors. The cookouts, the balloon fights with the kids, the camping trips, the late night card games and making pickles in the kitchen are all a part of our fondest memories. May God bless you and keep you in his loving arms.
Jann Kajatin
January 16, 2014
my love goes out to all of you and my prayers to Our Beloved Father in Heaven for His peace to surround you all... it is not good-bye- just see you later on until your next forever reunion in Heaven of pure joy and no tears, no more sorrows- sending hugs and my little prayers to all! Jann (formerly Hayes) Kajatin
January 16, 2014
Pat was such a fun guy. I always enjoyed his stories and learned a lot from him. My thoughts and prayers to Donna and the rest of the family.
Joe Mullen, Hendersonville, NC
Logan
January 16, 2014
We are so honored to have met you, and shared in the Thanksgiving celebration of such a loving man and his family. May you share the banquet of eternal life with the angels and saints. Our prayers are united with the family - Donna, Carolyn, Kevin, Hayley, Spencer,Tess, Wyatt, and all the many aunts, uncles and cousins. With love, The Logan Family (Bob, Ali, Anthony and Abuela)
Jim Jordan
January 16, 2014
Bless all of you in the Hayes clan. So sorry for your loss.
Bridgett Hayes Gathof
January 16, 2014
I will forever remember the years of laughter and music, of time spent with you and Aunt Donna before you all moved to VA, and the really special time I, and my sisters, spent with you when we came to visit. Thank you for some of the most special memories I have, Uncle Pat. I will miss you, but will carry with me those special memories, and relish the idea that there will now be jam sessions in heaven with you, Daddy and Granddaddy entertaining the angels. Let your music and laughter fill the heavens, and may your soul rest in the peace you so richly deserve. I love you, Uncle Pat. My heart and prayers are with you Aunt Donna, Carolyn, Buzz, Greg, Missy and Jason, and all your children. Take comfort in the love of one another and in all the precious memories of time with Uncle Pat. He will forever live on in all of you. I love you all!
January 16, 2014
You will be missed, Uncle Pat! My thoughts and prayers are with Aunt Donna, Carolyn, Buzz, Greg, Missy and Jason. Love you all - Dianne (and Emily)
Art Wojciechowski
January 16, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Terri D'Arcangelo
January 16, 2014
Sending my deepest sympathies to the entire Hayes family. To Carolyn, Kevin, Haley, Tess, Spence and Wyatt ... all my love and you are all in my thoughts.
May your Dad and Grandpa rest in peace.
January 16, 2014
My thoughts and love to All !
Abbey Hayes
January 15, 2014
I cannot thank you enough for shaping my grandfather, Paul, into the man he is today. Such an inspirational man, and you will truly be missed by our family.
Bill Campbell
January 15, 2014
My prayers are with the entire Hayes family. I know that Pat is at peace and that none of you can ever be who you are without his influence in your life. He lives on in each one of you.
January 15, 2014
Buzz, although I never met your dad, I know he was a special man. I know this because he had a wonderful son who is sensitive and talented beyond belief. I am so happy Chrissi has you in her life, and I think your dad was lucky to have you in his life as well. Know we all love you and that you and your family are in our prayers. Love, Aunt Nancy V.
James Michael Murphy
January 15, 2014
John Paul,and James Michael Murphy and Christina.Rest in peace uncle Pat.
Shirley Ann Hayes Wasson
January 15, 2014
Carter and ShirleyAnn Hayes Wasson.Rest in Peace.
Shirley Ann Hayes Wasson
January 15, 2014
Pat I've missed you for a long time ,now I'll be missing you forever.I loved you dearly my big brother.You taught me so much and always gave me confidence in myself.Thank you for always being there for me.You are my hero.You will live in the hearts of your family always.Rest in Peace my love.
January 15, 2014
My Brother , MY Buddie since 1940. I will really miss you Pat, and always think of all the things we did together. I have so many great memories...thanks to you! I love you
January 15, 2014
Love you and miss you Uncle Pat. You will be missed forever till we meet again! R.I.P
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